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Topic: who would you...
Posted By: Bizzy
Subject: who would you...
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:21am
Most like to meet from this board.?

If you could meet someone on here whose posts you enjoy reading or whose input you value or who intrigues you the most, who would it be? or maybe its the person who makes you laugh the most or roll your eyes the most. Who would it be? Or whose kids are so beautiful you just want to know what they must look like, who would it be?   

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Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:23am

Mum2emj I would love to meet her she seem's alot like me and I so want to meet her little girl's.

So please come visti New Plymouth soon Rach.

Oh and Emma I would so love to meet you too.

Oh and CaraMel infact all hte Auguest Mummy's would be great.

Ok this is a hard one I think I will just have to say nearlly everone that i don't already know.



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Deborah Mum to:



Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:28am
Probably Janine and her wee girls since Paris and Maya are so close in age and have kind of 'grown up together' on the boards.

And Nikkiwhyte coz she totally cracks me up and I've heard a rumour she's twice as much fun IRL.

And Lizzle and Aimeejoy and their gorgeous wee kiddies.

Mind you I'm lucky enough to have already met and gotten to know a huge number of our members and made some pretty cool friendships.

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:37am
Its to hard to name one, I would like to meet everyone from here, esp the june mtb

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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:37am
hehe. i feel so privileged!

I wanna meet you and the kids too Emma! come over to gissy!

I've met a few people - Janine, Becks, Nikki (a number of times now), Ana, Aimee, and a few others from Palmy so i can get rid of those.

Annie, Roksana to name a few! mostly people that I've been talking to for practically ever, but have yet to put a face to the name!


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 11:43am
Originally posted by lizzle lizzle wrote:

   mostly people that I've been talking to for practically ever, but have yet to put a face to the name!


Feels like that sometimes eh!

And we'd love to come to Gisborne - but you could always come to the big Wellington meet up and be done with it

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 12:02pm
The other palmy ladies, I've been following their wedding plans and their babies. I hope to be preggers soon and would love to meet other mums.


Posted By: peachy
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 12:12pm
I would like to meet with the other October 07 Mums to be (esp the Auckland ones as thats where I live!), would be good for when we have had the babies so we can show off our bubs and chat about being a Mum

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Posted By: baalamb
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 12:26pm
I honestly would have said Toni hehe but I guess that's cheating because we've met already!

And I'm lucky enough to have met a few other OhBaby mums too.

Oh Deb (mummy22), I really want to meet you too hehehe


Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 12:57pm
LOL yeah be good to meet you too Baalamb.

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Deborah Mum to:



Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 1:07pm
Liz, I think, she sounds funny, and I think we think along the same lines, same as Emma, G and T's mum for sure, she has the balls to say what I am thinking but to shy to postand Alyayde as well - I think we are around similar ages, so I feel like I have something " in common", Umm, Janine, Daikini (becca),Roksana - all the old crew. Mummybecks (to compare our valentines)and a few others of the "newbies" as well (you know, been here less time)
I have met Ana and Nikki, they are both very funny, and I enjoy there company. Can't wait till Ana moves over here and has that baby, so we can have a few wines...

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 1:08pm
Oh yeah, and Bombshell, I find it hard to beleive there is someone on this planet who is as "demanding" as I am....

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 1:57pm
oooh, and I want to meet Aimee AGAIN, cause last time Hannah was this tiny wee tot, and she is enormous now! Every time we go through dannevirke I think - geez, should've emailed aimee.



Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:03pm
Originally posted by fattartsrock fattartsrock wrote:

Oh yeah, and Bombshell, I find it hard to beleive there is someone on this planet who is as "demanding" as I am....


LMAO - however did I forget Annie! You crack me up, ever since we were TTC together way back far too long ago. Must be the change of user name that made me forget

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:12pm
Oh Yeah Becca I woulkd really love to meet Becca she is such a cool chick.

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Deborah Mum to:



Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:14pm
Annie for the same reason, we have our valentines days babies.

