no baby for us
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Topic: no baby for us
Posted By: mum2paris
Subject: no baby for us
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:32pm
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hi there ladies, thanks for all your well wishes.
sadly same thing today, no growth, no blood flow and no heart beat. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: sally belly
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:35pm
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Oh Janine, I'm very very sorry to hear that. Not sure what else to say really...
Thinking of you & look after yourself xx -------------    
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Posted By: Leem&Bridge
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:36pm
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awwwwwwwwwww im so sorry to hear that big hugs to you and your family ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Bel
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:36pm
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Oh I am so sorry Janine - I don't really know what to say, except I am very sad for you and your family.
Best wishes, my thoughts are with you ------------- Mum to two beautiful kids 
Luke (09.11.2007) Amy (01.04.2009) |
Posted By: Nic01
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:38pm
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So sorry to hear that Janine. My thoughts are with you ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:43pm
Big  to you and your family------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:44pm
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Awwww I'm sorry to hear that Janine well wises for you and your family take care ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: bumblefoot
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:45pm
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Oh Janine, you are so strong to post on here, and thank you. Im thinking of you, and hope you are coping ok, which I know sounds trite, but honestly dont know what else to say. Best wishes and so very many hugs! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: hailstones
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:51pm
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I'm so sorry to hear that Janine. Big hugs to you and your family, my thoughts are with you ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Lissy
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 3:51pm
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That is sad. Big hugs to you and the family. ------------- Harlan Drew DOB: 06.12.06 & Stepmum to Ethan & Christian, DOB: 25.02.99 |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:01pm
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Oh, no.
I am so very, very sorry Janine. Hugest hugs. ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: peachy
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:07pm
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Janine, I really do feel for you, I am so sorry to hear this. I really don't know what else to say, but hugs to you and your family ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: emeldee
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:08pm
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Very, very sorry to hear that this has happened Janine - and our thoughts are with you and your family over the next weeks, months etc. There seems to be no rhyme or reason as to why horrible things happen to lovely people - huggiest of huggiest hugs from your extended online family up here. ------------- |
Posted By: MummyFreckle
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:09pm
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Like the rest of the gang - I dont know what to say except that you and your family are in my thoughts. So sorry to hear this sad news.
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Posted By: MILF
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:11pm
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so sorry to read your news janine, my heart goes out to you and your family while you come to terms with this.
------------- Lyla - mum to Xanthe - my big 4 year old 
and Jordis - 1 year old 
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Posted By: mamanee
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:16pm
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So sorry to read this post. My thoughts are with you and your family and don't know what else to say.
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Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:19pm
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Oh, I am so, so sorry to read your news. My thoughts are with you and all your family.
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Posted By: AN E
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:19pm
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Big hugs to you and your family
Take care of yourself ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: sparkle
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:32pm
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So sorry to hear that Janine. My thoughts are with you and your family ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: nuttymama
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:41pm
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Janine I am so so sorry. Thinking of you Mike and the girls. ------------- Abigail 06/01/2005 Jayden 21/11/2001 Micheal 03/04/1997 |
Posted By: Millie1976
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:48pm
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I am very sorry to hear your sad news. Big hugs to you and your family. ------------- Sebastien 2 years old Olivier 3 3/4 years old |
Posted By: monster
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 4:55pm
| So sorry to hear this has happened. My thoughts are with you and your family. |
Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:00pm
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bigs hugs to u and your family....our thoughts r with you
------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:05pm
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Sorry to hear about your sad news, take care. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: LeahL
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:05pm
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ------------- Lucus,Born Sleeping~31.06.03 (21w3d) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:09pm
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So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you ------------- My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:29pm
Oh I'm sorry Janine  Did/do the girls know? How's you and Mike? Is Mike going to be getting a sample checked again? Big hugs hunny.------------- |
Posted By: Freesia
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:29pm
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I'm so sorry Janine. My condolences to you and your family. Thinking of you
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Posted By: MonicaMouse
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:32pm
| They've said it all, but I echo their thoughts. *hugs* |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 5:33pm
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hey there, yep paris knew, i explained to her last week as she came with us for last weeks scan. she came home and had a big cry to us, but she'll be ok, i just explained to her that we all have an angel in heaven to look after us, and so the baby will go to heaven and be her and ayja's angel. I feel so sad for her, but she isn't silly, ayja on the other hand is to little and has no idea. yep mike will be going back for samples etc, and if they don't come clear he will book himself back in again. if that is not successful at the end of the day, i will look at getting tubes tied. could not go through this again. all you ladies out there that have had to deal with constant miscarriages, hats off to you. but we have 2 beautiful girls, what more could we possibly need. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 6:23pm
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I think having gone through what you and mike have gone through in the last few weeks makes it that much harder... it must have been a rollercoaster of emotions and you have to be such a strong person to deal with that sort of stuff... but know that if you need anything then we are here for you... as you shouldn't have to do it by yourself.
Big hugs and love from this way. I hope Paris and Ayja give you lots of cuddles.
