If you could afford it?
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Topic: If you could afford it?
Posted By: MrsMojo
Subject: If you could afford it?
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:53pm
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I know there are already 2 similar topics on the board atm but I'm curious if you could afford cosmetic surgery would you get it? Yes/no answer is fine.
For me atm the answer is definitely NO. I am happy enough in my own skin and I think Charly pointed out in one of the other threads that it is so satisfying to lose weight through healthy eating and exercise plus that's a lifestyle choice for your long term health, not your short term self-image. If I ever did get surgery it would be to remove excess skin (which I don't have). Then again give me 10-20 years and I might consider a breast lift -------------  
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Posted By: BugTeeny
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:54pm
heheh you answered for me, Jo 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:56pm
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haha the only thing i would change is my ears, they stick out way too much , i have to walk through doors sideways .... ------------- 
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:57pm
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yep, I plan on getting my nail bag sorted and boobs done . I am very happy in my own skin, just want to fix up the bits that diet and exersize won't fix. Oh and a nail bag is the tummy flap thing. looks like a nail bag that builder peopel have, lol. I do also know that surgery won't fix any issues I have (none of which are self image anyhow) ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: hooper
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:57pm
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no i really don't think that i would. ------------- Desiree 
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Posted By: monikah
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:57pm
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not for purely cosmetci reasons but my sis as lost 40kg and has really bad saggy skin under her arms and her stomach is just a big hanging chunk of skin (not the standard i have just had a baby type, but really bad) if i had the money and nothing that was more important to spend it on i would probably do it if i was in her situation ------------- 
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:00pm
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Oh, that makes sense. I was wondering and had images of bulbous lumps on your fingers underneath your nails LOL. -------------
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fattartsrock wrote:Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:00pm
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yes I definitely will be getting my boobs reduced but that's not really for cosmetic reasons (after all reductions leave rather obvious scars). I'm a 10 in the back and currently an H/I cup.
I asked my doc about what I had to do to get it through the public system and she said marry a plastic surgeon (and was only half joking)  So I guess I'll be saving.
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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:01pm
Yeah, but it would be low priority on my list of things to buy if I won lotto haha..If there was a lot left over after everything else then sure 
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Posted By: tishy
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:01pm
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Nope
lol caitlynsmygirl
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Posted By: Parki
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:02pm
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Yes.
In fact I am currently considering it...... Let the judging begin..... 
And also, I am not 'really really down' about my body at all.... I am considering surgery because I am an adult and I get to make decisions about my body and my life. Yes, surgery will make me feel better about myself, obviously, otherwise I wouldn't be doing it!? |
Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:02pm
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Never mind the money...owwwwwwwwwwch. ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:05pm
I would get my boobs done, no amount of diet or exercise is gonna make my size A's grow.
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:07pm
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My niece just had a nose job. its not obvious, but less bumpy. Looks fab! ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: rachelsea
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:07pm
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No I wouldn't. But then I've had 7 operations (all for medical reasons) so personally wouldn't pay to go through all that pain etc for cosmetic reasons. Also my hubby loves my body just the way it is
But each to their own. ------------- DD 4yrs DS 2yrs http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: ooEvaoo
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:16pm
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Ummmm I'm not too sure. Probably for excess skin but that's about it. My tummy still hangs! from when I had Kahtrell, but with my weight loss journey I'm hoping it will be less obvious when I've lost the weight. Plus I've never worn a bikini or anything revealing when I was slimmer, so why would I be hung up about it now. Always thought I might get a breast reduction, but figured, women pay big dollars to have babies like these!!, so why pay big dollars to lose em lol. ------------- 
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Posted By: Natalie_G
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:25pm
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If needed I would have a boob job, but mostly for a lift. If I have excess skin at all that cant get rid off I would have it removed.
I wouldnt do anything to my face apart from go somewhere like Caci Clinc and try get rid of all the open pores from pimples when I was a teenager. Well there is still 20Mill to win in lotto lol. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:29pm
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I told DH on Sunday that I was planning lipo for my legs, implants for my boobs, a nose job DeVinci Veneers (sp?) for my teeth and hair extensions. I don't think I would have the courage to go through with any of them (and certainly don't have the money).
I find myself naturally inclined to want to be physically perfect BUT I also believe that it is not what matters in life and that it shouldn't matter what a person looks like, it is what's inside that counts. It is an on-going battle of nature verses belief structure for me. ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:29pm
Nope. I've had operations before and no way would I voluntarily pay someone to put me through that!  I'd also be concerned about the risk of post-op complications, healing, that sort of thing. It's there with any surgery and what happens if you come out with health problems at the end of it?
