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Topic: And the worst wife award goes to ….
Posted By: netballgirl4
Subject: And the worst wife award goes to ….
Date Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:16pm
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Me ok my darling hubby had been complaining 2 me about feeling unwell with a headache ect for a few days and I just told him hes just getting a cold and to have some vitamin C and this afternoon hes boss calls me tell me that Will has collapsed and a had a fit and to meet them at Auckland hospital I only got home about 30 minutes ago the Dr don’t know whats going on so hes having a MRI scan in the morning I feel so guilty ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: robyn
Date Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:21pm
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Oh no, I hope he is ok. You cant feel guilty for that, I would say the same thing especially this time of year with the changes in weather and there are so many bugs going round its not surprising you though it was something basic. if he had of been feeling that sick he would have gone to a doctor and chances are even the doctor would have said the same thing. Stop feeling guilty and just concentrate on looking after yourself and hubby and make sure you let us know how things go. ------------- KOBE born 19 March 2004 http://www.TickerFactory.com/"> 
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:28pm
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thaks robyn i keep u guys posted i dont no if its the hormons but i got there i saw him and i bursted into tears hes staying over night snd i miss him ,so im talking to u girls ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:33pm
oh my god catherine!! how frightening for you both! please let us know how he gets on, thoughts are with you  ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: robyn
Date Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:35pm
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Its horrible aye, Darron had his gall bladder out earlier this year and it was the first time I had seen him so well helpless I guess and sick and i was really upset. Plus he had to stay overnight which seems to make it more serious and I hated the idea that I was home in our bed while he was there but really its the best place for him. I guess this must be how they feel seeing us go through so much pain during labour and having to stay in hospital. ------------- KOBE born 19 March 2004 http://www.TickerFactory.com/">
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:52pm
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Sweetheart, I know it's harder said than done especially when you're pregnant, but please don't feel guilty about what happened - it is in no way, shape or form your fault. You couldn't have known what was going to happen, it sounds as if it wasn't presenting as anything serious, and with this weather and everything else I would have said the same things as you (to my hubby). Fair enough, when things like this *do* happen it's pretty overwhelming, and I think what you're feeling as "guilt" is only really a testament to how much you love him, are committed to him, and just want him to be safe. I know you already are, but just focus on giving him all the love you can and taking care of him. Keep us up to date, we're here for you !! ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:20am
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Don't feel guilty! I once told Lewis to "be a man, get over it" - he had pneumonia and was going to be admitted and have his lungs drained. Your firstthgouht isn;t "serious illness", it's usually "cold/flu" etc. So, I think we would have all done what you did - not the worst wife at all!!!!
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:04am
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oh thanks i tell u this afternoon how the MRI scan went fingers crossed ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:05am
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Oh thats terrible, I hope hes okay. Thinking of you. BTW you arent a terrible wife. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:53am
Oh chicka i hope you and ur hubby are doing ok, dont blame urself on this i woke up once next to my bf feeling really ill and thought i had the flu half an hour i had my head down the toilet and then another half an hour i was in hospital with appendisitis (spelling) these things can creep up really fast chicka *BIG HUGS* to you chicka and try to not worry to much he is in the best hands 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:04am
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Yah I would have done the same....would have told him to get over it too. You are not a bad wife!!!
I hope that all is well with your hubby. Best wishes....and ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:22am
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Oh my! Like the others have said, Catherine, don't be so hard on yourself! You couldn't know, and we all would have reacted the same way to our hubbies!
Keep us updated, we're all here for you! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 2:04pm
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oh catherine, you poor girl! don't be hard on yourself, if my husband had said that to me i never would have thought anything more than you did of it. big 's to you and i'll be thinking of you and hubby.
take it easy and remember to look after yourself and bubs too. (its easy to forget when we're stressed and worried) ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 2:23pm
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Hope hubby is feeling better today and you find out what is going on (not knowing is usually the worst thing). Look after yourself. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: preggy_sunflower
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 2:26pm
Hope everything is ok today. Don't beat yourself up about it - we all know men are big wimps.... hard to tell the difference between somthing and nothing sometimes....  ------------- Joshua Hadynn - Born 3 May 2006 |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 4:51pm
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ok sorry i have taken soon long but i have bad news the MIR scan shows a lump on the left hand side of his brain they are goning 2 remove it and test it for cancer in a few days :( i have had the worst day every i'v been crying on and off all day but just thinking about it is hard and to make matters worst my dad past away last year of cancer and i lost my older brother to drink driving and i carn't stop think i could lose my hubby i carnt wait intill 2 day ends ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 4:52pm
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and i have high blood presure so i meant to relaxs and not stress ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:02pm
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Oh Catherine....so sorry to hear about your hubby. We will prey that it is not cancer and just a growth of some non dangerous kind.
