Don’t know what to do
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Topic: Don’t know what to do
Posted By: Topkat
Subject: Don’t know what to do
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 2:19am
As I sit hear tears stream down my face
In two days I have to be induced at 19 weeks preg as our baby was descovered to have kidney abnormalities at our 19 week scan. The Kidneys are not functioning and the baby will not survive. I am scared and I am sad I'm not sure how to get through this please any advise would be great |
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Posted By: kriss
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 3:37am
All my love darling, thinking of you   ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Zaylah
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 7:23am
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No advice hun.
Lots of love, hugs, and thoughts is all I can offer. xx ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: shadowfeet
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 8:26am
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I'm so sorry ------------- 
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Posted By: princesspumpkin
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 8:32am
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, I'm so sorry Sending all the love & support in the world your way
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 8:40am
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I know how you feel. I had my 2nd baby at 22w because of abnormalities also. I'm sorry you have to go through it also.
If you have any questions about the induction or anything PM me.
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 3:52pm
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I'm so sorry this is happening to you ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: zcm
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 9:18pm
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Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 9:35pm
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Sorry cant help but just wanted to send you some huge huge hugs topcat! I'm so sorry! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kalimirella
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 10:10pm
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------------- Kiara is 3 and Teagan is 2, now we're expecting our long awaited 3rd! http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 19 March 2011 at 11:15pm
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Huge Hugs Topkat. ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: SquishysMum
Date Posted: 20 March 2011 at 11:46am
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I'm so sorry, Topkat. Thinking of you
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Posted By: BabyBoyPlusBean
Date Posted: 20 March 2011 at 5:57pm
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Posted By: jano1
Date Posted: 20 March 2011 at 8:38pm
| Big hugs topkat, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Everybody communities have an active thread on miscarriage and early loss, you might find some of the info there useful including ways to commemorate your little one. |
Posted By: Emmi_
Date Posted: 20 March 2011 at 9:09pm
Thinking of you and your family ------------- 
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Posted By: Raspberryjam
Date Posted: 23 March 2011 at 10:01am
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Im so sad for you hun, Im so so sorry you have to go through this
My love and thoughts are with you xx ------------- http://lilypie.com] 
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Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 24 March 2011 at 4:29pm
| Thinking of you Topkat xx |
Posted By: dneyn
Date Posted: 27 March 2011 at 8:18pm
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I'm sorry topkat, thinking of you xxoo ------------- http://alterna-tickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 27 March 2011 at 8:56pm
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Oh topkat Im so sorry ------------- |
Posted By: Kazper
Date Posted: 27 March 2011 at 9:12pm
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So sorry you are going through this! ------------- http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/545141" rel="nofollow">  |
Posted By: queenbean
Date Posted: 28 March 2011 at 9:44pm
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Oh I am so so gutted to see this, and sorry I've only seen this post now, a bit late. Like Stacey, I have been through something very similar with my first baby so please PM me anytime if you need to ask anything or just need some support. It is truly the most traumatic thing and it breaks my heart when I see someone having to go through it. I hope everything went as smoothly as it possibly could and you are doing OK hun. Big, big hugs :( -------------   
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Posted By: bikershaz
Date Posted: 19 April 2011 at 10:40am
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Hi Topkat,
I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. Unfortunately there are no words - I know this only too well. If ever you want someone to talk to please PM me. Lots of love and hugs S xxx ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://counters.families.com">
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