Am i really out of line?
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Topic: Am i really out of line?
Posted By: Guests
Subject: Am i really out of line?
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 9:35am
| Ok so story goes that i live up the road from a motel that a "friend" had her wedding reception at. She got married at a registry office. Well i have been hunting around for a place to have my 25th and it just so happens that this place falls into my budget so im using it. Now shes refusing to come along just coz i am having a party where shes had her reception?! |
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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 9:37am
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Complete nutter ! Your so-called "friend" that is, I wouldn't be worrying about her if she's having a freak out over something so ridiculous. The venue isn't hers and hers alone by any stretch of the imagination ! ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 9:37am
| Yer im so annoyed! She knows we have a baby and she knows money is tight and she knows that i want a fun bday so shes throwing a tanty over it! |
Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 9:43am
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So what about all the other people that have used the place - they stole her place as well. She needs to get over it. Money is tight so you need somewhere close and afordable for you guys. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 9:53am
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only time I would have a problem with it is if it was the night before my own wedding, only because I wouldn't be able to attend for long!
She needs to get over it! ------------- "> 
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:00am
ok! yeah you are totally out of line jess  how could you?! lol.... seriously though i dont see why she should have a problem with it. i had my reception at the same place my school had its balls and a year and a half after my wedding my cousin had her reception at the same place too! it was lovely. if anything she should take it as a compliment  hehe some people! i wouldnt worry... its your birthday....
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:01am
| Thats what i said to her i told her she should be happy someone else likes the venue enough to use it for a 25th |
Posted By: luna
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:02am
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WTF?? She's the one out of line.
Sorry sweets, but if she doesn't attend, that's her problem, not yours. ------------- Selina http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:17am
| Thanks ladies shes always been known to be pig headed and this tops them all. I said to her the special part should be where u got married and i think coz it was in a registry office she doesnt see it as special. I personally have my ceremony as special not the party afterwards. |
Posted By: Deez
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:24am
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Sorry i find that completely wacked...who cares if she had her reception there...she wasn't the first and she's not going to be the last...it's just a party, if you could afford somewhere else im sure you woulds have gone else where but this place sounds more convenient anyway, being close to home and all.....She needs to get over herself, this place obviously hires out their function room for all sorts of occasions.... -------------  
Lycan and Peyton = Moon and back!! |
Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:36am
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What eveyone else has said a complete nut job and really would it be that much of a loss if she doesn't come I mean really. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:44am
May be she feel a bit jealous because she had her big day at the same place....and you can afford to do a big bday party there....or vs may be she feels that people will think that she could have got a better venue, since you are having a bday there...you know what I mean?? May be not!! 
But she needs to get over it, you would rather have a fun filled day minus the grump!! Dont worry and go ahead and enjoy your big day! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 10:54am
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ditto ditto ditto what everyone else has said. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 1:14pm
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I agree with you Roksana. I think she sounds a little jealous that she had a big thing like a wedding there, while you are having a birthday (no offence). she mighty think other people will look down on HER for it. Hope you get that.
However, thats's her problem not yours so I would (try) to ignore the whole thing and if she doesn't want to come, too bad! |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 1:18pm
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OMG i told everyone they should look into my reception venue...i would be thrilled if someone liked it enough to use it for something...be it a birthday or whatever...
tell her to build a bridge and get over it....and invite her and if she doesnt want to come then that is her problem.... |
Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 1:45pm
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I think everyone has said it all but being me I need to put my two cents worth
Its only a building after all, she shouldn't be jealous nor upset for u wanting to use it and can call it a compliment that you want to use the same place - even though you are not using it because she did more of a financial reason. One of my bridesmaids has her wedding reception at the local rugby club and for the same reason (financial). She had joked that we weren't allowed to go there but as our first chioce was booked it was there. She didn't care. ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: CuriousG
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 1:58pm
She ain't worth it. If that is the case, then you can't have it at any of the places anyone has got married. Sorry! LOL!
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 2:05pm
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What everyone else has said! -------------  |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 5:50pm
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ditto what a crazy ##### dont let her reeuin your b/day hun and if she don,st come then ohh welll ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: miss
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 7:29pm
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
Ha ha ha ha. Sorry, I find nutters amusing. -------------  
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 8:36pm
TOTALLY AGREE WITH EVERYONE ELSE She mad. The venue wasnt built just for her lol, even if thats what she thinks lmao------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: Jennz
Date Posted: 09 January 2007 at 11:59pm
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She doesn't happen to be my SIL does she? That sounds like some weirdo nutty thing she would say and do. ------------- Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3 
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