What grates you..
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Topic: What grates you..
Posted By: Glow
Subject: What grates you..
Date Posted: 03 April 2009 at 2:56pm
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about your children? And what ways do you deal with it or keep sane?
For me: DS1 is extreamly shy, has antiexty issues & fears galore lol oh & the whining argh  
DS2 it has to be his agressiveness & the dangermouse type situations he gets into 
To keep sane I try to get out of the house everyday & do something with my boys, in a social setting or something simillar, although that is when their disruptive behaviours' peak  I find it helps me to have someone to talk to anyway ------------- Mummy of Two Boys B: 2004 K: 2007 |
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Posted By: jjands
Date Posted: 03 April 2009 at 4:01pm
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DD screams all the time at the moment to stay sane I try to make DH deal with it. But now he's taking it out on me so I got no clue
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Posted By: LouD
Date Posted: 03 April 2009 at 6:58pm
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My lovely DS who is turning 5 is a real push over and just wants to please my friends kids all the time and is always thinking of them and wanting to save treats for them etc.
Its a great trait to have, but i would rather he do that to me.........nah just kidding, i would rather he do it to someone that shows appreciation to him and not expect it like everyone should bow down and do anything to please .............i worry that he will do sooooo much to please them and they will in turn just expect it to happen. or treat him like dirt.........we are always telling him that he doesnt always need to save his lollies for them etc...........I just can see what will happen in his future he will have NO back bone and get walked all over by little hussys! I want to protect my boy but at the same time i want him to be able to protect himself from being TOO nice |
Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 03 April 2009 at 10:07pm
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The stupid voice that Alia has started using
not sure how to stop her doing it or why she is doing it, all I know is that it annoys me ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com"> 
A = 01.02.04 & C = 16.01.09 & G = 30.03.12 |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 03 April 2009 at 10:22pm
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Miss 13yrs.. All her huffing and puffying whenever I ask her to do something....I try to ignore it but it grates me hard. Miss 8yrs... Copying her big sister's attitude but instead of the huffing and puffing its the stomping of her feet, and rolling her eyes...Grrrrr Master 2.... His anger, He constantly says noooooooooo and gets wild when he doesnt get his own way and throws anything and everything near him. Otherwise we are one big happy family lmao
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 9:22am
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Spencer is having another squealing phase, I try ignoring it but sometimes get annoyed and tell him to stop it which I think just makes him do it more
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 10:10am
Bailey has 1 thing that grates me the most out of everything!!! - eating with his mouth open!!! and its super noisy!! sound like a pig eating slop!!!  i tell him everytime but the thing is all of DHs faimly (except for DH and MIL) eat like that!!!!
Astin ALWAYS has to be woken up at 8.30am on weekdays but without fail he will wake up at 7am on the weekends when we wana sleep in!!!!
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Posted By: LouD
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 11:35am
| ohhhh baileyandastin i HATE that too!! My DS is good like that we have beat it out of him.....but when friends kids do it and other adults i cringe and have to hold my tongue sooooo bad |
Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 11:58am
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Shoving all her food in her mouth at once only to spit it all back out again because she cant even chew! Calling me Christy - little Madam ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 4:55pm
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Lol Kels I'm so glad I'm not the only one whos kid throws things arrrgh Jake is generally great but y'need to be pretty upbeat with him. If we use a negative (mad, impatient, upset, etc) voice with him to get him to do something he immediately throws whatever it is hes holding or the nearest thing he can grab then starts crying he's so sensitive to negative energy/vibes which I think dates back to when we lived with his bio dad and what he heard when I was pregnant with him. So frustrating though!! -------------   
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 5:47pm
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Rico teases/annoys Gia Gia screaming at Rico when he's teasing/annoying her, she's soo loud!
Chickielou - your boy sounds like such a sweetheart!! But I totally agree with you, that you don't want him to become a pushover, and that people will take his generosity for granted. ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: McPloppy
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 7:14pm
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The constant talking....Argh he talks for the sake of it. i f he does not have anything to say he will go "muuuum.....um....um....um" untill he finds something and with him talking and Soph exercising her lungs while I am trying to have a conversation with DH just does my head in. Oh and the butting in whill I am talking with someone. Each time he does it i stop him and remind him to wait until I have finished but i still have to say it every time....I think it is his way of ensuring I pay attention to him LOL. Sometimes it is just for him to tell me he loves me...Awwww how sweet but could you just wait!!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: pomikiwi
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 8:12pm
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DD - That she's still not toilet trained, but knows exactly what to do!
DS - well he's only tiny, but he is annoyingly cute! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 8:14pm
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The pair of them WHINGE and it drives me crackers!
J whines and whinges and cry babies, so I find I have to "baby" him alot more to jolly him out of it. C winds, stirs and itrritates everyone, in particular J, which sets off the above mentioned behavior, so I feel like I am always on top of her. I find the walk away and shut myself off for 5 mins thing helps me not to lose my cool, as does stickers for beign good and trying to paise good behaviour and ignore as much as poss the bad and annoying.... HArd thoi as the whinging and whining makes me want to drink.... Oh, and N? Self centred, lazy, smart ass, the list goes on. Be ware the teenager... ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: rascal
Date Posted: 04 April 2009 at 9:16pm
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Whingy, grizzley way of talking especially when tired for both the big girls. + Rebekah's cry is sooooo loud!! ------------- 
 
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Posted By: noisybaby
Date Posted: 06 April 2009 at 10:51am
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yeah whinging is my one too.
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 06 April 2009 at 10:56am
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Caden screams the house down when he doesnt get his own way, or if we take something off him, like the remote, he will pack a major tanty and the screaming hurts our ears!
He also does this sometimes at nappy time, he hates having his nappy changed and I HATE changing his nappy cos its such a battle
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Posted By: busyissy
Date Posted: 06 April 2009 at 7:16pm
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Gosh I absolutely love and adore my children and I feel guilty even thinking about this but OMG it really annoys me that Dom doesn't listen or reply to me when I speak to him. I know he has heard me he just has selective hearing. With Issy its the reflux, it just breaks my heart that she is often hurting and then sometimes its just down right hard because she should be sleeping or Dom needs my attention badly and I can't do anything because I have to hold her upright.
I feel mean 
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