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Topic: Let's talk about surrogacy!
Posted By: Amanda250156
Subject: Let's talk about surrogacy!
Date Posted: 04 December 2019 at 5:48pm
Hi girls! I would like to discuss with you the topic of surrogacy. Often advertised as a more efficient pathway to surrogacy (and realising your dream of having a family), going overseas can seem an attractive option for intended parents. There are many destinations offering surrogacy services, but not all will be secure, well-established or available to you as a foreign citizen.

The biggest issue to be aware of is new or emerging destinations. Often such countries offer surrogacy services in the absence of a supportive legal framework – meaning that you (and your surrogate and child) will be vulnerable to potentially catastrophic legislative change throughout the process.

In addition, agencies can disappear as quickly as they appeared, before having fulfilled their promise to set up an arrangement; often leaving intended parents high and dry.

Beware also of agencies and clinics that claim to work around the legal restrictions in places such as Thailand and India (until recently very popular surrogacy destinations) by outsourcing surrogates and/or fertility treatment.

However, in countries with a robust surrogacy history, it is possible to join a professional agency that will match with you a surrogate, an egg donor (if necessary), facilitate your treatment and arrangement as a whole and hold your hand until you have your longed-for child. These destinations are now few and far between.

What are the best surrogate destinations in your opinion?



Replies:
Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 04 December 2019 at 6:09pm
Hi Amanda! Glad to see you again on this forum! I agree with you, this topic needs to be discussed. The number of infertile couples is growing every year, so this topic does not lose relevance.

In my opinion the USA and Ukraine are among the top overseas surrogacy destinations. Each has its own particularities (not least because not all States in the US are surrogacy friendly) and a large choice of agencies and clinics that will handle each aspect of the process.

Although these are amongst the most secure and well-established countries, it is still crucial to do your research before selecting an agency and signing up to an arrangement. It is also vital to seek legal advice, to ensure that your proposed arrangement does not breach any legislation and to set up for the process ahead. But there are still other details of this process, let's discuss them too.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 6:33pm
Hi girls, yes, surrogacy is allowed in the USA. However, in my opinion, the cost of this service in the USA is extremely high. It seems to me that it is more expedient to consider other areas. Because typical surrogacy procedures in the United States range from $95,000 to $150,000 or more, plus the cost of any emergency medical care for the surrogate or child. For this reason the US has been a popular surrogacy option for wealthy couples in Europe and China, but not often an option for “average” couples. Independent programs can cost $70,000 USD. Adding a consultant to find your surrogate and support your journey can cost about $13,000 additional. What do you think of Thailand and Russia?


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 6:42pm
Hi, thanks for your reply! Indeed, you asked an interesting question. But Thailand is no longer an option. In recent years Thailand had taken center stage as the destination for gestational surrogacy worldwide. But, a few popularized scandals involving surrogacy in Thailand have resulted in new oversights, restrictions, and a complete government ban on surrogacy for any foreign nationals. New legislation now enforces a total ban on commercial surrogacy, including any business that support surrogacy for foreigners. Altruistic surrogacy is legal, but is strongly restricted only to couples where there is a direct blood relationship between the commissioning parents and the surrogate mother. This effectively eliminates the possibility of legal surrogacy for all foreign couples.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 6:54pm
Yes, I know about Thailand, indeed, there were a lot of scandals related to surrogacy of foreign couples. But I think that joining the program of surrogacy in Russia is also accompanied by risk. I will explain to you why I think so.
Russia offers legal surrogacy for heterosexual couples with diagnosed infertility. Couples considering surrogacy in Russia will need to show they are medically incapable of carrying a pregnancy themselves. Although Intended Parents need to be in a heterosexual relationship, Russia is unique in that couples do not need to be married. This opens the door to single men pursuing surrogacy in Russia with a “female friend” who is willing to sign the surrogacy contract and be named the baby’s legal mother. Note that in Russia, there is a 30-day window following the birth where the surrogate is legally allowed to change her mind and request parental rights. This makes Russia a somewhat risky option even for heterosexual couples, but much more so for single men seeking illicit surrogacy programs.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 7:06pm
Yes, girls, in many countries surrogacy is associated with greater risk. But many childless couples have to look for any options. And all because in many in most Western European countries a surrogacy arrangement that is either commercial or altruistic is unlawful and is not sanctioned by the government. In France, Germany, Switzerland and Italy the governments have been quite vocal about not supporting surrogacy agreements. In the United Kingdom, Ireland, Denmark, Belgium and the Netherlands, altruistic surrogacy is legal while commercial surrogacy is illegal. In these countries there is a legal framework for the transfer pf parental rights from the surrogate to the Intended Parents. But the parental transfer must be approved by the local courts, and there are restrictions that must be met.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 7:21pm
Yes, this is a very big nuisance for childless couples in Western Europe. Do you know that in the UK for example, there is a limit to the amount of compensation that can be paid to the surrogate in order for the Parental Transfer to be considered. And in Sweden, surrogacy is not clearly regulated too. And this is a very big problem. Surrogacy is treated similarly to adoption of a child from a living parent. Thus a court process is required, and the surrogate mother has the right to keep the child if she changes her mind before the adoption, while the biological father may also claim right to the child. But here progress is already visible. Because the Swedish government has been helpful to parents bringing surrogacy babies home from overseas. I also know that surrogacy was allowed in India and in Nepal, is that so?


