I cried for the first time today
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Topic: I cried for the first time today
Posted By: 0mrs0ana0
Subject: I cried for the first time today
Date Posted: 19 June 2012 at 7:27pm
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I knew in April I was going to MC, the actual MC was early May. I have never once cried, always just felt numb.
Hubby and I went to see What to Expect When You're Expecting today, one of the characters had a MC, I bawled like a baby 
I think I'm finally allowing myself to grieve? ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 May 2012
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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 19 June 2012 at 8:09pm
 Im similar,...wasnt particularly upset at the time, certianly didnt cry,...but its hit me like that randomly at times too.
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Posted By: 0mrs0ana0
Date Posted: 19 June 2012 at 10:12pm
| Good to know I'm not the only one, the few people that I have mentioned this too gave me surprised, raised eyebrows |
Posted By: redtulip
Date Posted: 24 June 2012 at 2:34pm
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Yup... same here, random things still trigger me... sometimes after having gone weeks of being absolutely fine. Pretty sure its normal - definately healthy too, means our feelings aren't being bottled.
I'm giving 'surprised, raised eyebrows' while reading about the people who gave you 'surprised, raised eyebrows'!!! Guess it shows that you really never understand another persons journey until you've walked in their shoes... sure they just haven't experienced the same... Will remember not to go see the movie anyway... Take care x ------------- 5 wee Angels - Always in our hearts - Aug '11, Feb '12, Aug '12, Feb '13, Aug '13
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Posted By: Orca1
Date Posted: 25 June 2012 at 6:08pm
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I saw the trailer for that movie and thought its a "must miss" for me! Its funny the different things that will trigger your emotions like that. Random things will still set me off and I think that is totally normal. Its something that is always with me I just handle it differently at different times.
I agree with Redtulip and am raising my eyebrows at the raised eyebrows you got as well! -------------  DD born 2008 Oct 2009, April 2010, Dec 2010, June 20117 x IVF/ICSI/PGD = BFN |
Posted By: Bells&Gem
Date Posted: 23 July 2012 at 1:05pm
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YAY!!! it's normal.
I also saw the movie and spent that part of the movie in tears as I had just gone through it also. Was very hard. Hope you ladies are all doing OK. |