Life is so unfair sometimes
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Topic: Life is so unfair sometimes
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Subject: Life is so unfair sometimes
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 11:55am
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 11:58am
 I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Harry.-------------  
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Posted By: MelanieAndBree
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 11:59am
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Aw that so sad im sorry!!
------------- Melanie. Mum to Briahna Robyn, 3yrs |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:09pm
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OOOOHHH NOOOOO...He was beautiful!!
RIP Harry! So sorry for your Loss Sheena!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:10pm
aww hun i,m so sorry for your loss big hugs coming your way ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Aprilfools
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:15pm
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Oh no. I remember the pictures you posted when you first got him. Poor little guy.
Hugs hugs and more hugs. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: sally belly
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:17pm
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I'm really sorry to hear about Harry Sheena. I hope you're doing ok in the circumstances. Hold onto all the special memories you have of him. He was absolutely gorgeous BTW.
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:21pm
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Thanks Everyone.
We just buried him, felt like Id lost a family member, that is how much I loved that cat. He was such a friendly cat and he loved people. Im doing ok, just cant stop crying. ------------- |
Posted By: MonicaMouse
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:31pm
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So sorry guys, *big Hugs*
Play hard at the rainbow bridge Harry ------------- 
Blair 15/10/2007 Daniel 30/07/2009 |
Posted By: IVFGirl1111
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 12:45pm
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Aww so sorry to hear about wee Harry Sheena :( Hugs hugs and more hugs to you x
So so so hard losing a pet ------------- TTC 6 years IVF it is IVF/ICSI round one 10 eggs, 8 mature, 3 fertilised BFN IVF/ICSI #2 = 22 eggs! 20 mature, 15 fertilised, 1 fresh transfer and 2 frosties BFN 2 Frosties still in freezer thank god |
Posted By: aussiegirl
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 1:02pm
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Oh sheena, so sorry to hear about harry
to you and your family. -------------  Mum to Hayley **30.6.08
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 1:32pm
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Oooh Sheena, I'm so sorry!
A similar thing happened with my sister's wee cat. She took her in to be desexed and after the vet sedated her she suddenly died from a reaction to the meds. It was just so unexpected and sad. I had to go down and pick her up for my sis, I cried all afternoon. I really feel for you chick, sending you big hugs. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Mum_mum
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 1:33pm
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Oh Im so sorry Sheena! They are just like on of the family members aye. My cat is 12 and getting frail, i know that it will break my heart when she goes!
Big hugs to you! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 2:15pm
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oh sheena i'm so sorry!!! harry is an absolutely gorgeous boy! it's so upsetting to lose a furbaby
my girl 'kitty' is almost 14yrs old and i'm getting really worried about her. she's looking really 'manky' and started using our bedroom for a toilet  think she might be loosing her mind
take care hun  ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: My3Sons
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 2:23pm
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awwww Sheena, I remember when you got him!! So sorry to hear he is gone, he was a gorgeous boy! ------------- Mum to Mr 10, Mr 6 and Mr 4
 
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Posted By: Freesia
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 2:32pm
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I'm so sorry Sheena Big hugs to you.
He was the most gorgeous cat. -------------  
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 2:46pm
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Awww so sorry to hear about Harry. What a gorgeous pic of you both. Big hugs hun ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 2:48pm
Thanks so much
I am feeling better now, still very sad but Ive stopped crying now(until I have to tell someone else that he died). Its just so unfair, he was only 1, he hardly had a life. I feel awful, like its my fault, but the vet assured me there is nothing that I could have done and that even if we had taken him to the vet yesterday morning he probbaly still would have passed away cos of the damage he had to his kidneys. My poor furr baby... ------------- |
Posted By: Neeks
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 3:01pm
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OMG Sheena, I'm so sorry hun Big BIG hugs coming your way!!
RIP Harry and may you find peace at the rainbow bridge -------------  
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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 3:07pm
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Aww Sheena
I was so hoping it would be nothing too major when you were so worried about him yesterday, that sucks. I remember when my dog died when I was 14, had a lot of tears (we were really close). After a few days it got a lot easier though. Awesome photos by the way of you and him! ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Red
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 3:08pm
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Aww that is very sad Sheena - I am a big cat person so I can understand how distressing that must be.
My fur baby had a blocked bladder a couple of months ago and it was very expensive to fix, I was lucky that we got it in time. RIP Harry. He was beautiful. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 3:27pm
I just had a feeling yesterday that somethign wasnt right, hence that sick feeling I told you about. I woke uip this morning and quickly called the vets clinic and they put me through to the vet and I just knew he was gone
He was a really bubbly loopy cat so when he was very quiet and didnt want to move I knew there was something wrong with him. I just hope that he passed in his sleep so he didnt suffer too long.... ------------- |
arohanui wrote:Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 3:52pm
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Hey Sheena, so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Take care. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 4:01pm
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Sheena I am so sorry for your tragic loss, our fur babies are such a big part of our lives. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: KiwiL
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 4:09pm
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Aw, Sheena, I am so sorry to hear about Harry. I can't imagine losing my cat, and she's ten, so this must be particularly devastating for you.
HUGE hugs. I really feel for you. On the positive side, what beautiful photos you have of him to help your memories. They are really special. |
Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 4:54pm
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Aww Sheena I'm so sorry for your loss! I remember when you got him. And such a gorgeous wee thing too. I hope you're doing OK and having lots of cuddles with Caden.
It's just so hard aye - we lost both our cat and dog within a month of each other this year. I knew the cat would go once the dog was hit as they were so close she couldn't live without him. Thinking about you hun.
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 9:42pm
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Hugs Sheena I remember when our cat passed away, she was 22 and had well outlived the vets expectations but it was so devastating I vowed I'd never have another cat coz it is just far too hard when they pass on ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Mama2two
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 10:17pm
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Sheena, I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your little furbaby. Big Hugs from us to you.
I lost my burmese baby Bailey a couple of years ago from Liver failure and he was only a young boy too. He has been cremated and is still sitting on my dresser as I can't bare to part with him ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 10:19pm
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So sorry about your cat. We had a wee cat called Harry as well, he got run over about 3 years ago, maybe it's an unlucky name ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 12 September 2008 at 10:25pm
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awww he was beautiful, so sorry for your loss
xoxo ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |
Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 13 September 2008 at 12:31am
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Aww Sheena. Im so sorry to hear your loss ------------- Our Angel July 08 Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 13 September 2008 at 11:30am
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Awww thats sooo sad :( ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 13 September 2008 at 2:25pm
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So sorry for your loss Sheena, what a beautiful cat he was , just gorgeous ------------- 
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Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 13 September 2008 at 9:53pm
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Sheena I'm so sorry Those are lovely photos you have of him. -------------  
 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 13 September 2008 at 9:56pm
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Thankies Everyone
Doign better today, I think it has finally sunk in and Ive accrpted that he is gone...
He is in Kitty kat heaven playing with other cats ------------- |
Posted By: lovingmummyhood
Date Posted: 14 September 2008 at 9:11am
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Sheena. I've just seen this. So sorry to hear about your beautiful cat - he was just gorgeous! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 15 September 2008 at 9:03am
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So sorry to hear that Harry has passed away.. :( Huge hugs ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: DzinerGirl
Date Posted: 15 September 2008 at 9:12am
| So sorry about Harry...It's so hard when a beloved pet passes away. He was a gorgeous cat. All the best |