can any one help please
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Topic: can any one help please
Posted By: confused89
Subject: can any one help please
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 11:07pm
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hi there i know this is a bit of tract but im needing some help
well i had a M/c in november 2010 and didnt need an D and c bleed for three weeks and was given the all clear after a scan i got my period six weeks later and it was like normal was on the 30/12/10 and ended on the 3/1/11 and i havent had a period since i am coming up two months late and really confused ive had six pregnancy test since my period was due on the 30th of last month my period are usally not normal sometimes around two or three weeks out that was before my m/c and normally last around 5 days ive also been for a blood test and was negative ive been with my partner for three years and that was my first pregnancy it took us nearly three years to conceive for us to M/C can anyone help has anyone been or going through this could i be pregnant ??? i really hope so.... we are trying as much as we can i really want a baby ive been trying not to think about it and it will happen when it will happen but its so hard when you really want a baby also ive been finding it so hard i found out the same day my friend did and she it still pregant she has found out the sex of her baby ive been finding it hard to be around her jelous really can cant stop thinking bout it i would have been 22 weeks this sat and this is her 3rd baby and would have been my first can anyone help sometimes it takes words from people that have been through it or going through it to guide you ive found my doctor isnt so great she dosent really help me in the way i need her to like when i try and talk to her about getting pregnant she dosnt really wanna help i know im young 21 but i want this ive chosen this path and i know ill be good at it.. 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 11:17pm
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Hi there,
Often it takes a couple of cycles to settle down again after a m/c. I had two 6 week cycles and then conceived after that. Previous to my m/c I had always been very regular, 28 day cycles. It's hard to not get too hopeful or too down, but your body just needs a bit of time to come right and you'll probably conceive again once that has happened. Hang in there :) -------------  |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 11:26pm
| ive had one since my M/C and now there missing nearly missed two periods that cant be normal i understand if will take time and my body needs to heal i was told by my midwife to wait two cycles to try again you dont have to but for you bodies sake by still trying do you think ive cloged someting or stoped something from healing?? is that possible |
Posted By: whitewave
Date Posted: 26 February 2011 at 10:51pm
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Have you seen a fertility specialist at all? It seems odd to me that you'd been trying for 3 years before you got pregnant, and you're only young. If you're not finding your GP helpful, you could always see someone else.
Hopefully you get your period back soon, and get your mind put at ease. |
Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 10 March 2011 at 9:49am
still no period almost three months late
 Angel baby 1/11/10
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