Truly horrific
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Topic: Truly horrific
Posted By: FionaO
Subject: Truly horrific
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 6:14pm
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Leaves me just wondering what should be done to people who could possibly do this.
beware, this link has had me absolutely sobbing http://media.causes.com/564357?p_id=66867559 - Peter ------------- 
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Posted By: SquishysMum
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 6:29pm
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HUGE beware, that clip made me want to vomit. That's absolutely disgusting.
The story of Peter Connelly, or Baby P, if anyone wants to know before they click through. |
Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 6:34pm
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sorry should have put a bigger warning on it!
I just hope that he is at peace now.  -------------
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Posted By: Kicker
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 7:03pm
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I haven't watched your link but have seen a video before. I agree it made me want to vomit and the tears were flowing.. its so disgusting and sad what some people would do to an innocent child. -------------  
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 7:13pm
That makes me so angry 
Poor little man. May he rest in peace with no more pain or suffering
p.s. have a box of tissues, you will need them!!! ------------- Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
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Posted By: Muz
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:00pm
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God - that is awful ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:21pm
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That poor little boy!!!!!!!!! ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:26pm
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:sobbing: omg why? I showed DP (and cried on his chest while he watched it) and he couldn't speak either. I've seen a shorter clip of this case but the extra details make it even more heartbreaking! -------------   
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Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:31pm
| I didn't watch, but I just did a quick search to find out who Baby P was...and saw some of it...I couldn't watch, it makes me feel extremely ill and I don't know how anyone could do that to an innocent child. |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:51pm
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Yeah I read about that before after my mum told me about it, it's totally sickening. This is why I say bring back the death penalty for some people. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: High9
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:51pm
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I don't know how a mother could just let a man, that isn't even related to the baby, do that... And for social workers not to really do anything about it either... Was anyone really doing their job right other than the actual father who tried to kidnap the boy!?
That poor child, it is heart wrenching... Especially to think the mother tried to cover it up. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:59pm
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I didn't watch the video all the way through, but the article I read said that the paed that didn't examine him because he was grumpy was under investigation and had been stood down from her job pending the outcome.
I don't think he could have been more failed by the system and I have no idea how a mother could stand by and let that happen and worst still help cover it up. -------------
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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 9:04pm
I have seen a few memorial type videos for various kids that have died in that matter, and it's always heartbreaking to know their short lives are lived that way 
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Posted By: Emmi_
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 9:18pm
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That poor wee boy... Truely let down by anyone he had ever met.... Inc his mum, dad, Drs, social workers, the eye witness they had quoted...
I really dont understand how anyone could purposefully hurt some one else, esp a wee person like that. You just have to think that he is in a much better place now, free of pain and suffering. ------------- 
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Posted By: kellie
Date Posted: 07 October 2009 at 9:26pm
| i can't stop crying :( :( |
Posted By: HoneybunsMa
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 12:52am
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OMG That is sad. He looks like my godson in one of the photos. I couldn't do anything to hurt my baby I love her too much and I would fight if anyone did that to her! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 9:31am
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that is so disgusting ------------- susie |
Posted By: Flutterby
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 9:58am
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OMG, how can people do that to a helpless child. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 10:04am
| Why would anyone want to watch something like that if it is that bad and makes you cry/vomit? |
Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 10:28am
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Its purely about raising awareness, I wouldn't post it for the sake of it.
But there are so many cases like this and its because nobody stands up to say something is happening, these kids don't have a voice. Its not just child abuse its all sorts, there are witnesses involved in this case who did not speak out, this could have been stopped. -------------
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Posted By: tiptoes
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 10:39am
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I think people need to watch stuff like that to be more aware of what is happening and so if they think something doesn't seem right that they do something about it and don't let it get that far. So many people would have noticed that something wasn't right and buried their heads in the sand hoping someone else would do something about it. I've seen a few of those types of video clips recently and it often seems that the real father is concerned and trying to do something about it but the social workers keep giving the babies back. ------------- http://alterna-tickers.com">  
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Posted By: BuzzyBee
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 11:12am
| As if the world isn't depressing enough as it is, we know there is many child abuse cases like this ...I don't personally see how making a clip like that helps, just pisses me off. |
Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 11:23am
That's what I wanted to say but was trying to be a bit more polite about it  To me it is like rubber-neckers at a car accident.
