Why now?Stress?
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Topic: Why now?Stress?
Posted By: Kelpa
Subject: Why now?Stress?
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 5:59pm
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I have had an awful day. My other half has caused a major stress to pop up in my "generally going along happily" pregnant life and I am really feeling like Poo and dont want to speak to him much!
I got so upset and angry - yelled at him down the phone for ten minutes and feel hurt. I ended up crying for an hour and a half and are on the verge of tears whenever anyone here at work talks to me!!! Why is it that some people choose really stupid times in our life to do silly things? Sorry just needed to blurt that out as I am sitting at work and there is no one here to talk to! I am really worried cause I get concerned that yelling at me getting angry and stuff will upset the Baby!! Oh dear! -------------  
 
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Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 6:00pm
Well the people at work are our Corporate Customers and I dont think they would understand!!
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 6:08pm
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AGH MEN. Sorry he is being such a pratt. I say do none of his washing and withhold relations for a few weeks.
Dont worry about the bubba everything is sooo noisy in your tum im sure none of your rant was heard ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 8:57pm
| I hope you are having a better evening and have sorted your other half out |
Posted By: linda
Date Posted: 15 May 2006 at 9:36pm
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I use to really worry about how stress would effect my babies as I have a very stressful job but that was ok...it was the stress I was getting from my business partner that really affected me. I was sure I'd end up with a stressed out baby but Harry turned out to be the most relaxed baby out....so you just don't know!
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 9:54am
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Kelly...you mentioned that he did some thing stupid financially right? well he could not possibly out do my darling hubby!!
Your bub will be just fine but just remember that when you stress bub stresses....so tho it is hard...try not to stress. What ever it is ....can be sorted. In our case the hard way and with allot of running around from my part....but can be sorted. So take care of your self!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 10:08am
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What damage does stress cause on babies?
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Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 10:26am
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I have heard, that a relaxed pregnant mum can create a relaxed baby, so reverse could be true also? ------------- "> 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 10:42am
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I dont think is causes any damage but is makes the baby restless. You see I was going thru hell in my relationship when I was pregnant and I can see how Zaara is a bit restless now. Other than that I say nothing horrible. Dont worry! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 11:27am
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Awwww Kelpa, I hope you feel better soon. Preggy hormones suck - almost as much as stupid, insensitive male-type creatures!
Don't worry too much about the stress on bubs tho - when I was preg with Maya Willie and I separated, I spent time in a womens refuge, we got back together, my FIL died, Willie cheated on me (more than once), and my grandfather died and she was such a cruisy baby, so all the stress I was under obvioulsy didn't affect her at all! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 11:42am
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Thanks you guys. My day isnt much better. Have talked to my boss and she has been really nice.
I dont know why but I just get worried so much about yelling and crying and all that...Its makes me worse!!! I had such a cruisy time with Paige and everything was nice and calm inc my then husband..This time things are becoming different and its not nice!  -------------
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 11:57am
Tell your boss you need to go home for a rest... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 12:00pm
As Emma said....all the stress might not affect your baby at all....so please dont worry. And I agree go home and relax.  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: kellverona
Date Posted: 16 May 2006 at 2:35pm
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Hope you feeling better now Kelly.
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Posted By: kellverona
Date Posted: 18 May 2006 at 4:18pm
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Hey thought Id jut add this in. Caught the end of good morning or what ever the show was this morning and a lady was saying stress does not harm baby and it actually gets the blood flow going. I wouldnt worry too much. ------------- http://pregnancyplanet.net/tickers/">
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