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Today’s my due date...

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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: Today’s my due date...
Posted By: lemongirl
Subject: Today’s my due date...
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 9:44am
Don't have much to say except...



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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 10:24am


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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 10:27am
When a baby arrives,
be it for a day, a month, a year or more,
or perhaps only a sweet flickering moment-
the fragile spark of a tender soul
the secret swell of a new pregnancy
the goldfish flutter known to only you-
you are unmistakeningly changed...
the tiny footprints left behind on your heart
bespeak your name as Mother.

(author unknown)

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Posted By: luvmylittlies
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 12:52pm

I wish I could say something that would help, but I know nothing really does.  Just try not to be too hard on yourself for being upset.

Oh god Liz - I was already feeling Stef's pain, and that just made me weep (lovely though).

 



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Posted By: didi99
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 1:09pm
Thinking of you today.

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Posted By: lemongirl
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 3:04pm
Oh no liz, I'm just bawling my eyes out.

In a weird act of 'celebration' for not having a baby I went out and bought myself http://www.amazon.com/dp/0811854485?tag=tcs00-20&camp=14573&creative=327641&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=0811854485&adid=1075S1CFS3783B8C4Y7X& - this book which I have been lusting after FOR MONTHS.

It has the most beautiful layer cakes ever.

Look: (WARNING AVERT YOUR EYES IF HUNGRY)

http://foodlibrarian.blogspot.com/2008/09/sky-high-strawberry-shortcake.html - strawberry shortcake , "http://happylovestrawberry.blogspot.com/2009/09/triple-layer-chocolate-peanut-butter.html" - Chocolate Cake with Peanut Butter Frosting . http://www.tasteandtellblog.com/2009/01/cake-slice-bakers-banana-cake-with.html - Banana Cake with Praline Filling a http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/06/pistachio-petit-four-cake/ - Pistachio petit-four

The only problem is that BF and I are on weight loss mission at the moment and nobody is having a birthday so I will just have to oggle the recipies until I have an excuse to bake a layer cake.

Not as good as a baby but for a cake-making nerd like me it put a smile on my dial.


Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 3:34pm


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Posted By: Emmi_
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 4:36pm
from me too...

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+1 May 09 Angel


Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:30pm
Oh those cakes look devine!! I like the look of the pistachio one, mmmmmm. I'm so glad that you could do something for you - you really deserve it.

That poem was one that meant alot to me when I had my mc.... it made me feel that it was ok to grieve. It's my due date tomorrow. Incidentally it's also one month til my due date with this baby - so I think it will be a bitter sweet day.

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Posted By: Luckymama23
Date Posted: 01 March 2010 at 8:36pm


Posted By: jo1979
Date Posted: 02 March 2010 at 5:06pm
Excellent to get yourself a treat! I am sorry for this never ending loss stef. Hugs. And I hope you find an excuse for a lavish cake soon!


Posted By: X
Date Posted: 02 March 2010 at 5:25pm

Hope you got through the day okay.

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