Lurkers
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Topic: Lurkers
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Subject: Lurkers
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:15am
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Hello lurkers.
I have just had a text from a family member asking me about something that they could have only heard from here. I don't know if this was a direct link, as in the family member was the one reading the posts and asked me first, or if she had heard it from someone else who is on here. I AM NOT PREGNANT. If the posts were read correctly... I said I was paranoid about being pregnant. This is an ongoing thing. And in further posts I wrote off any imagine symptoms to stress (from all the essays I am avoiding) and side effects of the injection. (Actually don't know if I mentioned that one... but you get it.) So... if you read anything else I might add on here, please don't tell the rest of my family. (And if it was actually my family member reading this stuff - that's ok... just don't tell my mum  )
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Posted By: nicolaann
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:18am
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LOL is no where sacred anymore!!! Not even ohbaby!! ------------- Nicky, Mum to Alex (5) & Sophie (3) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:19am
| haha This happens all the time to people... I knew it would happen to me one day. Doesn't help that Rotorua is gossip central, and I'm not there to defend myself!! |
Posted By: ellabellame
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:45am
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wow, its amazing how things get around! you'd think people have better things to do than gossip! ------------- |
Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:46am
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*seconds the motion that rotovegas is gossip central*
Sorry it happened to ya hun, but I can guarantee it wasn't moi !! ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 9:55am
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Nope....no where is sacred at all! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 10:02am
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Oh man that sucks. Ask said family member where the info came from. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 10:20am
Yeah, will ring her later on. Just have no money to text back 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 10:36am
man thats really living on the bones of your arse. Lol maybe one of said lurkers will read that you have no money and will take pity on you and shower you with gifts.  ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 10:48am
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Nikki that is horrible. I really can't understand what motivates people to tell everyone something they have either read (that they shouldn't of) or overheard. Hopefull ythe lucker comes clean and will tell you why they did it. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 11:22am
Man whats up with that?? Crazy world we live in huh? Thank God Other Indian ladies prefer to gossip over the phone and not thru internet...he he ha ah Indian's are the worst (I think)...Ok not me...I am half!! 
I never tell other Indian ladies about this site.....You never know who is lurking around!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 2:30pm
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LMAO Roksana - for some reason I never pictured Indian women as gossips. All the INdian men I know are tho...
-------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 3:04pm
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LOL ....oh no Emma...like I said they are the worse kind! Well in my experience...they will start talking about things about you that you didnt even know...he he ha ha
At one stage, when I was 18 I heard a rumour that I was getting married to this guy I heardly knew....it started when the guy in question told one of the ladies that he liked me and wanted to marry me one day (yah right!!)...so with in hours every one in the community knew that I was getting married. One of the ladies called me up and asked when? I said when what?? when are you getting married to that guy??? I was like oh I am getting married?? I hope I get an invite!!?? Arrggg. I guess its because Indians have bigger community and it takes 5 min for atleast 40 people to know one gossip!!...and within a week the whole city (indians) know ..and some non indians too (if thet are interested)...lol Men are bad too..... ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 4:14pm
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LMAO Roksana!!
Argh! Nikki, it feels kinda weird and yucky doesnt it, knowing that people you know somehow are reading all this stuff about you  Hope you find out who it was  btw, youdid make a mention about injection side effects------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 4:30pm
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Oh that is horrible Nikki!
Yes, we all know that what we write on here could be read by anyone, but its pretty rude to go gossiping about it. Its as bad as eavesdropping. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 5:34pm
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Wasnt me either, Im way down in little old chch so dont know any one up your end of the country hehe
I dont tell my friends about this site and told hubby off for telling a lady he knows about it (she has just had a baby) To me if someone i know started on here it would be like them reading my diary or listening in on a conversation i was having, i just like it to be private (well as private as anything can be on the net of course lol) |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 19 September 2006 at 8:47pm
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was,nt me i,m in the same boat as my2angles way down in the deep dark south but that suxs if someone is telling people what is read on here ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 20 September 2006 at 9:01am
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... although, if it were the same family member who texted you to ask, does that really count as lurking? Well, if they weren't a newbie to the forums I guess it would, come to think of it. I've told my friends who may be interested in Oh Baby about this site - I don't want anyone finding out by accident just how much I've been geeking! He he... at least if I fess first I get to explain why I've found it so helpful! ------------- Andie |
Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 20 September 2006 at 12:57pm
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I have learnt to be careful cause you never know who is on here that you know for example I have found at least 4 people on here that I did not know I knew its rather weird, but it does make me wonder how many more there might be. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 20 September 2006 at 1:08pm
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I'm kind of possessive about OHbaby! All of my friends know about it of course because it's my job, but I don't encourage them to hang around - I share way too much info here! Then again, maybe I SHOULD encourage them - that way I won't have to repeat the same story over and over again... ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 20 September 2006 at 2:49pm
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haha Atleast it wasn't true. Now that'd be bad.
I did tell my family member about this site, but she isn't into computers so I can't imagine it would have been her. |