I know its hard but relax and think positive. You need to think of your bub as well. We are here if you want to vent out but take care of yourself. You and your hubby will be on our minds and prayers. Take care ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:08pm
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thanks i needed 2 vent but i have to call the in laws they live in england i'm going 2 stay at my sisters 2 night as its closer to the hosp. and i dont feel like being alone 2 night ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:16pm
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Catherine, fair enough you shouldn't be alone at a time like this anyway, you need all the support you can get - and I second the part about taking as much care of yourself as you possibly still can. More 's for you !! ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:18pm
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Good on you!! it is better that you are with friends and family. At the same time you are close enough to hubby, if he needed you. Please keep us updated re his operation and result. Once again our prayers are with you.
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:20pm
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oh you ladies r so nice ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:22pm
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by the way where are you Catherine...are you in auckland? ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:24pm
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yeah im a acklander ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:26pm
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So hubby in middlemore or Akl hospital??.....sorry to be nosey ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:52pm
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I'm praying for you, your hubby and your baby, Catherine. We're here for you... you can go be strong for your husband and come on here and fall apart and we won't mind. That's what friends are for!
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:50pm
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Oh Catherine, I am so sorry to hear that. I am very glad you have someone to stay with, as you need to be looked after too. I will be thinking of you and your family.... ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:02pm
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Im so sorry to hear Catherine, make sure you take care of yourself and bubs. I pray that the lump is non cancerous.
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:50pm
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hes in Akl hospital but they dont now if he will have the op there or in middlemore and its all rite 2 b nosey
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Posted By: robyn
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:56pm
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man Im really sorry to hear about your hubby, it must be so scary. Strange how close we all get on here aye, when I read the news I got chills down my spine like I would if it was a friend of mine and I havent even meet your hubby! Take care of yourself and hubby and please keep up informed if your able. Will be thinking of you all. ------------- KOBE born 19 March 2004 http://www.TickerFactory.com/">
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:58pm
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oh hunny i will pray for u and bubs and hubby i hope it all works out well ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:06pm
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luana so do i lol ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: deharn
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:08pm
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ohhh my goodness I am so sorry for you all.
I don't even know you but must admit I have been thinking about you all day and wondering what the outcome was. 
What a fabulous supportive bunch of woman on here!! It is when life throws a bit of a curve ball at us that you realise how important friends are. You have heaps on here!!!!! All the very very best to you and your husband. Try to stay strong and positive and lots of happy good thoughts going on here for you
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:35pm
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Thinking of you, your hubby and family. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:30pm
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your in my thoughts catherine, im praying for u that it will all be okay.
Big big BIG hugs chicka
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:37pm
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i'm so sorry to hear that catherine. i will be thinking of you and your hubby, and praying for a positive outcome. this must be an incredibly hard time for you hun, look after yourself and bubs. keep us posted ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 8:04am
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ok hes having the op on saturday
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 8:57am
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Good luck to you and hubby. I am sure every thing will go well. We will pray for you guys.
Please keep us updated. I know I will be thinking of the outcome the whole weekend. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 9:14am
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Hope all goes well. We will all be thinking of you. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Karysta
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 9:51am
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Good luck! we are thinking of you guys!
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 3:15pm
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will be praing for u if u need to blub pm me ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Simonne
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 4:02pm
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Hey Catherine (I saw others were calling you that),
I have no idea what to say, other than I hope beyond hope that things turn out ok, the way that you want and need them to, and please know that we are all thinking of you, your husband, and your bump, and we are praying for all of you as you face such a frightening situation. Love, hugs and sunshine, Simonne ------------- Simonne xx ~ Established 1979 ~ |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:28pm
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Oh crap, just found this topic.