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 7:32pm
No, girls, unfortunately these directions are closed...Surrogacy in India is restricted, final laws regulating the treatment have not yet been passed by the full government. Many agencies that had been operating in India announced new services in Nepal when Mumbai closed its doors to foreign couples. This was a short opportunity, as the Nepali Supreme Court quickly ordered a stay on surrogacy services until the government provides comprehensive legislation to regulate the practice. In 2016 a meeting of government ministers decided not to contest the Court’s ban, and thus leave the prohibition against surrogacy in place. As a result, surrogacy is no longer possible in Nepal. Every year, the number of directions for surrogacy is decreasing.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 7:51pm
Indeed, I support your point of view. It is also worth mentioning that earlier surrogacy was allowed in Mexico. But the options have changed dramatically since the laws changed in 2016. The new options range from creative solutions to navigate the lack of regulation, to downright dangerous programs to be avoided. A new option in Mexico has circumvented the risk of “unregulated” surrogacy by promising a Court Order upholding the terms of the surrogacy contract before the surrogate is even pregnant. The court order adds much needed security, but the downside is that it adds 4 months or more to the surrogacy journey, and there are significant legal costs added to the total budget. Some childless couples take risks and go to Kenya to enter the surrogacy program. Yes, there are really low prices. But this service there is associated with incredibly high risks.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 05 December 2019 at 8:02pm
Unfortunately this is true, Kenya is not the best option, I think many people understand why. I can say the same about Cambodia. But as of 2016, Surrogacy in Cambodia is banned by the Ministries of Health and of Justice. Changes in the regulations in that country have outlawed surrogacy and local actions by the authorities have made it clear that the prohibition will be treated seriously. By the way, did you know surrogacy allowed in Laos? But still, this is a very difficult topic. Surrogacy in Laos is possible due to a lack of official regulation on the topic. But it would be difficult to imagine more unfriendly destination for Western couples for surrogacy than Laos.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 9:59am
Oh yes, indeed, you are right, Laos is not the best option for Western Europeans. But I am very upset by the ban on surrogacy in the UK. I know that surrogacy in the UK is legal on an altruistic basis. But it is uniquely difficult to find a surrogate mother in the UK. Which is why many of the UK couples struggling with infertility have surrogacy procedures overseas. Would-be parents in the UK are not allowed to advertise their need for a surrogate, and surrogates are not allowed to advertise their availability. UK law also prohibits any profit from surrogacy services, so there are no professional agencies to connect would-be parents and surrogates. To make matters worse, UK law does not recognize surrogacy agreements as binding, so the surrogate mother and her husband automatically will be the legal parents of the new-born.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 10:10am
I understand you, at one time we considered surrogacy in Canada and Greece, but were forced to refuse. I will tell you why we decided so. Like the United Kingdom, surrogacy in Canada is only permitted on an altruistic basis. However government restrictions are loosely enforced, and many clinics and “consultancies” sidestep the laws. On occasion, Canadian consultancies have overstepped the line and have been shutdown and fined for violating surrogacy restrictions. We decided that we did not want to participate in dubious programs. Besides, in 2019, the Canadian government announced important changes to the way surrogates are paid. Starting in 2020, a surrogate will only receive payment for expenses for which she can show a receipt. This is a drastic change in the way surrogacy functions in Canada, and will reduce the financial incentive for potential surrogates. Under the new rules, finding a surrogate may become nearly impossible for many clinics. Canadian law does not support pre-birth orders, so the surrogate will be named as the legal mother upon the birth of the child.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 10:26am
Yes, unfortunately this is so, in Greece also surrogacy is allowed on an altruistic basis. I also know that surrogacy is allowed in Georgia. Both commercial and altruistic agreements are supported, as are known egg and sperm donation. However, there is also a somewhat lower quality of medical services in the country (as rated by the WHO and the CIA Factbook) in comparison with neighboring Ukraine and other countries. In my opinion, Ukraine has the most supportive legal framework of any jurisdiction worldwide (more than so-called “surrogacy friendly” destinations like California or Nevada). Surrogacy in Kiev has been a popular option for European couples. Clinics are well practiced and offer a variety of program surrogacy options.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 10:43am
Yes, I fully agree with you! Since such fertility treatment became legal, Ukraine has become an increasingly popular destination for foreign couples desperate to find a surrogate mother. Demand surged dramatically after India, Thailand and Nepal outlawed commercial surrogacy recently. What makes surrogacy in this country in the eyes of the childless couples so attractive is its comparative affordability (prices ranging from € 30.000 to € 50.000, compared to $ 80.000 – $ 120.000 in the USA), paired with fairly high services quality and lenient legislation. The cost of IVF, egg donation services in the Ukraine is significantly lower. They offering services at prices 50-70% cheaper than in other countries. Compared to other international destinations, the Ukraine has a comparable or lower cost profile even with all travel and lodging expenses included.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 10:49am
Yes, but surrogacy in Ukraine is legal for married heterosexual couples ONLY. According to Ukrainian law, IP’s will need to supply a letter from their fertility doctor that explains the medical reason why they cannot conceive naturally and why they wish to pursue a surrogacy journey in Ukraine. After the birth of baby it is nessesary required to apply for a ‘citizenship by descent’ and then subsequently a passport from the country you hold citizenship in. This process generally takes 4-6 weeks post birth. So IP’s need to plan in advance and know they will be required to stay in Ukraine until the passport has been issued. But overall, these are minor difficulties. Especially in comparison with so many advantages. But it is important to discuss legal requirements.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 10:57am
Indeed, when choosing a clinic for joining the surrogacy program, it is very important to discuss the legal aspects. Ukraine is one of few nations in the world where altruistic and commercial and gestational (where a surrogate has no biological link to a baby) – are fully legal for locals and foreigners and regulated by legislation. In case of gestational surrogacy it suffices that one of the intended parents is a donor of the biological material. That is, either the intended mother donates her egg, or the intended father provides his semen. At any rate there should be a genetic link to one of the intended parents. Homosexual couples, unmarried couples and singles are not legally eligible to become parents through surrogacy programs in Ukraine. Apart from these, no restrictions on the part of the intended parents apply. As to the surrogate, she must be full of age (18 years and more, in practice up to 35 years), have at least one natural healthy child, and be mentally and physically fit to become a surrogate mother. Her marital status or any other factors are of no relevance.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 11:05am
In Ukraine, it is commonplace that the first and only contact of foreign intended parents is a selected fertility clinic. Fertility clinic assumes all of the job – organizational, medical and legal – for an advertised “package” bulk price. While for the intended parents it might seem extremely convenient and appealing from the practical point of view. It should be noted, that the Ukrainian legislation does not provide any special requirements for the content of surrogacy contracts. Therefore the parties are free to shape it according to their interests and bargaining power. But the clinic in Ukraine must be chosen carefully. It is better to give preference to those clinics that have been working for a long time.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 06 December 2019 at 5:34pm
One of the biggest fears of the intended parents is that after the birth of a child the surrogate mother changes her mind and refuses to give it away. But under Ukrainian legislation the surrogate mother who voluntarily agreed to participate in a surrogacy program, has no whatsoever rights for the baby she carried and delivered. Moreover, the birth certificate is issued at the request of the intended parents. And only their names are displayed on the certificate, without any reference to the surrogate mother or the way the baby was born. That is why many childless couples travel to Ukraine. However, you are right, it is very important to choose a good clinic. Today, among Ukrainian clinics, I can leave positive feedback only about Biotexcom. This clinic has high ratings, in addition, they provide their customers with apartments and meals for the entire period of residence in the country. Recently, my friend was interested in them about joining the surrogacy program. It turned out that any client can call the clinic manager on Skype. This is a great option, as far as I know, this is not anywhere else.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 10:03am
Really? It's cool! I also did not see such an option in other clinics. Of course, this is very convenient, because a person can ask any question that interests him. Also, in this way a person can get to know the clinic more closely. Also, after talking with the clinic manager on Skype, you can create a first impression of the clinic. This will make it possible to understand whether to go there or not. As far as I know, this clinic has its own YouTube channel, right? Recently I watched one of their videos.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 11:29am