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BuzzyBee wrote:Posted By: Hayzie
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 11:25am
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At least its publicity...and I agree with you chelle - maybe it will make people act when they see something that is not right.
When I watched the clipI just sobbed and sobbed. I think my 15monther who looks a bit like Baby P thought I was nuts. It keeps disturbing me though... ------------- 
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Posted By: LittleBug
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 1:29pm
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It was such a terrible situation. I just can't understand how so many people let it happen.
What was with the child being returned to the mother when she was out on bail?? And eyewitnesses, the Dr, etc etc. That child was failed so badly by society, let alone his mother and the abuser. ------------- Chloe (4 years) and Oliver (3 years). |
Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 08 October 2009 at 3:01pm
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Well, I'm going to take offense at the rubber necking comment.
For me personally this is the first clip like this i've seen and its made me actively want to do something, whether it be something simple as a donation or what I don't know but its still at the front of my mind since yesterday. So for me if they made this clip so people would take action then it worked. -------------
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 9:35am
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I did sleep badly after watching that clip the other night. All I can think of, is that a parent/s is suppose to be the support and comforter of a child - and for a child not to have that it breaks my heart!!! When the one person or persons who've brought you into this world treat you so badly, and you've got noone else to turn to for protection from the horrid acts performed on you, it really distresses me.
That health system fully failed that child and have a lot to answer too. And the poor father who had no power. The mother (and wasn't it grandmother too??) who let that ba$tard do those things to that baby need to be shot along with him. ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: Leahsmummy
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 10:22am
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All i can say is i feel so sad for that little boy!!! -------------   
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 11:54am
that's exactly what i was going to say!! why the hell did she get him back after being arrested for abusing him???!!!!!!
why didn't he go to his father?? why didn't the judge want the mother and stepfathers name released?? to protect the rest of the family? i'm sure most people who knew the family would've known after he passed away anyway why?? why?? why?? ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: tropics
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 11:58am
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I cant stop crying im balling my eyes out can hardly see to type
that is so sad, I do not understand how people can harm another human being let alone an inocent defeneless little person, makes me so mad, and how can anyone let along the mother let this happen
Makes me sick! I want to go and get Jayden out of his cot and give him a big cuddle! I hope that the little boy is at peace now ------------- http://lilypie.com">    [/url]
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 12:57pm
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Children are born into this world asking for nothing more than love, food to eat and to be clothed and kept warm....its a natural right that every single baby is entitled to....and its horrifying that in this day and age, babies everywhere are still not appreciated for the beautiful gifts that they are .
This clip made me sick , angry , upset, but if the clip gave the little boy a voice, no matter how late, so that it can hopefully teach people a lesson in not being complacent, then im glad I saw it . That little boy was let down by so many that he should have been able to relie on , as far as im concerned, they ALL have his blood on their hands . May he rest in peace away from pain and fear . ------------- 
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Posted By: clover
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 1:49pm
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Their names were supressed because the case was so high profile that there had been threats made on their lives from prisioners. The names were actually released by a family member quite a while ago and carried in one of the papers (perhaps The Sun?) so at one point most people knew who they were.
I was living in England at the time and the sadest thing is that athough his death gave the social services a little bit of a shake up and a few people got fired, fundamentally nothing has changed. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 2:46pm
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Wow Summerlamb, did anything happen to them once the names were released - I can only hope prison is a living hell for those people.
Its a real shame nothing has changed, shame isn't s strong enough word, its outrageous! -------------
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Posted By: clover
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 3:38pm
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There was never any report on anything happening to them but I'm sure the rest of the prisioners let them know their feelings on the matter. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 8:05pm
exactly!!! People like that should, as Jesika said be shot. What kind of person does that to a child ??????
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Posted By: pomikiwi
Date Posted: 09 October 2009 at 9:47pm
My thoughts exactly. I'm not even going to watch it. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: jazzy
Date Posted: 10 October 2009 at 8:19am
I have not watched it & I wont. I don't need to see a clip of horrible acts on a child to know there are sick fu*kers out there that do these kind of things. They should be put to death not given fame by flashing it on the net. We forget too easy what happens to these little tots that are abused & murders, what about all the little ones here in NZ who have lost there lives to pain & the abusers have not meet justice. Unfortunately there are to many out there that do this and too many that look away. |