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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!


Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:32pm
I'd love to meet some of the june ladies since there are so many of us and we are a chatty bunch


Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:33pm
well i would say Emma but we meet off here in the first ohbaby meet up about 3.5 years ago........

So the ppl i would most like to meet are all the oldies lol. Liz, Nikki, Annie, G&T, Janine, Becca, lou and Roksana

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Jayde 25/12/04

Alyssa 08/04/03

http://Alyayde.bebo.com


Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:39pm
I think I've met most of the ladies I talk to on a regular basis

If I've forgotten anyone who I do talk to who I haven't met then SOWWY

and just as I pressed send I remembered someone! HAHA I'd like to meet Nikki and Miss Hannah! Maybe at the Big Oh Baby meet up

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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 2:39pm
Thing is I am not keen on this kind of thread as I go to other forums and its so clicky I thought on here it wasn't like that but I guess I have now been proven wrong.

I thought this forum is to chat to other mums/mums to be/ dads/ dads to be etc... sharing our milestones and getting advise etc... NOT a popularity contest.



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Ann


Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10)


Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 3:51pm
I would like to meet the October mums - hopefully soon!!

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My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months


Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:04pm
Well for me this isn't so much a "who's most popular" but some people who I feel I've got to know kinda well and it would be fun to meet up, if our IRL paths ever cross...

so for me it would be Bombshell (especially cause we work/ed in the same field) and Ginger


It sure is fun getting to know OhBaby mums...all of you. It hasn't worked out twice in a row for me and the Palmy mums but I did enjoy meeting Janine at the hospital.

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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:09pm
OMG Chill ladies. I think this thread was probably created with the thought to unite us all again. So please take it in the spirit it was intended. Its also who would you most like to meet. Im sure we would like to meet everyone on here but if we had to pick a select few who would it be.

I for one thought this was fun and a real warm fuzzy thing to do. Good on ya Deb.

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Jayde 25/12/04

Alyssa 08/04/03

http://Alyayde.bebo.com


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:25pm
I don't have my mods hat on here, this is me posting as someone who has been around a long time and made a lot of great friends thru OHbaby!...

I'm inclined to agree with Maria. I have been deliberately quiet on a few things lately coz it there have been a few things that have upset me and when I logged in this morning and saw this thread I thought "yay, some warm fuzzies". The thought of it as a popularity contest never even crossed my mind and I'm sorry that some of you feel this is becoming a 'cliquey' place.

I have always liked the message boards here on OHbaby! irrespective of the fact that I work here - they've always been a place where I've felt safe to air my thoughts, feelings and opinions ad engage in gentle debate without being judged.

Events over the past few weeks have me wondering what's become of our community? It seems one can barely open ones mouth without upsetting someone else and blowing it all out of proportion.

Please don't turn this 'warm fuzzy' into yet another locked topic...

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:34pm
Im gonna sit on the fence here and say i can see both sides. This topic is asking for some to take it the wrong way and the way things have been lately it was bound to happen. It may unite a few but for others it could be a bit upsetting. But on the other hand Im sure it was started with the best intentions.

I would like to meet everyone, each person on here has different views, lifestyles etc... and I think its nice to hear everyones stories and would love to put names to faces.


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:38pm
I'm still holding out hope that you're going to brave the flight to Wellington in October Robyn If I can do it, you can !

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:39pm
Originally posted by rubydooby rubydooby wrote:

I would like to meet the October mums - hopefully soon!!


We're keen for the zoo! And looking forward to meeting Kellz and wee Isla next weekend

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 4:41pm
Hmmm Im beginning to wonder if its a good idea either way to be honest but will see closer to the time how things are going both flying wise (or should that be my state of mind) and OB wise.


Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 5:22pm
to tell the truth, each time I see someone post, I think "ooh, i want to meet them too!" BUT there are/were some people I was really more interested in meeting than others, mainly because of circumstances. E>G i really wanted to meet Nikki cause our kids are the same age, and we could compare notes. - this was when i started going on Oh Baby - and i think most people would like to meet those with children the same age for the same reasons. Also there are some people who post a lot, and so we've got to know, like ginger, especially with her blog, I'v love to know if she speaks like she writes. that is my input, and I know that this was not meant to offend.


Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 5:38pm
Originally posted by AnnC AnnC wrote:

Thing is I am not keen on this kind of thread as I go to other forums and its so clicky I thought on here it wasn't like that but I guess I have now been proven wrong.

I thought this forum is to chat to other mums/mums to be/ dads/ dads to be etc... sharing our milestones and getting advise etc... NOT a popularity contest.



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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 5:46pm
Originally posted by Maya Maya wrote:


Events over the past few weeks have me wondering what's become of our community? It seems one can barely open ones mouth without upsetting someone else and blowing it all out of proportion.

Please don't turn this 'warm fuzzy' into yet another locked topic...


my intentions were never to upset anyone but to show that whether intention to upset someone was there or not - it could and did. (does that make sense?)

My big apologises if I have offended anyone.

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Ann


Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10)


Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 6:35pm
sh*te. Just typed out a huge reply about who I wanted to meet then accidentally highlighted and deleted. I'm GENIUS at that!!

I'll shorten it - I wanna meet the addicts. Most of them I already have. The rest... I'll get to you yet


Posted By: MelanieAndBree
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 6:48pm
I have to agree with AnnC. Ive noticed it is a tad cliquey..
Im sure its nothing personal to anyone.. theres just those who have known each other longer.

Im not complaining, im sure you dont intentionally do it, its just what i see and i feel as though being new it seems im overlooked and my posts dont mean as much as the other members who've been here longer.
Maybe i dont say anything worth commenting/reading? lol, who knows.

But hey, im still here so it cant be that bad can it.

Oh and i dont really know who id like to meet. I dont really know anyone well enough.

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Melanie.
Mum to Briahna Robyn, 3yrs


Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 6:49pm
When are you coming to Whangarei Nikki????? Although i think Hannah and miss Jayde would just be too much mischeif together

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Jayde 25/12/04

Alyssa 08/04/03

http://Alyayde.bebo.com


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 7:00pm
We'd be in on that one too Maria

And we do try not to be cliquey, but like someone else said when you know some people really well sometimes you say things/make jokes etc. that refer to things that have happened in the past and others don't really get it unless they were there in the first place.

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 7:03pm
Well, I can see both sides of this too.. ultimately there are real life people behind each of our online names and sometimes, lets face it, we can be bitches or we can take things the wrong way cause that's what real life people do.

I mean - if you're on here in the first place you have either got a baby on the way, trying to have a baby, or already have them...all of these stages can make us emotional at times...am I right ladies!? (and no, I'm not gonna say gents just to be politically correct dammit)

Anyway, who cares if there is the odd scrap every now and again, I for one enjoy a bit of argy bargy. It doesn't have to be all flowers and holding hands all the time. As long as we get over it and move on at some stage so we can get back to actually being helpful when people need it.


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 7:12pm
LMAO Pepsi, thanks for making me smile

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:02pm
Melanie its not only newbie that feel like that. Sometimes some of the old timers feel the same way. I often feel like no ones listen to a word Ive 'said' but i think its more that there are so many people who have opinions to share.

Well said Pepsi, I like a friendly debate and hate being told to be nice just for speaking my mind.

It would be a pretty boring forum if we were all the same, had the same opinions etc... I think some/me/all/does that cover everyone? needs to harden up a bit, not take everything personally.

Ok I have to say this..... GandT thats a bit harsh on AnnC, yep its a message board but you were quick to shoot down Deborah when she started her 'sad' thread when she was just expressing her opinion. (or was that someone else? if so sorry, my bad)


Posted By: EllenMumof2
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:09pm

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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:30pm
Ahh, Ellen, you sweetie.

Sorry Melanie of you feel a bit behind the eight ball. I guess there are alot of us sharing "war stories" on here, and over time, we have all gotten to "know" each other. (and some of us spend FAR too much time on here...I felt stink the other day on here while my housekeeper was here... lazy tart that I am!!) Pretty soon, you will have lotsa war stories to share as well, and soon be as addicted as the rest of us, lol!!! Just do waht I did and keep jumping into every thread with random comments, and pretty soon, no one will be able to ignore you!!!

AnnC I feel we could bond over teenagers.... I am wicked stepmum to a 15 year old boy...*shudder* scarier than halloween at times!

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:35pm
*pictures having Annie as a wicked stepmum*

Loving it

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:44pm
yep and I even have warts on my nose...
I was kinda proud when he told me I was a "hard ass". I was about to climb into him about that, but he said "na, man you should be proud, it means I know when you say no that is that, and I know I can just wear mum and dad down, you're hard!"

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 8:55pm
fattartsrock - LOL at what your step son said but also at least you know you have the upper hand, Josh started high school this year and I am amazed at how many kids his age are on the verge of being explend after 1 term!.. Not my son!







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Ann


Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10)


Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:04pm
You know what, DSS was a hairs bresth from it as well in third form. We had some real issues. Apparently it is veeery common, as the boys are having trouble adjusting to high school, and there fore "act out". Luckily (for him! lol) he got his act together last year, sort of, and now its just lovely hormones and "independance issues"... THREADJACK, sorry...

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:20pm
Hehe, just to keep up the threadjack () DSD thinks I am a witch with warts and all. Hasn't even seen the gremlins yet,not even a picture....

Maybe I am an evil witch...

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:25pm
How old DSD emma?



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Ann


Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10)


Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:49pm

Originally posted by my2angels my2angels wrote:


Ok I have to say this..... GandT thats a bit harsh on AnnC, yep its a message board but you were quick to shoot down Deborah when she started her 'sad' thread when she was just expressing her opinion. (or was that someone else? if so sorry, my bad)

Thank's for that my2angles I was thinking the samething, but did not feel right saying so.  I agree this post could have been taken 2 way's and for me i did take it the wrong way first and yeah I would feel gutted had not mentioned me so I do think it is a bit of a populairy contest.  (thank's Baalamb it was cool to see my name even if we already know each other IRL).  On further reflection however I relised that this was started for the warm fuzzy reason.  unfortunailty thoes who are new or a little quiter might not be feeling the warm fuzzies as much as other's being mentioned etc.  Anyway that is my 2 cent's.



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Deborah Mum to:



Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:53pm

Originally posted by AnnC AnnC wrote:

Thing is I am not keen on this kind of thread as I go to other forums and its so clicky I thought on here it wasn't like that but I guess I have now been proven wrong.

I thought this forum is to chat to other mums/mums to be/ dads/ dads to be etc... sharing our milestones and getting advise etc... NOT a popularity contest.

Good on you Ann for saying what alot of us were prob thinking this board is sounding a little too much like the TM message board's.



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Deborah Mum to:



Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 9:56pm
Well Liz and Emma you gave me warm fuzzies!

Would love to meet you too (although I have met Liz and Jake, but Taine was still a bump!) Also Robyn as we seem to think similar, and all the ones who have been here as long as me (aaaaages!!)

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Aimee

Hannah 22/10/05
Greer 11/02/08


Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:04pm
I don't think it is a "popularity contest", more along the lines of "whose posts make you laugh, agree, talk to the moniter etc, that you could see yourself having coffee and cake with in real life". A curiosity thing.
I would love to come to the big Oh Baby meet up and meet Everybody, but am getting married that weekend.

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:07pm
Just to sort things out me and gandt have had our say privately (as not to drag others more into it) and alls well.(btw gandt hope you don't mind I mentioned this)

I still stand by what I said but maybe could of worded it differently. We both have different opinions.

