shhhh, i tested early and......
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Topic: shhhh, i tested early and......
Posted By: MILF
Subject: shhhh, i tested early and......
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:22pm
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its positive!
i actually tested on wednesday, which was way early ( still dont know why i did? hmm hormones?) and got a positive really quick and strong. so i went away and thought about it some more, went to pick xanthe up from pre school, and came home to re test. another positive. and to be sure, i finished the box off this morning with another positive test. I cant get into the doctor till wed next week, which is good, as by my calculations i am only about 3 1/2 weeks - how can that be? does anyone have any idea on why i have tested positive so early? my last period started on 13/04/06, but my cycles since coming off the pill have been short. I have been bursting to tell someone! to talk about it! i told xanthe, and got her to tell scott for me... she said "mummys got a baby in her tummy daddy", it was so sweet. so fingers crossed it is "sticky" i will know more next week i guess. i think i may pester the doc for an early scan, just to see with dates. ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe -  my big 4 year old 
and Jordis - 1 year old 
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:25pm
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It might be that your last period was implantation stuff??? I don't know it works properly, but when I was pregnant at the start of the year I had a very short period (~3 days) and I assume I was already pregnant by then and it wasn't a period at all!
Congratulations btw!!! Hope the baby is stuck! |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:28pm
| CONGRATS CHICKA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:31pm
that's awesome news lyla!!!!! 
hehe, i love the way you broke the news to scott, very cute! 
congrats to you ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:32pm
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fantastic news, congrats and sticky vibes to bub!!! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:33pm
Congratulations!!! (but I also hate you ------------- "> 
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:33pm
Congratulations Lildo!  That is wonderful news for you and your family! 
The other option with the strong positive is twins  Just ask Maya!!
(P.S. you deserved that about the twins for taking the micky out of my ladle ...I hope you're panicking! Hehehehehe)
Keep us posted !! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:34pm
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Congratulations Lyla!!! ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:34pm
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*turns slightly green" maya? Maya? what is she talking about? ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:35pm
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lol
She had high HCG early on as did i but she is expecting twins and im not lol so there is still a chance or twins or not lol |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:37pm
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Haha!!
Hey Sarah, don't worry ...I hate her too
Maybe we could beat her with my ladle?? ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:40pm
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nooo, then you would have the ladle taken off you to be taken into evidence.... then you would not have anything to hand down to the grandkids
(how does the ladle spill over so much? its everywhere) ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:43pm
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Congratulations Lyla!
At least the random ladle comments are funny! (yes, I know the full story )------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:44pm
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Oh, dear Lildo. You're none too bright are you? It spills over because ....
YOU CANNOT CONTAIN THE GREATNESS OF THE LADLE!!!!
(You know, I don't drink at all ...imagine what'd happen if I did? I'm completely cuckoo sober!) ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:45pm
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You're right though ...it would be taken into evidence.
I've got 2 forks now (turns out the fish slice came in a set with a fork, and I got a fork yesterday too) ...so I'll just jab you with one of those instead! It doesn't worry me if I lose one, since I've a spare. ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:49pm
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fine, just aim for my bum, and see if you can let some of the fat out while you are at it..... ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:49pm
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But at least if the ladle was taken into evidence it would hopefully be kept safe...unless you didn't claim it back and it went up for auction...of course if that happened then one of us could get said ladle. Hmmmm.
Big congratulations Lyla!! Do keep us posted!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 3:52pm
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OMG i think ginger is going to explode! her poor ladle! ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 4:19pm
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*Splat*
------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 4:28pm
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lololol - ok, i have not read the ladle post - but may now have to go and do so just to understand all these random comments!
By the way, CONGRATS!!!!!! ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 7:41pm
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Congratulations!!! You lucky lucky thing sending sticky vibes your way ------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 8:01pm
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Congrats you lucky lucky thing, so jealous!!! ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: tabs
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 8:35pm
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Congratulations that is very exciting and a very sweet way to tell your hubby. ------------- Mum to 4 lovely girls and 2 loved angels http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 8:45pm
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lol,we have just had to tell her that it is only for mummy and daddy, and not to tell anyone else.... can just see her telling her grandma the news!
thanks for your kind wishes girls, am itching to get to the doctor to have it confirmed. Even though we have been trying, dh hasn't been all that fussed/excited about it, until i was talking about the working for families package, and said we would get x amount more when we have 2 kids. he put his hand on my belly and said "stick baby stick" lol. guess he does care..... ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 10:39pm
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Congratulations. Awesome news ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: robyn
Date Posted: 05 May 2006 at 10:54pm
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congratulations, how exciting. I had a strong positive early when I was pregnant with twins, should it be fingers crossed for twins or not twins? good luck at the doctors ------------- KOBE born 19 March 2004 http://www.TickerFactory.com/"> 
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Posted By: k&jsmum
Date Posted: 06 May 2006 at 12:54am
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Hey there congrats. I had a strong positive for my twin boys at about 3 weeks so could be....
Hope all goes well with the doc next week ------------- Marlene Keegan ~ 14 October 2003 Jaidyn ~ 14 October 2003 |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 06 May 2006 at 6:50am
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Congrats! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 06 May 2006 at 7:16am
| congratulations! |
Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 06 May 2006 at 11:43am
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Congratulations Lildo (maybe you wont need the dildo anymore???) Hope you have a happy & healthy 9 months. Cute way to tell DH might need to use xanthe again if there are twins????? ------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 08 May 2006 at 11:02am
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Hehe, all this twin talk - just have to add my two cents worth - got a strong BFP not using FMU at 12dpo, and as we all know, there are two gremlins in here!
Congrats on the BFP! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 08 May 2006 at 6:42pm
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When are you off to the doctor then? ------------- ">
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 08 May 2006 at 7:13pm
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i couldnt get into the doc till wednesday... the wait is killing me! not long to go now. I am going to push for bloods and a scan, i really feel i am further along than my cycle would suggest. i may have had anplantation bleeding instead of a period perhaps?
will let you all know by 10.45 on wednesday morning (well, the confirmation anyway, i dont imagine i will have blood results then hehe) ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: Xander&Harmony
Date Posted: 08 May 2006 at 10:57pm
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Congrats xanthesmum(my son has a xanthe at his daycare) I am very curious as to this ladle business,where would one find the full story??? ------------- BECS http://www.sparklee.com"> 
Angel Baby 10/07/09 (10wks4days) |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 12:18pm
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look under the ttc board, ginger started it. i think the first few posts about it are in girls trying to conceive. hope you can find it, it is funnier and more entertaining than desperate housewifes! ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 1:34pm
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Good luck for tomorrow!! We'll be waiting for the results with baited breath! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 1:45pm
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Ditto from me! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 2:34pm
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Im out of circulation tomorrow so good luck &  sticky vibes &from me------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 2:54pm
| Good luck Chicka!!! |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 4:36pm
| good luck. how come you guys all seem to have to wait days to get a doctors appointment? Is it because you want to see a specific doctor or just that they are really busy up north? |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 09 May 2006 at 6:58pm
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lol, i am in invercargill..... well i guess we are north to bluff, and stewart island. but not much else.
i guess if i had said it was urgent i would have gotten in, but i didnt mind too much waiting. My doc is great, and there is starting to be a shortage of docs around town, so i guess she is getting booked up. ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 8:58am
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*Singing to the tune of 'Teddy Bear's Picnic'
To-day's the day that Lil-do vis-its the doc-tor
Good luck for your appointment! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:15am
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Good luck Lildo!
I have no doubt in my mind that your pregnancy will be confirmed though! ------------- ">
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:51am
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i'm back! and it is confirmed - i am playing host to a parasite.
we still dont know when baby is due though, doc seemed to think my last period was implantation. And i have one of those 'reverted/retroverted/upside down uterus's, so cant check that way.... so i have rang the midwife, waiting to hear back that she can take me, and then will arrange a dating scan. it will be a jan baby though! thanks for all your lovely kind wishes girls, its great being able to share it all with you. ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:55am
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Wohoo!!! Big Congratulations!!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:56am
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Congratulations Lildo!