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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 6:36pm
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oh no Huge Hugs to you and your family
------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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http://tweetytweety85.bebo.com - bebo |
Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 6:57pm
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Janine, im so sorry that everything wasnt ok, that really sucks. Big hugs to you Mike and your beautiful girls. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 7:00pm
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Janine, I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. Big hugs to you all. xxxx ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 7:24pm
| Thoughts coming your way Janine. I'm so sorry that it wasn't better news.. I was hoping and praying it was. Good luck for everything |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 7:35pm
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I'm really sorry to hear your news. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 7:42pm
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Janine I'm so sorry the news was bad Big hugs to you, Mike and the girls Take care and let us know if we can help with anything at all, or just a chat. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: EllenMumof2
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 7:48pm
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Thinking of you -------------  
 
Kalem 6! |
Posted By: NikkiB
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 7:50pm
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I'm so sorry to hear your news. I can't even imagine what you and your family are going through. My thoughts are with you. ------------- A very lucky mummy to two gorgeous boys: RB 3/10/2008 JB 29/12/2009 |
Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 8:00pm
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im so sorry janine, you are in my thoughts.
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 8:04pm
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Sending you all lots of love and hugs. I'm so sorry Janine. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Anna
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 8:04pm
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Janine, that sucks. I am so so sorry. Look after yourself... ------------- Anna http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 8:09pm
| I'm so sorry Janine big hugs for you and your family |
Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 8:23pm
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awwwww
For your whole family ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 8:51pm
| Hugs to you, Mike and the girls Janine. i know with everything going on this can't be easy for you guys, so i hope the thought that everyone here is thinking of you and offering our sympathies helps in some small way. |
Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 9:29pm
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thinking of you Janine and sending you and your family lots of hugs. ------------- "> 
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Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 9:42pm
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Really no word's are good enough at a time like this so sorry hun. Gig hug's to you and family. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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Posted By: shelleybean
Date Posted: 20 April 2007 at 10:19pm
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So so so so sorry for your loss, big hugs to you and your family take care and rest up. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 12:07am
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Hey, so sorry to hear the bad news, I was thinking of you today.
Best wishes for the next few days. Stay strong, kia kaha! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 9:44am
All my love to you, mike and the girls. I am so very sorry for your loss. We are here for you if you need us!  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 2:11pm
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Awww Janine. I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs and thinking of you and your family. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: miss
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 2:47pm
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Really sad to hear the news. Big hugs to you and your family. -------------  
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 3:44pm
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oh janine! i'm so sorry hun....big hugs to you, mike and the girls ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 3:56pm
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Hugs to you and your family, Janine. So sorry to hear this news. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 3:58pm
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I was thinking of you and really sad to read this post. Big hugs hun ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 21 April 2007 at 9:46pm
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awwwww hun, so know what you are going through if ya feel like a chat or want to come for a coffee pm me , big hugs. xxx ------------- 
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Posted By: callalily
Date Posted: 22 April 2007 at 10:03am
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Janine i am so sorry you had such bad news - i was thinking of you on friday afternoon. My thoughts are with you and your family - all the best chickie.... ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 22 April 2007 at 10:22am
 Big Hugs Janine to you and your family.------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: Carmel
Date Posted: 22 April 2007 at 12:41pm
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Big hugs to you and your family
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Posted By: ellabellame
Date Posted: 22 April 2007 at 2:36pm
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I can't imagine what you're going through, all i can say is i'm very very sorry for your loss. ------------- |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 23 April 2007 at 9:44am
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Aw, chick. I've been thinking of you and hoping that you'd had better news... I'm so sorry to hear it wasn't good after all. Good on you for explaining it to Paris - and it sounds strange, but what a beautiful way to tell her, too. That sure can't have been easy. I'm certain you'll all meet this wee baby one day. And I think it's awful that you are going through this - huge hugs to you, and my ear is always here if you want a good vent. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 23 April 2007 at 4:11pm
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Oh man......I am sooo sorry for your loss! I am not very good at this so I will leave at that. Big hugs to you, Mike and the girls. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: lou
Date Posted: 24 April 2007 at 11:42am
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I'm so sorry to hear your news. Lossing a baby really suxs. I miscarried at 8 weeks so know some of what you are going through. You are in my prayers ------------- Mother to two beautiful children - Sophie age 6 and Ephraim age 4 |
Posted By: fairsk8
Date Posted: 24 April 2007 at 2:46pm
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Thinking of you and your family. ------------- http://www.bump-and-beyond.com/"> 
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 30 April 2007 at 11:09pm
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Hey guys just to update those that haven't pm-ed me..
Had the ERPOC today, didn't get in till 2pm.. nothing to eat from 10pm last night so was ready to knaw my arm off by then.. all went ok, so weird how quick you go out.. can't get over that.. having never had a general.. lol anyways am a bit crampy and sore but otherwise ok and still actually feeling good at this point. so you have probably seen i am posting a heap this evening.. I know it will all hit soon. but for now i will just keep talking... ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 30 April 2007 at 11:12pm
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oooh, and i see that I started a sparkly name signature trend..
he he, ok i spose i can't own that movement .. lol seen as they are from a different site as mine.. and it's a free world, lolol... but yay for sparkly names. nice to know that there are others who love "bling" just as much as i do.   ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 01 May 2007 at 11:32am
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------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 01 May 2007 at 11:37am
Wow, all those hugs look really cool! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 01 May 2007 at 12:26pm
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i was just thinking that.. all hugging in unison lol ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 01 May 2007 at 2:07pm
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How are you feeling today Janine? Have been thinking of you a lot lately Am working Sunday if you wanna catch up ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 01 May 2007 at 2:23pm
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hey chick have afternoon shift this sunday but am on a morning the sunday after.. (sucky cos it's mother's day and i have to work) ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 01 May 2007 at 2:48pm
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I dont have to work mothers day, but am working all of the following weekend (19/20) ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |