Sexual Dreams, lol
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Topic: Sexual Dreams, lol
Posted By: kellverona
Subject: Sexual Dreams, lol
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 11:30am
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Has anyone else had dreams about sex alot. I must be sexually fustrated, lol. So I have come to the conclusion that this is the reason why I am dreaming about it all the time. Also in the dreams I am very sexy. Not fat, and pregnant, lol. ------------- http://pregnancyplanet.net/tickers/"> 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 12:28pm
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Is there a medical reason you are abstaining? Because after Jaxon is born you'll have another 6 weeks (about) to wait again. The next three weeks might be the last time you feel up to it for a while. -------------  |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 12:46pm
| Yeah I did too i had real weird ones about people i know it was weird. But it did stop after Jack was born |
Posted By: kellverona
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 1:09pm
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No, no medical reason and have wanted to bu just feel weird because jaxon is right there now, lol. ------------- http://pregnancyplanet.net/tickers/">
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 1:16pm
| we were the same, neither of us was comfortable with having sex while I was pregnant and I think I did have some dodgy dreams so you are not alone, more than likely due to not getting any for a while but you can have sex as soon as your ready after baby is born, I certainly didnt wait 6 weeks with either child hehe |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 1:18pm
lol there are other ways to pleasure each other without "doing it"  Have fun while you can i say. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 2:08pm
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LOL I was about to say the same thing Maria!
In fact, you don't even need hubby! hehe 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 3:54pm
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lol. Yeah go for it Kelly! ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 4:38pm
ROFL!!!! You cheeky monkeys!!  (although I secretly agree!)
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Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 5:05pm
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Busymum....six weeks? We lasted about two....and I'd heard stories from someone or other - or it might have been in a parenting magazine - about someone who got back into the saddle the next day. I'm not advocating jumping your other half in the maternity ward, but hey, whatever suits!
In any case - do what you are comfortable with - and if dreaming about it is as close as you're getting, at least pregnancy dreams tend to be vivid! ------------- |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 5:47pm
geez 2 weeks huh?  I told my husband the MW told me 12 weeks until we went to visit friends who had had a baby the same time as us and the husband said to rob. So you had your six week romp yet. lol. Well you should have seen the looks i got.........
Plus i think i bled for like 4 weeks so there is no way i would have even considered it before then. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 9:06pm
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It was 4 weeks after our first but she was a c-section, I bled for 2 weeks, and was strongly advised to wait for 6 weeks so as to not rupture the scar... ah well I felt ready
But the second time around I had stitches and that was 7 weeks! Ouchies  (the stitches I mean lol)
Well I hope the next few weeks roll on quickly for you Kellv...  ------------- |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 05 August 2006 at 9:11pm
| I had stitches but didnt even notice and was lucky I only really bleed for a couple of weeks but then got my period at 5 weeks this time which sucks! |
Posted By: Emma_GabysMama
Date Posted: 06 August 2006 at 9:37am
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oh yea! lol right through my pregnancy my libido - both awake & in dream-land has been extremely high! ------------- Emma - 23 proud Mama to... Gabrielle Jayda-Lee 26.10.06  
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 06 August 2006 at 10:12am
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I think we waited at LEAST 8 weeks?? Bleeding, plus I was just soooooo tired! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 06 August 2006 at 12:18pm
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We gave it a shot last night but honestly it wasn't that comfy for me...but as others have said there are other things you can do if you're comfy with that...
The girls and I from work has our Joanna G party on Friday night (lingere and "power tools") and I will say there are a few purchases on thier way to me in readiness for our six week romp....unless we're asleep! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 06 August 2006 at 3:03pm
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you are terrible paws!!! ------------- "> 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 06 August 2006 at 3:24pm
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the last two days both children have been having afternoon sleeps at the same time and we have been jumping into bed but its a tough decision sex or sleep both very important you know
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Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 06 August 2006 at 3:57pm
hehehehehe.....thanks! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Sarah Beth wrote:Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:37am
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OK so up till now I have been far too well behaved for you lot, but last night I had the weirdest dream (actually it was this morning in between frequent trips to the toilet...)
Anyways in the dream I was having very hot steamy sex with... Jake the Muss? I mean, I know I like big black men (and they make beautiful babies ), but wife beaters aren't usually my type... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:57am
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my2angels....it's when you combine sleep and sex at the same time that you can get into trouble - male egos are so fragile....
Emma - at least it was a big black man instead of a weedy white one...imagine how you would have felt if you realised you were having hot steamy sex with ...Bill Gates.... ------------- |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 9:10am
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lol so what was his his pillow talk? "come on cook me some eggs B3#$ch" ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 9:10am
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Lion Brown cologne? ------------- |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 9:51am
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Nat is getting seriously annoyed with me... because I will wake up feeling very happy from a sex dream - and since I'm now satisfied, I won't jump him! He wants to know why I can dream about him and it's all good, but I don't want more. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 1:41pm
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LMAO - I don't remember any pillow talk - all action no words hehe.
Eeeew Maree - Bill Gates? Now that's just wrong! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 1:54pm
| Talking of pillow talk and please feel free to ignore this post but Im curious, how many of you (or your man) indulge in pillow talk? Im just being nosey |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 1:56pm
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These days he's sleeping in the spare room, but when I'm not the size of a whale and feeling constantly ill we sometimes get in a bit of pillow talk. More often than not tho it's him waking me up at 4am before he goes to work and my sole aim is getting it over with so I can go back to sleep... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 2:34pm
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We have a bit of pillow talk, but usually whoever wants it has been prepping the other person all day! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 07 August 2006 at 3:26pm
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All the time . ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |