2008 - what did you do?
Printed From: OHbaby!
Category: General Chat
Forum Name: General Chat
Forum Description: For mums, dads, parents-to-be, grandparents, friends -- you name it! And you name the topic you want to chat about!
URL: https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23217
Printed Date: 30 September 2025 at 6:06pm
Software Version: Web Wiz Forums 12.05 - http://www.webwizforums.com
Topic: 2008 - what did you do?
Posted By: Maya
Subject: 2008 - what did you do?
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:09pm
|
It's nearly the end of the year, and I was listening to the radio this afternoon and they were talking about reflecting on the year that is ending, and I got to reflecting a bit myself.
What did you do in 2008 that made you proud? *The most important thing, of course, is the arrival of my beautiful lil miss! I'm proud that I was able to give birth without any pain relief, even if I was screaming for it! *I'm proud that, after a shocking breastfeeding experience with the gremlins, I have been able to exclusively breastfeed lil miss. Five months and counting! *My big girl started school and is growing, and learning, and thriving and asking so many questions. *I'm finally starting to understand what makes the gremlins tick, and able to enjoy them for the cheeky, complex little characters that they are. *I'm proud of OHbaby!, which has grown so hugely over the past few years, and of course, the launch of OHbaby! Magazine. *And I'm proud that in 2008 I celebrated 6 years sober. So what are you proud of? -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
|
Replies:
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:17pm
|
I'm proud that i got me a job - as in, when i couldn't get a job I sent my cv to EVERY school in manawatu to get something
i'm proud that I had issues at school and worked through them I'm realy proud that i got OpShop to come to my school and play for us I'm proud that I made a new years resolution to read a book to each boy a day and to spend 10 minutes alone with each boy, and that it worked I'm proud that I also took time out to spend a day with each boy - per holidays and they have really relished it. I'm proud that I graduated yet again - and mum was there to see me. Woohoo. I'm so proud. |
Posted By: BugTeeny
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:20pm
Congrats Emma! 
It goes without saying that Hannah is, by far, my biggest source of pride this year! She's such a fabulous wee lass with whom I'm falling in love with more and more as each day passes. Another thing is after battling with my weight for years, I decided to something about it. I joined the gym and have, to date, lost over 30cms and dropped 7% body fat! I have more energy and much more self-esteem. And last, but not least, DH and I have been together for over 8 years, married for 3, and still going strong. I couldn't imagine life without my wee family and this year has been the best of my life! ------------- 
|
Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:22pm
|
Wow Maya, 90 % of that list is just what Im proud of too
1) Giving birth to 9lb Mr Jackson without drugs 2) Breastfeeding, despite the initial floor stomping pain 3) Janaya starting school.... and watching how well shes adjusted to having a little bro. She just adores him, and he thinks shes the bees knees too! Its so lovely watching the two of them together. 4) Watching Janaya win the Junior Athletic Champion  (unbeknown to us we have quite a sprinter!)
I think this year has been the best year Ive had in a long time. Ive made some really good friends, and have grown up a whole lot too. This year Ive finally worked out what I want to do with my life, and Ive definately been living life to the full. ETA - Ive done absolutely everything I promised myself to do - Little things like spending more time with the kids, baking more, reading more, and to lose the baby weight. i DID IT! Bring on 2009 !! ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:30pm
I am proud that:
The last one is one I have struggled with for years, and I can finally see that it doesn't matter that I'm not skinny, or typically good looking - I am me, and that alone makes me beautiful and worth it. |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:31pm
------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:37pm
|
2008 has been a tough year for me.
Marrying DH after 7 years together is the highlight. I was pleased with my results from my first university paper. Sadly since then I've been made redundant, and had nasty employment issues, which has left me some what disillusioned with my career choices. Hope 2009 is better. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: LeahandJoel
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:45pm
-------------  
 
|
Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 8:52pm
The highlights of my 2008 were ..
On a side note .. lizzle, Opshop are signed to our record label ... they are lovely lads! ------------- Mummy to Issy (3) and Elias (18 months) I did it .. 41 kgs gone! From flab to fab in under a year  http://www.femininefitness.co.nz/category/blog - LFs weight blog
|
Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 9:00pm
|
2008 I am proud of myself for ..
- Giving birth to the most gorgeous wee girl - The whole 9lb 6, naturally in less than an hour. And proud I have survived the first 9 months as a mother of 2. -Bringing up a gorgeous wee 3 year old, our toilet training efforts which have finally paid off and seeing her off on her first day at Kindy without a single problem. And watching her be a great big sister (well most of the time anyway :P) -Surviving another year in our wee box of a house and saving lots of money so hopefully next year we will be able to move out on our own. -Making it to 3 years Married to DH and being in a relationship which is getting stronger all the time. Its been an interesting year with many ups and downs and Im really looking forward to what next year is going to bring! ------------- 
 
|
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 9:07pm
|
*I'm proud that I got off my ass and actually applied for midwifery and was accepted .
