oh my god i hurt my baby
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Topic: oh my god i hurt my baby
Posted By: Kazzle
Subject: oh my god i hurt my baby
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:20am
she was lying under the computer table and i grabbed her to pull her out and as i started to pull her out she started screaming... when i klooked i have put a small shallow hole in her head where i scraped it against a screw that we didnt even know was there.
thankfully only superficial and no bleeding but i never want to hear my baby scream like that again (although i know that at somestage i will) no hair wash until its scabbed over....im such a stupid mummy  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:22am
aww hunny these things happen and your not a mean mummy sooo big hugs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:38am
Dont beat yourself up about it!! It was an accident! Lots of cuddles on the menu today!!
 ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:42am
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You're not a mean mummy Kazzle. These things happen with little ones and she would have forgotten all about it before you know it Hope you feel better soon. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:48am
| I've done tons of stuff to my kids Kazzle! I believe we had a thread called "worst mother of the year". Rhiannon won't remember a thing! |
Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:50am
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Kazzle I'm sure you're a WONDERFUL mummy, and like everyone else said, these things happen. Don't beat yourself up over it.
Once I was around at my friends place and I accidently shut their little boys finger in the ranch slider. Oh my gosh I felt sooooooo bad I actually cried! I couldn't help it, the tears just came out - I was so embarrased! But they were really nice about it, and there was no harm done - just a bit of a shock. But I felt soooooo bad! So you're not alone , but remember it's really not a big deal  ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 9:04am
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Awww, Kaz - I'm sure Rhiannon will be over it already, so don't beat yourself up about it! Must've been a shock, but she'll be OK. ------------- Andie |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 9:12am
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Oh Kaz it's alright! Like Liz said, we had a Worst Mother of the Year thread for a while, because we've all been there!
I know you feel rotton now but Rhiannon will not remember and you will be pulling her out from under the computer desk again sooner than you realise! ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: tashzmum
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 10:42am
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ohhh hun dont feel bad!!!i stood on tash one day-she was hiding under the sheets on the floor that i had just taken off our bed and i stepped back and stood on the sheets not relising that she was hiding under them. we have all been there done that ------------- Natasha Jayde, 1-01-05(7lb3oz) Caroline Elisabeth, 9-04-08 (4lb15oz) Izabella Kate, 9-04-08(6lb7oz) Lexi Brenna, 23-01--2011(6lb6oz) |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:05am
OMG I was just thinking of all the things I've done to my two!!! 
Hope you're feeling better Kaz, its not a nice feeling knowing we did it to them, but like everyone said she'll have forgotten it already. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:20am
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dont feel too bad - this might cheer you up tho... today going to the bank was in a rush and i slammed the door shut at the back of the car (an odyssey) only to find gabriel had his fingers in there...ouch.he was very sad.... had to promise him lollies to make it better. but could have been worse and my first thought was oh no i've cut his fingers off... so accidents do happen.
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:28am
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Remember you were the first "on the scene" for a cuddle and a "kiss it all better".
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 12:49pm
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thanks guys.
withing 2 mins of me posting she had forgotten all about it...although i ahvent as she has a nice mark on her head...oh well....she still loves me  ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 1:15pm
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I am pleased she still loves you. I am not looking forward to the day I hear my boy scream out in pain....ah
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 1:41pm
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Me Too Glad to hear she is fine now Kaz!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 3:39pm
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Whoopsy! I did something similar when Elle was little. I was taking off her suit, one of those ones that buttons under the crotch and the domes scraped along her head. I'm not sure who cried more! I guess we are bound to do something to make them cry at somestage but it is still upsetting! ------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 12 May 2007 at 10:51am
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hehe I am forever thankful that children have short memories... the amount of times I have almost killed Hannah I can't count on one hand... maybe even two.
And there was the one day I dropped her out of the car and she blamed the curb for hurting her... that was an easy get-out-of-jail-free card. 
Hope it heals fast xox |
Posted By: floss
Date Posted: 14 May 2007 at 2:15pm
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Its ok we all do it!
My little girl was standing up playing on the couch which I know was a bad idea but I was sitting right there, anyway she fell over the edge hit her head on the floor with a thud and then lay there not a sound came out of her. I was so upset thinking that she was dead that I was screaming then all of a sudden she let out a scream of her own. I have never felt so bad! |