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Topic: panic panic panic lol
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Subject: panic panic panic lol
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 10:43am
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I cant sleep at night, I have dreams about the wedding and nightmares about things going horribly wrong!(had one the other night that DF left me at the alter lol)!
Im getting butterflys in my chest, excitement and nerves! Im in no way getting cold feet, I think the reality has hit me that Im getting married in 5 days!! 5 days!! omg! lol **breathe** ------------- |
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 10:54am
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*Breathe in... Breathe out......*
I had those dreams too. They are awful! I also had one where the photographer never turned up! I think I got about 3 hours sleep the night before the wedding, I ended up getting up and taking a few shots of whisky just so I could relax and sleep. Obviously not something that you could help you though 
Ooooh how exciting. Everyone seems to be getting married! ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 10:58am
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haha! Id LOVE to take a couple of shots of vodka or something the morning of the wedding, but that wont be happening hehe
I know the photographer will show up, as thats my MIL  but Im worried that Im going to trip over or my hayfever is going to be really bad, or that I'll have wind pain in my tummy, cos I get that every night when Im pregnant Will have to eat Quickeze all day! lol
I think planning the wedding pregnant and with an 8 month old had caught up with me and Im exausted  So this week, I need to relax and not worry! lol------------- |
Posted By: TraceyA
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 11:18am
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When you put Caden to bed, take 20 minutes to just sit quietly with some relaxing music and just concentrate on breathing in and breathing out.
I dreamt that my DH wasn't going to turn up or that he did and then walked out during the ceremony. Well it's our 5 year anniversary in 2 weeks so he obviously stuck around The dreams are normal, especially if your pregnant which can make them that much more intense. I had originally thought DH and I would spend the night in different places and then not see each other till the day, instead I couldn't let him sleep away from me and ended up kicking him out of the house at about 4.30am so I could start getting ready 
It really would be good for you to find some time to just relax though. Good luck. ------------- TTC #2 |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 12:02pm
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Thats a good idea Tracey
Actually, last night when I got into bed, and picked my book up I felt so relaxed as soon as my head hit the pillow, I said to DF, its the best feeling getting into bed at night, cos Caden is asleep and I have nothing to do, and I can fully relax! So a few nights this week i will retreat to the bedroom and read my book in peace, no tv or anything and try to relax. ------------- |
Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 12:49pm
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yeah i had those dreams, i had one where my bridesmaids turned ur in the wrong dresses, and i always dreamed about falling over, or something that involved the MIL. ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel  07/08/2014
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Posted By: clover
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 1:04pm
| Oh I remember so well......the worst I had was when I had a dream that my mother had organised my entire wedding, and it was this mass wedding at a local park with like 30 ceremonies going on at the same time and you had to wander around and find your groom and guests. |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 1:23pm
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hehe summerlamb, oh gosh I had one a few months back, that it was the day of the wedding and we all forgot about it, and there was like nothing done, we had to get everything and hadnt sent out invites!
The only thing we had done was organize the celebrant lol. The night I had the dream that DF left me at the alter i woke up almost crying and angry and banging my arms around, DF was like "what ARE you doing and whats wrong" LOL this was like 5am or something haha But everything IS sorted hehe, just the music to suss out now...Im picking the cake up Thursday, was going to get it friday (13th) but ahhh NAH not risking that even though I dont believe in all that "bad luck" stuff lol. Dad is fully paying for the party hire stuff and the food this week so we dont have worry about that on the day. Dad is picking up the flowers Saturday morning...and thats about it! I think in my head its seems more stressful than it actually is/will be ya know? ------------- |
Posted By: clover
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 1:59pm
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Oh and the other weird dream I had was that one of my bridesmaids turned up on the day with her friend and said that she had told her friend that she could be a bridesmaid too. I apparently had no problem with this and was running around trying to get another BM dress on the day of the wedding....
It sounds like you've got everything sussed. As long as you've got your celebrant, your marriage licence and your groom the rest doesn't really matter. |
Posted By: CuriousG
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 2:15pm
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If its a hot day, make sure you have stuff to drink for yourself. I was about the same as you pregnancy wise and I didn't have anything to drink during the photos etc and was getting very grumpy because of it.
You will be fine. It all flows pretty well on the day as long as you don't want it to stick to a tight schedule. Go with the flow. Relax now too. HUGE congrats - 5 days to go. Enjoy! (cant wait to see the pics!) ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: shadowfeet
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 2:28pm
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I had those dreams too, I'm a creatively vivid dreamer anyway, so I woke up some mornings terrified. Mine included mass murder scenarios etc. None of my disastrous dreaming turned out to be true though, and we had a great day. I wish you all the best for your wedding and hope it turns out awesome ------------- 
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Posted By: flakesitchyfeet
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 2:39pm
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Its gonna be awesome!!
I had those type dreams too - weird! -------------  http://lilypie.com"> |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 3:15pm
hahaha Im sure you will hehe
Im going to take water and snacks with me when we have our photo's done MIL spoke to me about that yesterday when we went looking at places to do the pics.
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Posted By: Cassie
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 3:25pm
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it'll be fine! those dreams are a pain even though totally normal - my worst one was that at our engagement party DH decided that he wanted a sex change!! lol he went from being a skinny white boy to being a rather large samoan lady - so bizarre! I made him promise me that he was totally happy as a man when i woke up lol.
hope the day goes off well and that the weather is lovely for you! ------------- ~Cassie~   
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 3:51pm
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Oooh not long to go now!! How exciting! Sounds like you have everything sorted though so you can relax and look forward to your day I had bizarre dreams leading up to my wedding too ... the same ones about having nothing ready on the day and ending up getting married in our hotel room while all the guests were waiting at the venue ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 7:25pm
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LOL about the weird dreams before your wedding. I had them too, and was telling my friend at work about one I had, and she told me to write it down so I don't forget it and can look back later on. So I did, and I'm GLAD I did cos I've totally forgotten now what it was about but know I can go back to my wedding planning book and read it. It was a funny dream and really weird!
Anyway... RELAX as much as possible this week so you're not too tired on the day and get everyone to look after YOU ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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.Posted By: MissAngel
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 7:50pm
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lol! I couldnt wait for it all to be over >.< :P ------------- Alex, Thomas and Lily http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 09 March 2009 at 9:02pm
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You'll be fine .
I was very relaxed on my wedding day , only time I thought "now this could be fun " was when Caitlyn got chocolate on her white flower girl dress ( I just bunged it in the washing machine and put it in the drier ) I just figured everything would come together on the day ------------- 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 10 March 2009 at 12:01am
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I'll be fine on the day Im super excited about it, its just all be a bit overwhelming the last few weeks, Im exausted.
I wont say ill be relaxed on the day lol, not until I start walking down the aisle then after that, it will all be a breeze hehe.
Just normal pre wedding jitters going on over here me thinks! Im glad to know that lots of other people had random dreams are their wedding going wrong and stuff lol, I wake up in such a panic until i realise its all good and it was a dream! kelly, you looked stunning on your wedding day hun ------------- |
Posted By: gypsynita
Date Posted: 10 March 2009 at 8:42am
yep i had weird dreams too (i was 8 weeks pg on my day)... worst one was that I showed up to the ceremony naked!!! talk about mortifying 
i'm sure you'll have an awesome day Sheza - do we get to see piccies??  ------------- Anita Mum to Cian (Aug 08), Josh (Jun 10) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 10 March 2009 at 9:32am
aw thanks hun , I bet your gonna look gorgeous !
not long to go , so excited for you -------------
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