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Topic: Overweight and Pregnant
Posted By: Lexidore
Subject: Overweight and Pregnant
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 7:25pm
Hi all

I am hoping to hear from some people that were overweight when they found out they were pregnant. I would like to know how you found your pregnancy, did you have any extra risks, did you have big babies etc. I myself am a bigger girl about 15-20 kg overweight and am pregnant. Most of it put on while working at my job that i just left today in an office environment where i was eating all the time, im now working part-time and in a retail job and find i dont eat as much while sitting at home or at a retail job so am hoping to start being healthier during my pregnancy and will be walking 4-6kms a day.

Anyways any of your stories would be much appreciated, if you dont want to post publicly as such do please feel free to PM me.

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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 8:36pm
i was probably my most overweight with my first pregnancy ... i didnt have any extra health issues, despite the dr's thinking i should. baby wasnt huge, normal size i thought. its harder to buy maternity clothes, sometimes i despaired i would even look pregnant, and getting up and down on mw's tables was not fun! i never wanted to be big when i gave birth tho...in the end i dont think my size had anything to do with how my labour went, but being fitter is definitely a bonus!

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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 8:54pm
I was overweight in all my pregnancies and it didn't cause me any problems. My babies were on the big side (9lb, and twins 7lb each at 36 weeks) but then my mum had big babies and she's not overweight. With the gremlins my OB was really worried about gestational diabetes coz of my weight and them being twins but I was reasonably fit and healthy even tho I was overweight so I think that helped.

I was my most unfit with lil miss and the birth was fine, really fast. One thing that was tricky was having CTG monitoring done as there was a lot of fat on my stomach so it was difficult to get a good trace. I vaguely remember seeing something in the notes about that when I was in labour with Maya too.

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Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 9:26pm
I started out fatter this pg (I was an average size 10-12 with Issy).

And there hasnt been much difference in the pgs so far .. bp is perfect .. although my iron was a tad low this time around.

Obv I havent gone through labour as yet, so I cant comment on that side of things just yet, but I havent noticed any real difference in the lead up to the big event. (apart from the fact that my bump is decidedly bigger this time around!)

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Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 9:29pm
I started out fatter this pg (I was an average size 10-12 with Issy).

And there hasnt been much difference in the pgs so far .. bp is perfect .. although my iron was a tad low this time around.

Obv I havent gone through labour as yet, so I cant comment on that side of things just yet, but I havent noticed any real difference in the lead up to the big event. (apart from the fact that my bump is decidedly bigger this time around!)

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 9:47pm
Thanks for the replies so far ladies keep them coming.

Emma what is CTG sorry?

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Posted By: Leelee
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 10:10pm
I was really overweight, the docs were suprised that I even managed to get pregnant. I had a pretty smooth pregnacy except for a few weeks where I had high bp but that was it, they saig I was at hight risk for gestational diabetes but my GTT results were the lowest my mw had seen. I was worried that I wouldnt look pregnant however I did, by 25wks everyone thought I was carrying twins. I didnt hace a straght forward birth, I had a failed induction where my body didnt go into labour so had to have a cs. during the induction my mw made see 5 anaethetists to make sure I wasnt too fat for an epidural, this was the hardest part of the whole pregnancy because I felt i was being ridiculed for being fat. I recovered really well from the cs but the docs were worried about me getting an infection in my wound because of my overhanging belly, I never got one. I did have to have daily clexane injections for 2 weeks to help prevent DVT.

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Posted By: HoneybunsMa
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 10:18pm

I'm overweight now, and was to begin with, quite overweight if you look at the scales, but then if you look at my proportions not bad iykwim. I'm roughly a size 16 somethings were an 18, and since my first mw appointment at 14weeks I have only put on 3kg so quite impressed with that. I found that since being pregnant I have been eating heaps better, quite aware of what I am putting in my body and since your not meant to have deli meats and stuff it was harder to eat lunch but that was ok got that all sorted (have been naughty a little bit with sushi and stuff).

I know exactly what you mean about the sitting down thing, up until a month before I got pregnant I was working on my feet and that was my only form of exercise then weeks before I got pregnant I joined a gym bahaha what a waist of money thats been.

MW asked me to have the GTT at 14 weeks because my bmi was higher then normal but that was perfectly in the middle. I've had no ms or anything else other then headaches and part of that was stress and dehydration. So all in all its been good.

No idea about the birth yet obviously as this is my first, mw thinks its going to be easy. Msg me if you want to talk more as you get further along

Edited to say that when I say overweight I mean I am over 100kg pre preg weight and I know I am as I was that when I first joined the non-existent gym I go to



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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 10:30pm
leelee i had forgot all about the clexane injections....

i think that as leelee said too that because you are overweight the medical profession expect you to have problems and do tend to make you feel bad, and act so surprised when nothing is wrong!

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Posted By: ooEvaoo
Date Posted: 29 April 2009 at 10:51pm

When I fell pregnant I was rougly the same weight as  I am now!...I ate about 50/50 diet of healthy and unhealthy food, mainly because for part of the first half of my pregnancy I was commuting from Hamilton to Auckland at 4:30am, and had constant morning sickness that could only be eased by eating lol. I didn't do any exercise either!. I did start to get a little puku (on top of my already fat stomach lol) from 12 weeks on, so don't worry about not looking pregnant Nearer the end of my pregnancy I developed borderline gestational diabetes and high blood pressure. I was induced but arrived to the hospital already dilated, ended up with an Emergency Csection as I developed a high temp (risk of infection occuring), healed well from that. Bubs was bigish 9lb 8oz, but that was genetics (long bones). I definitely want to get my weight down before I fall pregnant again...which I' gonna have to do fast since DP wants to start now!. I will definitely keep up my exercise and healthy eating as well. Good luck with your pregnancy



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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 8:03am
I was way overweight when i got pregnant(pregnancy and feeding made me lose weight but i eventually put it back on) and noone even mentioned my weight... i had some PE issues but that wasn't weight related ....the only thing was because I wasn't fit I think my recovery from the emergency c-section was a lot longer.. I'm working on the weight loss now but man it's harder to get off than put on!:)

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Posted By: CuriousG
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 8:54am
I am 10kg heavier this time around than last time and yep, am overweight. I had no problems last time and don't anticipate any this time either. My BP is normal and I know my blood sugars are good too because DH is a Type 1 diabetic and I use his testing gear to check quite regularly.

