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Topic: TTC # 2
Posted By: HelloYellow
Subject: TTC # 2
Date Posted: 04 June 2013 at 10:10pm
Hi!!!
Just wanting to see if there's anyone else in same boat as me. I'm TTC number two. I have a ten month old daughter but even with hands full with her I can't keep my mind busy. Always on google etc!!! Driving me mad!


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Posted By: nerv0usmama
Date Posted: 04 June 2013 at 10:56pm
Hi!!
I am TTC #2 I have a 3 year old (4 in july) boy. I work fulltime. Seriously look on pinterest!! Ideas for you, her, house, baby everything!! Its where I head when I'm bored lol.


Posted By: HelloYellow
Date Posted: 05 June 2013 at 7:37am
I will hit Pinterest today! Since my plans of groceries and shopping has been spoiled!!!
Part of me wishes I had a job to keep myself occupied, but with child care I don't think it's worth it. Can't rely on my partner as every second week and weekend he's on call (works for Fulton Hogan). Should count myself lucky I can be a SAHM!

How long have you been TTC #2??

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Posted By: nerv0usmama
Date Posted: 05 June 2013 at 6:57pm
Working can be bitter sweet. I am shattered 90% of the time but I get bored being a SAHM.
This is our first full month, got my copper IUD taken out last cycle
How about you?


Posted By: Greenery
Date Posted: 05 June 2013 at 10:10pm
Hi!
Also TTC#2. We have a 2 and a half year old boy. been trying a year.
Have had a root canal and due to get a kidney stone out so hopefully after that we will finally get a BFP!


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Posted By: Greenery
Date Posted: 05 June 2013 at 10:11pm
oh and Pinterest is dangerous! haha

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Posted By: ALittleLoopy
Date Posted: 05 June 2013 at 10:26pm
#2 here too miss C is 2.8 years old, bigger gap due to PND, horrid birth and hyperemesis with DD ...safe to say excited by petrified!

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Posted By: BabyNo2Time
Date Posted: 06 June 2013 at 7:43am
Trying for number 2 here too. DS is 2.9yrs, 3 at the end of July. I had hoped for a slightly smaller age gap, but this getting pregnant again is taking a bit more time than last time. I am now 36 and DH is nearly 33 .

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Posted By: HelloYellow
Date Posted: 06 June 2013 at 8:53am
This is our first month TTC. And after much reading its not as simple as doing a Baby Dance like first time around. There's so much to it.

So pleased there's other mums out there ttc #2!

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Posted By: Jessaroo
Date Posted: 06 June 2013 at 10:01pm
HEya also TTC 2 - Son is 5 - just started school - I work full time at the mo but swtitching to casual in two weeks :) Had Jadelle taken out 4th May hoping things happen quickly (as is everyone haha) this TWW business is doing my head in and we are only just beginning!


Posted By: HelloYellow
Date Posted: 07 June 2013 at 11:10am
Hi Jessaroo. Hope things happen for you quickly too.
I never thought ttc would be so hard. If AF visits this weekend then ill be onto my second cycle. I really thought it would happen first time. Preg tests are saying negative so I'm abit disappointed.
Need to keep reminding myself it will happen when it's meant to.
I should count myself lucky as I consider myself and my partner quite fertile. Our DD wasn't planned and was conceived a week into our relationship. I know other people really struggle to even get pregnant with their first child.


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Posted By: Greenery
Date Posted: 07 June 2013 at 1:39pm
we got pregnant with #1 on the second month. This time round it has been hard!
I know so many people who have gotten preg while we have been trying (and some who really shouldnt have haha).
fingers crossed we all do soon!!!

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Posted By: Lovebeingamummy
Date Posted: 07 June 2013 at 8:28pm
We have just started #2 as well! Our first son is 2 years 4 months and we have decided the timing's right to begin working on our second (and probably final) bubba! Currently on second cycle of trying (was sick over PV last month, doh!). On CD 14 tomorrow (but tend to OV about day 19 or so). We got pregnant with #1 on third month of trying (when I was 32). I only came off the pill a few months back and wanted my body to have a cycle or two to try and get things back to normal before TC. I am taking folic acid too!


Posted By: Lovebeingamummy
Date Posted: 07 June 2013 at 8:28pm
OV!! (not PV!)


Posted By: Jessaroo
Date Posted: 07 June 2013 at 9:15pm
Heya yeah I was hoping it would happen quickly too haha and with my son it was also unplanned and early into a relationship!
I took a bloody test today even though I knew I shouldnt but couldnt help it and naturally got a negative lol grrr not due for like a week, if it comes we will be into second proper cycle too. Im considering buying ovulation testing kits they seem cheap and might help my piece of mind lol


Posted By: nerv0usmama
Date Posted: 07 June 2013 at 10:10pm
I am so tempted to test tomorrow morning as we are meant to be going out tomorrow night and I haven't thought of a good excuse not to drink yet *sigh* but alas af isn't due till next weekend


Posted By: Reffinej
Date Posted: 08 June 2013 at 4:38am
Hi, thought I'd jump in here, too. TTC no2 soon, probably. DD1 is nearly 15 months old. Am looking into pre-conception detox. Currently towards end of 6 week visit to UK to see rellies while DH is back in NZ missing us. Good luck to you all!

