Find myself obsessed...
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Forum Name: Life After Miscarriage
Forum Description: Up to one in five pregnancies ends in miscarriage, yet for many the loss of a pregnancy is isolating and lonely. Share your thoughts and feelings here with others who have experienced loss.
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Topic: Find myself obsessed...
Posted By: mum2ollie
Subject: Find myself obsessed...
Date Posted: 07 September 2010 at 2:21pm
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So I think I'm obsessed. Whenever I'm online I find myself googling like mad about woman getting pregnant right after micarriage. I do this EVERYDAY multiple times a day. I just think that if it can happen for them surely it can happen for me? I want another baby so bad I feel like my heart is going to explode. Still waiting for AF to make her grand entrance.
Sorry guys, just needed to have a bit of a confession. |
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 07 September 2010 at 3:26pm
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its ok..and normal i think.. people react in different ways and it can really consume you..hard as it is for me I had to take a step back...away from google and just chill a bit.. :( it's totally hard though and I have had two mc's so i understand! ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: Emmi_
Date Posted: 07 September 2010 at 6:47pm
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I was exactly the same M2O, its when I started charting so I knew when I had oved and when AF was going to arrive etc, I feel it helped me have some 'control' over what was happening...
Anyway, totally normal! ------------- 
+1 May 09 Angel 
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Posted By: spanky77
Date Posted: 07 September 2010 at 8:04pm
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Yup *feels m2o's forehead* normal.
It feels obsessive, all consuming and I remember feeling I just wanted to be pregnant again ASAP. Google is good for some info, but bad if you have access 24/7, as its so easy to indulge the obsession. |
Posted By: Bobsta
Date Posted: 07 September 2010 at 9:14pm
Oh this is totally normal! I went from one extreme to another and then back again  I think it's because everything is so out of our control that we are trying to find a way to gain back some control. I felt like reading and planning made me feel like I was at least doing something.
I really hope it DOES happen soon for you  ------------- Me 34 Him 35 DD almost 2 years old and... Baby #2 on it's way! http://www.babygaga.com/" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: mum2ollie
Date Posted: 07 September 2010 at 10:43pm
| Thanks everyone :) DP has promised to keep me google free for all hours of the day he is home to help. Thank goodness for that right? |
Posted By: Princess_Bubs
Date Posted: 08 September 2010 at 10:06am
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Completely normal and understandable
I am a serial googler/ohbaby'er. Every minute I'm at work without something to do - Here I am again. Not trying til next year and it's all consuming for me already. I'm going away overseas for a month on friday and will probably not get near a computer and am a little bit nervous about it. No ohbaby for a month!?!?! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Two Precious Angel Babies 2010 / 2011 
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