DH loves me how I am and I'm healthy, that's all I need to feel good about myself. Just to clarify - I'm not flat out against plastic surgery. If people do it, that's their business not mine and I know it helps for medical reasons as well. It's just not for me. ------------- Mum to two gorgeous girls! |
Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:33pm
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PMSL Parki! I actually don't see why there's a stigma with getting surgery. I wouldn't hesitate to pay big bucks for cosmetic dentistry (in fact we're working it into our budget) and I don't see much difference except that dental surgery seems to be more acceptable. I also spend a small fortune on makeup/tanning moisturisers/perfumes/clothes/shoes etc all designed to make me look, smell and feel nicer, for some I guess, cosmetic surgery is an extension of that. -------------
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Posted By: TraceyA
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:35pm
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If I had a major accident and had horrific scarring, probably. I would have a breast reduction if they get too much bigger if I could afford it and it started causing me back problems (DH might divorce me though, lol).
Never just for cosmetic reasons. I was born with my stomach open and had several operations as a child, I still have a scar not a belly button (actually a few scars) and I thought when I was younger that I'd get them taken away but they are so much a part of who I am I couldn't imagine them not being there anymore. ------------- TTC #2 |
Posted By: fire_engine
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:41pm
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I wouldn't - too scared of the post op complications! ------------- Mum to two wee boys |
Posted By: peachy
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:48pm
Same with me, so I had cosmetic surgery 4 years ago to correct them. The op changed my personality (for the better) as I had a huge complex. I never ever wore my hair tied up until 4 years ago! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Neeks
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:52pm
I wouldn't do anything drastic, maybe a breast augment (smaller) and a lift and maybe my post baby tummy cause it's YUCK and it makes me look fatter than I actually am  -------------  
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Posted By: Parki
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:57pm
Agreed. And I can almost guarantee that a majority of people who are big believers in the "Beauty is on the inside" motto have at some point spent money on something to improve their outter beauty.... So really......Its the same thing, just a lot more expensive. I am quite interested by this subject because the few people I have told that I am considering surgery seem to feel free to ridicule, frown upon or tell me I'm out of my mind. Rude! I agree beauty is on the inside, but whats the big deal in making your outside just as beautiful?? Vain? Maybe. Allowed to be? Yes.
Thats my opinion the surgery subject. Oh and my DH loves me just the way I am too, but I don't. So if surgery is going to make me happy, he is all for it. |
Posted By: DzinerGirl
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 2:58pm
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I would get lipo on my ankles..I don't even know if it's possible but I hate my fat ankles
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Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 3:06pm
totaly agree i am planning on getting some boobs!(not huge ones)  as mine seem to have vanished over the years not that there was alot there to begin with anyway but it is something i have always been very selfconcious about ever since the jokes and flat chest taunts at highschool.
personally i dont really care what anyone thinks about me getting it done it is something i have thought over for years and not jumed into and also like you the people i have told were rather disaproving. but this is something for me, im not doing it to impress anyone apart from myself wow will i be impressed when i can fill out a bra ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |
Posted By: Aprilfools
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 3:15pm
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Parki - you and I can go on a fat sucking holiday to Thailand then
Seriously though, I'm open to it. DH said if I ever want to I can have plastic surgery even though he thinks I'm fine. And he's right coz I'm perfect in every way. I have perfectly round untoned arms, perfectly formed little stretchmarks from sudden weight gain and perfectly undefined ankles (yes you can get these fixed up a little bit DzinerGirl). I'm happy as I am for now, even though there are things that I'd like to be better I'll keep trying to work on them myself for now. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 3:29pm
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I would get my tummy done.
No amount of effort on my part has gotten rid of the yucky saggy skin and crinkles from the stretch marks and the fact that they're there because of the two beautiful creatures I carried isn't enough to make me love it! Its definitely not a priority for me, or even something I'm planning to do, but if we had the money and there was nothing else on our list of things we wanted or needed to do, I'd be on that table in a shot! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 3:29pm
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I'm all for it. But the funny thing is I only want my boobs done because they are huge (F/G cup) and cause me pain in my shoulders and back and they were already heading south before Daniel, now they are just without a bra to hold them up. Once I'm done with having kids my chiro and GP are gonna help get the process under way for going on the public waiting list as we could never afford it.
I wouldn't get my tummy or anything like that done just because I have a massive fear of being cut so getting boobs done would be hard enough without anymore slicing going on lol |
Posted By: DJ
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 3:30pm
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If my tum hung right over like in the picture on the new ad on here, and I was otherwise slim, I would certainly have that removed. Costs be damned!
