Very sad
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Topic: Very sad
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: Very sad
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:05pm
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i had a pretty sad week last week, on friday a friend of mine and girl i grew up with died of a blood clot.
She was only 24 the month before, she had got married in march and had given birth to a beautiful girl 3 weeks before. The unfairness of it is hard for me to comprehend-her daughter only turned a month yesterday and her mummy didnt even live to see that, let alone her first smile, or first steps or any of the things we often take for granted. It just really brought home to me the simple truth that tomorrow isnt gauranteed to anyone and that just cos were mums and we're needed so much, we are still vulnerable, and today can be the last-so i guess what im trying to say is while you are able, let your kids know all the time how much you love them, cos one day , you may not have the chance ..... |
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Posted By: Gwen_
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:20pm
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Hugs hun, and that is so true ------------- We're in America for 3 months with Mummy and Daddy! http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:24pm
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big hugs.
thats so true though ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:29pm
That is so true  to you and your friends family.------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:38pm
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that is terribly sad....You do reevaluate your own lives when things like that happen
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:47pm
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Big hugs. It is just so sad.... I have to agree also! |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:01pm
3 weeks  Has the baby got someone who can look after her full-time?-------------  |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:08pm
i,m soo sorry for your loss big hugs ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: nuttymama
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:33pm
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How horrible. But how true. Bug hugs ------------- Abigail 06/01/2005 Jayden 21/11/2001 Micheal 03/04/1997 |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:36pm
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That is really sad. Big hugs to you and the family ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:37pm
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Big hugs Kelly! ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:40pm
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thanks for your hugs and support guys
yeah Busymum, babies got her daddy to look after her but they will stay at my friends parents for awhile cos her husband is obviously devastated and so nana and granddad can help out with their precious granddaughter. Baby slept the whole funeral service on wednesday, and her nana (my friend's mum ) held her the whole time and when she got up to speak she said baby was her anchor and she was afraid of collapsing if she didnt hold her :( and my friends dad started his speech off by thanking her husband,for making his little girl so happy. It was the saddest funeral ive been to,everyone was in shock it still doesnt seem real..... |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 3:34pm
That is so sad.  Big hugs and yes your so right in everything you said.------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: floss
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 4:20pm
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Super big hugs that is awful take care
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Posted By: mum2emj
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 4:30pm
big hugs, that is really really sad  it does make you realise how special life is and to value each day. today is the 4th anniversay of the death of a girl i went to school with, she died in a car crash at 20 leaving a young child.
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Posted By: lovingmummyhood
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 5:45pm
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That is so so sad big hugs. Take care
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Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 6:50pm
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Isn't it awful what some people go through? Life is incredibly unfair, and it makes you so grateful for what you have, and it really puts things into perspective.
------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 7:13pm
Oh my god, that brought tears to my eyes! Big hugs chick, take care of yourself. I've been thinking about you alot the past few days? Must known somethign was up. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 7:34pm
| scary. hugs to you! |
Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 9:36pm
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Biggest hugs. That is so incredibly sad. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 10:29pm
| how terrible. that is just so sad. big hugs to you all |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 10:59am
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OMG! that brought tears to my eyes also
i'm so sorry hun! what a devastating thing to happen...big hugs to you and her family ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 11:23am
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And me too got tears .... life is incrediably precious and I think we take way to much for granted, big hugs to you and yours. ------------- 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 4:19pm
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thanks again for your hugs and caring thoughts guys, you know i dont know if its because we're mums (or soon to be mums) and therefore know how to be unselfish and think about others, but i find it interesting that of all the forums i've posted about my friends passing, this is the only one that people have shown they care, so for that,I thankyou.
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 4:34pm
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I'm so sorry, what a tragic loss!
I'm in tears after reading it and like everyone else, I completely agree with your thoughts. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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