Thank you to those who understood what I was getting at.... I feel bad that it has taken away the orginal thread but perhaps it may have upset the one's that wouldn't of got a mention.

Look forward to the big meet then all of us can meet all of us

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Ann


Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10)


Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:26pm
Originally posted by fattartsrock fattartsrock wrote:

I would love to come to the big Oh Baby meet up and meet Everybody, but am getting married that weekend.


Priorities!!! *clicks tongue*

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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 14 April 2007 at 10:32pm
Yeah, I know!

Will have to get my stepmum warts lazered off before then!!

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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P


Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:26am
Hehe Aimee, I still think we need to do some brain storming when we both have the time!!!


Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:35am
well i when i saw the frst post in this thread my first feelings were negative rather than positive- like here we go a popularity thing. its nice that it was intended to be a warn fuzzy thread but it isnt nice when you read through and noone mentions your name so you have to see it from all points of views really, it is a horrible feeling to feel left out.

in saying that THANKYOU DEB (deborah) for saying you'd like to meet me! i cant wait to meet you either.

i have been looking forward to the mega meet to meet as many mums off here as i can, because we all share something with each other and mostly on a daily basis. we have either all been trying to get pregnant, been pregnant,or had babies etc... so in a way we all have something in common and you are all part of a GREAT online community. there will be personalities that some dont get on with and others where there is an instant friendship. thats just my thoughts

**happy vibes**





Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:49am
Yeah like, this is often the first place you tell people your pregnant or something happens and you want to jump on here and tell everyone so its kind of like oh nice, i tell you all this stuff and you dont even want to meet me! Thats the first reaction but as you said Rachel, you have to look at if from all points of view. I'd love to meet as many of the ladies on here as possible, no matter how much I knew them.


Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:51am
Oh and I take my hat off to you step mums. That must be sooooo hard. My friend is a step mum to 4 kids, including one terrible teen girl, man do they have problems. Also they have just had thier own baby which has made it harder.


Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 8:48am
I'm kinda lucky - I get to be a stepmum without being a stepmum - haven't seen any of the kids for ages. But Mona lived with us/me for nearly 5 years which was hard work!

And I second what you said about people on here knowing everything first. When I got preg with the gremlins I told you guys before I told anyone else (except Willie ) coz I was really nervous about having another miscarriage but I knew you would all be really supportive either way. And luckily it turned out for the best and I got the wee gremlins

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Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)


Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 9:03am
I would like to say I like this site. It has been great for me over the past few months. There are no babies in my extended family and I have no one to talk to. So it has been great for me to ask questions. I look forward to continuing to ask the dum questions and would love to meet a lot of you that I have been dealing with on here.


Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 9:13am
Well, I love to meet people but unfortunately have a wedding to go to Labour Weekend... I'm gutted, because I wanted to put voices to the words! Any chance of the meet-up being an annual thing? cause we just might be living in Wellington next year.

In any big community people tend to gravitate towards those others they think they have something in common with... which is why I really wanted to meet the May 05 and November 06 mums, along with a few others!

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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 9:24am
Originally posted by my2angels my2angels wrote:

GandT thats a bit harsh on AnnC, yep its a message board but you were quick to shoot down Deborah when she started her 'sad' thread when she was just expressing her opinion. (or was that someone else? if so sorry, my bad)


yes that was me ...

its all been me - i made jess and jax leave, i am the negative influence.

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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 9:33am
lol, so whos next on your hit list?

maybe its that we are all getting comfortable with each other that we are now starting to say what we really think and not just being fake nice.


Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 10:39am
I'm looking forward to meeting everyone at the Big meet and greet on Labour weekend. I haven't met anyone from OB yet but will be in a couple of weeks (we are having a Welly meet)so super excited about that. I love coming on here cos like someone else said, there isn't anyone else in my real life with a baby so I only have you ladies to share with. I enjoy the different opinions and personalities and perspectives you get from this forum. I hope that doesn't change

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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 1:52pm
will be cool to meet you guys Leish when we have a welly meet, I met a few people from OB when I first moved to Lower Hutt it was great as I was struggling to meet people with being in a new town adn all.
Its great to be able to chat to people online before meeting them as I found it makes you feel more comfortable around them when you meet IRL.