And I have one of those 'reverted/retroverted/upside down uterus's' too and it is supposed to make it harder to fall pregnant, so I feel increased hope that you are pregnant with the same condition! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:58am
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what are they called? i can never remember........
yay ginger, you better go home and baby dance then, i wonder how many women have them? my mum has it, my mil has it, i think my sil has it. at least it has saved me from an internal lol. ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:58am
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Congratulations Lyla! As soon as you have an EDD, go and add yourself to the Due Date List! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 11:17am
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I think it's actually quite common. My mum has it and my MIL says she has it (but I don't think she's have a clue, really ...she just doesn't like to be left out!)
Yeck ...gotta love those internals  I had one about a year ago when I was having some problems, but the worst of it was the internal ultrasound - I was completely traumatised by that!! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 11:30am
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i dont even want to think of that! what if i need a "vaginal probe" to check on my "parasite" sounds rather x files doesnt it........ do do do doooo ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: shelleybean
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 11:36am
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Yay thats great news welcome aboard. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 11:37am
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Congratulations! and fingers crossed for no probes! ------------- ">
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 11:40am
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thats so sweet of you sarah, bet you say that to all the preggy girls! lol ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 12:00pm
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Oh, I just realised I'd forgotten to add that the proper word is 'retroverted', but I like your combination better Lildo :-) ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 12:16pm
Congratulations!  All the best for the next 9 months! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 12:57pm
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Congrats Lyla! And the internal probes aren't soooooo bad - OK so they're pretty uncomfortable, but you get awesome clear pics of bubs. ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: mellybelly
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 1:03pm
| Congrats Lyla, all the best for a happy and healthy pregnancy. |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 3:00pm
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I got preggers and i have one of those confused uteruses lol it doesnt hinder conception so dont worry ginger
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 3:01pm
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confused? thats even better than what i came up with. ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 3:13pm
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I love it! I have a confused uterus!!
And it is confused too ...it appears to think it's just there to fill space and doesn't seem to have clicked onto the fact that it is there to grow a baby!! 
Stupid uterus ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 3:23pm
| haha im tired i been packing boxes all day and im exhausted and couldnt be bothered typing what it was called lol |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:26pm
| congratulations how exciting! I hate the probe too, fingers crossed you dont need one. |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:46pm
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Another bizarre Jax-ism for you all... I didn't mind the vaginal probe ultrasound one bit ! Had it at the dating scan and again at the nuchal translucency scan, and both times the sonographer used plenty of lube - I wouldn't have thought it was that much bigger than your average penis ? *ahem* MUCH clearer pictures too, especially the very first time. ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 6:17pm
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Ok jax, that post made me step back for a minute. hehehe ------------- ">
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 7:25pm
| ok I admit Im a bit of a prude but I was totally uncomfortable with them sticking it in and even worse in front of my hubby, not painful or anything just felt really embarassed. |
Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 8:52pm
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< language=> guys try internal scans 4 times in 2 and a half weeks YUCK!! I hated it (it was when I had my blighted ovum as it grew a little for a few days). And to think that the first senographer (sp) said to me that its just like a penis hello!! I so know it aint LOL Anyway contrats Lyla & fingers crossed for no probes . ------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 8:55pm
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*wonders whether sonographers would have more 'success' at using the probe if they modeled it after a proper penis?*
Edited to add: *ahem* Anybody have a shovel to help me dig my mind out of the gutter? ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:32pm
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hmmm.... interesting topic to stumble upon!!! ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:39pm
| one of them was surprised when I said i didnt want to put it in myself thanks, I just wanted it over and done with. I think Ive had about 4 fun internals now lucky me |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:26am
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lol jax! perhaps we dont like them because they dont buy us dinner first.... or cuddle after hahahaha ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:45am
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Crikey *thinking back to when I had my internal*
If the husband's ....hrrp hmmm  ...he wouldn't be the husband, that's for sure!! You've got to wonder who, or what!!, that senograher had been shagging Becca!!