* I'm proud of my ratbags and how awesome they are. I love how well they play and how they are real little people now. *I'm proud of me and Ben somehow making it through this year together with all the ILs and money problems we have had. *I'm proud of Ben for not letting his nasty stepmother get to him and I'm proud of me for not letting the ILs get away with all the trouble they caused. *I proud of how environmentally friendly we have become as a family *I'm proud (and excited) that I am all organised for next year and can't wait to move on to the next part of my life.
|
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 9:26pm
|
I am proud of myself for
** Going through hell for 48 hours to get wee Caden..or not so wee ermm 9lb 8oz Caden here! So proud of myself that I did that and was smiling at the end of it all when i saw what I had in my arms! He is my pride and joy and I love him more everyday, he is a happy little chappy!!! he makes everyone smile!! **Creating baby number two!!! **Getting most of the wedding plans sorted! **Im also proud of my DF, he is a FANTASTIC daddy!! ------------- |
Posted By: Freesia
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 9:44pm
|
I am proud of:
- the beautiful little girl I helped to create and bring into the world. She already makes me so proud and has shown me a whole new level of love. - DP and I looking after her exclusively with no family around to help (even when I had sugery). - having an even better relationship (post-baby) with DP even after 13 years together. - making more friends over the last year than I ever have. - keeping my weight under my pre-pregnancy weight. -------------  
|
Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 9:50pm
Hey well done Missy .. thats awesome! ------------- Mummy to Issy (3) and Elias (18 months) I did it .. 41 kgs gone! From flab to fab in under a year http://www.femininefitness.co.nz/category/blog - LFs weight blog
|
Freesia wrote:Posted By: BuzzyBee
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 10:26pm
I'm proud that I've managed to breastfeed for 21 MONTHS encounting ...I think we will easily hit the 2 year mark no problems 
My little man has FINALLY started to self settle to sleep at night WITHOUT the boob - boy that was a hard habit to break! Just overall very proud of my little guy, he's such a beautiful, gentle, loving soul whom showers me with kisses and cuddles all day long, he's the reason I live & breath. Ohh and I'm proud I'm still single and haven't gone down THAT path ...I'm loving just focusing on Lucas and keeping him as my main priority. Bugger men. Over 2.5 years now 
Hmm what else... |
Posted By: skp
Date Posted: 18 December 2008 at 11:37pm
|
wow what an amazing thread!
I have had a really big year, I am proud, :to have celebrated our wedding in February and it was a great day :to have done all my units for my qualification and to have passed my final exams in June :to be a successful business owner for 3 years :to have developed a much better relationship with my dad :to have fallen pregnant I can't wait for 2009, what an amazing feeling to be bringing a new life into the new year  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
|
Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 6:41am
|
* First and foremost I'm proud and so incredibly happy that we had our first child, and that he's such an awesome little guy. I'm proud that I gave birth to him naturally with no drugs or gas, and that I felt relaxed and in control.
* I'm proud of DH for being such an amazing daddy, and that I feel so confident in leaving Harry in his care. * I'm proud that I breastfed for 9 months, and that the last 5 months was while I was working so it wasn't easy * I'm proud that I went back to work earlier than expected, and managed to settle in to a kinda challenging class half way through the year. * I'm proud that I'm managing to juggle working and being a mumma. * I'm proud that I've been able to "let go" of Harry so that he's used to other people looking after him and care for him. I love it that DH looks after him 1 1/2 days a week while I'm at work, and my mum the other day. * I'm proud that we bought a second house (but our first family home) * I'm proud that we're moving house tomorrow and so far we've managed to pack up most of our stuff at the same time as all the end of year stuff at school (reports etc) and I haven't had too big a meltdown about it * I'm proud that I'm starting a new laundry/cleaning/meals routine so that things will run more smoothly in our household * I'm proud that I've had quite a few experiences in my 23 years. Living in the UK for a year away from family and friends, travelling all around to 21 different countries, completing teaching degree, getting married, owning/running a cafe and selling it for a sweet profit, running Kids Church, teaching for 1 1/2 years so far, owning 2 houses and having a beautiful baby boy * I'm proud that although I sometimes get stressed and exhausted, I manage to push through and keep going * I'm proud that Harry is biting heaps less than he used to, and that it's cos we taught him not to, in a positive way... That feels so rewarding! * I'm proud that DH and I celebrated 2 years of marriage and we're still going strong ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
|
Posted By: blondy
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 7:29am
|
Great thread Emma!