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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 3:32pm
awwww no one wants to meet me boo hoo



i'd just like to meet any of you ladies and gents as i have no friends

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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 3:37pm
if ya lived in wellys id meet up with ya i love meeting people

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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 3:50pm
Vanessa - you are included in my "addicts" but I didn't wanna leave anyone out! All the oldies really

I must admit, I'm a bit terrible at getting to know the newer ones at the moment as I am trying to stay away from here so generally just come on here to catch up with those who I have known for a while as I don't have time to go through the pregnancy and threads about new babies (as a moaning and whinging about my two year old takes up a whoooole lotta time as it is!) so all in good time, I'll start threadjacking those threads too!

And gandt - you are very valued here, and sometimes I can't figure out if you care/mind(?) what anyone else thinks... but I think it needs to be said that most of the time I love your advice for being so wise, the other times I appreciate your alternative point of view. So anyway, keep doing what you do. Those that aren't used to it will learn to deal with it.

Right. That's enough touch feely crap from me.


Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 3:54pm
P.S. I'd like to meet emeldee. She's another one that makes me laugh.


Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 3:56pm
I'm with you on all the other addicts, Nikki... I started to do a list, and Nat told me off because he said "you'll be there all morning. Just say 'and others' and get in the shower!"

gandt: you are not a negative influence, so can the sarcasm and keep up the good work!

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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 4:00pm
Nikki we'll have to get together again one time, hows wee Hannah going?

I like it when people say what they feel instead of sugar coating everything.

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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 4:02pm
Yep Monique, we will one day. I've got uni and work most days now so am not as free to catch up as I used to be! It's sad!!


Posted By: baalamb
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 4:05pm
Originally posted by haleighsmum haleighsmum wrote:

I like it when people say what they feel instead of sugar coating everything.


Totally agree. But I also think some tact often goes amiss sometimes.


Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 4:06pm
yeah i been so busy with haleigh and it not as easy to get around these days hehe i havent even got out much to see anyone really either.
although im going to make it waddle and all to the meet up with the others in lower hutt in may. be kinda interesting getting on the bus with haleigh and a pram hehe.
although much better than trying to get down that big hill i did live up that wouldve been interesting lol

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Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 4:09pm
Originally posted by jack_&_charli jack_&_charli wrote:

awwww no one wants to meet me boo hoo



i'd just like to meet any of you ladies and gents as i have no friends


I'd like to meet you!! October babies rock!!!!!

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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 5:30pm
I'd be keen to meet anyone who lives in Auckland! I don't care about how many posts you've done or how long you've been on this site, just meeting other mums with kids around the same age as mine would be great, I've only got one set of friends who have kids, the others are only starting to buy houses and get married, so have no idea about kids and what they bring to your life.

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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 6:01pm
Ahhh this thread is kind of funny...reminds me of the old days when you used to fill out friendship books and list your school buddies.. Back then Corey Haim was the cutest guy ever...oh Corey, you really let yourself go didn't you...


Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 6:24pm
Originally posted by .Mel .Mel wrote:

I'd be keen to meet anyone who lives in Auckland! I don't care about how many posts you've done or how long you've been on this site, just meeting other mums with kids around the same age as mine would be great


what ages are your kids?


Posted By: MummyFreckle
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 6:43pm

I have found this thread really interesting - to read everyones different points of view....

I think its important to remember that its very hard to read 'tone' into forum posts and emails, and it would often come across completely differently if the person was actually speaking the words out loud.

Sarcasm can be hard to read, and can sometimes be potrayed as nastiness or some other negative thing, so maybe give each other a break and try not to take things personally!

