Again :-(
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Topic: Again :-(
Posted By: mylilmosaic
Subject: Again :-(
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 1:47pm
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I have just copied and pasted this from my due in thread as I wanted to let all you lovely girls over here know what has happened. Hope you all don't mind me copying and pasting.
Hi girls Well unfortunately I have not such good news, my hcg levels were doubling great for the first three bloods taken but the fourth one last Friday showed they were no longer doubling. FAH called us in for a scan to see whats happening and unfortunately no heartbeat only an eggsack and fetal pole measuring 6 weeks. It should measure 7.5 weeks and there should be a heartbeat. So as some of you who know me can imagine we are quiet guttered, this journey just seems neverending We will take time to recollect ourselves and let nature take its course, hopefully. And then we still have one frozen embie and hopefully that one will be more successful. Goodluck with your pregnancies and I hope and pray that I am the last in this thread to post of a m/c. Thanks to everyone for their support and excitement for us in this pregnancy xxx We have to wait one cycle before we can have our frozen embie put back in the following cycle, so dh and I are going to focus on weight loss and getting fit to try and give the frozen embie the best possible chance. Man getting older sucks, I keep wondering whether it is the age of my eggs that is the problem, but dh said maybe its the age of his sperm too, arghhh, who knows  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Alison
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 1:57pm
Appy2 am so sorry to hear your news, all the best with your frozen embie, and take care for yourselves XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO 
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Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:11pm
awww chick! i'm so so sorry!!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:33pm
Aww Jax Im so so sorry  ------------- Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:40pm
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Oh my gosh Appy, that is terrible news I am so upset for you As you and I know, there is nothing I can say to help but please know that I am thinking of you and if this is the way it's meant to be then hopefully it isn't a long drawn out process for you Take care hun xx ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: frankie
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 2:47pm
| oh Appy I am so sorry. Take care and I hope you and your DH are coping okay (as much as you can). So sorry :( |
Posted By: MindyW
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 3:41pm
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Appy I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss I'm not really sure what I can say to help take some of your pain away because I know that it wouldnt take it away anyway! Take care hun, and my thoughts are with you and your DH ------------- My Beautiful Little Emily http://lilypie.com"> 
We've Waited for You Forever! |
Posted By: nicolaann
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 3:53pm
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Awwww Appy, I'm so sorry to hear this. Love and hugs to you and your dh My thoughts are with you both! ------------- Nicky, Mum to Alex (5) & Sophie (3) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: mylilmosaic
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 4:59pm
Thanks girls for your support, reading your posts does make me but they also make me  Its nice to know there is such a caring community at oh baby, and I know one day soon we will get our bubba. Whilst that doesn't make me feel any better today, I know in a few days I will feel better and start thinking about our next move. xxx
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Posted By: Parki
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 5:20pm
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Appy, I am so very, very sorry to hear this.
I hope you & DH are looking after each other. Things just aren't fair sometimes. Super strength, super huge hugs to you lady! xxx |
Posted By: Bee1981
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 5:46pm
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Oh Appy I'm so so sorry this wasn't meant to happen. This journey is so unfair no one should have to go through it. I am really sorry. Take care hun ------------- TTC #1 since Oct 08 #12 clomid, all BFN's #1 IUI, BFN IVF #1 Jan 11 BFN (8 frozen blasts) FET 1&2: BFN FET 3 with colorado: BFP! but chemical :( FET 4 with colorado: BFP but now fading...:( |
Posted By: asicsgal
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 6:04pm
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Oh Appy I have just heard the news. I am so gutted for you!!!!! To say things are unfair just doesn't cut it really. Huge hugs to you and your DH. Never give up hun, it's such a hard journey but you will get your bubba.
xxxxxx ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: Happygal
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 6:19pm
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Appy just posted in the other thread to you as just heard your sad news and Im just so gutted for you.. After all you had been through.. Please know we are all thinking of you and hope you will get through this xx ------------- 
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Posted By: 2_ns_lol
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:10pm
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ohhhh Appy!