Now that I am feeling better I am trying to eat more healthy. Luckily I am not craving chocolate, which is such a downfall of mine normally. I am 'almost' dieting because of how careful I am being. My appetite has also totally dropped off also which really helps.   

Also I am reasonably tall so my BMI is actually only 32.

Charlotte was 8lb9oz which to me wasn't that big. My family have babies that are 9lb plus.

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Posted By: xLUCKYx
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 9:54am
bexandantz I was overweight with both my pregnancies but ate healthily and walked like you plan to - of course I didn't deprive myself from a treat here and there!! I lost weight in the first trimester of both my pregnancies and and only gained 10kgs above my prepreg weight and lost it all again in the first 6 weeks so I am back at my pre-preg weight now :) Both of my births were straight forward and there were never any concerns as I was healthy throughout both pregnancies.

All the best of luck to you!!!


Posted By: Babykatnz
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 10:26am
*puts hand up*

Yup, I was o/w with B (was in 3 figures by 34 weeks) and had no probs at all during my pregnancy with him (apart from being SO sick for the first 4 months) I went into labour on my own, but it took 3 days of contractions to get to 10cm, by which time he was in foetal distress, there were no probs getting an epi line in (that was done a few hours before B went into distress thankfully) and while I did have an infection in the c-section wound, that was because of dressing changes not happening when they should have. The rest of my recovery was pretty straightforward.

This time around I started off 10kg heavier than I was pre-preg with B, but have gained less overall than I did with him, and am now sitting app at what I was at the same stage with him. This preg has had a few issues (pelvic probs, extended 'morning' sickness, threatened early labour, and fainting, none of which has anything to do with my weight) I have had no issues with Diabetes, even tho I have a close family history of it, and my blood pressure has been fine, with the exception of my fainting episode where it was a bit low.

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 11:53am
i forgot to say i did have high bp but it wasnt weight related and Ethan was 7 pd 3..

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Posted By: Jannat
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 12:44pm
I am overweight and have been most of my life :( tried lots to lose weight but nothing worked for me. I am 13 weeks and have not gained any weight yet from my pre preg weight (which unfortunatley is already over 100kg mark).
So far the probs i have had is food always hungry and want sweeties but try to stick with fruit rather than choc. I am having a hard time eating proteins not sure why and my hips are already sore esp my right hip. I hope i can have a natural birth and I have seen there is hardly any maternity clothes for a size 20 0r 22 which will make things hard.


Posted By: MummyFreckle
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 1:53pm

I was overweight pre baby too, prob 18/20. I gained around 17kgs when pg. I struggled to find nice maternity clothes to wear too - I ended up getting stuff from Kmart, Warehouse - just bigger sized stuff mainly. I was worried I wouldnt look pg - but by about 26wks it was obvious!

I didnt have any problems, other than sore hips - which I had osteo for, I had a long labour, but who knows whether that would have been different if I was skinny?!



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Posted By: LeahandJoel
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 2:40pm

I was overweight with both pg's....got pg straight away with both and other than severe ms had no problems, well until the last 4 weeks with both.

Leah was a month early but that was our only complication, and I put on 4 kgs about my pre birth weight. Weighed 6lb 2 oz born.

Joel was 10 days early and I put on 1 kg. At 36.5 weeks I was admitted to hosp with severe pain along cs scar, then had very high bp (only time in both pg's) and started to have early labour pains, but that all calmed down and we waited another couple of weeks. Joel weighed 7lb 8 oz born and was a forceps del.

Good luck with everything.



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Posted By: littlestar
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 3:14pm
I just wanted to say thank you to you guys for sharing. I am overweight (20kgs) and do worry if this is putting bubs at harm or anything.
Sounds like apart from feeling as big as a house already there isn't too much extra to worry about.

I am super careful about what I eat cos I am concerned about GD.
Just past the 17wk mark and currently 7kgs lighter than when I started, but bubs has been measuring all ok at my scans so the drs aint too concerned if I drop a bit of weight (I have plenty left)
I was worried about maternity clothes but am thrilled I fit PP no problems and egg clothing (just)

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Posted By: Babykatnz
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 3:32pm
lol littlestar, I was worired I wouldnt fit any nice maternity stuff either, and bought a pair of jeans in XL hoping they would fit... I have had to adjust them to smallest possible fit as they kept falling off me bum! prob the first time I have had pants do that to me lol, I usually have no probs keeping them on as I fill them up oh so nicely hehe. I'm normally a 16 top, and 18 pants/skirt (pre-preg), and it appears size L clothing from PP was quite adequate for me

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 30 April 2009 at 10:52pm
Thanks ladies for telling me all your stories!!! Anyone else there that would like to just keep em comin!! Im also wondering whether there is anyone in the lower hutt region that has been overweight and pregnant and had a midwife that was supportive rather than hypocritical. I havent met my midwife face to face yet but when i spoke with her on the phone and told her my weight and height she said, "ooh thats not good rebecca" when i told her id lost some weight since starting to TTC and that i planned to be exercising and eating as healthy as possible she warmed up quite a bit more but now im a little apprehensive about it all.

