Could it get any worse..

Hun, I'm guessing you're already talking to them now, so this is a bit late, sorry (well, more likely you're waiting for the social worker who is and always will be late!! ha ha).  I used to work for them (and no, wasn't me that made the notification - I'd have talked to you about it if I had) - but all I can say is be honest, be yourself, and you'll be OK.  Please don't panic about Kylah being taken away - a baby has to be in severe danger for that to happen and from what you've said, I don't think that Kylah would fall into that category in your care.  I do worry about you though and even though you love your DF so much, I don't think he is often loving towards you and you're such a fabulous person who deserves respect and to be absolutely treasured by her partner.  You can ask the social worker to tell you what is in the notification, they are very unlikely to be able to tell you where it came from, but knowing what the concerns that were raised in it are helps you to know where CYFS are coming from with the sorts of questions they'll be asking.  They get so many of these and see all sorts of things, so try not to worry about being 'judged', even though it might feel like that's what's happening - the social worker just has a job to do, and the more questions they ask the better they understand the situation.  The social worker is there to stand up for Kylah, and you always want what's best for Kylah too, so while I know it sounds weird and you're feeling nervous about it, they're there to help you do right by your daughter and yourself, and you might find that they end up hooking you up with some support that you may appreciate.   I'll be thinking of you! 

And hey - if your meeting with them today doesn't go so well, like you forget to say things you wanted to, or want to clarify something, just ring 0508 FAMILY and ask for the social worker you met or leave them a message on their voicemail.  It's a heck of a lot easier than stewing over it all night! 

OH... that is awkward!  I think that whoever it was who made the notification did so because they were worried for you guys though - I don't know who it was so I'm just speculating.  But even though it seems sneaky and all, it was most likely a caring thing for them to do, rather than a back-stabbing attack.  I really hope you don't quit this forum now, because I really value having you here and I'd miss you, and there's tons of people here who care about you and enjoy your on-line company!