Yes, this new option is really very useful. After all, a Skype call will provide an opportunity for a childless couple to get answers to all their questions. It's cool, you no longer need to live with doubts and fears, you can find out everything with one call. But I would like to discuss with you the possible risks of surrogacy, regardless of country. What difficulties do you think potential parents face most often? What should potential parents pay special attention to when choosing a surrogate and clinic? I would like to hear your point of view, and I will share my thoughts.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 11:39am
Of course, surrogacy can be associated with certain risks. I think that only the main ones should be highlighted. Around the world, the legal status of surrogacy may vary. In some countries, such as the UK, Canada, Denmark, Australia, and New Zealand, the only surrogacy permitted is altruistic. Bulgaria, France, Germany, Italy, Portugal, and Spain all forms of surrogacy are forbidden. The intended will need to relinquish some control and trust the surrogate to carry the pregnancy. Most surrogacy journeys are successful, so intended parents can feel confident in trusting their surrogate to successfully deliver a child. Surrogacy can be expensive because of the number of people and services involved. In the clinic, they can help to find a way to finance the surrogacy treatment. It is important to be guided by a professional expert to ensure the process is completed safely and legally because can be complicated. Surrogacy involves different parts who need to be patient and flexible. I hope you have now a better understanding of most common risks of surrogacy.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 12:40pm
Many childless couples is considered the main risk - the refusal of a surrogate mother to return the child. Drafting a surrogacy contract, or agreement, is crucial and can prevent serious legal problems down the road. If the surrogate mother changes her mind and wants to keep the baby, for example, the contract will compel her to relinquish the baby to its rightful parents. Make sure you check the laws in your country before proceeding with a surrogacy agreement. Another risk is the choice of an unscrupulous surrogate. Intended parents may find a prospective surrogate in two ways. Through their own networking and advertising efforts, or with the help of an clinic’s matching services. But I believe that the choice of a surrogate should be trusted in the clinic. Since finding a good surrogate on your own is almost impossible.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 12:52pm
Also, many people worry about whose name will be written on the birth certificate. But the names that are entered on the baby’s original birth certificate will largely depend on country surrogacy laws. Many surrogacy-friendly country allow intended parents to file a pre-birth order, which instructs the hospital to enter the intended parents’ names on the original birth certificate. In other cases, the birth certificate may need to be re-issued with the intended parents’ names following additional legal work completed after the baby is born. In some country, same-sex couples will need to complete a second parent adoption in order for both parents to be listed on the birth certificate. In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate is the biological mother of the child, and her name will appear on the original birth certificate along with the intended father’s name. A stepparent adoption may be required for the other intended parent to be listed on the birth certificate.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 1:12pm
Undoubtedly, such risks exist, but in my opinion, it is very important to know the legal aspects of surrogacy depending on the country. It is also necessary to sign the corresponding legal agreement, where all aspects of surrogacy will be discussed. Surrogacy laws vary by country. The practice is only prohibited in a handful of country, but of those that do recognize surrogacy arrangements, some are more surrogacy-friendly than others. However, intended parents from any country should be able to successfully pursue surrogacy, as long as they work with a surrogate in a state where it is legal. Your surrogacy professional should be able to answer any legal questions you have and help you navigate the legal surrogacy process in your country. Regardless of where you and your surrogate live, every surrogacy arrangement will involve a legal contract. You and your surrogate will each have your own attorney who will contribute to the contract drafting process and ensure your legal interests are represented and your rights are protected. These contracts will outline everyone’s rights and responsibilities throughout the process, potential risks and agreed-upon compensation. After the first trimester, you may also work with your attorney to complete a pre-birth order and establish yourselves as the legal parents of your child.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 1:28pm
First of all, when a couple are ready to commit to the surrogacy process, they should start by determining their goals for surrogacy journey. First, the couple must choose the most suitable type of surrogacy. And the surrogacy professional they would like to work with. Once they have identified the surrogacy professional, surrogacy specialist can help navigate the process and achieve surrogacy goals. The relationship surrogate has with baby will depend on the type of surrogacy. In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate acts as the egg donor as well as the carrier, making her the biological mother of the baby. In these cases, she will have parental rights that need to be legally terminated when the baby is born. In gestational surrogacy, on the other hand, the embryo is created using the intended mother’s (or donor’s) egg and the intended father’s (or donor’s) sperm, and the surrogate has no genetic relationship to the baby she carries. In these cases, the surrogate, also called a gestational carrier, does not have any parental rights to the child.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 2:48pm
Amanda also asked our opinion on how to choose a surrogate. The surrogate’s medical history—this should include a genetic profile (traditional surrogates only), blood tests and obstetric history.
The surrogate’s lifestyle choices including their history of drinking and substance abuse. The cost of the surrogacy process—this includes surrogacy compensation, health and life insurance, legal fees, psychological screening and monitoring, travel costs, medical expenses, and egg donation compensation and expenses (if applicable) . The legal issues—the laws on surrogacy vary from state to state, so the location of your surrogate is an important issue to consider. What kind of relationship you wish to have with the surrogate after the child is born—you may wish the surrogate to remain an integral part of your child’s life, or have the relationship complete upon delivery. When you are looking for a surrogate with whom you can entrust the first nine months of your baby’s life, you will want to find someone who will treat the pregnancy as if it were her own. Ultimately, the key to making the right choice, is finding a surrogate that you can trust completely and with whom you can feel at ease.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 3:19pm
Yes, indeed, I would also like to express my opinion on this matter and provide some recommendations on choosing a surrogate. In my opinion, the surrogate should be:
Entirely trustworthy, responsible, and committed to seeing the pregnancy through to completion.
Aware of the potential risks in any pregnancy and the particular risks of surrogacy.
A resident in a state that allows surrogate procedures. If she lives in a state with laws banning surrogacy, she would be performing an illegal act, even if your state is favorable to the procedure.
In excellent health, and someone who has given birth to a healthy child previously, so she knows what to expect all the way through. She is also more likely to readily deliver the newborn baby she carried into the hands of the intended parents without a painful period of separation and loss. She should be a non-smoker who has never used drugs, and should agree to remain smoke-free and alcohol-free throughout, including during a pre-implantation period.
Someone who has a healthy home environment with a network of family and friends to rely on for support as she goes through the experience of being a surrogate.
Financially stable and motivated more by a desire to help fulfill personal and family goals than by financial gain.
A woman between the ages of 21 to 35 years—the best range to deal with the emotional and physical challenges that lie ahead.
Mentally and emotionally healthy, as indicated by a psychological screening and thorough interview. She should not have any history of mental illness or post-partum depression. A positive person with an upbeat, forward-looking view of life is most likely to weather the emotional and physical ups and downs of pregnancy with a healthy, balanced attitude.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 4:00pm
Girls, thank you for sharing your opinion regarding the search for a surrogate and my other questions. But I also wanted to add some important details that you did not mention. A contract between the intended parents and the surrogate is absolutely mandatory. Contracts exist to clearly set out the expectations of all parties in any relationship, business or personal. Surrogate IVF is a relatively new process in legal terms, and, as a result, the laws are vague or non-existent. Here are just a few of the overlapping legal, ethical, and medical questions that may arise during the pre-pregnancy and pregnancy period: Will you have amniocentesis performed when your surrogate becomes pregnant? How will you be prepared to respond to the outcomes? If multiple pregnancies—specifically, triplets or more—result, will you choose to selectively reduce, and will she be willing to undergo this procedure? If there is a diagnosis of Down syndrome or another more severe condition, will you terminate the pregnancy, or proceed, and will your surrogate agree? Discuss and come to a consensus with your surrogate, and then make sure that your contract includes stipulations as to how each of these eventualities will be handled. Also, I know that there are many myths on the Internet regarding surrogacy. So where do you look for the truth, what do you think? Your opinion is very interesting to me!


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 07 December 2019 at 7:07pm
There will always be myths, in any field. As a society, we can approach them in two ways. Either we accept whatever we hear, or we question them and seek the truth. The most common myth is as follows: I won’t be able to bond with my baby. In recent years, a great deal of attention has been focused on the emotional bond that develops between a mother and her child. This bond is very special, and is extremely important to the child’s future development. Recent research suggests, however, that it is less the result of carrying the child to term than it is the result of subsequent nurturing. It begins with the birth of the child. The child is handed to his or her parents at the hospital. Many intended mothers report feeling a connection with their newborn immediately. Intended parents are involved in the surrogacy process at every step, and a study recently conducted suggests that positive relationships are actually encouraged by the surrogacy process.

Another common myth: My surrogate is in it for the money. Gestational surrogacy is expensive, but the compensation paid out covers expenses, time, effort, and health risks. Prospective surrogate mothers must also meet a simple but strict list of qualifications. Surrogate mothers tend to be warm, compassionate, and altruistic women, who are interested in providing this unique service to help start a new family. A surrogate mother faces all of the bodily changes, health risks, and other concerns of any woman carrying a baby. In addition, stringent demands are made on a surrogate mother’s lifestyle, her activities, and her daily routine. She is responsible for the well-being of another person’s child. The pregnancy itself takes up nine months of her time, with the entire legal and medical process combining into a procedure that lasts more than a year. It seems to me that finding the truth is not so difficult. It is necessary to consult with good specialists, to study information on thematic forums. And also it is worth reading the news of the scientific world. It may seem strange to you, but I also think that there is a lot of useful information about surrogacy on YouTube.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 08 December 2019 at 6:03pm
Indeed, on this platform there is a lot of useful information about surrogacy. By the way, thank you for the recommendation. In the last conversation, you recommended me to pay attention to the channel of the clinic named Biotexcom. During this time, I managed to watch almost all of their videos. They really tell the truth about the process of surrogacy and possible difficulties. Recently, I read information that one of the doctors in this clinic developed a method such as autotransplantation of endometrium. I hope that soon a video on the subject of this development will be released on their channel.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 08 December 2019 at 7:08pm
And it seems to me that today the most common myth sounds like this - a friend should carry my child for me. But a friend does not benefit from the experience or preparation. Besides using an independent surrogate could also lead to legal issues. Without a formal gestational surrogacy agreement, arranged in a state where such agreements are legally protected, legal problems abound for those who have attempted to find a surrogate on their own. While these cases don’t happen frequently, it still underscores the major risk and inconvenience when deciding to use independent surrogates over an agency. Make sure you check on the surrogacy laws in your area before deciding to use a surrogate. On this channel I liked the video “How to be prepared for your baby's birth” the most. By the way, the channel is called "The Other Side: What is Behind Your Surrogacy Process". You forgot to mention the name of this channel. This video is really very informative. I am glad that people started recognizing the efforts of doctors for surrogacy.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 08 December 2019 at 7:57pm
Yes, I watched this video, it interested me in the first place. Have you watched a video that talked about Mitochondrial Replacement? If you have not seen it, then be sure to look. This is very useful information for childless couples. The fact is that this option has become available in the clinic in the VIP package. In my opinion, this is great news! I hope their videos will be released more often.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 08 December 2019 at 8:04pm
Yes, I watched this video, it is really very useful. I also hope that their videos will be released as often as possible. However, I have recently become interested in the psychological aspects of surrogacy. After all, this is also a very important part of the process, right? Not only a surrogate may feel difficulties in the process of participation in the program, but also potential parents. And sometimes they have an even harder time emotionally. What do you think about this?


