maybe pragnant
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Topic: maybe pragnant
Posted By: cole88
Subject: maybe pragnant
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 11:35am
| hi i had a baby on the 5th oct last year and now cant remember when my last period was im thinking atleast 4 weeks ago im really freaking out im not ready for anotha baby nor can afford one yet. what do i do? |
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Posted By: snugglebug
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 11:42am
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I think the best thing to do is go and do a test, that way you know for sure and what you're dealing with, Then you can worry, or not, and talk through your options if you need to.
I haven't had a baby so Im not sure but from what I have heard sometimes cycles are irregular after having a baby, it could just be that? And nothing to worry about Good luck ------------- Me 28, DH 29 DS born 20 Nov 2010 (4 years old) #2 due October 7 http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: cole88
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 11:47am
| i hope so, i mean don't get me wrong i love baby's but don't want to struggle so much they don't have a life they deserve u no? |
Posted By: snugglebug
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 11:54am
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Absolutely.. I totally understand that
I think you need to have all the facts and then you can decide what to do Good luck ------------- Me 28, DH 29 DS born 20 Nov 2010 (4 years old) #2 due October 7 http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 12:16pm
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How long have your had your period back for? As Lisa said, it's fairly common for your cycle to be irregular (or even to completely miss your period) when it first comes back. Specially if you're still BF?
Definitely go and get a test, I remember doing a few after my AF first came back with Callum. It does settle down eventually. Good luck ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: cole88
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 2:00pm
| im not breastfeeding and its been quite regular for the last 4 months i just don't even want to have to make the decision to not keep a baby. |
Posted By: Raspberryjam
Date Posted: 08 April 2010 at 3:35pm
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Not nice, but I suggest you get along to family planning or whatever service is available to you and find out one way or another... there is a time limit to these decisions unfortunately .. they can also help you with contraceptives so you dont find yourself in the same situation again.. mean but you just have to suck it up and take responsibilty for it, but you will feel better to know either way ------------- http://lilypie.com] 
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