Im so useless !
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Topic: Im so useless !
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: Im so useless !
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:07pm
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Seriously, despite my house being spotless 2 weeks ago its now messy again , so much for my keeping it tidy !
and Im too lazy atm to enthusiastically play with Caitlyn and im a terrible wife, poor DH has made dinner 3 nights in a row because im too tired to make it, even tho i've been at home all week while hes been out working ANNND , I look at my wedding pics now, and all I see is a girl with big sticky out teeth and think I look hideous . Good grief, whats up with me ??  ------------- 
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Posted By: flakesitchyfeet
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:11pm
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hubby got home from work last night at 930, I made him get up to Hollie at 5 am. I want to change the colour of my bridesmaids dresses, I got married 2 years ago! Mum has asked me to do the dishwasher and hang out a load, I'm to lazy to do that. I can't iron hubbys shirts and he has a desk job. I'm a useless wife. You have to very valid excuses, unlike me :) 1 ~ You're pregnant -------------  http://lilypie.com"> |
Posted By: flakesitchyfeet
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:19pm
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Oh, and from what I can tell you are an awesome Mum and I've seen the photos, you are a gorgeous bride!!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> |
Posted By: jazzy
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:25pm
hee hee, well DH had a fit this morning that I had not sewed on a button on 1 of his 100s of shirts so I gently reminded him who does what, so he has rung several times today to say SORRY & that he can sew it on himself.
I will do it along with the other 1001things I have to do, so I don't consider myself useless but tired, under paid blah, blah oh & he new I was no Suzie home-maker before the ring went on my finger, hee hee 
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Posted By: jazzy
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:30pm
forgot to add caitlynsmygirl don't bet yourself up we all have days, weeks like that & you can be a bit "lazy" more like tired & stressed, when PG & not feel guilty about it, so enjoy
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 1:06pm
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Kelly, you are PREGNANT!!! I felt like that too. Serious case of Cant be arsed doing anything!!! Still have it to a certain degree. I think tiredness has a lot to do with it. Never underestimate just how much a pregnancy takes out of you....and you have just had a wedding.
DH makes most of our dinners and when he comes in he will bring in the washing etc if its needed. He understands ( I hope) that some days I dont even get the washing out of the machine.
The way I look at it is....if he comes home and both kids are still alive, preferably fed at some stage during the day and have been clothed (again at sometime as they often arent all day...nudey bums) then my job is done. Anything else is a bonus. |
Posted By: surfergirl
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 1:26pm
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Kelly - I can't help on the house work thing because I guarantee I'm worse! BUT on the wedding pics...I HATED mine when I saw them - saw all my faults and made up some I didn't even have. I have seen the pics you posted in the photos section and I think you look lovely - very pretty and very happy. I've now been married 4 years and I love my wedding photos, it was just (as someone said) post wedding blues. (if you want to have a look at my pics they're on FB - and you are one of my friends - as you can see there's nothing wrong with them, but sh*t I cired for DAYS about how awful they were....) And if all else fails blame being pregnant! |
Posted By: jjands
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 2:01pm
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ur weding pics are beautiful! You are gogeuous so don't even think like that. And yeh your preggers and it's tiring and thats just life they tell me it gets better DD is reading a book coz I'm not motivated either I've got 3 loads of ashing to fold and u just reminded me bout dinner. But I aint getting off the couch juuuuust yet :) chin u chic your awesome
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Posted By: Glow
Date Posted: 18 March 2009 at 4:06pm
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Don't sweat the small stuff hun. & you do not look hideous!
Pregnancy takes alot out of you. Rest lots & take advantage of being preggy 
Im sure you have many other uses ------------- Mummy of Two Boys B: 2004 K: 2007 |
Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 19 March 2009 at 9:39am
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Meh, what are you talking about, you are gorgeous!
I know what you mean, I have those days. I hated my wedding photos. I still look at them now and cringe. I have a double chin in most of them  And I had really bad acne and you can see it in all of them.
------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 19 March 2009 at 12:22pm
| post wedding blues and being pregnant..dont always make for feeling on top of the world.. i'm sure your husband doesnt mind too much, after all he married you knowing who you were! |
Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 19 March 2009 at 2:58pm
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Ditto what everyone else has said! You are pregnant so have the perfect excuse, as well as post wedding blues. You are beautiful and I have always thought of you as a great mother! ------------- 
 
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I think we all have those days!Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 19 March 2009 at 5:47pm
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Awww kelly!!!!! **hugs** dont worry I feel EXACTLY the same way!
I havent cooked dinner in ages, DF is always complaining that we havent had a "decent" dinner in ages, so I feel like a bad wife, the house is a frekaing mess, the bedroom is a tip! I havent done any washing since b4 the wedding, I feel useless and Im dead tired
I also look at my wedding pics and think I look washed out and tired in some of them and I HATE my teeth, I hate hate hate them  So MIL has done a lot of tweaking in the photo's to make me look radiant and my teeth white.
Kelly, I think you looked stunning in your wedding pictures, you can hardly tell your pregnant, only reason I can tell is cos I know you are lol. You have a beautiful smile and you look radiant and SO happy **hugs** ------------- |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 March 2009 at 10:21pm
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Awww thanks guys ,you make me feel so much better, Im glad im not the only one who may not be in the running for wife of the year ....
And thanks for the compliments on how nice I looked, guess we all have days like that . pah , sheena , as for you , if you think someone as pretty as yourself is ugly , what hope is there for the rest of us ? your gorgeous babe , you know that -------------
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Posted By: Hayzie
Date Posted: 20 March 2009 at 12:17am
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Isn't he now DH not DF Sheena?
And you all looked gorgeous. ------------- 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 20 March 2009 at 11:39am
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ahh crap LOL I keep doing that, yep he is DH now lol.
hehe kelly, I guess everyone see's themselves differently, i think im a plain jane ------------- |
Posted By: sweetpea
Date Posted: 20 March 2009 at 1:03pm
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Oh dear as someone else has said it sounds like most wedding blues. You see we spend soo much time planning and organising that very big day that after its all over we feel while for lack of a better word flat. It will pass in time try to focus on the good things about the day or what you like about yourself remember evryone has bits of them we don't like.
the way i see it is its good for Dh or DF to be doing something at home afterall we are usually the ones that do it all so sit back relax and let him do things for a change enjoy it. |