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 15 December 2019 at 5:39pm
Yes, unfortunately this is so, I agree with you. Surrogacy is typically somewhat emotionally challenging for most people, especially women. It’s important for women to grieve the loss of not carrying her baby and what that means to her. Instead of focusing on not having the ability to carry a baby, think about the positive aspects of not being pregnant such as avoiding weight gain, not feeling uncomfortable, sleeping more soundly, and not having morning sickness. The reality is pregnancy is not a state of bliss for most women. Don’t be afraid to reach out to a professional mental health provider specializing in reproductive psychology. This can be a challenging process for anyone.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 15 December 2019 at 5:49pm
Yes, of course, the psychological aspects of this issue are extremely important. Because not only a surrogate is faced with emotional stress, but also potential parents. It’s important to realize that gestational surrogacy is asking an intended parent to trust another person (a stranger if you are using an agency) to take care of something that is the most important thing in the world to them. This takes a huge leap of faith. However, if intended parents aren’t able to trust their carrier and are constantly micromanaging her, the arrangement is doomed to be problematic. The emotional task of intended parents is to let go of the control of the pregnancy. Yet stay closely involved and allow the carrier to do the best job she can.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 15 December 2019 at 5:57pm
Yes girls, I agree with you. Also, many parents ask the following question: What should my relationship be with my surrogate before, during and after surrogacy? It seems to me that the most important, be open to seeing where the relationship goes. It is critical that the relationship grow to be trusting, respectful and positive fairly quickly and remain that way throughout the surrogacy. It may be that you and your carrier have a pleasant business like relationship; perhaps you will be soul mates. One is not better than the other, just different, and hard to predict in one match meeting. Just like everyone else, gestational carriers like to be appreciated and thanked for their efforts. Just keep it positive and respectful at all times. If you are really struggling with feelings of negativity towards your carrier, seek guidance from a mental health provider.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 15 December 2019 at 6:06pm
Unfortunately, many potential parents have disagreements with a surrogate. This mainly refers to the surrogate that were found in the ad. I would recommend avoiding such women. But anyway the best thing to do when there is a disagreement is to talk to your surrogate in an honest, respectful, and non-reactive way. Speak to her as soon as there is an issue. It’s easy to let small problems get blown out of proportion. If this makes you anxious, utilize your resources to help guide you with the conversation, such as your agency or nursing staff, or mental health provider.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 15 December 2019 at 6:13pm
Unfortunately, many potential parents think that the surrogate will become attached to their child and will not want to give the baby back. Although, it seems to me, these fears are in vain. Most gestational carriers who are from reputable agencies do not become so attached to the baby that they fight for the right to be the parent. Surrogates are growing and babysitting your child for nine months and have a very good understanding of that concept. However, just as a long term babysitter might be sad to say goodbye to a child they cared for, your carrier might be a bit sad to see the baby go home with you. This is completely normal. They will also be filled with pride and joy for how they were able to help. There is a huge difference between shedding a few tears when saying goodbye to the baby versus wanting to keep the child for her own. Most gestational carriers say that the hardest part of their job is not leaving the baby, but saying goodbye to the intended parents. After the birth, when parents are busy with a newborn, they don’t contact the carrier as much as they did before delivery. Carriers miss talking with their intended parents on a regular basis and having that close relationship.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 7:37am
Indeed, the girls, we are all different and perceives everything that happens also in different ways. However, it seems to me that all these problems can be solved. I would like to touch upon another important topic. It is known that many childless couples compare surrogacy and adoption. What do you think is the main difference? What takes less time and money? What would you choose in this situation?


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 7:44am
Of course, surrogacy is very different from adoption. First of all, it is necessary to mention genetics. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate mother is not related to the child she carries. Instead, she becomes pregnant through an embryo transfer using the intended parents’ or donors’ genetic materials. This is one of the biggest differences between gestational surrogacy and adoption. In adoption, the birth mother is the biological mother of her child, which can have legal and emotional implications that aren’t applicable to surrogacy. Women facing unplanned pregnancies often have more complicated emotions to process and different factors to consider than surrogate mothers. The surrogacy process also allows one or both intended parents to be the genetic parents of their child.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 7:58am
Really, this makes surrogacy a popular choice for prospective parents who feel strongly about maintaining a genetic link to their children. Besides, having a biological connection to the child also simplifies the legal process and gives intended parents more control over the surrogacy process. The question of the cost of surrogacy and adoption is very controversial. The fact is that the cost of surrogacy can vary significantly from state to state. For example, in America, the cost can reach above $ 100,000, while in Ukraine the price is half as much. Therefore, it is very difficult to give an exact answer to this question. Perhaps you have a different opinion on this?


