How would you feel...
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Topic: How would you feel...
Posted By: Jay_R
Subject: How would you feel...
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 6:17pm
| ..... if you found out that your ex - that you had JUST split from is in a relationship with a woman 15 years younger than him???? |
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Posted By: jaycee
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 6:41pm
well pi$$ed off. and the age gap too -------------   
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Posted By: My3Sons
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 6:43pm
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ARGH!! ------------- Mum to Mr 10, Mr 6 and Mr 4 
 
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Big hugs
Posted By: Jay_R
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 6:46pm
LOL, thought that might be the case 
I actually knew about it before we split - it was part of the reason we did.... but I didn't realise they were full on, so to speak until quite recently. |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 6:59pm
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Yeah I would be really effed of thats for sure.
Big hugs sweetie. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: FreeSpirit
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 6:59pm
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What a skank. I hope you point out to him its like your son turning 15 and dating a newborn - only happens in third world countries! You'll be so much better off without him. ------------- http://www.babysfirstsite.com"> 
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Posted By: fire_engine
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 7:41pm
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Dittoing everyone else's comments and expletives ------------- Mum to two wee boys |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 7:51pm
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Good Riddance! She's welcome to him. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 7:53pm
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How would I feel ?
hurt, angry , humiliated and Id be going round to his house and planting prawns in his curtains *hugs * hun , he doesnt deserve you ------------- 
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Posted By: Chickaboo
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 8:23pm
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well girl you gotta think 'More fooled her' cause whatever he did to you he sure will do to her.
Big hugs though cause its gotta hurt hun ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 8:28pm
 What a jerk! You are so much better off without him ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: sally belly
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 8:32pm
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Yip, gotta agree with what the others have so wisely said.
Good riddance to bad rubbish I say, and hugs to you because you deserve so much better -------------    
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 8:58pm
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Bloody hell!!!!!!! I would be GUTTED that he had even "moved on" so quickly.
If it makes you feel any more "normal" tho, I know of 8 split marriges of friends and rellies in the last 6 months and ALL, yes, ALL of the men had new partners/GF's/F-Buddies within a few weeks, literally of the slpit. Gutting. Even if its over as over and even if it was you that ended it, it must still BITE. Hugs to you, Darling xxx ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: bext1
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 9:09pm
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Hugs, that would hurt like hell.
I would wonder if he was having a mid life crises!! and she must be a real daddy lover ew... Kia Kaha ------------- 
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Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 9:21pm
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I would be thinking that someone was in the throes of a mid life crisis and would most likely come crawling back to you in the not too distant future...
Hugs hun. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 9:21pm
Oh snap bext1! I didn't read the responses before I replied  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Peanut
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 9:48pm
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Just proves really that men can't cope on their own .
Really sorry to hear thou. Its really gutting and def plays on your mind 24/7! Hugs! -------------  
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Posted By: Natalie_G
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 10:02pm
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It just means it was never ment to be.
I would be hurt because it is so quick, but he sounds like a person who will never settle down. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 10:47pm
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I would think he was pathetic and count my lucky stars that I had come to my senses and got rid of the muppet. Don't take it on board or personally- he's the one that looks like a t**ser. Reminds me of those balding middle aged men who buy convertibles- them and their balding middle aged friends are the only one who thinks they look cool, EVERYONE else thinks they look sad. ------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 6:53am
i so agree what a toser ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Jennz wrote:Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 7:56am
| I agree with Annie - as in I would be Gutted....but eventually think how lucky I was to be rid of him. and possibly when I saw him and her be narky and ask how her NCEA results were? |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 9:37am
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lol liz!
how would i feel? hurt, betrayed, angry
my first thought was 'mid life crisis' ......what an arse!! be thankful he is now her problem and not yours.....you deserve so much better ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Jay_R
Date Posted: 19 January 2009 at 5:43pm
LOL Liz, thats AWESOME
I was/am gutted. And quite disgusted too. I pointed out to him that she was closer in age to his daughter than she is to him.... Didn't get a kind response to that
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