This year, I'm proud that: *I gave birth to 9lb 1oz Natalie with just gas and managed to come back home within a day of having her *I have survived the first nearly-5months with her, and that breastfeeding has gone really well for us. *I (with help) finished clearing out my parents house, which was packed to the gunnels with 30+ years worth of clutter (about 7 massive skips worth) - and did it while pregnant! And we managed to sell the house before the market came totally crashing down. *I saved up enough money to allow me at least a year away from work - nothing like a goal! *Making good friends with the July 08 ladies, and how supportive they all are! *And finally that (for the most part) being a mother has generally felt very natural for me. It's like a missing part (that I didn't know was missing) has been filled with being Mum to Natalie. -------------  
|
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 7:34am
|
man when i think of it it has been a big year
-i,m so pproud of my little boy who has come shucha long way after his dignosies of dyspraxia his streaghtnh and dederanation inspires me every day -im proud i have given up smoking 5 months and counting -i faniliy put my applacation in at teachers collage now i just need to get in 
-ans im proud thugh every thing my familiy stays close and strong ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: gemsmum
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 8:52am
|
2008.......
*I completed my Postgrad Cert while morning sick, working, juggling a 4 year old and a 6 year old and still managed a solid 'B'. *I gave birth to my 3rd child and am loving parenthood 3rd time around. *DH and I celebrated 9 years of marriage and 2 years of living in NZ. *I watched my 2nd child start school and cried less than when dd started. I got to watch my 2 big kids become awesome older siblings to Mr Z. *I managed to be back in pre-preggie clothes after 7 weeks - and am now 2kg less than pre-preggie weight. Hmmm, looking forward to seeing what 2009 will bring. Debs ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
|
Posted By: DzinerGirl
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 9:04am
I'm actually looking forward to getting out of 2008 and starting fresh in 2009 however this is what I'm proud of:
|
Posted By: Kellygirl
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 9:43am
|
Well, 2008...
*Feeling settled in NZ and deciding that we want to stay here as long as possible, enough to apply and be granted residency. YEAH!!! *Having my daughter turn 5 and start school. I am so proud of the confident little lady that she is. *Having my gorgeous son that is happy and healthy. *Making lots of new friends and contacts here in NZ. There is more but my boy is now waking up and I have to go. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
http://lilypie.com"> 
|
Posted By: fire_engine
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 10:18am
|
2008, things that make me proud (reminds me of the "these things I love" at the end of Rove)
- surviving the long drawn out birth ordeal and getting a pretty cute wee chap at the end of it - making it through being told our "happy healthy" little boy was actually critically ill, and - surviving him having heart surgery and the horrible recovery period - managing to stay at home and stay relatively sane - sticking (mostly) to the budget we set - making great friendships with some of the OB July mums who are just fab
ETA: - having confidence in my role/knowledge/skills as a mother and for listening to my "mother's instinct" and being proved right ------------- Mum to two wee boys |
Posted By: Troods
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 10:32am
|
My 2008:-
- Married DH in January after 9 and 1/2 years together
- We also moved house in January. Still renting though as yet can't afford to buy our own house (maybe next year) - Surviving a bad case of pre-eclampsia and being able to give birth to my beautiful wee daughter in February (although that wasn't supposed to happen until April ) via the intended exit route
- Managed to exclusively BF Emily (with the occassional bottled EBM) for the first 6 months after we got to take her home in March. She's now 10 months old today and still getting BF morning and night. - Spent most of 2008 being a SAHM and loving it
And I'm hoping to [finally] get my wedding thank-you cards out before Christmas  ------------- 
Missed MC July 2011
|
Posted By: LittleBug
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 11:31am
|
Great thread
I'm proud that: - Chloe arrived safely and that I've done the best that I can to be a good Mummy to her - I seem to have gotten the PND under control - I am pregnant with #2 (even though unplanned) and that I am actually ENJOYING this pregnancy (unlike when preggy with Chloe)! - My marriage to DH only got stronger through the PND and having our first child... and soon we will have been married for 2 years
- Although I couldn't get my degree finished this year, I went back and studied for as long as I could (until I got pregnant again). - I've made good friends with the neighbors and their kids, and lots of families at Church, through being a Mummy ------------- Chloe (4 years) and Oliver (3 years). |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 11:42am
|
hmmmm
*im proud that my daughter is one of the funniest , smartest coolest , nicest and friendliest kids I know and that she is , in a way ,my revenge for all the people that told me I was making a huge mistake . Shes proven them wrong, how can something so perfect be such a "mistake" ? and I like to think I have a lot to do with it . *im proud of my DF, he isnt C's biological dad, but he is definetly her daddy , and as far as hes concerned baby isnt his first but his second . I love watching the relationship between C and DF *im proud I managed to finish the year at work without killing my boss or his wife (and it was tempting at times i tell you ) *im proud that DF and I are growing up and getting married *im proud that we created bub #2 *im proud that I quit smoking ! ------------- 
