Oka little embarrassing
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Topic: Oka little embarrassing
Posted By: toniellis
Subject: Oka little embarrassing
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:04pm
Just had a bit of an afternoon "roll in the hay" with my man and now I've got cramps 
They don't feel anything like the braxton hicks I've been getting or anything, just a dull constant cramp. Is that normal?? I don't want to ring my midwife coz I already have today and its the one I really HATE (I usually see any 1 of 3 midwives). I've taken a couple of panadol but so far it hasn't done anything & its supposed to be the "rapid" stuff so not really sure what to do now. ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
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Posted By: mrs frantic
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:07pm
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labour maybe??? sorry i have no idea really ...but maybe (they say that sex brings on labour too!) ??? how exciting!! ------------- Mrs Frantic Baby Maddisyn born 28 Sept 2006 http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:08pm
| first of all good on you but how? well I know how of course but man thats the last thing I feel like these days, couldnt think of anything worse to be honest!!! but anyway is it at the top or bottom or your stomach? could it be left over ummm orgasim type spasms if that makes sense and isnt TMI. Someone else had these sort of problems a wee while ago I think and went to the hospital but apparentl baby had just packed a sad at the bouncing around and rolled into a wee ball or something, the thread is around somewhere |
Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:14pm
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Ok I don't think its labour coz its just a dull steady ache, not coming & going or anything...and besides I'm pretty positive this baby is going to be late like his brother was.
LMAO I'm always keen for a roll in the hay...usually don't since the tummy gets in the way though. The cramp is low down just like period pain. Its not too bad but painful enough to notice it ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:18pm
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I wouldnt worry unless it starts coming and going like contractions. I often have a dull ache at the bottom of my stomach but cant blame it on having a good time like you.
This baby is way to active it would feel way to weird to have sex with the baby kicking around! |
Posted By: mrs frantic
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:18pm
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hmmm i have never heard of such a thing - but I am a novice at thios so I assume any pain or twinge at you stage is labour LOL! Can you imagine how rediculous I will be when I get to 37 weeks - I will be calling teh midwife every 5 minutes LOL! ------------- Mrs Frantic Baby Maddisyn born 28 Sept 2006 http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AnnaD
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:19pm
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I get orgasm spasms too... both last time and this time round!! Maybe it is just a uterus-clenching type thing? I am sure you and bub will be fine!! ------------- Anna and Quinn 10 July 2004 www.quinnariki.blogspot.com and one more on the way.... http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:26pm
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Lol I know I'm being a big wuss but I really hate all this uncomfiness in pregnancy.
I wish it was labour...oh god do I wish it was labour!!! I've so had it with being pregnant, I want him out & in his own cot instead of sharing my body & booting the bugger out of me! It does feel weird doing the wild thing at this stage, I haven't had cramp like this before but I'm sure it will be fine, I just need to whinge I guess 
------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:52pm
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Probably from ORGASMS!!!Everything settling back down again in there!
Good on you girl! -------------  
 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:54pm
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ohh labour vibes ,labour vibes ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Dashone
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 6:43pm
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I get that. It's really annoying and can last for a while. I walk around cause if i sit still it's really sore. -------------  
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 6:45pm
| OMG I didn't realise how close you aer Toni! |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:26pm
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i remember having pain after sex in the late stages with my daughter too. i did mention it to my midwife and she said that it was probably due to using muscles that were already stretched to the max. it was a very period cramp type feeling for me too. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:45pm
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Yep I had that too Toni. Dont know how long it lasted for afterwards tho... ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: k&jsmum
Date Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:28pm
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i had the period type cramps and and my midwife said i was just sore as i was getting big with the boys....ends up i was in labour so heres hoping for you too.
PS quite a few of my friends have talked about the period type pain before labour too of course i didnt find this all out until after i had the boys!!!!  ------------- Marlene Keegan ~ 14 October 2003 Jaidyn ~ 14 October 2003 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 8:38am
I had WICKED pains after sex too but that didn't stop me, LOL, I used to be sore for a whole day after! So I would say it is normal  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 9:20am
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How the H$#@ did you guys get your man to "Roll in the hay" with you at the later stage?....mine wa tooo scared that he would hurt the baby!!!! Arrggggg.
Sorry cant help...never had this situation! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:06am
LOL Roksana! First time pregnant I actually asked my midwife to tell Spencer it was "OK" to do the wild thing!! 
