Not good news i’m afraid
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Topic: Not good news i’m afraid
Posted By: mellybelly
Subject: Not good news i’m afraid
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:30am
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Hi,
I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but felt i should tell what has happened. I went to the specialist yesterday for a follow up & scan, as two weeks ago (i would have been 7 weeks then) we didn't see a lot on the ultra sound. since then i've had blood tests for HCG levels and the results are not good and an Ultrasound confirmed it. The pregnancy has not taken, we have a pregnancy sac but nothing is growing in there, we were at 9 weeks. 
I am going in on Wednesday for surgery to have it removed, rather than wait for it to miscarry in its own time. My Husband and I are dealing with this, by staying positive as we now know we can get pregnant as it took nearly 2 years to get to here. The specialist has been great, saying she'll give us 3 months on our own, before looking into other options, which at this stage would be Clomid or similar. I want to thank you all for your support and advice to date, and i won't become a stranger to the site, i'll still pop in and check on how everyone is doing. Mel |
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:35am
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Aw Mel! I'm so sorry!
It's great that your specialist is so helpful Make sure hubby gives you lots of hugs and good luck for the next few months. |
Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:37am
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oh Im sorry to hear that. The same thing happened to us and I opted to have the d&c rather than wait. I think that helped bring a bit of closure rather than sitting waiting for it to happen naturally plus my cycle went back to normal almost straight away which meant we could try again quickly. good luck and I hope things go better next time (and Im sure there will be a next time)
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 2:16pm
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I am really sorry to hear that... Look after each other and good luck for the next few months ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Sarah Beth
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 2:22pm
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I am so sorry to hear that. Take care of your self and all the best for future months ------------- "> 
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 3:56pm
Im so sorry to hear of your loss Mel  ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 3:58pm
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Im so sorry to hear about your loss mel If you do get put on clomid and want to talk to someone about it feel free to chat away to me i conceived on it with this bubba.
Please take care of yourself chicka
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Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 5:08pm
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Mel. Please feel free to pop back in here whenever you want, and we do understand that you may not want to for a while.
Take care of yourself, and make sure your hubby gives you lots of loving attention! Good luck for the next few months. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 7:21pm
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss Mel. Take care of yourself and we'll all be thinking of you. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: mum2three
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 8:21pm
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oh sweetie im so sorry for you and ur hubbys lose bug hugs ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Southlandmummy
Date Posted: 27 May 2006 at 9:18pm
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Mel, Im so sorry for your loss..
Take Care.. ------------- Cindy - Princess and Princes Samia Isobel Joy born 9th September 2008 Spencer Graeme John born 29th May 2006 Kaylin Gavin Robert born 19 December 2004 |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 28 May 2006 at 8:31am
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oh i'm so sorry hun! take care of yourself and i hope the next few months bring you some good news ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 28 May 2006 at 9:24am
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So sorry Mel. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 28 May 2006 at 11:17am
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so sorry to hear your sad news. huge to you and hubby. thinking of you. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 28 May 2006 at 11:29am
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Oh I'm so sorry to hear you sad news Mel!
Take care! ------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: mellybelly
Date Posted: 28 May 2006 at 1:50pm
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Thank you all for your support and kind words. we are hanging in there with the obvious breakdowns every now and then.
will stay in touch when i can. Mel |
Posted By: shelleybean
Date Posted: 28 May 2006 at 3:24pm
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I am sorry to hear this Mel, keep your chin up, and take care of yourself. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: mrs frantic
Date Posted: 29 May 2006 at 9:45am
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So sorry to hear about this - good luck for trying again, I am sure you will get there ! ------------- Mrs Frantic Baby Maddisyn born 28 Sept 2006 http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 29 May 2006 at 10:26am
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Oh Mel...I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of each other and do keep in touch.
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Posted By: kellverona
Date Posted: 29 May 2006 at 10:32am
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Im so sorry to hear of your loss. Take care and good luck for next time. ------------- http://pregnancyplanet.net/tickers/"> 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 30 May 2006 at 2:31pm
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Sorry for your loss Mel. I too had a similar thing happen at the beginning of this year, and if you need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me. The irony is that it took us close to a year to concieve our angel baby, and then we conceived twins in the first cycle after we lost our baby.
I promise too, that the breakdowns get fewer and further between. I still have the odd 'moment' when I hear a certain song or smell a cerain smell that reminds me of it, but for the most part we're okay. At the beginning I thought I would never get over it, that it would never get easier, but it did, and it does. -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Deez
Date Posted: 30 May 2006 at 4:13pm
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So sorry for your loss Mel. Best of luck for next time. -------------  
Lycan and Peyton = Moon and back!! |