Argh the dilemna!
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Topic: Argh the dilemna!
Posted By: busymum
Subject: Argh the dilemna!
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 12:44pm
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As you hold a pg test in your hand, there's always such a dilemna! It's when self-talk kicks in like crazy LOL. I went to get a test today - asked for a couple but the lady gave me only one, saying it was their last. So I get home and I busting to go to the loo.
May as well do it now, since I've got plenty of juice to use But I'm only just due! If it's a BFN it's such a waste, and I'll be right back there next month 
But my temp went up yesterday ...and down a bit today I'm not exactly having period cramps but I'm really sore in there, like someone's punched me. It's been like that since about Friday. If I was gonna have AF surely it would have arrived by now. There's only two things that cause soreness in there: pg or AF. And I don't have AF. I don't feel pg. But I didn't feel pg with any of the others except when I was already 7-8 weeks pg with Kryssi before I tested. What if it's negative? Then I'll be gutted that I've wasted another freaking test! And maybe a little relieved, I wasn't expecting to conceive on our first cycle trying! What if it's positive? I'll be shocked and a bit freaked out, but definitely happy. But if it's negative, everyone will just tell me I've tested too early! No it's not too early, I'm 16 DPO!! Argh!! So, don't you wanna know??? Okay so I caved in. And it's BFN. Bah! Another test wasted.  -------------  |
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 12:46pm
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The things we do to see that BFP
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Posted By: Emmecat
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 12:47pm
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Oh no, your poor thing!! Those blasted BFN's! Not all is lost though surely? The one time I was pregnant I didn't get a BFP until about 6-7 weeks; even the Dr's one was really faint. Maybe you're just one of those ladies where it doens't show up early?
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 1:07pm
Haha Emme didn't I put that in my first thread?  Hmm I dunno the answer to your question. My other two BFPs showed up on due date. Does it vary between pgs or between women?
I have only had one AF since Krystiana was born so my system may still be settling down. ------------- |
Posted By: Emmecat
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 1:33pm
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LOL yes you did now that I re-read it! So there you go, perhaps you a just a late tester like moi?! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 2:31pm
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awww I aske din the other thread if you had tested yet.. it maybe too early or you may get your AF soon... fingers crossed for you. ------------- Ann 
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Posted By: minik8e
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 4:22pm
| Fingers crossed busymum - I hope it does turn into a BFP for you and that it's just too early... |
Posted By: Bizzy
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 4:43pm
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ah well, not everyone on the board can be pregnant.
maybe you should buy the tests when you dont need them so you have them ready and you dont feel like you are wasting money...??!! |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 6:53pm
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But then I'll use them heaps more often Deb ------------- |
Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 7:59pm
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Do you ladies hold up your tests to the light and check all angles for a *faint* line like I do - just holding your breath with hope?? and those dang things aren't cheap either!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:14pm
I did today Em. I really don't know what I want! On the one hand I was kinda relieved and can enjoy my 3 a bit longer. But on the other hand, I lost count how many times I dug through the (not much) rubbish to check if the lines had changed. Weird me! When I told DH (by msn) that I had a BFN, he replied:   About says it all really.------------- |
Posted By: 11111
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:22pm
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yes all the time. funny thing is I even pulled it out of the rubbish the next day jsut to be sure there was no line. That is what happened with Mikey I did a test and I did not look hard enough so thought it was BFN then 3 day's later did another one and got a BFP. Checked the first one and could see a faint line. ------------- Deborah Mum to:   
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emachan wrote:Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:48pm
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Fingers crossed Busymum your see a BFP very soon! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 01 August 2007 at 11:11am
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lol I dug thru the rubbish as well.
All the best Theresa |
Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 01 August 2007 at 2:26pm
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sorry it was a BFN! but good sign that AF hasn't showen her ugly face! hopefully a BFP is just around the corner ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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