Just my 25 cents worth.



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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:23pm
.Mel there is a meet up at Botany this Sat at 10am. Check out the thread started by Bombshell in the General forum Everyone is welcome! Cant wait to meet some Oh Baby Mums( and dads?) and bubs!
Looking forward to meeting you too Emma,..and Maya and the Gremlins of course!


Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:37pm
I was also including you in my oldies group Vanessa! I would've been here all day listing everyone

Am also a bit like Nikki, in that I am trying to spend less time on here and more with Hannah, so am generally skipping over the pregnancy threads and not really 'meeting' any newbies. But I guess in a year or 2, all the newbies will be like us addicts are now too.

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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:38pm
Oh and also forgot to add - Deb (gandt) I don't think you are a negative influence, its great to have you on here and you were also in my group of 'oldies' I'd like to meet.

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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 7:54pm
Vanessa - you are in my Oct Mummies! And I am hoping you're going to make it to Wellington so we can have a giant first birthday party for all our wee ones!

And .Mel, hope to see you at the Botany meet up next weekend. I think my lovely boss Ang is going to try and get there as well

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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 8:47pm
Originally posted by pepsi pepsi wrote:

Ahhh this thread is kind of funny...reminds me of the old days when you used to fill out friendship books and list your school buddies.. Back then Corey Haim was the cutest guy ever...oh Corey, you really let yourself go didn't you...


LOL!!! you have been reading my mind!!!

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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 11:01pm

Far out this thread makes for some juicy reading!  

OK - in the spirit that it was started in... I've loved meeting the other Palmy mums, and yeah, I'd like to meet the other October mummies (and am gutted that I can't at the wee meet-up soon) since I've kept in touch with them on this forum more than I have with other people... that's not so say there's not other people I'm not dead keen to meet... but I'm not going to list them all right now!  I'm the same as a few of you have already said - I only check in on the threads that are the most relevant to where I'm at... selfish, sure, but to be honest, when I sit down at the computer for a good ol' geek sesh on this, my one and only forum, I make damn sure I check in on the threads I frequent first, before miss Ella wakes and it's all over!  If I get the chance after that, then I go for a nosey around the site. 

I am soooo looking forward to the BIG OB get-together in October. 



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Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 15 April 2007 at 11:38pm
I'd like to meet Brad Pitt. Granted he may not use OhBaby, however you never know. He and Ange have lots of kids now and would probably appreciate the support and advice. So, if Brad is out there using some psuedonym like 'nikkiwhyte' just let me know . If Brad isn't available, Eric Bana (or 'maya' as he likes to be called on here) would do too. No need to break my bubble about Paws not really being Tom Cruise (though they are the same height). After spending a night with her already, I know she's not really TC....

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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 6:24am
LMAO

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Posted By: nuttymama
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 8:14am
WOW, that pretty much sums it up. I can see both sides here as well. But to the newbies take heart there are some senior members who have not been named and coming from an over sensitive nutcase not even I'm taking it personally .

Of course there are cliquey groups on here it's the same in life not everyone is going to get on with everyone and some have known each other for a long time and as someone else has said there are people with kids the same age or those that have had the chance to meet each other! BUT i will say even though there are cliquey groups I have always been made to feel welcome!

Having said that i'm not sure now was a good time to start this thread although I'm sure it was started with the best intentions. Deb (gandt) I don't think you are negative persay you just tell it like it is without the fluffy ducks. But I will admit it has taken me some time to understand you and your dry sense of humour. As you can sometimes be quite hard to read but you are a nice person with the best intentions So keep it coming.

Having a forum with so many women I am surprised there is not a little more head banging going on so in general I think this is a really well behaved site and have mostly enjoyed my time here. You guys have offered me some really sound advice over time and helped me through some really hairy parts of my life so that will always keep me coming back.

As far as meeting people on here I am not going to name names but I would love to be able to meet up with any Mum's on here, especially the christchurch ones as I have been unable to go to any of the meet ups yet!