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Posted By: HelloYellow
Date Posted: 08 June 2013 at 9:07am
All testing early got me was disappointment. I'm due for AF today no sign yet. Got another BFN. So disapointing I was so sure. If I'm not preg then what's with the permanent sore lower back, and cramps. Never had it as a lead up to AF. Or in first few weeks or pregnancy with Elise.
My plan now is to keep an eye out for AF and if she doesn't arrive I'll test again. :(
How's everyone doing?

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Posted By: emmakm
Date Posted: 08 June 2013 at 7:18pm
We were planning to start ttc in September-ish, but now we've made a decision, I'm so excited that I want to start now! We have a 22mth old DD who came along a bit earlier than planned, so I haven't been through the ttc part. Sounds a bit silly, but not sure where to start!! (besides the obvious BDing!!!)
What vitamins etc are you ladies taking??


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Posted By: Jessaroo
Date Posted: 10 June 2013 at 9:40am
Iv just been taking elevit everyday nothing else - doctor told me that should be all i would need with balanced diet when I went in to have Jadelle taken out etc.
Last week of work this week, I think being at home full time and doing sh*ts actually going to take my mind off it all a bit more cos Ill be right into wedding planning etc. When Im at work its all I think about! And I can focus on my health and fitness too cos Ill be able to go walking with my other stay at home Mum friends! Yay haha
Not testing again until Saturday - doing the leaving eftpos card at home thing all week! haha


Posted By: cantygirl
Date Posted: 10 June 2013 at 3:22pm
TTC #2 as well :-) We have a 12mth old and wanting another now. We haven't really started trying properly but I'm having alot of symptoms this month so hoping that its happened already! Tired, nausea, short of breath, getting up to pee at night, increased appetite. I've tested twice and both negative. AF due Wed/Thurs so I guess I'll just wait till then to test if AF doesn't arrive. At times I feel stupid and like I must be talking myself into seeing symptoms but the almost constant nausea since we possible conceived is def not normal! Waiting sucks big time! Nice to be able to talk about it here though. Hope all our journeys in this group are nice and quick! :-)

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Posted By: Jessaroo
Date Posted: 10 June 2013 at 7:47pm
I feel like I talk myself into seeing symptoms too! Like I had lower back ache all day and last month before I finally got my period I was CONVINCED the spotting was implantation bleeding and that my boobs were sore etc!


Posted By: nerv0usmama
Date Posted: 10 June 2013 at 8:43pm
yup def agree with the talking yourself into symptoms!!


Posted By: HaumoanaNZ
Date Posted: 12 June 2013 at 4:22pm
I'm just starting to ttc for #2. I took my last pill yesterday. I'm still BF my DS so I don't know what affect that will have on the whole process. I've been taking pregavit, as the iron in elevit really upsets my digestive system.

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Posted By: kazzanz05
Date Posted: 23 June 2013 at 11:57pm
We are TTC#2 as well. Our DD is 4 (5 in January). Only stopped pill last month. So will see how it goes :)


Posted By: Reffinej
Date Posted: 25 June 2013 at 6:39pm
Back from UK and kinda trying...well, certainly not preventing!!

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Posted By: Hails1
Date Posted: 05 July 2013 at 2:27pm
We are TTC #2 at the moment DS has just turned 1! I'm really looking forward to giving him a little brother or sister With extra long cycles (43 days) and a husband that works away I think this time will be a bit more difficult!


Posted By: alanarenee
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 5:03pm
I know this is an old thread but is anyone else currently ttc #2??
Would be nice to chat to others at the same stage :)


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Posted By: Fingersxd4#2
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 5:06pm
Yip not having much luck.

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Jun 08 - TTC #1
Dec 11 - Found out I was UTD
Jul 12 - DD was born
Jan 13 - TTC #2
May 14 - Early Miscarriage from final round of 50mg Clomid
Dec 14 - Miscarriage at 8.5weeks from 100mg Clomid


Posted By: alanarenee
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 5:16pm
hi fingersxd, sorry to hear you are not having much luck. do you know if there is any particular reason why it might be taking a while?

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Posted By: bubs2014
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 5:31pm
Hi, i am. Recently had a miscarriage at almost 6 weeks.

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Posted By: animaxnz
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 6:21pm
Im trying for #2. I had a mmc in Dec and have a 2 year old son. Hubby has finally come round to the idea but I think hes just looking forward to the bd.

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Posted By: Fingersxd4#2
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 7:22pm
Low sperm mobility and me lol

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Jun 08 - TTC #1
Dec 11 - Found out I was UTD
Jul 12 - DD was born
Jan 13 - TTC #2
May 14 - Early Miscarriage from final round of 50mg Clomid
Dec 14 - Miscarriage at 8.5weeks from 100mg Clomid


Posted By: misssara
Date Posted: 17 March 2014 at 9:06pm
Soon to start TTC # 2 here. DD is 23 months and both DH and I are soooooo ready for the next. Have to wait till May though unfortunately as I had to have an MMR Booster. I am looking at it as a positive thing through. Gives me time to get my body ready for the whole TTC thing. It was so easy first time around with DD that I am petrified that this time it will take forever :-(


Posted By: alanarenee
Date Posted: 19 March 2014 at 4:30pm
Hope things get better bubs2014 and animaxnz!
missara I am the same - it was easy first time and was expecting it to happen first time this time around but not the case :( It doesnt help I like things to go perfectly and so plan which months I think would be good for #2. I am not so sure I want to be heavily preg in Summer but also feel like I dont want to wait too long for another bub

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Posted By: animaxnz
Date Posted: 19 March 2014 at 5:43pm
Thanks Alana, I feel rather accepting of it now but still occasionally sad/jealous of others. I would have been 24 weeks along now.
My son was born new years day and it was uncomfortable but on the plus side i didnt have to find massive winter clothes and it was nice and warm getting up to bubs in the middle of the night. By the time it was winter he didnt need a nappy change 5 times a night so it was ok to have lots of warm layers so definately some positives to having a summer baby.

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Posted By: Talz
Date Posted: 19 March 2014 at 5:49pm
Ttc #2 here too. DS is 19mths and we wanted 2 year gap. We were due initially august but had a missed miscarriage discovered at 12 weeks that bub died at just over 8. So had d&c early feb and no luck getting utd on the first cycle. So ttc now agaon for our second.

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Posted By: miss_bling
Date Posted: 19 March 2014 at 5:52pm
We're TTC#2. Our first is 2 1/2 now. conceived our first in 3 months, and we're up to 7 months with #2. No obvious reason why other than we're in the older age bracket - though I was 36 with our first - and 38 now .... People say it will happen - so I'm hoping thats true :-)   Had an FA referral - saw the specialist and he said everything looks fine. What the GP thought was a motility issue isn't an issue at all so we've been given a clean bill of health. Specialist suggested a laparoscopy to check everything is okay - but our insurance will only cover 35% of it, which is $4000 so we decided to go on the public wait list for that and save the pennies for the fertility side that we won't get funding for if it comes to that ... :-)

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Posted By: enelra
Date Posted: 19 March 2014 at 9:06pm
Hi thought I would join in here :) we are going to be ttc#2 very soon. Will start trying in another month or so. Waiting because I have committed to a fixed term job till December so baby can't come before January ;)
We have an almost 2 year old daughter, took 6 months to conceive her. Hoping less time this time round, but being realistic too.
All the best ladies xx

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Posted By: alanarenee
Date Posted: 20 March 2014 at 6:46pm
Getting up in the night would be nicer in Summer! I also thought it would be easier to keep #1 occupied during the first few weeks if it was summer and he could play outside/go to park etc. Was nice having winter baby 1st only since we could stay snuggled inside all day after I had my csect. Whenever it happens I am sure there are pros & cons it you looked for them anyway. Fingers crossed it happens soon for everyone without having to deal with too much along the way

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Posted By: Hidihils
Date Posted: 26 March 2014 at 1:53pm
Yes we are TTC number 2 as well. DD is nearly 16 months and we had a MC in Oct was due May 31. The first 2 happened so easily and really wanted that to happen again but alas we aren't so lucky!! I am forever hopeful that each month will be our month!! Really want to see those 2 lines x


Posted By: Mushroom
Date Posted: 26 March 2014 at 3:18pm
Hi Alanarenee - we're hoping for a #2. In a different boat to you though as we have fertility issues - still hoping for a natural miracle to occur, otherwise that the IVM/IVF treatments over the next year will get us another child! Our DS is over 3.5 yrs now, so would love a sibling for him (we've been trying ever since he was born).

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6+ yrs TTC#2
M/C 2012, clomid 2013, IVM 2014, IVF 2015, M/C 2015
2016 FET#1- BFP - MMC - Emergency D&C
FET#2 - BFN
Jul 16 - stage 3 endo removed.
Oct 16 BFP


Posted By: TinkaElle
Date Posted: 14 October 2014 at 10:30pm
Hi ladies, just wondering if anyone is around still who would use this thread? My first LO is just over six months, and wondering if we will have another. Some days I'm amped at the idea others I'm exhausted and feel like he'll be an only child!

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Posted By: wilsonbub_nz
Date Posted: 06 February 2015 at 7:09am
Bit of a newbie to forums. Have been trying for number 2 for about 7 months and its it happening. No probs with number one. My cycle is all over the show. Can be 27 days one month and 44 days the next. Dr thinks I may not be ovulating but didn't give any advice to help regulate it. Any ideas?


Posted By: KP06
Date Posted: 06 February 2015 at 8:59am
Hey wilsonbub, I also have irregular cycles ranging from 29-55 days usually, I ovulate every single cycle without a problem.
I'm not sure what you can do to regulate it (I'd love to know if there was) but the best thing to do is to check you are ovulating is start charting your temperature, you are welcome to come and join the charting girls thread and everyone over there will be happy to help teach and guide you,



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