Jax ...I think you need more than a spade. Probably at this stage, a bobcat might be more helpful Hehehe------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 6:10pm
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These pregnancy hormones sure do wacky things to your imagination, not that I wasn't a wierdo already LMAO *revs up the Bobcat engine* ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 6:54pm
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or maybe we sould just concrete it in now while we are ahead? ------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 14 May 2006 at 10:20am
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ok, so i have been sprung now. my big bro rang last night enquiring about the new addition to the family. i thought he meant the kitten. but no, someone had seen my postings on this site and told him. So whoever that was, can you please tell me who you are as he wouldnt say, only thing he would say was "you gotta be careful what you put blah blah blah" so who are you that knows me? obviously you hadnt read the posts that i wanted to keep it really quiet from our family after last time....
so today we will have to tell our parents, which i really dont want to do, but if they find out from someone else it will be bad bad bad. I know it is my fault for posting it on here and being open about my name and so on, but i am still gutted that we have to do this. we dont even have a due date yet! *sigh* sorry for being a drag girls, must be hormones lol. |
Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 14 May 2006 at 10:29am
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Lyla, It wasnt me & even if i did know I sure wouldnt go round telling anyone thats rude esp as you had requested that it was kept quiet. And so what if you posted on here the fact is whoever it is I consider them to be very rude and its none of their business whoever they are. I hope that the person is embarressed & ashamed cause as far as Im concerned thats not on. We are here to support each other on the journey and to share our ups & downs and get support as its a dang hard journey to go through, not to go blabbing to other people other peoples business!! ------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 14 May 2006 at 10:32am
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thanks sylvo, thats exactly how i feel. i had planned on telling our siblings by sending them a jellybean in a box, saying hi auntie/uncle, well i will still do that for the others, but i wanted it to be cute. this is the last time we have a baby, so i want to enjoy all of it.
grr, nosy people! |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 14 May 2006 at 11:25am
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I'd be pretty annoyed too, but I can assure you it wasn't me ! I also hope the culprit is ashamed of themselves for blowing your 'cover' so to speak and not even having the guts to come forward - *especially* after you'd asked it to be kept quiet. *hugs* ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 14 May 2006 at 3:10pm
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Oh Lyla, I'm so sorry to hear that someone has been so inconsiderate! Come on, whoever you were, do the decent thing and apologise to Xanthesmum (do it by PM if you're embarrassed, but please do it soon)
It wasn't me... I haven't met anyone from Oh Baby IRL yet (but I sure hope to one day!) ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: hailstones
Date Posted: 14 May 2006 at 5:45pm
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Congrats lil, I couldn't be happier for you. My turn next Aye?
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 8:21am
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WHAT?? WHAT?? Who broke the sacred confessional of OHbaby? That is so not fair, and whoever you are ...Lildo deserves an apology. We should be able to talk freely here ...that's a huge point of having OHbaby. It's kinda creepy too that someone you know has been following your posts online Lildo, without identifying themselves to you.
AND, shame on you for putting Lildo under extra stress and upset when she is in early pregnancy!! That is extremely uncool. If you want - you can have my old ladle to scone them with if you ever find out who it is ...
(Oh, and I'm not making light ...I'm trying to add cheer Just so you know)------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: shelleybean
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 9:35am
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OMG thats shocking we had the samething happen to us and its just not fair. I really do feel you and hubby - its not on. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 11:29am
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thanks for the offer of the ladle ginger, ( i notice its not the new one though, i am glad, would hate to break it or something.... but arent you still using the old one?)
thanks girls for all your support. we told our parents yesterday, i was so upset and spent the morning crying beforehand, but the problems it would cause if they found out some other way would not be worth it. of course, the in laws acted like it was nothing ( no congratulations or NOTHING, GRRR! but that is for another post i think) i told both sets that it is up to us to tell anyone else and we want them to keep quiet about it till we start telling people. hope they got the hint! oh well, midwife appt today, so hopefully we can arrange a scan to see how far along we all are. oh and hi hails! (she is my oldest and bestest bestie in the world, we were each others maid of honours at our weddings this year, i put her onto this site lol) heres hoping we can compare bumps soon aye! |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 2:36pm
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Well, yes I am still using the old ladle Lildo, but, for you ...I'd let you borrow it to dong someone with Mind you ....it's a bit of a crappy ladle, so maybe you might need to borrow the new solid ladle if you want to attack your in laws with it. The ladle would be happy to be used for a worth cause!! (When you're up to it - the full story please!!)