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Posted By: mamanee
Date Posted: 01 May 2009 at 10:22am
I am also on the lookout for a midwife that is supportive of me rather than making me feel stupid and irresponsible for being overweight.

My first midwife when I was pregnant with Sam was great and she never weighed me at all, she just made sure my blood pressure was fine and to let her know if I felt like I was putting on too much or I was worried about anything.

My second midwife however, who I had to find at 28 weeks because we moved, was a different story. She would weigh me every time I saw her and comment about it saying that I shouldn't put on ANY weight because I was already too overweight, and yes I was over 100kg, and you know what, I still am, although I don't think I look it, and I comfortably fit size 16 clothes, I am dreading finding a midwife that will treat me the same way.   I remember being 37 weeks pregnant and starting to get a bit of morning sickness that week and losing weight and she actually praised me. I mean FFS, I was heavily pregnant, losing weight wasn't something I was aiming for.    Anyway, my only real problem was borderline high blood pressure and that runs in my family. And frankly I think it was her fault for making me so bloody nervous everytime I saw her.

Sam was a c-section birth due to breech presentation and I never had any problems there, nobody said anything about my weight. I had to give them my weight so they could get the right amount of anaesthetic for my spinal but they were all very lovely.

I know exactly how you feel right now!


Posted By: xLUCKYx
Date Posted: 01 May 2009 at 10:26am
That sucks about those mean midwives! I had an awesome midwife - she never even weighed me! Also just remembered Waitakere hospital in Auckland has a weight restriction on patients - don't know what it is but my MW let me deliver my first there. I don't consider myself to be majorly overweight though - I am 103 and size 16 but 175cms tall.



Posted By: Roses are Red
Date Posted: 01 May 2009 at 5:24pm
I was VERY overweight with both my pregnancies 8 and 10 years ago. I am still over weight now and on the TWW.

I didn't have too many problems with being overweight but I do remember a hospital midwife struggling to find the heartbeat once because of the "extra padding" with my first pregnancy.

The thing I would imagine this time around as I am about to get a BFP (positive thinking), is that when the joints losen up in prep for the birth I will have some issues with backache etc.

Oh and I was looking preg by about 25 weeks too. I have noticed that the warehouse preggy pants and skirts only go up to a 20 and they have no tights or similar, they are all non stretchy fabric so might have to look else where for that. One good thing about the baby doll and tight fashion that is in at the mo is it shouldn't be too hard to find tops that will do as maternity tops.

I find the hardest thing about being overweight and preg is nothing to do with me.. Its others attitudes around my weight.

Bex - relax and enjoy your pregnancy. If you have too many problems with your midwife either talk to her or change. Good luck!



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Posted By: sweets
Date Posted: 29 August 2009 at 10:00pm
Wish I started to read through the Pregnancy Forum earlier! Good to see this thread!

I'm also overweight, 29+4 weeks at the moment and haven't had any complications so far which is great.

On the subject of weight, I have a really good MW and she doesn't make me feel bad about it at all. I don't think I would have stuck with a MW that did!

Just a bit of info though, you can opt out of being weighed.
It's your choice and your MW doesn't need the information for anything important - I thought about ceasing to weigh in but do so more out of curiosity then anything now

Tauris75 - 15 weeks preggers, looked like TWW worked out!!


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Posted By: hannibal
Date Posted: 29 August 2009 at 10:17pm
Hi, I was overweight when I got pregnant - but I lost 20kgs before I managed to get pregnant. I'm sure having extra weight was hindering us getting pregnant in the 1st place. During my pregnancy I put on around 20kgs (and then I stopped counting). I ended up with high BP - sometimes it was dangerously high even medication (which I had to take midway thru pregnancy) couldn't control and I ended up in hospital for a couple of days, along with numerous day time visits for monitoring. I had to finish work earlier and at 38 weeks and another out of control episode they decided to induce me the next day - which was quite a shock. So now that I'm thinking of no.2 I know that I need to lose weight again! ..., hope all goes well for you.


Posted By: HoneybunsMa
Date Posted: 29 August 2009 at 10:38pm

Hi would just like to say that after a very easy uncomplicated pregnancy and being OW I delivered a very healthy little girl at only 7llb12. She was one week early but I think that was due to my gandmother passing not anything else being quite stressed and emootional and all.

I did have protein in my urine at 37weeks so got a sizing scan done at 38weeks and the GTT as at my second urine there was a high glucose but GT came back low if anything. They did send info of  for induction early incase I went over because they didn't want me to end up with a big baby and the hospital get concerned and ask questions



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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 29 August 2009 at 10:44pm
Funnily enough I was thinking of reviving this thread!! Just wanted to say that I have since met my midwife and she is lovely, doesn't weigh me but likes to encourage that I exercise in the nicest possible way, I unfortunately am not walking or exercising as much as I had first hoped because I am still suffering MS more often than not. Hoping to start making it to the pools next week onwards though. I so far am sitting 1.5kg below my prepreg weight after getting to about 4kg below, My midwife is happy with this though so all is good. I probably could be eating a bit healthier I am just finding it hard to find the energy to make healthy things but I am definitely not eating as much as I was prepreg. Thanks for the girls that have popped in and given their advice since I last posted on this topic and I would be keen to keep the topic around for anyone that wanted to talk about being an overweight pregnant woman.