Hope everything has gone OK with the operation Catherine. Thinking of you guys and hoping for the best. Lots and lots of hugs! |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 6:56pm
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hay guys just to let you no the operation went really well and Will is doing fine we find out on monday morning the test results ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: deharn
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:04pm
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good news so far, here's hoping it continues!!!!
Hope you are doing Ok and hubbie is resting well tonight.
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:57pm
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Yay for such good news!
Look after yourself, your baby and your hubby... all the best! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 8:02pm
yay for good news hope it stays that way look after yourself and bubs and hubby ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 8:25pm
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luana i cant PM u coz u have 2 many email in you imbox ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 6:46am
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I'm so glad to hear that Catherine. Hope the results are good news too. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 6:30pm
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I hope all goes well for you both on monday. Be brave, and look after each other. Thinking of you. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 9:14pm
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hey catherine, glad to hear the op went well. hope you and hubby are both resting up and recovering. my thoughts and prayers are with you still. fingers crossed for the results tomorrow. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 9:15pm
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k try now i just cleared it hope everything is going ok ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 11:17am
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Glad to hear that all went well Catherine.....Keep us updated re the results and recovery.
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 11:20am
Glad to hear the op went well. Hoping for a speedy recovery!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 12:11pm
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Awesome that the operation went well I hope the recovery goes really well
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 3:29pm
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ok i have the BEST news ITS NOT CANCER carnt rember off the top of my head wat it is but when i get the info i will post it. wo i feel like a drink after the past week bugger in preg.thanks for praying for us it must of worked ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Millie1976
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 3:49pm
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That is fantastic news - you must be so relieved. ------------- Sebastien 2 years old Olivier 3 3/4 years old |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 4:01pm
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That is awesome. I am so glad to hear that ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 4:03pm
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Yay! that is great. Instead of a drink, hows about celebrating with CHOCOLATE...(easter chocolate is THE BEST...) ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: deharn
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 4:23pm
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That's awesome news
I am a big believer in good coming of bad so I am sure this is the beginning of wonderful wonderful things for your little family. You don't realise just how short life can be so we should all take a bit of the moral of this story away with us. You guys take care, you can now relax and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy in peace!!! 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 4:30pm
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Yay....so glad that all is well. I agree have loads of chocolate....have a chocolate cake...trust me it will make you feel great!
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 4:55pm
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thanks the stress levels have gone down and hes coming home on thursday ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: robyn
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 5:09pm
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that is so great, have been wondering how you were going all day. what a relief for you all!! ------------- KOBE born 19 March 2004 http://www.TickerFactory.com/">
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 7:24pm
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Oh YAY! What wonderful news! I was hoping you'd have an update for us!
I agree about celebrating with chocolate! Its all good! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 10 April 2006 at 9:00pm
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yay yay yay what wicked news i say go with the chocolate ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 7:31am
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Thats fantastic news! ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Simonne
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 9:49am
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That's fabulous news! I hope your hubby's recovery continues to go well! I understand that brain surgery is one of the quickest to recover from (believe it or not!), so I hope he's back on his feet very soon! ------------- Simonne xx ~ Established 1979 ~ |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 2:17pm
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awesome news catherine, i've got a huge grin on my face for you and i dont even know you guys!! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 2:50pm
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YAY good stuff catherine im glad to hear all is well
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 2:51pm
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Yay! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: netballgirl4
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 5:56pm
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thanks for all your wishs ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 8:38pm
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Oh hey that's very very cool to hear Catherine.
Hope you can relax now and make the most of hubby being back around on Thurday
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 11 April 2006 at 8:41pm
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Yay! so glad for u catherine...spoil urself with a nice big chocolate cake!
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Posted By: fairsk8
Date Posted: 12 April 2006 at 7:39am
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Thats great news catherine! And I agree with everyone else on the chocolate cake idea, a huge one with heaps of icing. ------------- http://www.bump-and-beyond.com/"> 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 12 April 2006 at 9:36am
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yummmmmyyyyyy chocolate cake.... ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Deez
Date Posted: 12 April 2006 at 9:45am
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Wow what a week your've been through...Everyone seems to have said everything but i'll just say i'm happy that everything has worked out for you and your hubby & hope that he's back on his feet in no time..... -------------  
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 12 April 2006 at 1:16pm
| Hope everything goes well for you Catherine! |