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:08am
I agree with you, the cost of surrogacy and adoption can vary significantly from country to country. But, surrogacy and adoption both involve many services, professionals and fees, including program and agency fees, legal costs and medical expenses. In addition to these costs, most surrogates are compensated by intended parents for their time, energy and sacrifices they make throughout the pregnancy. While birth mothers can receive reasonable living expenses for costs like rent and groceries, it is illegal for them to financially benefit from adoption with additional compensation. The additional fees for surrogate compensation and the embryo transfer process can make surrogacy significantly more expensive than adoption. In addition, there may be fewer financing options available in surrogacy. For example, there is no federal tax credit for surrogacy like there is for adoption. However, if the intended parents act as the egg and/or sperm donor and incur significant medical expenses, they may be able to deduct IVF expenses, lab fees, doctor appointments and medications from their taxes.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:16am
The cost of adoption also varies by country. But I also wanted to say one more important thing. In adoption, adoptive parents generally get to choose certain criteria about the types of adoption situations they are open to, including race, substance exposure, medical history and post-placement contact. However, it is ultimately up to the birth mother to choose the family with whom she wants to place her baby. In surrogacy, the matching process tends to be more mutual: intended parents will have an opportunity to pick from profiles of prospective surrogates whose plans and goals match their own. The intended parents can then select the surrogate they wish to work with, and if she expresses mutual interest, she and the intended parents will be matched and have an opportunity to get to know each other before moving forward. Adoptive parents may wait months or even years to find a birth mother. There are many more women interested in surrogacy than there are women considering adoption, so the wait time tends to be much shorter for surrogacy.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:27am
Adoptive parents have little control in the adoption process. And depending on their circumstances and relationship with the expectant mother, they may not be involved in most of the pregnancy. Legally, prospective birth parents have the right to change their mind about the adoption at any point in the process. This can create a sense of uncertainty for adoptive parents. There are few guarantees regarding the birth mother’s commitment to adoption, the birth father’s support of the adoption, the prenatal care the baby is receiving, and more. However, in surrogacy, there is a legal contract in place that clearly outlines each party’s expectations and relationship to the baby. Because this legal agreement is negotiated and signed ahead of the medical surrogacy process, there is never any question that the surrogate is carrying the baby for the intended parents. And that she will keep herself and the baby healthy during the pregnancy.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:35am
I think I need to highlight another significant difference. Like intended parents, surrogates must undergo a thorough medical screening before they can be matched to prospective intended parents. Throughout this process, drug and alcohol use is ruled out. And intended parents can be assured that the baby will not be exposed to any harmful substances in utero. The legal contracts signed by the prospective surrogate and intended parents often also include provisions to ensure the surrogate is receiving proper prenatal care. In adoption, birth mother screening is often less thorough and invasive. Pregnant women considering adoption are typically asked to self-disclose any drug or alcohol use, along with their social and medical history. And they may or may not choose to receive prenatal care.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:39am
Differences in legal issues are equally important, aren't they? The legal process also varies for surrogacy and adoption. In adoption, the birth parents must execute written consent, and their rights must be legally terminated after the baby is born. In surrogacy, legal contracts are signed ahead of the embryo transfer process to establish the intended parents as the baby’s legal parents.
Because the surrogate does not have a biological connection or parental rights to the child she carries, she cannot change her mind and decide to parent the child. The same is not true in the adoption process. A prospective birth mother can change her mind and discontinue her adoption plan at any time until she legally executes consent.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:45am
Of course, from a legal perspective, surrogacy is more preferable. While there is always a chance of disruption in adoption, there is never any uncertainty about who will parent the baby in a surrogacy agreement. The surrogate knows from the beginning that she is carrying a baby for the intended parents. The pregnancy is planned ahead of time and legally binding contracts are signed. So there tend to be fewer surprises in the surrogacy process. Adoptive families often have less control throughout the process. And may face more uncertainty about the birth mother’s commitment to adoption, the birth father’s support of the adoption, the prenatal care the baby is receiving, and more.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:53am
The laws around adoption and surrogacy are different in every state. For instance, there are laws that determine whether you can compensate your surrogate. There are also laws that determine who can get a court order before the baby is born. But the majority of the legal work is completed prior to the baby’s birth, which means there are very few surprises in the surrogacy process. The same medical and legal procedures are not required in the adoption process. Instead, the legal adoption process takes place after the baby is born, when the birth parents legally consent to the adoption and the adoptive parents are granted custody by the court. There are many factors to consider when debating surrogacy vs. adoption. However, the most important is your family’s needs and circumstances.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 8:58am
Yes, laws vary from country to country. But in my opinion, the best choice at present is Ukraine. There, the issue of surrogacy is regulated by law. In addition, there is a low cost of services with high quality guarantees. While in many other countries, surrogacy is prohibited and oppressed. I guess I will never understand why this happens. After all, the number of childless couples has only been growing since time. And the opportunities for them to become parents are becoming less.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 16 December 2019 at 9:15am
Yes, in Ukraine this process is indeed better regulated. But there are also many clinics that opened recently, and have not yet managed to show good results. Therefore, I would recommend applying for surrogacy only in a clinic Biotexcom. In addition, they have a large base of surrogate mothers and donors. Another advantage is the ability to choose one of three packages at different prices: Economy package, Standard package and VIP package. However, as far as I know, the Economy package is taken apart very quickly and it is not always available. And the VIP package does suggest that the surrogate will be picked up within 1.5-2 months - this is a very short period.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 8:45am
Girls, I would like to note that the topic of choosing a surrogacy clinic is also very important. Not every childless couple knows what to look for when choosing such an institution. Whether you’re completing a traditional surrogacy or a gestational surrogacy, you will need to work closely with a surrogacy clinic to effectively complete the medical process. Because there are so many moving parts involved in safely creating a surrogate pregnancy, all intended parents and prospective surrogates should be comfortable with the medical professional they work with during this part of the surrogacy process. Fortunately, in most cases, intended parents will already have a relationship with a fertility clinic before pursuing the surrogacy process — and that clinic can usually continue as their surrogacy clinic when they move from other infertility treatments to surrogacy. However, for surrogates and intended parents who haven’t yet worked with a fertility clinic, or for those who aren’t familiar with the medical process of surrogacy, the concept of a surrogacy clinic may be overwhelming. What exactly does this clinic do? Why is the process so involved? How do you find the right surrogacy clinic for you?