Oh yea and I have also started to LOOK pregnant so am stoked about this too Heres hoping the rest of my pregnancy remains healthy (other than the MS I'm pretty sure I'm stuck with that lol)

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 30 August 2009 at 1:13pm
i cant believe a mw would say that:( how unprofessional:(

my first commented on my reserves :) but nothing else though she weighed me...my new one never a single comment.. except good that i lost 6 kg before i got pregnant.. and never weighs me

I get really annoyed people tell me i will feel baby later because I'm fatter..that really irritates me:)

anyway glad you are feeling happier and looking preg is awesome:) hope mw goes away though!!

I'm the same re the food.. though last time i was anal about it and my GD reading was high i had to do 3 hour and this time eating worse and glucose fine and BP low rather than high..lol..weird:)

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Posted By: shadowfeet
Date Posted: 30 August 2009 at 3:12pm

Four_eyes, bull to the not being able to feel baby. I felt baby at 18 weeks, and while it has taken DH a little longer to feel it, he felt his first kick at 23 weeks.

I'm really overweight as well. I was a size 20/22 pre-pregnancy. I'm really short which doesn't help.

Am writing this at 24 weeks. So far I've had a few issues.

I have what we've now decided is stress-induced high bp, but they just presumed it was pre-existing. The first time I saw the hospital specialist (referred from my MW who was lovely), I cried for most of the appointment. She was extremely derogatory and I am so glad I haven't seen her again. She asked the hospital mw if I needed to be admitted then, she must have thought I was much further on than I actually was. She was the one who also said no weight gain allowed at all. I had daily appointments for a while but then things relaxed. I've been medicated for my bp since that first appointment with the specialist and am under the team at the hospital again, as well as my MW. At the moment they're thinking about a 38 week induction if my bp continues to be unstable, but am also at high risk of PE.

I had my glucose test early as well, but it came back low so no worries there.

My MW hasn't been weighing me, but I've weighed myself just to keep an eye on what's happening. I'm sitting at 1kg below pre-pregnancy weight at the moment.

I *think* I kinda look pregnant, but not enough that it's noticable yet. People are still finding out and would never have guessed. It's a bit strange the way my bellys gone. It's got this kinda flabby bit out the top, then all baby at the belly button, then flabby again at the bottom.



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Posted By: Tastic
Date Posted: 30 August 2009 at 4:32pm
well Im the largest Ive even been this pregnancy (was 94kg before pregnancy - at 13 weeks had gone down to 90 kg)and NOONE has mentioned my weight at all which has be great :) my OB didn't say anything about it (I have to weigh-in every time I see her GRRR) and my Midwife this time hasn't even when she went to listen for bub's hb

With bailey I was about 10kg lighter and right up till 30 weeks my midwife went on and on about it (the temp one) and when I asked if we could listen to the hb she like no because it's all just you so we wont be able to hear any thing
Aidan same group of midwifes but the other lady had left (too many complaints apparently LOL) I had the 'its just all you' twice before 20 weeks then not again

Bailey was a good weight of 7lb and Aidan was a great weight of 2lb 8oz at 26wks 5d (One of the largest weights for that gestation apparently)


Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 30 August 2009 at 7:57pm
My midwife weighed me at my first appt and I was 84kg at 12 weeks (I was 81.5kg pre preg) I wasnt weighed again until 34 weeks when I was started being monitored as jake was IUGR (small baby) so hardly a chubba bubba! At 38 weeks I was induced as I had PE and jake was born weighing 6lb 12oz.

Prior to this my only complications were being very uncomfortable lugging my growing self around the place. I really want to be pg again soon but want to be lighter than I was than with Jake. My last weigh in at 38weeks was 97kg and a week after Jake was born I was 87kg. Not been game to jump back on the scales but really should

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 30 August 2009 at 8:33pm
shadow yeah i know..it's just so annoying people say that when they have no idea! it doesn't even make sense:)

hugs about the bp i had that at the end so know how it is..how rude you got someone who was rude i was lucky not to come across that I just might have slapped them:)

I am a size 18-20 btw...the only annoying thing is i dont get to hear hb till 17 weeks:(

mel i was the same i lost 12 kg in a few weeks..but put it all back on..determined to bf and get it off like last time and keep it off this time:) !

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 10:18am
KA I am trying hard not to put it back on as i am super determined to a) be lighter than I was when I conceived jake and b) be giving birth again next year
Gosh look at you, 17 weeks already.. were did the time go!

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 2:14pm
melnel- good on you..hopefully i will have your resolve next time:)

i just went stupid eating all the food like chocolate every day cause i was feeding...and i was losing heaps but then i stopped and carried on eating:) so totally my fault..

yeah it's going slow again now waiting for the scan but all in all flying by!:)

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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 2:20pm
I was overweight when I was pregnant with Janaya (I think I topped 90kg) I was about a size 14 when I got pregnant and finished up as a size 20 in my ninth month. Never had ANY problems whatsoever, was never weighed and had a really great pregnancy.

With Jackson I was a size 10 pre-pregnancy, I got weighed, and told to keep a healthy diet and that the ministry of health were wanting weigh ins now? I had the same midwife as I had with Janaya.
I had a really awful pregnancy with Jackson, was really uncomfortable and was in agony most of the time. A girl at work reckoned I just didnt have enough "support" on my hips


Posted By: HoneybunsMa
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 2:22pm

That's bull that you can't hear the hb when your overweight.

I was 103kg at 14weeks first appointment with mw and she was able to hear the hb once DD stopped moving round that is lol. Lil monkey kicked the doppler then ran away. I only gained 16kg all up I think dunno how much I've lost but seriously being pregnant made me eat so much better and less I think because I started drinking more water, and have contined drinking more water now as I am constantly thirsty. Only had softdrinks when I wanted some sugar so meh to not hearing hb



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Posted By: Tastic
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 7:38pm
when I was 'lighter' like still about 80kgs my midwife wouldn't put the Doppler any where near me till after my anatomy scan
not Im heavier - was a 16-20 (depending on make) and my midwife has listened to the hb at the last two appointment's which was at 13 + 6 and then today at 16 + 6

After bailey I went into pre pregnancy pants the day I left the hospital
after aidan I was a size larger then pre pregnancy

I hope I get back into pre pregnancy clothes this time around!


Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 8:48pm
My midwife didn't say anything about my weight being the issue when she wouldn't listen for a heartbeat at my first appt at 14w but I guessed thats why she didn't want to.

I did wonder whether it will be more difficult for DP to feel baby because of "extra padding" I already have an anterior placenta so am not sure whether it will also be harder for him to feel it because of me being bigger as well?

I can still fit most of my pre pregnancy clothes so I don't think I am putting on any weight anywhere else either, hoping to stay like this but I will have to watch my eating more have been really naughty lately!

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 9:30pm
bex yeah my last one wouldnt try for heartbeat either...i understand it but i am the latest by weeks in my group and it sucks:(

and in my case it did take longer for Dh to feel it from the outside not sure if true for everyone.

oh back later OF on:)

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 01 September 2009 at 9:54pm
Yea KA I was the same, everyone in the due in thread got to hear it at least 3-4 weeks before me I finally heard it around 19 weeks.

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Posted By: Imogen
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 8:55am
I will have to put my hand up for this thread.
Pre pregnancy I was wearing size 14/16 but weighed in at around 99kgs . At the moment I am sitting at around 93kgs so about 6kgs under my pre pregnancy weight. I have stayed the same since about 11-12 weeks. Obviously MS helped me get down to 93kgs.

I dont have to weigh myself when I see my MW but I do like to keep an eye on it. Got to hear the heartbeat at 11 weeks.

I am hoping that once I have had this bubs I will be able to get down to around 70-75kgs.......will be the lightest I have been for years

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 9:02am
bex oh i thought you said 14 weeks when i read it one other time...man it sucks eh.. like everyone else getting Xmas and you have to wait till feb:) hehe hope your ms has got better?

hi Imogen:)

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Posted By: Imogen
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 11:56am
hehe hi

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 12:09pm
Lol KA, I just went searching through the Feb thread to check and I did say 14th week! Will have to blame that one on the preggy brain haha!! It was definitely 19 weeks coz it was my 2nd visit and my first was in my 14th week lol.

Hi Imogen *waves*

Too bad you don't live close to me Imogen we coulda gone walking with the babes once they were born coz thats about what I would like to get down to aswell. We will have to encourage each other over the net or something

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 1:03pm
i need a walking buddy too!:)

glad I wasnt just going crazy!:)

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Posted By: mamanee
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 1:31pm
Ooo I need a walking buddy too.   

I have put on too much weight this time and am slightly heavier than I was with Sam at 28 weeks but I am hoping not too put on too much more before 40 weeks.    Having very little morning sickness contributed to that! All I wanted to do was eat and have steadily put on weight since I became pregnant.   My midwife is pretty good though, I weigh myself while I'm there and she just writes it down and never says anything which is good.

I lost nearly 25KG in the year after I had Sam and have put it all back on.    I am still fitting into a size 16 though so I guess it's not too bad.   I am hoping I will lose it easily afterwards too.   My mum is a sureslim consultant so I will get her to write me up a plan once the baby is born.


Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 1:44pm
well that is helpful renee knowing someone who is a consultant.. is it good stuff?

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 2:03pm
Bugger us all being at different places in the country!! Coulda had a good walking group otherwise!!

Sureslim is supposed to be quite good aye, yay for you mum being a consultant, I'd like to go with someone like that but the money puts me off, especially if its not gunna work for me IYKWIM?

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Posted By: Imogen
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 2:54pm
Looks like we are all over the country LOL. Went for a walk this morning to take DD up to the park....man am I paying for it now!!

Im sure we will be able to encourage each other on here

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Posted By: mamanee
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 6:23pm
Sureslim is really good and so effective. A lot of my mums clients have other health issues and have been referred to them by their doctor so can't do a lot of exercise or need to start exercising slowly, so the food side of things is really really effective without necessarily needing the exercise part to start with.

It's all food, no pills or shakes or meal supplements.

I did it after I had Sam and I lost a lot of weight on it and I didn't feel hungry either.

Their programmes are personalised though based on blood tests, health issues, height and weight which is why it's so expensive..

But.. my mum made me a 'generic' plan that basically follows everything that most people have on their plans.

I don't want to say too much cause I don't want to get my mum into trouble, just incase someone is lurking and sees it.

I'll have a hunt around for the printout she gave me though.


Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 6:59pm
imogen yeah walking is good for me but not fun atm!! :)

cool thanks renee I just wondered if it worked as i always see those ads on tv:)

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Posted By: Aithne
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 7:31pm
I was overweight when i got pregnant, but i had weird body proportions, i was a size 16 in pants but a size 12-14 in top. My tummy has always been smaller then my legs.

I didnt have any problems while i was pregnant, my MW never even mentioned that i could have any problems. And she never weighed me. She checked for gestational diabetes at the same time as the other ladies on my Due in forum got theirs.

Rory was only 8lb 3oz so pretty average.

I didnt do any excercise during my pregnancy either and after my morning sickness stopped i ate like a pig, only craved sweet stuff. I went up 2 dress sizes during my pregnancy too.

Sorry havent read the other posts, just thought i would add in my experience hehe


Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 8:28pm
My mw tried to hear heartbeat at 12 weeks but said that its not uncommon for them not to be heard as they are still so tiny. I had heard the heartbeat at my emergency scan at 10 weeks so I was ok with that. We heard it at the nuchal scan too. I heard it with the mw for the first time at 14 weeks. I hold most of my weight on my tummy too so pooh to that!