I don't think I would have a face lift or an eye job - I saw this woman in LAX who was a walking plastic surgery disaster - she freaked me out. My aunty has had a couple of facelifts and she also looks a bit freaky. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 3:31pm
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Hell yes!
I'd get everything done, the big 40 is looming fast, and I have no desire to be old and wrinkly. If I had the money I'd get my boobs done they are fast heading south and I haven't even been through BF yet, my tummy tucked and lypo on my hips and thighs. Would even consider getting the lump taken out of my nose. Unfortunately even if I did win Lotto I could think of a dozen more things I would spend the money on. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:01pm
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once we have finished our family, i will be at some stage having a tummy tuck, but as ive had a gastric bypass, i currently have about 6kgs of excess skin hanging and with each pregnancy it becomes more...so mine will be so i can just be me again ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:13pm
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no. I think that nowadays we see a lot of "enhanced" people and are thinking that is the norm. No, wrinkles sre the norm actually
THis is what i say now - ask me in five years time
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:15pm
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i always said i would get a boob job when i finished breastfeeding.
i want nipples that point out wards not down. !!!! could do with a bit less of them too! But i dont think it will ever happen for me. ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: surfergirl
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:19pm
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Yes! Yes! Yes! Everything...boobs, tummy, thighs, ankles (Oh, I'd LOVE to have ankles), butt... Shallow, but meh, it's my life, my body... ------------- http://www.alterna-tickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:33pm
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Yup, I would get a tummy tuck for sure once we're done having kids. No amount of exercise will ever get rid of the over hang so I would do it in a heart beat! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: MumsyMoo
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:33pm
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Sign me up...
Breast augmentation (they're empty now... EMPTY. And I only breastfed for 4.5 months) UI'd like to be able to fill my C Cup again, instead of my extremely attractive deflated B's that I can tuck into my pants. Nose job - The tip is too broad and I've always hated it. Fat pads removed from my cheeks because I've got quite a round face and I'd love to have some definition. Get my charming gut flap sorted out too... Being only 20, you're probably all gonna think I'm nuts lol, but I'm so unhappy with myself and things like what I want done aren't as a quick fix. Tummy tuck - Couldn't get rid of that flap with exercise, and I've been trying my hardest... But the more wieght I lose, the worse it gets. Boobs... Again, the more weight I lose, the smaller and saggier my breasts become. Nose... and cheeks... Well... They're self explanitory. Yup... I'm vain. But I don't care. I know DF likes me the way I am, but I also know what he misses my taught pre-baby body. But most importantly, I'm not happy with myself, and if I could do it, you can bet my sweet fat-white-lumpy ass I'd do it! -------------  My wee girl is the love and light of my life!
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:39pm
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I like that plastic/cosmetic surgery is there for people to use if they dont like their looks, yes , beauty comes from within , but some people feel more confident if they feel sexier/prettier to be happier in their outlook on life .
My bestfriend for example , beeeeauuuutiiiful girl , stunning, (and im not even biased, shes hot, id totally do her if i wasnt ...you know, straight ) and she has arthritis, quite badly (eg she had her hips replaced at 13) and her fingers dont straighten , everyone always tells her shes beautiful and that its whats inside that counts , she knows this, but she would like to feel beautiful on the outside too. She has had plastic surgery on her face , because drugs for the arthritis when she first got it (when she was 6) made her face quite puffy, and she felt heaps better . Another good friend is having a chin lift , again , i think shes gorgeous and never notice it , but its something that bothers HER, so if she can do something about it ...why not ? -------------
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Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 4:56pm
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Nope. The idea of any sort of surgery freaks me out.
Although I wouldnt mind my boobs back. They are ok now but I hate to think what they are going to be like once I stop bfing. After Keira there was next to nothing left. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Cassie
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 5:31pm
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No I'm quite happy the way I am, and/or with changes I can make through improved eating and exercise - sure there are things I'm not the happiest with but I've never been that worried about how I look. It wasn't even until someone mentioned it back in the thread that I remember I have a bung ear! lol one of them has no curve in it so it sticks out more - if anything I think it's cute, it's part of what makes me unique so why would I change it?
Everyone is different tho, I'm not against people getting it, I know some people have this need to change things about themselves and if it helps make them feel better then by all means go for it. I just don't think looks are the most important thing and most people who I know who want things done can't seem to see just how beautiful they are. ------------- ~Cassie~   
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 6:53pm
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I am with Pepsi...if I won lotto...got all the things I want to, travelled and put money away for kids....and then I had those extra extra...I would get rid of the overhang....thats it!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: sparkle
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 8:12pm
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I'd get my boobs done!!!! I always thought that BFing would "help" them get smaller. But here I am, 13 months down the track, still hoping that Coop with suck the life out of them one day!!!
