So long...
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Topic: So long...
Posted By: jax
Subject: So long...
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:08pm
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Well, since I’m not one for beating about the bush I’ll get right to it. I really regret that things have come to this, and perhaps it is a bit premature, but on principle I cannot bear to stay any longer.
I won’t name names, but there is a certain presence and attitude that I believe is capable of doing great harm here – but efforts to change things by myself and others seem to have gone completely astray. I have made some truly wonderful friendships through this forum, and I will continue to keep in touch with those I value most (a fair few at that). Motherhood is a unique, incredible, and amazing journey – unfortunately I have reached a point where I need to start walking in a different direction. My blessings and love to you all, Jax “We do not see things as they are; we see things as we are.” - The Talmud ------------- Jacquie - Mama to Erin, 13.07.06 - Chief Cat Chaser & Marmite Sammie Eater 
Love many, trust few, harm none. ~Anon~ |
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:16pm
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oh Jax,
i am so sorry that you feel this way...pls keep in touch via msn ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:28pm
| I wonder if I'm the only one who has absolutely no idea about this presense and attitude, therefore me confused! |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:33pm
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Me too. What the heck?
------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:35pm
You're not the only one Stacey 
but sorry so see you go Jax -------------  |
Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:41pm
 no jax!!! i'll miss you you are such a neat person to have on here...
and can i say- another lovely ohaby mum leaving 
what is happening??
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 5:46pm
no way you could just ignore them and "talk" to those you do have things in common with.? you shouldnt let a person stop you doing things you enjoy. 
all you are doing is giving them power. ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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jax wrote:Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 6:12pm
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I must be oblivious too... all the best Jax. ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: miss
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 6:16pm
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Aw Jax, that is really sad. You have so much helpful advice to share with us newbies
I hope I remain oblivious to it all too though! -------------  
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 6:24pm
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oh jaxthat relly suxs will miss ya ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 6:51pm
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Jax, dont go...... just ignore said persons posts. Your views on topics will be missed. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 6:55pm
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No im with you too kebakat. Jax I wish you and your beautiful daughter well. Sorry to see you go. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 7:05pm
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Stink one Jax. You have been a great help to lots of people here including myself, so it won't be the same without your wise words. I can understand where you're coming from though... I guess it's like going to a party you expect to have fun at, but then you see someone there you dislike and it ends up being a real downer..
Now just remember, if you say you're going to leave and make us all say nice things to you, you're not allowed to come back cause that's the rules 
See you next playdate 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 7:13pm
Ditto. ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 7:30pm
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I'm not sure whats going on either but its sad to see you go Jax I agree with what everyone has said your presence and advice will be mist. We wish you and your beautiful family all the best for the future. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 7:58pm
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Jax, I will miss you heaps, hope to catch up on MSN sometime. I know how you feel, but am going to try to ignore things for a bit longer, I really enjoy the other ladies. Will miss your views. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 8:05pm
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huh wah Im lost to. dont leave Jax we guna miss you ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
http://lilypie.com"> 
http://tweetytweety85.bebo.com - bebo |
Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 8:06pm
I'm in the same boat as you Stacey! Sorry to see you go Jax! All the best for what life brings you and your family ------------- My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months
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Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 8:17pm
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Don't let a small minority spoil things here for you Jax.
I hope others have the same opportunity as we had, to meet each other in early pregnancy sharing our dreams, joys and fears and now share our experiences with our amazing little girls. That's what Oh Baby is about, not whatever/whoever is making you feel you need to leave.
That's just my 2 cents worth on the matter. See you soon Toni & Caitlin ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 
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Posted By: lil_miss
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 8:39pm
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I have no idea either - perhaps judging by others comments its something thats been taken rather personally as others seem to not be affected...
All the best anyway :) |
Posted By: EllenMumof2
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 9:03pm
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im lost but don't get on here as much as i used to but im sorry to see you go jax -------------  
 
Kalem 6! |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 9:09pm
And again.  ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: Katherine
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 9:10pm
| I wish you'd reconsider, Jax. I know things can get a bit hairy on here sometimes, but I value your input and opinion so much and would really miss it if you left. Will you come to the Botany meet-up next weekend? I hope so!!! |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 9:17pm
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Omigosh! i didnt even know what was going on! Its been neat to chat with you even though it hasnt been much and iv enjoyed watching you wee girl grow we wish you all the best. Take care
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Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 9:31pm
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Best wishes to you and your family..
(I didn't really get a chance to chat to you, but all the best!) ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 13 April 2007 at 10:37pm
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Best wishes to you and your family Jax.
Kelly (caitlynsmygirl)and I enjoyed meeting you at the first Botany Oh Baby meet |
Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:02am
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Ditto. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: nuttymama
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:36am
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I must have missed something here!! Jax I wish you and your family all the best in the future and I hope it's not me who has upset you so much. ------------- Abigail 06/01/2005 Jayden 21/11/2001 Micheal 03/04/1997 |
Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 12:31pm
| Seems, I missed it too. Hope I stay oblivious to it all. Good luck Jax....I'll miss freaking out at seeing "6" kids in your signature. |