DH didnt feel Jake kick until about 24 weeks but that was because my placenta was anterior.at 32 weeks he felt him best at the top of my bump when Jake was rolling. My mw and sonographer had trouble feeling/seeing him because he was hiding right behind the placenta. Cheeky monkey.

Am weighing in on Friday night, am a bit scared. FX I am below 87kgs (my last weigh about 5 weeks ago).

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Posted By: HoneybunsMa
Date Posted: 02 September 2009 at 9:53pm

Yip I had an anterior placenta and poor DP didn't feel much. Heck I didn't feel much ftill 20+ weeks.

DP had his hand on my stomach one night and thought it was the pulse in his hand it was that small lol Then we didn't feel kicks as such we felt her wriggling around lil monkey



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Posted By: tarns
Date Posted: 10 September 2009 at 11:19am
Yep my hand is up too

Not only am I overweight but was 35 when I conceived but I had a really easy pregnancy and a quick delivery. Nathan was 7lb10 and I was ecstatic cause his daddy is 6'5 and a big guy and I kept getting teased that they would have to put the calving chains on me to get my bubba out (farming talk sorry)

I always thought that being bigger to start with I would be the size of a house if/when I got pregnant but to my surprise I wasnt Now TTC #2 and 37 and yep still overweight

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 10 September 2009 at 12:44pm
welcome everyone:)

got to hear the heartbeat as i bought a doppler(I swore i never would but i did) :) and then found it easy (well student did) at appt the other day and he/she kicked the doppler....cute:)

I'm feeling way more this time so hoping Dh can feel him earlier..he couldn't care less last time but is really into it this time!:)

I'm not doing Gd earlier either this time last time was just cause of a study and it wasn't overweight people just people with higher sugar..this time normal so waiting till 28 weeks but i do have to go straight to 3 hour one.

bex- omg you are so much further than me:) are you still sick?

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Posted By: rorylex
Date Posted: 10 September 2009 at 5:14pm
hi there
i too am over weight I was a size 12 when i was pregnant with my 1st son 5yrs ago was a small size 14 when i had him, then i had ds2 13mths after ds1 that was the worst preg weight wise I was a small size16 when i had him, i had ds3 23mths later and he got me just passed the 90 mark. i gained alot of weight after i had him and also managed to loose those 10kgs in the 1st 20wks of this preg so a month ago i was 93kgs.
iv never had any problems at all in these 4 pregnancies so far all 3births have been very straight forwards with out any complications.

i find my biggest issue is chocolate if i dont eat it the weight drops off, if i eat it it goes right back on. need to stop eating chocolate again.

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 10 September 2009 at 9:55pm
Welcome to everyone from me too lol!

Had a midwife appointment yesterday and she is happy with how everything is going, didn't even ask about my weight so yay for that!! She recommended doing a stretch class at the hospital, anyone got any idea what that is?

KA, I am still getting morning sickness there seems to kinda be a pattern to it that I am seedy Mon/Tues/Weds and generally throw up Thurs/Fri/Sat/Sun and unfortunately thats a pain coz I work Thurs/Fri/Sat.

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 11 September 2009 at 2:51pm
I am too scared to weigh myself. I have been so bad with exercise this week too, I feel ginormous LOL.

So exciting all you preggy ladies, I want to be preggy again *stamps foot with impatience*

glad you have heard bubs hb KA, so happy for you chicka.

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 11 September 2009 at 9:47pm
thankyou:)

mel- i must be weird i dont like pregnancy..it's hard on my anxiety and hard with a toddler and uncomfy and scary!:) I'm counting down the weeks till the end..though i do like this bit with the kicks:)

:( to the being sick still:(

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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 12 September 2009 at 7:28pm
Not weird at all KA, I hate pregnancy too - nine months with your head down the toilet, an octopus sitting on your bladder and pushing up under your ribs so you can't breathe - what's to like I say!

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 12 September 2009 at 10:49pm
KA I hate beig pg, means to an end. Believe once i am pg and i know its a sticy bean I will be complaining and wishing it was over already.

I like ttc, 2nd trimester and holding bubs :)

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 13 September 2009 at 6:36pm
phew glad its not just me....emma...3 times..I'm hating it so much more this time!:)just everything hurts more and different bits are sore and I was worried more (got over that) and it's harder on me cause of Ethan *blah blah poor me* :)

baby kicking now which is awesome and scan on friday which is also awesome:) !

dont get me wrong..I'm super grateful I am pregnant.. but wish there was another way to get a baby (so does DH he loves the TTC but not this part lol)

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 13 September 2009 at 9:10pm
I second that KA I do love those flutters and kicks (except the old kung fu)... Just worked out its less than 3 months until we TTC again... best change me ticker...

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Posted By: zoeymil
Date Posted: 22 September 2009 at 11:43am
I was a bit on the heavy side (size 16)i got preggers , i was fit tho i'd been doing duathlons and biking , but had my wee girl was born at 28 weeks due to growth restrictions for her and i start to get pre eclampsia!!!! But i put on so much weight sitting with her is the hospital for 3months!!!!!!! I tried to get out for a walk everyday but it was n't fast it was just wandering round shops and the food in the hospital was just not healthy!!!! I'm struggling to lose it now nearly 9 months later , but definitly want to lose it before i try for another bub!!!!


Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 22 September 2009 at 12:27pm
kate i just had pre PE and that was awful enough.. is she doing well now?

melnel I'm so going to be lurking the (counts) aug/sep) boards looking for you:)

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Posted By: Imogen
Date Posted: 22 September 2009 at 4:57pm
Originally posted by kateef kateef wrote:

I was a bit on the heavy side (size 16)i got preggers , i was fit tho i'd been doing duathlons and biking , but had my wee girl was born at 28 weeks due to growth restrictions for her and i start to get pre eclampsia!!!! But i put on so much weight sitting with her is the hospital for 3months!!!!!!! I tried to get out for a walk everyday but it was n't fast it was just wandering round shops and the food in the hospital was just not healthy!!!! I'm struggling to lose it now nearly 9 months later , but definitly want to lose it before i try for another bub!!!!


I put on more weight sitting in the hospital everyday with DD for 12 weeks than I did while I was preggy. I sympathise with you.



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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 22 September 2009 at 8:43pm
LOL KA, quick calcs will put me in sept if I get UTD first cycle. FX, I dont think I have even ovulated yet! A lot of wishful thinking and prayers going on here.

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Posted By: Roses are Red
Date Posted: 22 September 2009 at 8:49pm
Originally posted by oOElleOo oOElleOo wrote:

That's bull that you can't hear the hb when your overweight.



I agree... had some spotting at 10 weeks 6 days and I went to my MW and although it took about 10 mins we heard the heartbeat. I also heard it again at 12 and 16 weeks.

Right now back to read the other two pages, I might add to this post yet lol.

Yup I'm editing.

I was a size 20 - 22 when I got pregnant. At 18 weeks I have put on 8kgs and running out of clothes to wear    The warehouse have capri tights so I am living in them at the moment because my sewing adventures didnt work out as well as I thought they would. I have started to walk every day again as I know I am putting on too much weight, I dont think its from what I am eating so much as not exercising so I am back into it as I want to still be able to move at 36 + weeks

Hey we might all live in different parts of the country but we can still support each other to get out and walk, a bit like the BD challenge but a walk challenge, what do you all think of that?

Oh and cant remember user name (preggy brain) but yeah the TWW did work but ended in chem but next cycle I got UTD

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 23 September 2009 at 5:35pm
Thats not a bad idea Tray. We could start on a certain day (say next monday) and then tally it up next month on the 28th.

I know I am not UTD right now, but does it count that I expect to be soon and have to push around 15kg's with me (baby and pram) although some of you have to do both!

I had put on 6kg by your stage hun and only put on another 10kg all up so not too bad. My OB was happy with my weight gain.

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Posted By: Roses are Red
Date Posted: 27 September 2009 at 8:33pm
So is that tomorrow or are we putting it off for another week? lol

I'm sure with it being school hols I can fit in a walk somewhere there. I am starting to get a touch of constipation and I noticed when I was walking in the mornings before breakfast I got much more regular so might try that before anything medical.

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 27 September 2009 at 10:35pm
Well i am starting tomorrow, sooner i loose a bit the sooner i can join you all and be pg again!

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Posted By: Imogen
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 8:39am
Not sure what I am going to be able to in the way of exercise....sooo frustrating cause if I do too much (which is very little LOL) it aggravates my costochondritis and I spend the next week in agony. On a good note tho I weighed myself this morning and I am sitting at 95.2kgs! I was 92kgs at 12 weeks so I am pretty happy so far.

I have been walking as much as I can but since there are so many hills around our house I usually end up walking round and round the mall LOL. Might have to try swimming instead.

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 8:44am
I swam imogen, it was great. Really helped when Jake was sitting on my sciatic nerve too!

Grrr at the rain, not sure what I am going to do now. I dont mind walking in the rain but I dont like to take Jake out in it. Might have to dig out a workout DVD.

I dont walk around my house because of the hills, LOL I drive somewhere flatter. I just cant push Jake up the hills my section scar hurts so bad the next day. dont think my tummy is strong enough to be pushing 20kg up a hill!

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 9:06am
sounds like a good idea.. I havent weighed myself..too scared..lol:)

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Posted By: Tastic
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 11:14am
I was 90kg at my 16week OB appointment and my appointment last week - 20weeks I was 90.3kg so only 300 grams in 4 weeks so can't complain!


Posted By: IVFGirl1111
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 11:54am
Tastic congratulations on your wee girl!

Im so worried about getting pregnant and putting on heaps - really nervous about it!

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 12:26pm
booboo it might not happen..last time i only put on a few kg till the end..

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Posted By: IVFGirl1111
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 12:55pm
Oooo fingers crossed then for me 4eyes! Hope so.

Funny thing is though - I eat crap and dont really think about the weight going on - well I do but it doesnt stop me from eating it!

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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 1:05pm
I'm not sure I can get in on the walking just yet either, If I walk to much I end up with the absolute sorest lower back/bum... sooooo painful

I'm sitting at about 102-103 now, weighed myself before getting pregnant and I was about 104.5 so I'm quite happy about that, Am still worried that I will put on some weight now that I am in my last trimester but we will see.

Dal, I just got my fingers crossed for your BFP hun, don't stress about the weight side of it!!

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Posted By: shadowfeet
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 1:35pm

At the moment I'm sitting about 1kg below my pre-pregnancy weight. I haven't changed what I've been eating much at all. I wonder what my weight will do once I see the dietician and reduce my sugar intake. I've developed GD and am due to see the dietician soon.



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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 1:36pm
Originally posted by BooBoo BooBoo wrote:

Oooo fingers crossed then for me 4eyes! Hope so.

Funny thing is though - I eat crap and dont really think about the weight going on - well I do but it doesnt stop me from eating it!


hehe i am totally the same:)

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 1:37pm
shadow:( to the GD.....it will prob change a lot as weird things like bread have sugar..

last pregnancy i hardly craved anything..this time so random like fish..i hate fish:) hehe..

