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Good vs Bad Mothering

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Topic: Good vs Bad Mothering
Posted By: meow
Subject: Good vs Bad Mothering
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 7:58pm
I thought this was worth a read. Look http://sabrinaporterfield.blogspot.com/ - here

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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 8:17pm
i,m speehlees

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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 8:27pm

WOW

She does make a good point thou. I hd tears in my eyes at the last bit. There are some truely horrible people out there that are bad mothers tghat do do that  . Yet we do something silly like give our children a lolly and we are called bad mothers - I don't think so.



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Posted By: miss
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 8:57pm
Wow, that is really powerful reading.

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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 9:11pm
She's trying to make a good point, but goes a little extreme I think.

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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 9:17pm
 Sooooo true

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Posted By: Peace
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 9:52pm
This is a point that I continually talk to my friend about.
We have raised our children completely opposite, she tells me that I am either doing it better or she is not doing it by the book. But I don't think either of us are wrong, our intention is to give our child the best and the best way we know how. It is the druggies and abusers that are doing it wrong, not us.
This is why I am so supportive of these forums, if we can come and discuss issues and cheer each other on then we are (even more!) firmly on the right track and doing our kids justice!

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Posted By: jax
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 10:27pm
Wow. That was really moving stuff ! Thanks for the link.

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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 22 January 2007 at 10:31pm
so true so well said

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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 23 January 2007 at 10:08am
She makes very good sense.

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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 23 January 2007 at 10:48am
        Well said! 

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Posted By: Redbedrock
Date Posted: 23 January 2007 at 12:27pm
She makes a lot of sense to me!!!!

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Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 23 January 2007 at 1:17pm
...and that's also what makes Oh baby such a great place! We're all different and we all support eachother's choices and provide advice/information when required, take it or leave it, it's up to you (just like all of those parenting books)

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Posted By: EthansMummy
Date Posted: 23 January 2007 at 3:16pm
Yea she does make a lot of sense. Very well said

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Posted By: ellabellame
Date Posted: 23 January 2007 at 7:30pm
wow, that's pretty intense reading. thanks for that link, i think it's a pretty important thing for a mother to read.

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