GGGGRRRR!!! DH!!!!
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Topic: GGGGRRRR!!! DH!!!!
Posted By: BaAsKa
Subject: GGGGRRRR!!! DH!!!!
Date Posted: 26 February 2007 at 7:10pm
Ok so im absolutely fuming right now!!! DH and i just popped to the supermarket and just as we pulled up home he said that he was working way out of town tommorrow so i said "what about my scan!!!???" (we have another scan tommorow to try and find out sex again) and he said "well i cant do much about it!" man this P***** me off!!! because he bailed out of the last scan with a weak excuse of work and this afternoon he came home and said that theyr low on work because the next job doesnt start till monday. This was the same excuse last time and then he turns up out of nowhere at the scan but wouldnt come in!!!!???? now im a very suspicious person and while this sounds suspicious - i do actually know where he is at these times and it just seems as if hes avoiding the scans!!! He was the one who hounded me for this baby and is extremely overportective and has come to all the other scans no matter what he had on that day but these ones where we are wanting to find out gender - he just wont come!!! maybe im reading to much into it but it still makes me so mad and upset!!!! 
Also why the hell did he wait till now to tell me if it really is work!! (by the way - it just came up in conversation and i worked it out! he didnt actually outwardly tell me!) i said to him "were you just ganna not turn up or tell me in the morning when im half asleep!!
GGGGRRRRRRR sorry im just angry and confussed and upset!!... |
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Posted By: kezplanet
Date Posted: 26 February 2007 at 9:33pm
Does sound a bit suss but then men are strange things!! Nothing I can say will make you feel any better but good luck with the scan tomorrow, hope it all goes well ------------- Kerryn, Mum to Ashlyn(29/3/04), Anastasia(1/11/05) & Abigail (24/02/09) |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 26 February 2007 at 9:45pm
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ah a typical man....mine still asks if i want him to come...OF COURSE i do....!!!! I even dragged him along to appt today when he was "dying" of a mancold!
DO u think maybe that your DH is trying to tell you he doesnt want to know the bubs sex??? Maybe it is a sign that you didnt find out last time?? Ask him if that is it! As for turning up late I would call him if you are abot to go in and hes not there = and if not far away tell him you will wait til he is there....if he turns up then he does want to be involved doesnt he? maybe he is scared of something he doesnt know how to tell you...talk to him about what is going on in his head.... |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 27 February 2007 at 9:14am
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Well i spoke to him last night and he said that he was going to start early in the morning (today) so he could finish early to come so he can sit in the waiting room with Bay!!!!!???? WTF!!?? anyway he did leave early at 5.30 this morning and gave me his new work address (changes all the time) so i could go and see him after if he doesnt make it!
Im not sure its the sex thing as such i mean it was his choice whether to find out and he really wanted to! even told me to try and get another appointment when we couldnt find out last time! BUT i think it may be that hes scared it might be a certain sex that hes not sure about only im not sure which because he tends to not tell me these things so he doesnt upset me so who knows! I said to him that he bailed last time and he said "no i didnt, i came last time!" "yeah but you stayed outside!" "thats because you had Kelly there for support (KELLZ)" oh gosh i dont know!!!... He likes to come to my MW appointments and everywhere else i go!! for that matter just not these 2 particular scans... |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 27 February 2007 at 11:43am
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I can see why you would get upset Amber...men are from MARS and whos knows what going on in their head!!??!!
I was a "high risk patient" so went to Check ups every 4 weeks and then a scar every 4 weeks.....for a while DH came to most and then we were having some problems and he came to none and the tried to come to most but since there was sooo many that he got tired of it!! But tho it was not necessary I wanted him there and was angry that he wasnt! But what can you do?? Big Hugs
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 27 February 2007 at 1:50pm
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that sounds frustrating! When we were in Japan, we had to ask special permission for lewis to come into the room - the nurse said that having a man there might upset the other woman - i said "the other PREGNANT woman - i think they would be used to the sight of a man!", but apparently it isn't usual at all.
To me it sounds like he doesn't want to find out the sex, but who knows with men. probably just IS work. men can be simple creatures, sometimes we read to much into it. (not saying you are, afterall you know him better than me!!) |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 27 February 2007 at 7:32pm
Well we half found out!!??? Iv posted it in a post so have a nosey
And anyway when i said to hubby (i had to tell him because he came looking for me but was already gone! so he missed it!) "Are you excited about having a ********* (hehe) cos i am!!" and he said "well i dont know what it is yet so no!" and i said "i just told you!" and he said "well thats only 50% correct! so who knows!" gosh i just cant win!! 
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 27 February 2007 at 9:11pm
| oh yeah he sounds like a typical male!!!! |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 28 February 2007 at 10:12am
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Yap sure is a typical male...
I told my hubby oh the scan guy is 95% sure that its a girl...are you dissapointed/excited?? He told me that he does not wanna think about it since there is still a 5% chance that it could be a boy!! Wha?? ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 28 February 2007 at 10:38am
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------------- Andie |