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Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 8:17pm
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Sorry, just had to add that I think there is a world of difference between wearing makeup and getting plastic surgery!
Yes, they are both used to make us feel pretty but one involves slapping on some cosmetics that wash off at the end of the day, the other is major surgery that cannot be reversed and has risks (including death, as with any general surgery). Just don't think that's a very realistic comparison to make. ------------- Mum to two gorgeous girls! |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 8:46pm
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if i had nothing else to spend the money on i'd get rid of the saggy belly! and probably a boob lift ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 8:49pm
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Posted By: JD
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 8:53pm
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Absolutely!!!
I want to get my boobs either lifted up again and refilled. They have way more skin than needed on them since feeding two babies. I hate to think what they will be like after the next one... I think its ok to get surgery on things you cant change yourself...eg, saggy boobs, no boobs, noses, ears, ankles (hehe), saggy tummy. I think it is cheating to get lipo if you don't excercise and eat right. Of course there are those bumps that wont budge regardless of what you do. I think if it makes you feel better about yourself, then why not. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: kiwigal
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 9:02pm
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Boob reduction I was a 12E before I got pregnant and went up to 16FF who knows what my boobs are going to be like once I finish breastfeeding. I would love to be a 12C |
Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 9:28pm
Me too, kiwigal. I was a 12F before I got pregnant and will be falling out of my new G cups any day now Once I've finished having kids I'll be getting them reduced for sure. I'm terrified of the idea of surgery, but I'm sick of having sore shoulders/neck/back and not being able to go for a run or even do aerobics without feeling like my boobs are going to slap me in the face!------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 29 September 2008 at 10:23pm
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Hell yes I would. I have already spoken to my dr about my boobs and can get them done with my insurance paying some (so I need to save the rest). But I would probably want to lose the weight myself then get the excess skin taken away and anything else that I just can't work on myself. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:08am
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i really think its noone elses business if people chose to get surgery or not , if you dont want to get surgery, cool, dont do it .
People say beauty comes from within , and while i believe this , i also believe that feeling confident about yourself on the outside can help you feel happier inside . If you , like me, are happy with the way you look and dont stress over your appearance, then , yay for us . For some people it can really bother them , and if surgery can make them feel a bit more confident about themselves, excellent -------------
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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:15am
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I must admit I have not read all the answers yet, will do that in a minute.
I would use the money to hire a personal trainer and a nutrionist. Someone to teach me the best way to train for my body and someone to give me some ideas on different food options! Everything else is just part of getting older and I plan to do that gracefully. Like Rach, I am not particularily fond of surgery.. I dont react well to the drugs and I just dont want to risk dying for some perky boobs! Each to their own of course
There is a big difference though between need and want though. Right, now to read what y'all would do.... -------------   
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Posted By: Parki
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:20am
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Well said, Caitlynsmygirl.
I would like to also point out though that: - I am not depressed over my appearance/body. - I don't have really low self esteem. - I do not require surgery for medical reasons. - The procedure I am considering could probably be achieved without surgery after a few years, maybe? I am considering surgery becasue I WANT to. Because I can. I do not see what is so bad with wanting to enhance my outter self? While many people say "Its nobody elses business" etc etc. That is correct but for some reason, people feel like they have the right to be rude & judgemental and quite freely express their dislike for cosmetic surgery. I do not think that is ok and doesn't reflect well on ones 'inner beauty'. Im just saying, not everyone who has or wants a cosmetic procedure done is depressed, has low self esteem, is pressure by their DH or anything. Some of us just take pride in our appearance more than others and we shouldn't be looked down upon for that, ever. |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:28am
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exactly, Parki, and I applaud anyone who is open enough to admit having it done or considering having it done.
I absolutely will be having a tummy tuck and probably a boob job, and I will be telling everyone. I 'd hate people to think I got rid of my nail bag by magic!!! Like i just said in the other thread, I cannot believe what a bunch of nanas we have on here. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:31am
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My friend thats getting her chin , whats the word ? reduced ? lipo'd? she doesnt have any major hangups about her appearance (apart from that of course) , she doesnt require it done for surgical reasons and she doesnt have low self esteem nor does she suffer depression over her looks , but her chin bothers her, and it bothers her enough for her to make appointments to consult with surgeons and do something about it , and if it makes her feel happier, fantastic , good for her ! -------------
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:35am
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exactly!! if there's something that can be done to make you feel happier about yourself....then why the hell not do it!! ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com">
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 9:43am
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yep, and I cannot WAIT to have big plastic hooters! WWWOOOOOOOTTTTTTT! ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 10:04am
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lol annie! ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com">
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Posted By: Jay_R
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 10:19am
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I'm usually pretty ok with my body, and have never had any major hangups over it (apart from the usual - you know, does my bum look big in this etc etc!). Since having Joshua though, and I'm not sure if its the result of c-section or if it just happens, I now have a revolting pouchy thing going on which slightly overhangs my scar. Yuck Wouldn't mind getting rid of that.
