How many times
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Topic: How many times
Posted By: meow
Subject: How many times
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 12:17pm
do you start to reply to a post and then decide not to? Because you can't get the wording right, or you change your mind?
It's not just me, is it?
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Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 12:22pm
no, not just you, I do it quite often
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 12:30pm
I just reply anyway... I'm constantly with my foot in my mouth.
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 12:57pm
I don't often not reply coz I can't get the wording right, but I do often go to reply and think "nah, can't be bothered and someone else has said/will say the same thing anyways" 
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:10pm
I think the reason I can't get the words right sometimes, is I start writing something then think, oh, they might take that the wrong way.. so delete it.. then can't be bothered anymore! It's not so much a problem on here, but on another site I go to, people would often take what I said and nitpick it.. so now I think twice about some things I write
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:12pm
I change my mind sometimes after I've written it. But looking at my post count you wouldn't think so! 
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Posted By: SMoody
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:15pm
yip. Specially if McKayla decide to go mess around with it as well.
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Posted By: MyMinis
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:15pm
um somtimes I will rewrite my post or decide not to till later quite a few times.
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Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:17pm
meow wrote:
I think the reason I can't get the words right sometimes, is I start writing something then think, oh, they might take that the wrong way.. so delete it.. then can't be bothered anymore! It's not so much a problem on here, but on another site I go to, people would often take what I said and nitpick it.. so now I think twice about some things I write  |
I'm the same. But that's what I love about emails and message boards etc (just thought of a new word "E-communicating" )
ANYWAYS LOL
It's a good chance to mull over what you want to say before just blurting it out. I have chronic foot-in-mouth and often think after I've said something "oh nooooo!!! where's the un-do button"
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:29pm
I just keep shoving my foot further in, when I see one of my replies heading that way!
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 1:34pm
yep but sometimes what i want to say isnt going to go down well so i just dont say it
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 2:16pm
I think along the same lines as Emma. Sometimes its like why add my two cents worth when its just the same as what everone else has put.
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Posted By: floss
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 2:54pm
Always I tend to delete alot as I don't want people to read things the wrong way and get offended.
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 2:57pm
I do often because I write something and it doesn't look right or is what I want to say.
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 3:46pm
I do too, I think oh that could be taken the wrong way and delete the whole thing. Some times I do post even if they take it the wrong way if I feel stronglty about it.
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Posted By: Rackhell
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 3:48pm
I spend more time lurking than posting for this exact reason!
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Posted By: lovingmummyhood
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 5:10pm
I usually write but then once I've started I can't figure out exactly how to say whatever it might be, which is how my posts sometimes tend to end up as novels. Love reading though! You guys are so helpful and friendly to everyone!!
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 5:11pm
i usually post, re-read and then edit most of the time i lurk and don't bother posting because what i want to say has already been said.....except for this post, i'm repeating others
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 8:36pm
Yep I do it too! A lot of the time my posts dont turn out how I thought them in my head...
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Posted By: EllenMumof2
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 8:59pm
me to meow i have never been good at writeing down how i feel and it never comes out how it is surpose to so don't end up sending a reply at all plus my spelling is no good
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Posted By: SquishysMum
Date Posted: 09 July 2007 at 9:25pm
Me too - I always think I'll reply to something and then think "wait, these guys might think I'm intruding cos I'm not a mum yet"... I feel a bit bad being a lurker sometimes, but you guys are just so great!
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Posted By: Nitrous
Date Posted: 11 July 2007 at 10:46pm
you know, with so many admitting to doing this.. i'm surprised you got any replies.
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 12 July 2007 at 9:56pm
haha
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