TarshaA update
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Topic: TarshaA update
Posted By: tarshaa
Subject: TarshaA update
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 1:00pm
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Thank you all so much for your kind words over the last few days. It means more to me than I can explain. I am ok - emotional and a little bitter, but ok. I had my D&C yesterday, which wasn't as horrible as I expected. I was under a general so remember nothing, thank God. They have sent the foetal tissue off for genetic testing, mainly because it was my third loss in such a short time. They doubt that they will find anything, but I would rather they at least check it. My house is starting to look like either a florist or a funeral home (depending on my mood), with a lot of wonderful friends sending me flowers, which I never expected. Dean and I have made the decision (at least for now), that this is jsut too damn hard and we can't keep on TTC. We have been trying for pretty much 2 years, and had 3 losses. Emotionally it's just to hard to deal with. We ar lucky to have a beautiful little girl, and each other, and maybe trying for more is jsut pushing our luck too far. Thank you so much for your support. It means more to me than words can say. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 1:32pm
| Oh Tarshaa, I didnt realise you had m/c, Im really sorry to hear that. I know how hard it can be, big hugs to you all. |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:19pm
Big hugs from us (Zaara and I) too......
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:21pm
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So sorry to hear your sad news, Tarshaa. Big hugs to you xx ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: luna
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:30pm
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Sorry to hear your very sad news - hope you and hubby start to feel better about everything very soon.
Sounds a good idea to give yourselves a 'rest' for a while as it's a very hard time right now. Hope things pick up for you soon.  ------------- Selina http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:59pm
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Im so sorry Tarshaa
I hope you can get some answers for at least peace of mind. |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:09pm
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I hadn't realised either. All I can say is -------------  |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:29pm
i'm so sorry for your loss tarsha!!
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:37pm
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Sorry to hear of your loss. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:50pm
| sorry to hear of your loss Tarshaa. i dind't realise you had miscarried. It sounds like you guys have lots of support at home! |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 5:32pm
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Thinking of you Tarshaa. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Lulu
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:15pm
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Tarsha, big hugs I can't find the right words to give you the comfort that I so want to express, but my thoughts are with you. ------------- Lou http://www.babysfirstsite.com"> 
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:40pm
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Big hugs
Nothing more to say.....Thinking of you all ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:49pm
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Aw tarshaa!!! Lots of hugs and thinking of ya
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Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:43pm
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Thinking of you Tarshaa and sending you the biggest hugs ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:45pm
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Big from me too ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 01 December 2006 at 7:59am
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From me too, I too am very sorry for your loss. Stay strong! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 01 December 2006 at 8:56am
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So sorry to hear it! Big Big hugs from me too ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: LockieandLiam
Date Posted: 01 December 2006 at 11:07am
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Sorry Tarsha to hear of your loss, it certainly can't be an easy thing to go through. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Take care and big hugs ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 01 December 2006 at 7:48pm
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Big hugs Tarsha. I wish tehre was something I could say but I know from experience there's not. So thinking of you and hoping that tme helps the start of the healing process for you and Dean. ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 02 December 2006 at 2:48pm
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big hugs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: mellybelly
Date Posted: 02 December 2006 at 6:01pm
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Tarshaa,
As Emma said, there is nothing we can say that will make it all better, but please know that we are here for support anytime you need it.
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