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Topic: Sad
Posted By: 11111
Subject: Sad
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:12am
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Ok at the risk of starting something (Emma or Kathrine feel free to delete this if you need too). What is going on we have lost both Jax and Jess 2 people I have valued most on this site. I don't want to know detail's. I just want to say how sad it is that thing's are beginning to get like this one of thing's I value the most about oh baby is it is in no way been bitchy or catty how ever if it starting to head that way then I think there will be alot more leaving. Anyway Jax and Jess if you happen to read this Please know you will both be missed greatly. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:01am
I know - it is sad  And what happened to Jess? I had noticed she wasn't posting and now her username has vanished??------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:02am
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:03am
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:08am
| It is sad but also silly. I think things have got out of hand when they could have been handled differently and people not taking things so personally. |
Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:54am
| Jess has resigned up with another user name "Bellababysmum", so she's not gone. |
Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:19am
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i was as shocked as everyone to see jax go but i guess she had her reasons.
im pretty sure ive never seen any scattyness over ehre, which is why i like posting over here. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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http://tweetytweety85.bebo.com - bebo |
Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:20am
oooh yaya! thanks for letting us know pepsi 
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:37am
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was going to say that sometimes a persons need change - the reasons they sign up for a board in the first place may have changed or their needs have been met. also when you get a lot of different people you are bound to find some personalities that just dont get on, and unlike IRL it is much easier to avoid those personalities. i am sure that there have been lots of people who previously posted on here who have gone and been missed but because they didnt say goodbye before going we prob didnt even notice it
Jess is still on the board, i think at most she was gone for a day and she did change her name once or twice before the one she has now. which goes to show deborah that things arent really as bad as you first thought and also that we have so many people on here that its hard to know who is here and who isnt anymore. but that growth is also a good thing too. also i felt that in saying that "emma and katherine can delete your post if they need to" that you are really just trying to stir something up or make something out of nothing. people come and go, there are others to meet yet who may be just as valued or appreciated as those that are gone. ------------- http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker"> 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:42am
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Agree with everything you said but the posting big posts about leaving is what is stirring up the trouble, I dont think Deborah was out of line with her comment. The whole issue is like walking on thin ice. you never know what is acceptable to say and what isnt at the moment.
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Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:57am
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Ok I am really sorry you feel that way, but that was not my intention I wanted to post about this, but was concerned it would cause trouble "WHICH I DID NOT WANT TO DO" Hence why I wnated to make it clear that if it did casue trouble i would prefere it was deleted then cause trouble.
------------- Deborah Mum to:
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gandt wrote:Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:58am
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My thought's exactly I was starting to worry if maybe I had said something I don't think i have, but it really is like walking on thin ice and I am serouslly thinking it is getting too much for me. ------------- Deborah Mum to:
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:59am
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:01am
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Posted By: linda
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:01am
| I agree with my2angels...people come and go, kids grow up and you find yourself in a different space. It makes me feel like I'm on a teen site or something....I don't know, it just seems silly! |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:12am
| Dont get me wrong Rachel i think its great they have said thier goodbyes to online friends rather than just disappearing but why not just say goodbye and leave it at that. Not everyone knows whats going on, not everyone needs or wants to know but when you read the recent goodbyes it kind of puts a downer on the whole site, which is obviously the case or this thread wouldnt have been started. |