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Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 10:19am
all quiet from Brad and Eric.....see, I was onto something there

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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 10:26am
I prefer to maintain a low profile.


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Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 10:42am


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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 10:57am
lol i would love to meet the oldies here but unless i win lotto i dont see that happing very soon

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Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 11:17am
Luana, are you still living in a suburb just out of Antarctica?

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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 11:22am
I would love to meet up with the October mummies. I am bummed that I missed meeting Ella when she was down here and the other Christchurch mums to but have had the pleasure to meet a few of you girls at Racheals house at the beginning of the year.

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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 1:19pm
Originally posted by emeldee emeldee wrote:

Luana, are you still living in a suburb just out of Antarctica?

why yes i do i am getting to meet amum from here tomorrow (yay a ohbaby meet up will take pics)and its quite nice here at the mo

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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 1:38pm
Originally posted by emeldee emeldee wrote:

Luana, are you still living in a suburb just out of Antarctica?


lol!!!

Brad and yummo Eric, feel free to hop in and ask any baby/toddler/preschooler q's....

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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 1:44pm
Originally posted by nikkiwhyte nikkiwhyte wrote:

I prefer to maintain a low profile.


Me too. Those pesky paparazzi just don't give us a break so the anonymity here is a welcome change. However now that my true identity has been 'outed' I fear they will find me...

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Posted By: mamanee
Date Posted: 16 April 2007 at 2:06pm
I'd be happy to meet up with anyone in the Hamilton area, as I've got no friends..

I found this forum to be really welcoming to everyone. Compared to some other websites I've seen, we're all pretty courteous of one another and little bumps seem to be smoothed out pretty quickly.

Sure, there have been times where my sharp tongue takes over and I start to write some opinionated essay about how I feel, but I usually delete it without posting it as I just don't think it's worth it to stir things up or upset others. I think just typing it out makes you feel better anyway, even if it's not posted.

Anywho, that was my two cents. I'm mostly a lurker, but I'm on here all bloody day. Like right now, I'm supposed to be doing my housework!


Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 18 April 2007 at 11:59am
Originally posted by gandt gandt wrote:

its all been me - i made jess and jax leave, i am the negative influence.
Ahhh cr@p I miss all the interesting threads!! When did that happen!!? LOL I hate living here at mum's and having limited internet access.

Don't take this thread personally ladies: I feel I should have been mentioned more as someone to meet but it's my own fault for not being present enough makes me sus. of the ladies I have already met - spreading the word that it's not worth it huh huh huh???

But honestly I have met some wonderful people thanks to Oh Baby - Nikki, Liz, Annie, Roksana, Becca, Ella etc. and have a few more on my list of "to do's". Definitely the oldies - You know who you are. I feel like I know these people already!



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Posted By: JD
Date Posted: 18 April 2007 at 1:49pm
Hehe this thread has been quite funny!
Don't take offence anyone, but ITS A FORUM, if you don't like what is being said, then turn off your computer and come back tomorrow...it will all be new topics!
I am pretty sure i have read this whole forum back to front and not got offended by anyones opinions as they are just opinions. I do admit to going Hmph when someone contradicts my 'oh so wise' adivse however, I realise that i am very dedicated to my own ideas and can find it hard initially seeing it from someone elses angle. Oh well, life goes on.

There are heaps of you who have cracked me up while I have been lurking around.....so at some stage it would be good to bump into you in real life, but I'm not sure I am ready to meet anyone at this stage. Its nice to read all the dramas, then turn off the computer go back to my own reality

Ill tell you what tho, comming from the TTC side, it sure makes a nice break from all the baby and pregnacy talk to see some stropyness (if thats even a word).

Oh and thanks to the ladies like Ginger and Jess who continue to entertain and inform. They could be lazy and lurk like me which would have made the ttc thread rather boring.



Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 18 April 2007 at 1:54pm
You know you are my fav Ana



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