Rant about my husband
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Topic: Rant about my husband
Posted By: Bizzy
Subject: Rant about my husband
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:15pm
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GRRR... and grrr again!!!!
my husband came home tonight, said he had a crap day cause he did nothing - he was in diff locale filling in... i was trying to get him to see that the amount the real estate agent sugested was possibley a bit low, he got all cranky and wouldnt look or listen... siad the dinner is ready and the kids are hungy... they werent even whingeing... then he sits and mopes at the table with this horrible long face on! i hate that face! then says oh the kids wottn need a bath tonight... (he does the bathing normally but lately has been trying to do only every 2nd day). i said no, eden needs a bath cause of her chicken pos spots! OH! he says and looks even more grumpy., i didnt think that was even possible! Then he gets up and goes to bed!!!!!!!! He did nothing all day! I got up at 6am - albeit it was for me not the kids - and put up with grumpy poxy kids all day...and now i have to still put up with them! hes done this before, had a bad day at work and gone to bed early! I dont like it! Ok rant over!!!!! got to go run a bath now! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:16pm
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Hugs to you all. Sounds like a rough time in your house. Certainly sounds like DH isn't a happy camper at the moment...is there anything that reliably cheers him up? ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: Caro07
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:17pm
I can understand the Grrrr  Hopefully you can jump in the bath with a glass of wine once the kids are sorted.
------------- Caroline, SAHM to 2 boys, S (4 years old) and J (2 years old) 
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Posted By: Peanut
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:18pm
Aww, bloody males! Mine is a grumpy bum tonight too but at least he is still up
I think you need to ring and get another couple of agents thru your house before you decide as the one you have got doesn't sound crash hot. -------------  
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Posted By: Flutterby
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:44pm
Grrr . I can totally understand. DP often comes home grumpy and then manages to disapper while I am cooking dinner (when I need him the most).
Men just don't understand. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:50pm
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argggggggghhhhhhhhhh men!!!
Big hug to you, that sounds like a sucky day ------------- 
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 7:55pm
yeah but i aint doing that for a grumpy bum husband! LOL! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker">
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FionaS wrote:Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 8:10pm
 ------------- Mummy to Issy (3) and Elias (18 months) I did it .. 41 kgs gone! From flab to fab in under a year  http://www.femininefitness.co.nz/category/blog - LFs weight blog
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 8:15pm
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Oh...I see.
Totally feel for you but also wonder what is up for him. I'm just soft I guess! ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 8:29pm
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There is no way my DH would get away with that, unless he's really really sick or dying! I'd make sure the kids are in the room waking his arse up! haha
Are you going soft Deb? 
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 8:43pm
i just cant be arsed with him when hes like that - and hes short with the kids too so no fun for them either! dont worry pepsi i will get my own back! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker">
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 8:46pm
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Is he being deliberately lazy or is he really feeling depressed? ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 9:01pm
LMAO Hope he is in a better mood tomorrow. Maybe he has male PMS. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: monikah
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 9:26pm
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oh you poor thing. that really sucks and makes your whole day worse, especially when your stuck at home all day with sick kids :( hope he pulls his head in soon! ------------- 
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 9:37pm
its not lazyness, hes just an arse!  ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker">
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 9:45pm
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Just doesn't sound right for a man to slink off to bed so early. Maybe I just don't know men well enough... ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 10:30pm
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its all about me! not him! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker">
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Posted By: jaz
Date Posted: 26 January 2010 at 10:37pm
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You both had cr*p days but he bet you to bed. Maybe you could ask to swap tomorrow night and you can hightail to bed as soon as he gets home. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: xLUCKYx
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 8:09am
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MIne wouldn't get away with that either - not that he is particularly useful when awake either
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 9:28am
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Men always seem to think their day is worse than anyone elses, at least that's what my DH is like. I don't like to put up with it either. |
Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 10:00am
| That sounds horrendous Bizzy! I wouldn't be putting up with that cr@p. Hope he has snapped out of it today. |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 10:20am
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he didnt go to work in a particularly good mood. but i had to ring him for something earlier and he said he was over it! I've already made plans for his day off to go out without the kids so he can put up with the poxy bunch by himself! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker">
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Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 10:37am
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Ha brilliant! That'll sort him out
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 1:30pm
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Men!!!!
Glad he's over it today Bizzy, he better be in a suck up mood tonight hey ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 1:48pm
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Men! One more child to take care of. |
Posted By: SMoody
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 3:55pm
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Argh come on Bizzy how can you be so so so mean to your man.
He has had a hard day at work and then you with the cushio stay at home job gets upset that he goes to bed early and not bath the kids. Wasnt it enough that you sit at the pool all day with champagne in the one glass and one kid doing your nails while the other one does your hair and the other one cleaning the house for you? 
Hope the kids feel all better real soon and that grumpy pants is in a better mood tonight. Give him a hug tonight and say love you grizzly bear but please I need a bit of time out here and I understand you didnt have a nice time the last few days (or blah blah blah) but I would appreciate half an hour where I can just gather my thoughts and would prefer that without any poxy kids around me. BTW I was just joking hey ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 4:12pm
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SMoody....you are far nicer than me...LOL
Hope he's in a better mood tonight Deb
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Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 4:47pm
Me too. It doesn't sound like he deserves any sucking up, I think he should be apologising! |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 5:09pm
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cheers smoody!! it was tough for me, i had the wrong brand champagne! ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker">
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Posted By: SMoody
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 5:56pm
Oh no. Then it is totally understandable ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: SMoody
Date Posted: 27 January 2010 at 6:01pm
Only when I am rational but not always in the heat of the moment. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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