I'm so sorry that it was such an upsetting thing for you to have to spill so early to the family (READ BETWEEN THE LINES WHOEVER CAUSED THE UPSET - YOU ARE AN ASS!! ), but I'm glad that for the most important 'telling' you had a perfect picture (xanthe telling the husband!) (I told my husband what happened to you, and he was really annoyed for you ...he knows how important OHbaby is to me, and for me to be able to talk, so he could appreciate what a crappy thing happened to you!)
I hope you now have an EDD!! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: hailstones
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 3:38pm
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Hi Everyone, guess I should introduce myself, I am Hails as
Lil said We have been Besties for years. . We have both been trying But lil has bet me to the post (or bump).
Just wanted to you know Lil that I def Didn't spill it to D as i knew how important that was to you . And once again your inlaws have me VERY ANGRY , but then that seems typical of them now. However I bet Gramps And Grandma I and B are over the moon .As are we.
Been trying to figure out the charting stuff at the moment, Thanks for putting me onto this site Its been really interesting, and yes I hope we can compare bumps soon too
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 4:01pm
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Oooo ...I like your bestie Lildo
And don't worry ....she bet a fair number of us as well
Charting is easy Hails ...and it's actually kinda fun to see your charts emerge, and reassuring to know that your O'ing and things are ok on that front Good luck with it!!
Poor hubby, now that I've got AF again, is going to be trundling off to the doctor sometime soon to get his 'boys' checked. He's been really good about it though ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 4:14pm
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Well, it wasn't me either, but i do feel the guilts when i read those other posts you guys have made, same as I feel guilty when I drive past a police car... (you know, when you know you haven't done anything wrong, but think you might look sus anyway..) ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: hailstones
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 4:36pm
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Thanks Ginger. And from what I hear your dh hasn't got to much to worry about, another very good friend is going through I.V.F at the moment (she told me yesterday she has 12 eggs YEAH!!) and she informs me that it isn't too invasive for the male, infact as always they seem to be let off pretty darn easily.
Although my friend said getting him tested was half the battle so if he is willing to be tested thats awesome.
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 4:48pm
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My worry if I ever get pulled over or pull up to a police checkpoint is that I might know the officers running it ! LOL *ahem*
And I just had a thought, you HAVE to be registered to read and post here... I know we have a few lurkers, but we do hear from them every now and then. Anyway, for you Lildo, and nice to meet you Hails... ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Phat_Cat
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 5:04pm
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Hey Hails, Nice to meet you too, perhaps we should name you double trouble?? soundslike it anyways LOL Ginger - I too have to get DH to do another sample & my next appointment is to see if we do qualify for IVF. DH is a bit guttered to have to do another s/a he was hoping that in the 3 months in between appointments I would get up the duff to let him off the hook but obviously mother nature has other intentions (nasty but i LOVE her *snigger, snigger*) they have it sooooo easy in comparision < language=> ------------- Tristen - 24/06/07 Rylan - 11/12/08 Angel Babies -14/08/05 & 21/01/2010 Curtis - 26/02/12 |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 8:00am
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That's what I think too ....admittedly, he didn't even bat an eyelid when I (very carefully!) told him why we needed to look at him first, to exclude him. He just said he'd have to abstain for a week ...so he'd be ready to produce a sample wherever he had to!! That's my boy !!
