son accused of being voilent
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Topic: son accused of being voilent
Posted By: threelittlebears
Subject: son accused of being voilent
Date Posted: 01 April 2006 at 3:36pm
Hi, just wondering if anybody can help? My ex-mother-in-law has accused my 7 yr old of trying to hurt her on purpose. no one else has every seen this or do they believe that he would ever do it, my ex-husband now thinks his daughters are at risk of being hurt. the mother-in-law often gets a bee in her bonnet about things and takes them overboard, and has always had it in for my son,(not from the same relationship). what can i do???
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 01 April 2006 at 7:53pm
umm have u sat down with your boy and talked to him about what happen if i was u i would,nt et see your son as it seems to make the prob wrose hope that helps ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: robyn
Date Posted: 01 April 2006 at 8:58pm
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Sorry no advice apart from talking to your son about what happened. At his age he should be able to tell his side of the story hopefully. My sister has the same sort of problem with her MIL and her child from previous relationship, like its any of thier business! Good luck ------------- KOBE born 19 March 2004 http://www.TickerFactory.com/"> 
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Posted By: deharn
Date Posted: 01 April 2006 at 9:04pm
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I would suggest that you get the full story about what happened from the ex MIL and as james suggested then sit down and talk to your little boy. There are always 2 sides to every story!
It is pretty unreasonable even if something did happen(not suggesting your little boy did anything) that he then be labelled so as to be a risk to ex hubbies daughters. Sounds a little like bitter tension could be clouding reality here. You stick to your guns regardless and be strong and supportive for your boy. I wouldn't put him any situation from now on that may leave him with the ex MIL! Best of luck 
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