|
Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 11:51am
|
oooh ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel 07/08/2014
|
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 7:29pm
|
I am proud that kelly is getting married to her lovely DF
I am proud that kelly and Df have created bub number two. I am proud of Caitlyn doing well this year at school. i am proud of how kellys sister has done at her vocational school. I am proud of myself losing weight even though i was diagnosed with diabetes type two to make me do it even harder |
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 8:25pm
|
I dont really have anything to be proud of, apart from my georgous wee girl! ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 19 December 2008 at 8:40pm
|
I'm sure there's lots of stuff Kandice! You can be proud of enrolling at tech and making a commitment to returning to study for a start! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
|
Posted By: kriss
Date Posted: 20 December 2008 at 12:15am
|
Great thread! Reading through the previous posts, I feel proud for every single one of you ladies
Some really lovely things have come out of 2008, the best year of my life.. I am proud *That I married the love of my life on the night of May 24, we wrote the whole ceremony ourselves (5mins long all up lol) and that everyone we love was there to celebrate our love with us *That I had such a breezy pregnancy and a wonderful birth, and have a beautiful baby girl to show for it *That I stayed in my pre preg clothes right through my pregnancy and since the birth *That there is so much love and light in my life.. My daughter and husband are the reasons I live and breathe All the best to everyone for 2009 ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
http://lilypie.com"> 
Little Angel, April 10
|
Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 20 December 2008 at 7:45am
|
- I'm proud of Gina growing up more gorgeous, funny and smarter each day - she's such a joy
- I'm proud of Emma and how well she's done since birth - she's a little bundle of energy - I'm proud of returning to work quite quickly again this year and managing OK - I'm proud of managing to express so Emma could have EBM for 7+ months - I'm proud of joining the gym (finally) and doing something for myself again - I'm proud we have our little family all done now and we can get on with getting them to grow and be happy. Somehow it's a huge relief knowing I won't have to be preggers or b'feed ever again ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
|
Posted By: ooEvaoo
Date Posted: 20 December 2008 at 8:46am
|
Hmmmmmm.....
-I'm proud of returning to studies this year -I'm proud for passing first year nursing with an A grade average. -I'm proud for gaining A++ marks in some assignments!! -I'm proud for completing a 50% PHC report in 9 hours (on the day it was due!) and gaining an A++ for it, especially as I wasn't going to do it at all!. -I'm proud of my son..and all the milestones he's achieved this year..from walking through to doing action songs with his mama lol. -I'm proud of my DP for having such initiative at work and coming so far in the 2 years he's worked there...from call centre operator to making his own software for the company to use..and soon to be specialist of call centre operations..he really does work hard, and I am so proud of that. -I'm proud of getting accepted into the Occupational therapy degree...especially since it's limited to 40 places. -I'm proud of losing "some" weight this year.... -I"m proud of recently joining the gym...and going regularly. -I'm proud of my family, of my mum and dad, all my sisters, and my brothers. -I'm especially proud of my oldest sister who finally put herself first and completed her diploma this year...and looking to start her degree next year!. ------------- 
|
Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 20 December 2008 at 9:06pm
|
I'm proud:
-that I haven't killed DH yet (I say yet, we still have 2 weeks left of 08 lol)
-of Jackson and everything he is to us -that we've survived nearly the first 2 years -that although we are dirt poor, we're coping and are learning good life lessons that I think are more important than money (though I'd love some!) -that my Grandad and his best friend got to meet and play with Jack (they both died within 2 weeks of each other a few weeks ago  )
-that I got over the AND and PND -that I'm standing up for my own beliefs, decisions and feelings about motherhood to those who try to change my mind (yes I'm very stubborn in case you hadn't noticed)
|
Posted By: fallen
Date Posted: 20 December 2008 at 11:01pm
|
I'm proud:
* that DF and I survived another year together, now we've been together 4 years. * that we managed to save enough to go to Australia plus $1000 spending money in 4 months * that DF proposed to me in front of his entire family at his 21st birthday * that we have made the decision to ttc * that DF has been a non smoker for about 5 months now * that DF managed to stick with his job for 10 months despite loathing it * that DD took up marching, enjoyed it and has decided she wants to march competitively next season * that DD went outside her comfort zone and was a CEO in a school enterprising activity * of my niece for telling an adult when she was interfered with * that I have found a job that really enjoy and I'm gaining more responsibility in the coming year * that I broke my stress compulsion of picking the skin off one of my fingers I am looking forward to 2009 and the new challenges and surprises it will bring. |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 21 December 2008 at 11:56am
|
I am proud that I survived 2008- by far the worst year of my life.
