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Before I was a mum...

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Topic: Before I was a mum...
Posted By: Brenna
Subject: Before I was a mum...
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 8:30pm
I got given this poem when Brenna was first born and thought I'd share it...

Before I was a Mum

Before I was a Mum
I made and ate hot meals, I had unstained clothing,
I had quiet conversations on the phone

Before I was a Mum,
I slept as ate as I wanted, and never worried about how late I got to bed
I brushed my hair and teeth everyday

Before I was a Mum,
I cleaned my house each day
I never tripped over toys or forgot words of lullabies

Before I was a Mum,
I didn’t worry whether or not my plants were poisonous,
I never thought about immunizations

Before I was a mum,
I had never been puke on, pooped on, spit on, chewed on,
Peed on, or pinched by tiny fingers

Before I was a Mum,
I had complete control of: my thoughts, my body, and my mind
I slept all night

Before I was a Mum,
I never held down a screaming child so that doctors could do tests, or give shots
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mum,
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn’t want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn’t stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much

I never knew I would love being a Mum.

Before I was a Mum,
I didn’t know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn’t know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn’t know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn’t know that something so small could make me feel so important.

Before I was a Mum,
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night, every ten minutes to make sure all was ok.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonder
Or the satisfaction of being a Mum
I didn’t know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mum.


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My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months



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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 8:32pm
that is sooo cool...brings tears to my eyes!

and the other simple one that always gets me is the one that goes - a child is someone who leaves footprints on your heart forever....



Posted By: Lissy
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 8:32pm
That is nice...

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Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 8:35pm
Ooohhhhhh Anna, you made me cry!! That is beautiful

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Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11)
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 9:18pm

Thats so lovely



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Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 9:31pm
lovely words and very very true

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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 9:31pm
I think I have something in my eye....


Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 9:46pm
Me too !


Posted By: Chovynz
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 10:10pm
me too. who said that? *looks around for scott*

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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 10:18pm
beautiful!

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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 10:30pm
damm, my contact lens is playing up

very beautiful words and so, so true

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Posted By: Anna
Date Posted: 13 July 2007 at 11:16pm
Must admit to having a wee tear here too...

I have one to add that never fails to make me teary...

By Cecilia Benson

"Hurry up" I always hear you say "or I'll leave you behind"
I hear those words the whole day long, and though you are so kind,
Most of the time I wish just once I'd hear you softly say,
"Just take your time to tie your shoes or finish up your play"
The world is all so new to me; Time has not dimmed my sight.
And all around there's things to see that fill me with delight.
Don't catch me in your round-rush pressures I can't stand.
Just slow down to look around, and then you'll understand.
Please let me take the time to look, and listen and to climb
I'll miss some things along the way if I hurry all the time.   
For some day you'll say "hurry up" when you're walking down the road
You'll turn around and I'll be gone...
Cause I hurried up and growed!!



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Posted By: jamesmum
Date Posted: 14 July 2007 at 8:31am
ohhh...so lovely.


Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 14 July 2007 at 10:22am
No matter how many times I read the first one it always gives me the warm fuzzies!

I really like Anna's one too! So true!!

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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 14 July 2007 at 10:44am
Oh those are both so beautiful!  Thanks for sharing

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Andie


Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 14 July 2007 at 12:26pm
They both are really nice thanks for sharing guys.

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