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 8:56am
Many fertility clinics also serve as surrogacy clinics. These medical professionals help intended parents diagnose their fertility problems and offer fertility treatments, like in vitro fertilization. When intended parents choose to move on from those failed treatments, fertility clinics can usually help them complete a surrogacy process as well.
In many surrogacy journeys, the process of finding a surrogacy clinic is completed before a match is even made. Many intended parents already have an existing relationship with a fertility clinic who will serve as their surrogacy clinic on this new path to parenthood.
However, if you haven’t yet found a surrogacy clinic to work with, you have a great number of experienced professionals to choose from. If you decide to work with a surrogacy agency, they may refer you to certain surrogacy clinics that they commonly work with and have a special relationship with. On the same note, many surrogacy clinics have existing relationships with certain gamete banks, if you’ll need to use a sperm, egg or embryo donation in your surrogacy process. Before you commit to a surrogacy clinic, therefore, make sure that you are comfortable with the amount of choice allowed you in this process.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:04am
Surrogacy can be a very difficult process, choosing the right surrogacy clinic doesn’t have to be. There are many available options, which can make the surrogacy process seem overwhelming. Understanding how to choose a surrogacy clinic based on the needs of your family can make the whole process much more bearable. Location is incredibly important when it comes to choosing the right surrogacy clinic. Do you look for a clinic nearby or surrogacy abroad? There are advantages to both, for legal, financial and medical reasons. Working with the perfect surrogacy clinic is an important part of feeling secure in your surrogacy journey, and the medical process will be the part of the process where you finally feel like that journey is actually beginning.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:09am
Of course, legal aspects are extremely important, you are undoubtedly right. I would also like to say a few words about this. It is good that you decided to mention such an important aspect. Even if you don’t reside in a state or country that has surrogacy friendly laws, your surrogacy clinic will. Make sure that you choose a surrogacy clinic that is well established within a state or country that allows surrogacy. Being familiar with the city or state that their main office is located in can help to remove some of the stress and fear of your initial appointments. This is really extremely important in my opinion.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:21am
Yes, however, in my opinion, the financial issue is important. After all, the cost of surrogacy can vary significantly from country to country. No matter which surrogacy clinic you choose, there is a very good chance that the process will cost quite a bit of money. Be better prepared for expenses by also factoring in any necessary transportation costs to and from your chosen clinic. Occasionally these costs can be reduced by choosing a surrogacy clinic that not only has a local facility. But also has facilities in other countries or states, where the treatments themselves may be cheaper. Unfortunately today, for many childless couples, the financial issue comes first.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:27am
I agree with you, many couples choose a clinic for the cost of services. This is not surprising, because today not everyone can afford huge expenses. That is why a similar situation is emerging. I also agree with you that in addition to legal issues, financial and medical ones are equally important. You’ve probably undergone what feels like hundreds of tests and treatments along your journey so far, but surrogacy requires just a few more. Your chosen surrogacy clinic should offer a stress-free environment to visit while you undergo any additional procedures. Pay close attention to how medical coverage works within the state or country of your chosen surrogacy clinic.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:31am
Depending on the needs of family, certain surrogacy clinics will be a far better fit than others. The laws that are local to any given surrogacy clinic will define whether or not that government extends surrogacy programs to same sex partners. Some states and countries only require that a couple be married to be eligible for surrogacy programs. Others dictate that the parents are heterosexual. Some states and countries require intended parents to be legally married. They do not acknowledge common law unions. If you’re single or unmarried, make sure that your surrogacy clinic has worked with situations similar to your own in the past.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:36am
Oh yes, as you correctly noted, this is really very important. From the beginning, this does not seem so serious, but such a trifle may be the reason for the impossibility of contacting a particular clinic. The same goes for the type of surrogacy and considerations about traveling abroad. Because local laws may be unfavorable to specific situations, travel may be required. Ensure that whatever state or country your chosen surrogacy clinic operates is in is governed by laws that fit your situation completely. Certain clinics can offer a wider reaching base of operations that can more easily adapt to the particular needs of your family. Finding a surrogacy clinic that has this flexibility can save you money and a considerable amount of time.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:41am
I agree with you! Occasionally, laws require that any surrogacy be altruistic. One in which the surrogate mother is not compensated for her time, but only reimbursed for specific expenditures. This is a choice that must be made within household. It is need to ensure that the surrogacy clinic you choose offers you the surrogacy program that you and your family are most comfortable with. It is very important to know what kind of surrogacy is allowed in a particular state. This applies to cases when a couple decides to go abroad.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 9:59am
In this case, it is not out of place to mention the issues of choosing a surrogate mother in a particular clinic and screening. Choosing a surrogate mother is easily one of the most exciting parts of a surrogacy program. Make sure that surrogacy clinic offers multiple options and has a thorough candidate screening process. Surrogacy clinic should provide all surrogate candidates with a thorough and relevant health evaluation. This should include both mental and physical screenings. Some countries have strict guidelines on who can qualify to become a surrogate mother. Surrogacy clinic should also be equipped to continue health monitoring throughout the pregnancy. Ask specifically what screening processes clinic conducts with their candidates.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 10:07am
Some surrogacy clinics offer options for surrogate mothers in different countries. This can help circumnavigate costs and unfavorable legislation. If you’re looking into options abroad, make sure that your chosen surrogacy clinic has an excellent reputation and has worked with those countries regularly. Meeting potential surrogate mothers can be just as nerve-wracking as it is exciting! Make sure that your surrogacy clinic of choice allows you the option to meet with multiple candidates. Also consider how much time you and your family will need with a potential surrogate mother to decide if she is the right fit. Feel comfortable discussing any hesitations or concerns with your surrogacy clinic.