2009 is going to be the best
|
Posted By: DJ
Date Posted: 21 December 2008 at 12:50pm
|
Awesome thread! You girls all rock!
I'm proud that: - I'm a patient and loving Mum despite never thinking I had it in me - we have an excellent sleeping bubba after a rocky first 12 weeks - we paid off our mortgage - I am able to work from home and earn lots for doing not much - DP has had big payrises and he feels good about it - I've made great new mummy friends - my baby brother who had learning issues in childhood has just been excepted into the 2nd year of a hard to get into degree course after getting an A- average in his 1st year - I can finally say I am happy now, rather than "I'll be happy when.." - I weigh 4kgs less than my pre-preg weight - my bubba is lovely, gives beautiful hugs and kisses, says and understands a lot, and is full of joy ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
|
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 21 December 2008 at 12:59pm
|
I too am proud i survived 2008. The year 2007 was just as horrible, apart from the 15th August of course!! So next year is going to be my year! A year of good things! ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 December 2008 at 1:26pm
|
The years 2006 and 2007 were horrible for me (had friends die in both )
2008 had its ups and downs But 2009..thats gonna be a great year! especially Feb and June -------------
|
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 December 2008 at 1:29pm
|
oh and this isnt me , but my friend, im proud that she got a scholarship into YALE .
Now THATS impressive, and im proud shes worked so hard to get there, even writing thesis's on Cattle domestication (snore) during which time her dad died, ...on her birthday . She is going to be an archeologist and when shes rich and famous from her discoveries I will get to meet the hot actors who are going to be in her life movie -------------
|
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 21 December 2008 at 2:10pm
| And I am looking forward to kelly.s wedding in February and being a Nana in June again and I love my future son in law too |
Posted By: mummymegs
Date Posted: 22 December 2008 at 7:48pm
| 2008 has been kinda hard for me but I did marry DH which was a massive highlight. Bring on 2009. |
Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 23 December 2008 at 7:45am
|
I am proud that I have learnt to accept myself for me and have confidence in myself to be able to do thing's never imagined.
-Giving birth to my girl without losing contorl of myself.drug free and in hospital(ment to be a homebirth was very scared of hospital). -breastfeeding despite hating it. Now having come to love that so much that I never want to stop. -Moving my Mum here and really forgiveing her for not being the Mum I wanted and accept her for who she is. I have to add that this is all becasue I have leant to trully understand what Christ has done. That he loves and accept me just the way I am, but he also loves me too much to leave me that way. Learning to trust that people love me for who I am. I am so greatful that I have been placed in the most amazing chrch. I can say that I am truely blessed. E.T.A: GETTING MY LICENCE I LOVE DRIVING SO MUCH!!!!!!. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
|
Posted By: monkey33
Date Posted: 23 December 2008 at 9:03pm
|
Wow there are some amazing achievements!
I am proud of: **Marrying DH in Feb this year after 2 & half years planning **Starting and almost finishing a big project on the house - something that we have been meaning to do for years **What I have achieved this year in my career **The way I have budgeted and have managed to save $$ (not proud of lack of DHs savings!!) **Getting lots of health things sorted Lookings forward to 2009 - the year of TTC for us
|