So sorry to hear the news..... Nothing I can say can take your pain away, but please know my thoughts are with you
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Posted By: tarns
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:21pm
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Oh Appy I am so very very sorry to hear your news...take care... ------------- 
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Posted By: anon12345
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:22pm
There are no words that can take away your pain, nothing we can do to change what you are going through and as others have said to say this is unfair simply does not show how wrong this all is. Our hearts break for you, our tears are flowing freely and we want you to know we care and are here in anyway we can be. You and DH are in our thoughts and prayers, we trust that as the days pass you will be able to find the strength you need to process all you are going through. More than anything I wish you all the success with getting your much wanted bubs. 
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Posted By: Shezzey
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 7:25pm
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Appy.... I am so sorry |
Posted By: Bella24
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:09pm
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Appy sweetheart I am so terribly sorry to read of your news, its cruel and not fair! Sending much to you and your DH at this sad time. Know that I am thinking of you and am here if you want to talk. Sending you huge hugs sweets love Bella ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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March '10 angel RJ
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Posted By: sarahd
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:30pm
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Really sorry to hear that as I know you've had a few miscarriages as I have.
Hope you feel better to give it all another go at some stage. |
Posted By: mylilmosaic
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:35pm
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Thanks again for all your kind words you are all the best xx
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Posted By: Nightingale
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 8:50pm
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Oh honey . . . I haven't been posting on these boards since our failed IVF cycle as I didn't have much to contribute as we are back to waiting I am so sorry to read of your m/c babe It's just not fair. I hope you and DH are finding comfort in each other and all the best for your FET in a month or so ((((BIG HUG)))) ------------- ME:30 DH: 30 DS#1: Cohen (27.6.2011) DS#2: Due 13th December 2012 |
Posted By: minxynzl
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 10:11pm
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Appy, you have been nothing but a positive lght here for me, always supportive and encouraging and always there to help me along. Likeeveryone else here, I wish so much that I could change this or ease your pain in some way.
We'e here for you in any way we can be. Take care my luv, you WILL be a mother, I can feel it.
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Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 10:15pm
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Jax..I said it in the other thread, but huge massive for you - this was supposed to be your time. I will be thinking of you, and wish you all the luck in the world.
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Posted By: Ceres
Date Posted: 01 June 2010 at 10:44pm
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I'm so so sorry Appy , no words exist for how unfair this is. You and your DH are in my thoughts.
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Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 02 June 2010 at 10:46am
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Oh, I'm so, so sorry. It just isn't fair, and I wish I had words to say how much I wish this hadn't happened to you. -------------   
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Posted By: jem
Date Posted: 02 June 2010 at 3:21pm
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Oh Appy I am so so sorry for your loss. Life can be soo unfair at times. Big to you and your Dh.
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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 03 June 2010 at 8:11am
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Oh hun I am so sorry, I cant believe this has happened. Hugs to you both! -------------   
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Posted By: tischler
Date Posted: 03 June 2010 at 8:05pm
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Appy, I'm obviously really slow at catching up, the girls on the IVF chat thread led me here ...
and more of them. Such sad news for you both to be dealing with. TTC can be so cruel, and our reduced chances with IVF just seem to make it more so.
I hope you are taking lots of time to grieve before you continue on with the journey. To have a frozen emby is bittersweet - make sure you do a FET when you feel ready emotionally and physically. Thinking of you xx ------------- 5 IVF/ICSI Cycles - 10 embryo's, 8 transfers, all BFN's. Our journey to parenthood is over, and we join the unfortunate many for whom IVF does not work. |
Posted By: Blondes_Away
Date Posted: 06 June 2010 at 5:15am
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Appy,
Was so sorry to read of your loss It's just not fair. Sending you lots of strength.------------- DS1 January 2011 August 2012http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  |