She even told him it is actually good for the muscles down there so he had no excuses to not put out
Anyway, I had a lovely warm bath and the crampy feeling went away so I'm guessing it was just another one of those lovely pregnancy aches & pains. ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:06am
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Yah well...I tried that...he told me that it was at the back of his mind so he cant get in to the mood to have "relations".....%$#@ &^%$#%$
Hey I love this...so far we have "Relations" "Roll in the hay" "Wild thing" He he ha ha ha  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:22am
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Oh thats a bit of a bummer for you Roksana.
My first pregnancy I was always keen for a good shag (lol there's another one to put on the list!) but this time around I'm like "yeeaaahhhh I suppose...." I just can't be bothered too much & my belly gets in the way. ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: kellverona
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:34am
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Last time my partner and I got together I got cramping pains too. Neverhad sex again since. It was very uncomfortable. They went away after about an hour or so. ------------- http://pregnancyplanet.net/tickers/"> 
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 12:06pm
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??? how long are you planning on going without sex for? either your guy is really sensitve to how you feel or my guy is a neanderthol....
------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe -  my big 4 year old 
and Jordis - 1 year old 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 1:22pm
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Well the thing is that I had a really bad bleed at 18 weeks and had a big pouch of blood sitting above my placenta. Doc said no action till that goes away....it took several weeks.....finally when we could roll in hay my hubby was too scared that I would bleed again. The problem was that I wanted to roll around all the time.....oh well....
Good on all of you who still get somthng somthng at later stages!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 6:08pm
| I just feel to weird now there are definately 3 in the equation. once baby started kicking that was it for us in the bedroom department. Hubby doesnt mind at all, he feels the same way as me in fact its probably more him than me that doesnt want to do the deed. |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:36pm
| See I wish I'd had a husband or a boyfriend or some time of male figure who could have helped me through pregnancy. It drove me nuts!!!! |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 10:22am
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I know what you mean, Nikki! I get so increadably (sp?) horny from about this point in each pregnancy...
Kiya's father did a runner 6 weeks later... AAAGGGHHH!!!
I was still bleeding on and off with Josiah, and we didn't know why so we were being careful about EVERYTHING... AAGGHHH!!!
But I haven't bled this time since week 4 - and I've jumped Nat twice in the last two days! It's all good! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: mrs frantic
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 10:27am
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humph! I wish I was as keen! I feel like someone took my sex drive out the back and beat it to death! I think its got to do with my body image - i dont feel sexy at all! I dunno, but I am missing wanting it - and I am sure dh is feeling it too although he hasnt been too pushy so far... ------------- Mrs Frantic Baby Maddisyn born 28 Sept 2006 http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 1:47pm
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i'm feeling much the same mrs frantic. its hard to get into it when you feel so self concious about the way you're looking. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:13pm
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I had a brief sex kitten minx thing a few weeks ago but that seems to have dried up.
Lucky for me hubby is very understanding! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:15pm
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Oh and it's not that it hurts it's just that I have NO motivation! *sigh* ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:21pm
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I think I used up all of my "sex kitten minx" thing in the first and second trimesters lol
But hubby feels a bit "weirded out" when we're only having a cuddle and bubs kicks him, I wonder what would happen if the "relations" started up again? lol ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 
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Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:35pm
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My sex drive has come back....Mind you I never initiate it!!! Enjoy it tho and dont get any cramps or pain....
Just the old tightening in the yum from "O"s!!! All good. Endorphins are great! -------------
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 5:05pm
i've completely lost my mojo! 
its not that i'm worried about how i look, i've always got a flabby tum, but it's just not comfortable for me mostly
i think my last 8-10wks with jack were the 'busiest' times
poor dean, he's so hard done by  ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:15pm
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Been feeling horny as, planning to jump poor Rols tonight *evil chuckle* !!!!! ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:17pm
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GO GIRL!!!
Get that boy moving! Its so bloody cold..need something to warm up. I am at work so have taken the FOOD option...AGAIN! -------------
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 8:17pm
i,m with nickki i whished like mad that there was a man around it drove me nuts at times ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 12 May 2006 at 9:40pm
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Lol well I think no more "friendly cuddles" in this household. They seem to trigger all the aches & niggles and then nothing happens!! I'm going insane! I keep thing "oh yes maybe this is it!" because all the pains come & even start getting a pattern to them and then they just stop ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 9:54am
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He he ha ha ....you guys are soooo funny!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 10:25am
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Poor old Willie hasn't had any loving since we found out we were preg. I thought I'd get over the whole fear of m/c thing after first tri, but now he is too scared of hurting the babies, and plus I think my belly would get in the way already.
Funny thing is with Maya we just kept on as usual. I think I worry much more these days... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 3:19pm
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Well Emma...you do have TWO to think of this time around!!!! However 25 weeks of no action might get a bit too much huh? ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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