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 2:01pm
i craved milk, I hate milk.

suns out and jake is refusing to sleep... a walk may just happen today after all!

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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 2:08pm
melnel yeah i used to do that..:)

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Posted By: IVFGirl1111
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 4:18pm
Wow you girls are doing so well with being UNDER your start weights! Maybe there is hope for me! Lol.

Bex thanks hun x

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Posted By: Pinkybar
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 5:37pm
Hi all... I really need to join your group!!

I am so happy that I'm pregnant but I'm very concerned and actually embarrassed too. Plus a bit scared!

This might sound dumb but I have mixed feelings about visiting a MW for the first time. In fact I haven't even got one yet because I am so worried I will get one that is awful about my weight. I am also very worried about what happens during the visits. I really hate my tummy and I don't want anyone to touch or even look at it. I'm blindly hoping that they mostly just chat about what's happening.

From your experiences, do you get a lot of tummy touching?? Ok, I feel so stupid now!!! lol.

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 8:13pm
You will have your tummy touched hun. They need to touch it to do the scans Plus the will want to check your uterus is growing nicely at each checkup. When you get to about 28 weeks they will measure your bump (when you are lying down) to see how you are tracking along. It should roughly measure 1cm for each week of pg (ie if you are 35 weeks it should measure 35cm).

Just remember that they are medical professionals that will be looking at your girly bits (and sticking their hand up there!) they are not really worried about your tum!

I hate my tummy too, I cringed everytime I saw the wobble under my bump and I wish I had one of those nice firm bumps that skinny girls get but heh, I have my gorgeous boy and you are not pregnant for ever!.

You really should get onto a mw quick smart as there seems to be a national shortage and they book up fast (you will probably find some are already booked up) and if they make you feel bad about your weight find a new one I say.

Congrats on your pregnancy hun.

On a side note, I did get out for that walk and am feeling fab! Thank goodness Jake slept finally.

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Posted By: shadowfeet
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 10:03pm

Pinky, my MW has been great about my weight, and it's certainly not a pretty figure.

Lol to the cravings. I craved milk and I was previously intolerant to it. The sweet cravings have been terrible so far, I'm not wanting to know what'll happen there.



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Posted By: Pinkybar
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 10:08pm
Thanks so much for the pep-talk melnel. I really didn't know what to expect.
I do feel a bit better now - still nervous but definately excited about getting the baby at the end of it all.

I think I will try for a walk tomorrow. It will be the first one in, well a very long time!!

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Posted By: Pinkybar
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 10:13pm
shadowfeet I'm really pleased to hear your MW has been great. I have my fingers crossed i will also get a good one!


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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 29 September 2009 at 10:04pm
No probs hun, just noticed you are in lower hutt... I would be ringing MW NOW!!! The shortage down there seems to be the worse in the whole country.

Got out for another walk today, feeling very good about that.

I so hope I will be joining you ladies properly soon

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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 12:43pm
bumpity bump..

I am obese with a BMI of 39, MW said anything above 35 is considered at risk.

I'm only 7 weeks so early days to see how it will all go.

For those that have now had your babies how did it go?



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Posted By: Lexidore
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 3:20pm
hey hun! Congrats on your BFP

My pregnancy was rough, but I couldn't tell you whether that was due to me being overweight or just what my pregnancies are like. I had numerous issues but none of the really bad ones like I was perfectly fine for GD and my blood pressure was great up until just before my due date bit I believe that was due to family pressure to have the baby before they all went away because as soon as they did it went back to normal.

I had morning sickness the whole way through my pregnancy, and ended up with sciatic nerve pain aswell as really bad pelvic pain where I couldn't walk for very long at all without ending up hobbling. Again can't say whether these are to do with my weight or not. I think the pain ones possibly did though. I pretty much got every pregnancy symptom you can think of but I tell ya what, my babe is only 10 weeks old and already I am thinking of number 2 though I would like to get slimmer and fitter first to see if I have a better pregnancy.

Good luck hope some of that helps though I'm not sure it will!



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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 3:49pm
Thanks I've no ms to speak of as yet.

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Posted By: MissAngel
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 4:17pm
Originally posted by caliandjack caliandjack wrote:

bumpity bump..

I am obese with a BMI of 39, MW said anything above 35 is considered at risk.

I'm only 7 weeks so early days to see how it will all go.

For those that have now had your babies how did it go?



Obese eh? My BMI is 44 (137kg, size 26, 178cm tall), so that must make me morbidly obese haha! Big congrats on your BFP, sticky thoughts coming your way :D no health problems here at all apart from my clicky hip giving me grief. Was the same last time round - no problems with ANYTHING. Keep positive, keep moving and dont eat too many pies ;) you'll be fine :D

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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 4:25pm
Thanks MissAngel - yeah BMI is 40, I'm 158 cm tall and 99 kgs, to get below BMI of 35 I'd have to lose 10 kgs, I've been overweight for the last 10 years always had weight problems.

So yeah be interesting to see how I go, medically apart from my BMI I'm healthy BP is excellent, everything else is good too.

Will def keep exercising, got to teach Dh how to swim.

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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 6:51pm
I didnt really have any complications (other than it being harder to get into my pelvis during my section .. according to my notes).....

Pre Preg weight with jake was 81kg and at his birth I was 96kg... (165cm)

Pre Preg weight with this preg was 86.9kg.... so I am too obese, its such an ugly word!

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Posted By: MissAngel
Date Posted: 16 March 2010 at 7:31pm
I reckon that whole BMI thing is crap anyway. Made to make people think they're obese when they're infact not. Way to give the old self esteem a kick in the you know whats.

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