So ...he'll toddle off to the doctor as soon as he feels ready, and then we'll wait until after we've been to Fiji (another 3 months or so) until we take it to the next step. ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 9:19am
ooh i get that too! if anything goes wrong at work or something i get the guilts - same with the cops too, although that is much better now that we have a radar detecter i the car lol Midwife was good, got my form for a scan, so will arrange that. i was nearly sick at work last night, so i may have let the cat out of the bag there... i mean i have had this "virus" since anzac day! |
jacobsmama wrote:Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 9:53am
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You have an internal parasite Lildo ...it's a long term thing too ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 11:09am
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He he he... a parasite!! When I was young, we'd studied babies in science class at school and the teacher (pregnant at the time she was) told us that a baby is technically a parasite, but she didn't mean that in a cruel way. I went home and told my mum about how I thought that was interesting, and her friend, then pregnant but hadn't told people yet, took great offense...
now, well over a decade later, when she heard of my baby news, she reminded me about the 'parasite' comment that she appears to have hung onto for years and YEARS!!! Far out - talk about holding a grudge! Anyway, Lil - I'm feelin' for you!! That's terrible when someone spills the news for you. I was just thinking, it mightn't even be someone you know from a bar of soap. A friend of mine was telling me the name of her friend's son, and it's an uncommon name to appear here, so when I saw his and the mum's name on this site, I realised she's the same lady... friend of a friend. I wouldn't follow her posts or anything creepy like that, because she and I don't know each-other and it's a bit stalker-styles, and also , I didn't know you could do that! Nor would I tell our mutual friend what I'd read on here, because that's just nasty-old-fashioned gossip, and I'd be so embarrassed and angry if someone did that to me! If the opportunity came up I'd introduce myself, so that should we ever meet there wouldn't be any awkwardness. Anyway, I just wanted to give you a heads-up that it mightn't be a friend who's busted your news - could be some random person who happens to know your bro and put 2 & 2 together. (no, I'm not that random person by the way!!!). Hope you get some peace of mind by them fessing. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 11:28am
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Hmmmm ....you seem to have that all worked out Andie ...are you sure it wasn't you? Da da da dummmmm..... Because, you know, I'd have to bash you with my ladle if it was
Hehe. I can't remember how the parasite thing came up for me actually, it's just what I and the husband call them! It must've been something we picked up on one of those 'body' programmes or somrthing. But it's quite true really ...an expectant mother becomes a host organ for 9 months give or take when you think about it! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 12:17pm
| i think it was on the show "house" he told a lady that she was playing host to a parasite, but it would leave in about 9 months ( or something along those lines) i love it! describes things perfectly... |
Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 12:35pm
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I have had NO TIME to post or even read on here all weekend!! Our home PC died at the end of last week and the hubby is having a hard time diagnosing and fixing the problem so I have been reduced to only reading/posting during work hours and it has been crazy busy!!
Xanthesmum - it wasn't me cos I don't even know you but I have to confess that I did tell my sister that one of the girls on Oh Baby had a BFP but I dont think she knows you either I told her that before I called you a nsty name for getting pregnant before me LOL
I am totally shocked and actually a bit worried about what I will post on here now after that has happened. You never know who could be lurking... ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 1:01pm
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Yes Lildo that's it!! I remember now!! Good ol' House! ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 1:25pm
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...now I'm scared about that ladle!!! he he... nah, wasn't me, I'd just been giving some thought to the whole anonymity thing because usually I'm pretty careful about that and wouldn't normally even post anything on any site!!
Methinks I'd better go introduce myself to this nice lady... friend of a friend... so if you haven't had a PM from me by tomorrow it ain't you!! ------------- Andie |
Posted By: Alan & Bubbles Mummy
Date Posted: 17 May 2006 at 2:50pm
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Just wanted to let you all know it was deffently not Andie it seem's I am the friend of a friend. Thanks for letting me know by the way Andie I must say I would have been a little concerned if I had found out later and said something nasty about the friend (not that i would ever have anything nasty yo say about her), but you know whatI mean. I must say who ever you are that spilt the bean's you should be ashamed as it puts a damper on the whole thing for eveyone I for one am going to be alot more careful what I write. I have been pretty open with my name etc that I forget there are heaps of people reading these that don't actually post. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 17 May 2006 at 2:52pm
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mmm yeah. only sometimes do I forget not to use names when talking aobut DH, stepson etc... would be easy for people to put 2 and 2 together (and get 77) ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |