Need to let off Steam!!!...
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Topic: Need to let off Steam!!!...
Posted By: BaAsKa
Subject: Need to let off Steam!!!...
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:24pm
I just needed to let off a bit off steam to everyone over an incident with my doctors!!
Well it all started with the blood tests etc that the doc takes for pregnancy...the doctor rung me up to say that my routine Chlamydia test had come back positive!!!  and that i had to talk to my hubby because "he mustv have strayed!!" this assumption was made because hubby and i have been together since we were 14 and 15 so have only slept with each other! so anyway when i hit hubby up about it he was sooooooo angry!!  after many a fights etc! he marched us both to the doctors to get retested and yesterday i recieved a letter in the mail saying "We are so very sorry and we know this is confussing but both your tests came back negative!!! so therefore you were given false results last week"!!!! i was just like "WHAT THE F^%K!!!!!!!!! you just caused some big marital fight!! because you made a 'mistake'!!!
Its just that my doc said that theyv never had false results therefore there is no mistake but i was adament as i didnt have any! symptoms!!!
Im choosing to let it go as i know its not the docs fault its the lab! and i dont need anymore hassle or stress!! because im pregnant and moving towns so thats enough for me! 
I just needed to vent to everyone and now i have so yeah
I must say though - im happy that it was negative as it has taken a load off my mind!!! 
I know it probably seems like im making a hoohaa out of nothing but it put a big strain on my marraige so there should be some kind of leeway to say that yes they can be wrong... |
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:32pm
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That chlamydia test that they do is so suspect! The exact same thing happened to me when I was preg with Maya, and at the time Willie and I were having enough problems without adding that into the mix! What happens is they test the urine sample and it comes back "needs further testing" so then they do a more detailed test that comes back negative. The actual type of chlamydia has some fancy name starting with T.
So I can definitely relate! -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:36pm
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OMG thats terrible. Poor you and your poor hubby. I would be totally sh*tty pants. I wonder who's result you got, lol that person thinks they are clean but they have Chlamydia ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:37pm
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oh Emma it sux ay!!! they only did the urine one for us and the doc showed me the results that said a firm POSITIVE! so she was so sure of herself!! but then when hubby insisted on doing another urine test exactly the same they get different results!!!
It soooo sux!!! Im glad im not alone in having gone through it! 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:37pm
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ohhh i got edited..... ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:39pm
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Too True Angelnz!!!! there is someone out there who has just gotten the right results!! and not nice results!! if they even got them!!
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:47pm
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Baysmum that must have been horrible and no wonder you need the vent! So glad your DH suggested retesting. ------------- |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:55pm
I really believed hubby as he was so adament and he is an awful! liar!!! cant lie to save himself!!! lol and he kept saying that he "would never risk loosing his wife and son over a stupid fling!" which kinda hit home and now i feel really stink for even accussing him! . He wasnt even the least bit shocked when the real results came in all he said was "well what else did you expect them to say!"
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 16 November 2006 at 9:59pm
I just wanted to add - my hubby is so cute! he just went and bought a spongebob playstation2 game just so he could play with his son and its so cute watching!!! i dont have the heart to say that its 2 hours past Bays bedtime!
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 17 November 2006 at 7:34am
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that sucks - maria what do you mean you got edited? ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 17 November 2006 at 8:11am
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lol what i wrote has a star where an I should be. I didnt think it was tooo bad but obviously is an auto edit. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |