TMI - Sex Question
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Topic: TMI - Sex Question
Posted By: surfergirl
Subject: TMI - Sex Question
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 11:57am
Can't believe I am going to ask this and risk sounding like a nympho...but it's been keeping me up all night and I just have to ask... Sex for me is an 'all body' experience...this includes my boobs...so, how is this possible (post baby) without squirting DH in the eye (or somewhere else?) Does this mean that boobs are no longer involved in the action...??? OMG, the shame...I'm blushing while I'm writing this, but please someone please tell me that it's not all over while you're breastfeeding! ------------- http://www.alterna-tickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:02pm
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Umm sorry to say milk does come out for some so you can either take boobs out of the equation or just do it anyway and have a towel lying handy.
I personally don't let my boobs in on the action when I'm breastfeeding because it just messes with my head and makes me feel weird about breastfeeding. I have never had leakage during sex tho its more in my head. If you and your DH are fine with it then go for it  
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:14pm
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It is for me as well, but while I was BF I just didn't have them touched. Once I stopped BF and my milk went it was fine to go back to the normal ways ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:14pm
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I guess it's up to you and your DH if you are comfy with a bit of leakage. Even now a year after stopping breast feeding when DH and I are having sex and my boobs get squished from him being on top of me or anything I leak a little.
eta: Just remembered that DH didn't like groping my boobs when I was BF, he saw them as Daniels so didn't want to 'go there' |
Posted By: surfergirl
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:17pm
Yeah, I suppose it's more about how DH feels about it... ------------- http://www.alterna-tickers.com">
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Posted By: HippyMama
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:26pm
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I know this might freak some people out even more, but I know there are probably more than a few women out there (in the world) whose husbands would probably be quite happy to 'help themselves' to any runoff... solves the leakage problem! ------------- Mama to two earth walkers & two angels. Remember, you are not managing an inconvenience; You are raising a human being. ~ Kittie Franz Next Slingbabies! Meet - Friday 4th May !! |
Posted By: HippyMama
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:27pm
And just because you enjoy sex doesn't make you a 'nympho' or give you anything to be embarassed about  ------------- Mama to two earth walkers & two angels. Remember, you are not managing an inconvenience; You are raising a human being. ~ Kittie Franz Next Slingbabies! Meet - Friday 4th May !! |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:28pm
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LOL
My DH stays well away from my boobs now! I dont leak but like Stacey's DH...he feels that "Those" belong to DD so yah! I would also feel a bit weird to be honest if he did go there.....
Ah joy of mother hood!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:34pm
I've heard thats quite good for hangovers too... 
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Pearls wrote:Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 1:23pm
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My breasts were out of the action when I was BFing, I generally kept a bra on as well to contain any leakage, but there are plenty more body parts and it's a lot of fun finding different areas that make you tingle. -------------  
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Posted By: Shorty
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 1:28pm
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Our body has so many G spots that are no found until you explore ------------- http://www.alterna-tickers.com"> 
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Posted By: gypsynita
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 5:34pm
LOL surfergirl - I was just wondering about that this morning!! I'm quite big on boob-action during sex so a little concerned how that's going to work.
I have a feeling DH will be the same as others said- that it's DS's territory! ------------- Anita Mum to Cian (Aug 08), Josh (Jun 10) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 7:16pm
I find it best with a folded towel over the width of the bed so that I don't fret too much about leakage. Any touch or excitement gets the squirting going for the first couple of months  And yes, DH likes to help with any spilling over
Breasts and bf and sex is kinda different all together but it does return to normal! And you just learn different ways to get around things. -------------  |
Posted By: Zina
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 7:21pm
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This is something I had never contemplated. Thanks for posting surfergirl
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 28 August 2008 at 9:45pm
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Mmmm yeahhhhh leaking. ha.
I recall getting ermmmm into stuff with a guy when Han was about a year old and thinking "What the hell is that??" then realising I was leaking. So terribly awkward when the guy isn't even the dad. I just laughed. A lot. hehe It certainly makes things interesting for a while. You'll figure out what suits best. |
Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 29 August 2008 at 6:59pm
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Hmm yes bit of a head thing for me too..just kinda feels weird.... -------------  
 
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Posted By: DJ
Date Posted: 29 August 2008 at 7:25pm
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I'm glad you know that leakage can happen and are prepared for it! Came and somewhat of a surprise to me and was very off-putting!
So now I'm all in favour of bra and breast pads... ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: JD
Date Posted: 29 August 2008 at 10:35pm
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hehe what a funny post.
I wish DH would go there again, but he is a bit weirded out by it still and would rather wait till Im not breast feeding. Hands go there (sort of), but face doesn't (at the moment). You might just have to see how your DH feels about it. It might take a wee bit for them to settle down a bit too. At first they might be quite sore and leaky. After a while they settle down and you don't have to worry about leakage so much. That was about 4 months afterwards for me. I still wore a bra and breast pads a night to stop the leakage. Oh and I have read that when you get excited, they can leak also. Doesn't happen for me, but you might have to be prepared for that. Enjoy it all now, and deal with that when you have to ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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