Why???
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Topic: Why???
Posted By: Lee_Jon
Subject: Why???
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 4:39pm
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Why did it have to happen again (3 m/c), Why when I went for a scan at 7 weeks was there a heartbeat and everything was fine and now 3 weeks later there is no heartbeat, I was so postive about this preg and I had no reason to think it was going to end (I still have sore boobs and ms) Its just so not fair and I dont know what to do with myself, and I so scared about the DnC tomorrow I've never had one before. But they are going to do blood tests to see if there is a reason why it keeps happening Sorry about the rant but I didn't know what else to do |
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 4:40pm
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Posted By: surfergirl
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 4:48pm
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I couldn't read and run. I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I'm sorry there is nothing I can say to make things better. I do (sort of) understand how you feel - I too had a heartbeat at 7 weeks and then started bleeding at 11 weeks to be told I'd lost the baby earlier (this was despite all the reassurance that there's only a 2% chance of m/c after seeing aheartbeat....). There is no logic at times like this, just a lot of pain and heartache. Like you I also 'felt' preg after finding out I'd miscarried, thankfully the D and C fixed that. I hope you get the baby you are hoping for one day. Massive hugs to you!!!
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Posted By: errii
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 6:19pm
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Dont be sorry for having a rant you need to get it off your chest and writing it all down somtimes helps a bit. My best advice is to be kind to yourself.
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 8:15pm
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Aww Hun. Im so sorry ------------- Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 8:34pm
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Lee-Jon just wanted to offer my condolences im soo sorry for your loss hun. ------------- 
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Posted By: karenm
Date Posted: 07 April 2009 at 10:38pm
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My heart goes out to Lee_Jon. Sending you big hugs and lots of positive thoughts for tomorrow.
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Posted By: Brilee
Date Posted: 09 April 2009 at 1:04pm
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss,
I had my D&C last week today is the first day that I as starting to feel better, Know that we are all here to support you ox Rant all you like, oxox ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: CuriousG
Date Posted: 09 April 2009 at 1:10pm
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I can't answer why, but I hope you get some answers soon. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: littlestar
Date Posted: 09 April 2009 at 1:54pm
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Oh hun
I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, not once but 3 times. It isn't fair!
I hope you get some answers soon and that you are feeling better now the DnC is over. HUGS - we're here for you, just come online and vent whatever you need to. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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