Sex.
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Topic: Sex.
Posted By: Kelpa
Subject: Sex.
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 3:48pm
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Maybe TMI!!! I'm sure someone out there is the same. (I hope so anyway)Mark was home in the afternoon yesterday and it was nice and sunny and all was well in our bedroom and ah what a nice time we had. Very relaxing!! YAY. I could have curled up for ten hours afterwards!!!
Today oh dear me. No matter how hard I tried to make myself comfortable and relax ..these little feet were kicking me and I lost the plot. Just could not do anything. So let Mark do his thing then threw on my clothes and made a sandwich! Felt like pooh!! Is anyone else out there keen as a bean but sometimes it just seems TOO much effort? I dont understand how people say to bring on Labour have lots of sex....its a mission doing it once a week!!  -------------  
 
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:02pm
 lol about going and making a sandwich!! Yeah I think I was the same - the will was there, but just too much effort was required! I did manage to do it the day before Hannah was born tho - the thought of it kicking off labour spurred me on, but hubby needed a LOT of convincing!  ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:18pm
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I don't know about before, we sometimes would go twice a week, then not for a fortnight ! For me, even when I wanted to try and bring on labour, it was quality vs quantity
As for after, I'm keen, but nervous ! Plus I now usually go to bed earlier than hubby (whereas before we'd both be up late and go to bed at the same time most nights), although it might help me sleep better... ?  ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:21pm
| sorry cant help you there, my hubby wouldnt touch me with a 10 foot pole while I was pregnant and that was fine by me, I was sooo not into sex with feet kicking me constantly, felt like I was being watched or sometihng and hubby was paranoid it would bring on another prem labour (that was his excuse anyway, me thinks it was more I looked like a house, not very attractive) |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:23pm
| Jax dont be nervous, its not that bad really not that Ive gone there yet but thats because my period as arrived already (sorry TMI) but I remember after Kobe I was up for it pretty soon after. Just pick your positions carefully |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:32pm
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I was soo into it lol. Bit cautious with the first pregnancy but with the second man call me randy. And nothing put me off. Got more and more into it towards the end of my pregnancy. I guess it makes up for the months after of me saying. "no dont touch my boobs they arnt yours" ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Emma_GabysMama
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:37pm
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my libido has always been high, and pregnancy doesn't seem to have slowed it down (quite the opposite!) but I did have a day like that last week..... it was just too much effort and my heart wasn't in it... I'm picking those days will become more common as i get further into the 3rd tri! ------------- Emma - 23 proud Mama to... Gabrielle Jayda-Lee 26.10.06  
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 4:52pm
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Yeah sometimes the will is there but really not the motivation to actually do it. *sigh* And quite frankly after the internal on Tuesday I'm really quite put off anything going up there! (sorry if TMI!)
However the girls in the office are hoping to arrange a sex toy party so might get some fun stuff for when things are back on track after the birth! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 5:00pm
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Do you know who they're arranging the party through? ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 5:01pm
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D'vice.... ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 5:13pm
| One of my friends told me she was doing it more and more as the time got closer. I find it hilarious since she said she was doing it every time hubby came home for lunch or after work and in the morns and then her waters broke while they were getting it on and she delivered 5 weeks early hahaha |
Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 5:35pm
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I have had a couple of those Joanna G parties...talk about lots of fun!!!
Ah I will hang in there!! I am defintely willing and love jumping M but just seem to lose it half way through!!! My poor man!! -------------
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 6:39pm
Ahhh, d.vice is great, I'm sure you'll have a blast !!  ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 8:27pm
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LOL, us welly oh baby girls had a d'vice sex toy party a wee while ago. It was hilarious! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 28 July 2006 at 8:44pm
we had a session last week and frankly, i'd be happy if i didn't have sex again until after bubs is born!! it was quite uncomfortable and the pains afterwards, really didn't make it worth the trouble
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Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 7:36pm
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I am more then keen now! cause I want this baby out and will pretty much do anything. However this whole pregnancy poor hubby has really suffered. We did try the other day to no sucess. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 8:52pm
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He he Jacks Mum...
Crack me up..."we had a session"... -------------
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 8:56pm
| lol that phrase always makes me thing of drugs! |
Posted By: stevie_88
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 9:16pm
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*SIGH* We did try today I must admit and we tried the other day but I just can't get that feeling where I'm enjoying it or anything and didn't even get close to the 'o' stage. But Carey was having fun and I figured that ohh well, better let him have a bit of fun since we havent done it since I got pregnant.
I'm just going to keep trying it out every now and then to see if I can bring on labour- I really want this baby out now!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: stevie_88
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 9:22pm
Hey what is it about the sex that brings on labour? does the girl have to orgasm or is it the boys spermys that does it??? if i need to orgasm- i think im going to be up sh*t creek hahahah. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 9:31pm
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nah, its the guys stuff that helps - and the closer to your cervix you can put it the better - so try it on your knees, that seems to be best for what is required (hmmm how to say that is the deepest while being most comfortable for that stage of pregnancy ) ------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe -  my big 4 year old
and Jordis - 1 year old 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 10:01pm
| Just on the whole orgasim thing, did anyone see Dr Phil the other day? there was a lady who was married for 6 years and had only just had an orgasim and it turned her into a sex maniac, she wanted it all the time, I thought that was pretty funny but how could you be married and go so long without having one? |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 29 July 2006 at 11:21pm
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lol. Poor girl
------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 30 July 2006 at 10:06am
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I've heard of women who have gone 17 years or so (and have kids) before they have their first orgasm... for alot of women who don't orgasm it's a "letting go of control" problem - they can't relax that last little bit and surrender to their bodies because that means that they are not in complete control of the situation. Other women have a "sex is dirty and wrong" misconception and don't want to enjoy it... or there's always Nat's reason: Maybe their husband just isn't very good! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: mrs frantic
Date Posted: 31 July 2006 at 9:45am
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Seems like the way I am feelign at the moment is pretty normal then - I sort of want to do it sometimes but I just dont ever seem to have the energy to say "lets go for it" - I guess that means I dont want it as much as I just want to lie on the couch LOL!
Plus i feel VERY huge and unsexy... ------------- Mrs Frantic Baby Maddisyn born 28 Sept 2006 http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kelpa
Date Posted: 31 July 2006 at 12:25pm
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Oh I am so glad I am normal!!
Orgasms are strange when you are pregnant. Its like your whole tummy has one!! He he I am quite enjoying the whole sex thing with Mark this pregnancy whenever we can ...well try too anyway as with my ex husband we never did anything the whole time. Made me feel yuck! -------------
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 31 July 2006 at 5:19pm
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we had alot more 'sessions () last pregnancy than this one!
hehe kelpa, it is like a tummy orgasm huh ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com">
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