I definitely think its a personal choice. I have friends who are well keen for new boobs - bigger ones. I say go for it! |
Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 11:45am
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I have had it and can say its definitely something I would NOT do again.
I had assymetrical boobs and they have completely screwed my back. After waiting 5 long and painful years on the public list, I got a free reduction and lift. It was excruciating, and the scars are nothing to desire at all, they're everywhere and huge. While the result is me having less pain (the pain has not fully gone away as its been affecting me for so long) I needed to get it done but I would never opt to do it. That's just my opinion. I am unhappy with my body but what is 'wrong' with me is just me. I can change my belly, arms etc and anything left over is just the way I was intended to be. I'm not the most attractive thing and I'm not slim but that's OK. I'm eating well and exercising. I too think that makeup and surgery are too completely different things and probably said by someone who hasn't had a procedure done before. Having said all of that, if you have the money then lucky you and if you choose to spend it on surgery, then go ahead. It's your life and you can choose to spend your money to change yourself if you want. But I do think that surgery is too readily available. How many doco's etc do we all watch that goes on about people getting plastic surgery and it either going horribly wrong or them finally realising that the problem was something internal not external but it took them going through the procedure to learn that. |
Posted By: ooEvaoo
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 11:47am
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I'm glad I'm not the only one with an overhanging belly and stretch mark crinkles lmfao. Watching the doco yesterday about this lady who had her boobs done really put me off implants (not that I'd need them lol) ..just got the most disgusting infection, and big gaping hole, all from a tiny pin prick, as she contracted MRSA and it infected her through that tiny abrasion!. Hmmm like I said before all I'd do would be to remove excess skin, like a tummy tuck, but probably wouldn't do it til after I've finished having babies, so will be in my 40s then...that's 17 years away, plenty time to save up lolz. -------------
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Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 12:10pm
I don't think anyone on here has been rude or judgemental about you (or anyone else) wanting cosmetic surgery? Maybe you're reading too much in to what others have posted. All that people have said is that they don't like it and it's not for them, as they should be free to do. The question in this thread is would YOU have it done. If people dislike it then they are welcome to express that without judgement. Just as everyone else is free to express that they would have it and why. And for the record, I take pride in my appearance as well, I just do it in a different way ------------- Mum to two gorgeous girls! |
Posted By: Parki
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 1:22pm
I wasn't implying people on here had, I was talking in general, as in one of my previous posts I had pointed out that a few 'real life' people had been rude to my face when I have told them I am considering cosmetic surgery. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, I'm VERY aware that not everyone is going to have the same! I'm not that naive!!
This is a forum - Differing opinion is imminent. I am also aware of risks and the like and it is not a decision I will make lightly, I am researching different aspects and options etc. I have also had plastic surgery previously when I was younger to correct a botched scar after a childhood illness. Yes it hurt, yes the recovery sucked but the outcome was worth it becasue now my neck looks normal and I do not have a scar covering a majority of it. So for me, my previous experience has not put my off. |
Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 1:25pm
Ah - cool. I hadn't read your previous posts, sorry (I've skimmed this thread a bit). How rude! Tell them to go sit with all the other rude asses who comment on formula/breast feeding and all the other guff we have to put up with!
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Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 1:27pm
I had a gaping hole just a bit bigger than an old 50c where 3 of the insicions (sp?) met. It was terrible and couldn't move my arm for a few weeks for fear of it bursting even more. Just not worth it. |
Posted By: Alianasmummy
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 2:10pm
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My friends mum had to get her breast removed because of breast cancer so when she could she got liposuction and a tummy tuck and with the extra fat from the liposuction they reconstructed her boob! Then there is no chance of rejection and it looks and feels completely natural. She got a nipple tattoo too
I would definitely get a boob job if i could! The stretch marks i can handle, i never liked showing my tummy anyway, but i really dont like how my boobs look or feel  , They are doing their job well but when thats all done i will be saving like a mad thing to get to it done!
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Posted By: CuriousG
Date Posted: 30 September 2008 at 4:59pm
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