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 10:11am
Choosing a surrogacy clinic that fits needs also means choosing a clinic that makes you and your family feel prioritized. Make sure that your surrogacy clinic of choice not only has an excellent reputation, but also experience, and a staff that you feel comfortable with. The best surrogacy clinics will assign you a liaison or point of contact to manage your case. Choose a surrogacy clinic that can help you with all aspects of the process. Choosing a clinic that is highly regarded for both its surrogacy programs and its medical advances. Make sure that your clinic of choice is ready and experienced with not only surrogacy, but IVF and cryobank technologies. There are lots of treatment choices you should be aware of.


Posted By: Amanda250156
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 10:16am
Indeed, it is very important that the clinic provides all services. This applies particularly to the donor material. IVF is the backbone of surrogacy programs everywhere. Medical science is an ever-changing field, and your surrogacy clinic must be up to speed with any advances in technology. Cryobank technologies allow both your genetic material and your stem cells to be stored. You may have heard about how important retrieving and storing umbilical cord blood can be for the future health of your child. Surrogacy clinics that offer facilities to store genetic material can prove extremely useful should multiple rounds of IVF be required.


Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 17 December 2019 at 10:21am
When choosing a surrogate motherhood clinic, everything is important! I can’t even say which aspect is more important: medical, financial or legal. A good institution should be thought out in everything. Choosing the right surrogacy clinic for your family can feel overwhelming. Once you have found the right fit, you will undoubtedly be more assured and confident. The right surrogacy clinic will be with you every step of the way. Take the time to choose your clinic carefully, because you and your family are worth it!


Posted By: Tiana250157
Date Posted: 02 January 2020 at 3:26pm
Indeed, when choosing a clinic, it is important to consider all aspects. I agree with you that Biotexcom is the best option in this case. And by the way, it’s great that they have such an option as Skype calls. After all, we can ask them all the questions that interest us. This is very convenient, taking into account the fact that this clinic is located in Ukraine. By the way, are you following updates on their YouTube channel? I recently watched their new video, which turned out to be very useful for me.


Posted By: pradip267079
Date Posted: 23 April 2021 at 9:03am
The loopholes in the laws regarding Surrogacy in Ukraine had caused several scandals in the past. It is high time that the government sets its laws in place so that surrogacy helps aspiring and intended parents to get children without any malpractices taking place. People need to discuss and evaluate these things. See more at https://globalstarsurrogacy.com/" rel="nofollow - https://globalstarsurrogacy.com/


Posted By: Helen249952
Date Posted: 26 May 2021 at 10:39am
Hello, it would be great if the author of the topic could tell how his surrogacy program went! There are many clinics in Ukraine, different ones are discussed here. I had positive experiences with the Feskov clinic! Although many people talked us out of going to Ukraine. "Where are you guys going? There is Chernobyl! There is Donbass! You won't see any money or children." My husband and I were scared. However, many people from the showbiz come here, and we learned about the clinic from a famous person.
We arrived in Kharkov, we were greeted by a nice employee who spoke English. The city is beautiful, huge, modern. Very nice people everywhere. The Feskov clinic is the most advanced. No useless information, everything about the case, clear and precise. Immediately informed us of all the risks and offered several options.
In UK, the doctors completely dissuaded us from success. They said that nothing could be done and that we should accept or take a child from an orphanage. We were happy because we paid for a result that was achieved. If it is impossible to get your own eggs, the clinic offers donor eggs. But fortunately we didn't get there. The skilled doctors woke up my ovaries. the biggest miracle was our long awaited baby! We knew in advance that we were going to have a boy, because the sex selection service was also included in the package. There are reviews of couples on their YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZMcG9niu8Y&list=PL23nwpXwH2Wj3yU9ZeGhaoUtLT4OEUbZu" rel="nofollow - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZMcG9niu8Y&list=PL23nwpXwH2Wj3yU9ZeGhaoUtLT4OEUbZu
Regarding surrogacy, I found a Ukrainian law translated into English. I recommend everyone to read it. https://www.mother-surrogate.com/pdf/surrogate_motherhood_law.pdf" rel="nofollow - https://www.mother-surrogate.com/pdf/surrogate_motherhood_law.pdf


Posted By: Nona267445
Date Posted: 28 May 2021 at 8:32am
My husband and I are happy parents of a girl Jessy! We are sooo grateful! We thought that the words “mom!” And “dad” won’t be ever about us. I was diagnosed with endometrial hyperplasia, I come through a lot…after all of this we started to think about the surrogacy. We were afraid…
We started to search all the information, we’ve read tonnes of boards, and support groups…after all this research we’ve came to conclusion that Ukraine is the best option. First of all because of legal transparency of the process. We chose Biotexcom. The fact that I didn’t loose my mind during the process was a nice surprise for me! All the process was smooth and calm, even comfortable, I would say. We keep in touch with our surrogate, she is very nice! The exit process was easy and fast! Happy ending!


Posted By: Linda267492
Date Posted: 31 May 2021 at 1:56pm
Last several years for our family was the saddest and the scariest. We are both 45, you know “the clock is ticking”.
We come through 7 circles of Hell trying to define what was the reason of our infertility. We have spent all our money on medical tests and check ups, we come through 4 failed IVF cycles. The last one make it clear that I can’t became pregnant by myself, my body just denied to stick a baby, and surrogacy is our only option.
We decided to take all the risk and contact one of the ukrainian agencies ( before this the Ukraine was only country from the politic news)
To chose serious trustworthy is another kind of challenge.
And tbh Ukraine is our the first and the last place to go, because the main problem is like always - time and money. We afraid to lost our last chance to became parents, afraid just to waste our last savings.
Is here anyone who already dealt with the Ukrainian agencies? Any advise?



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