BD not so easy - this is overshare

My DH gave me a copy of the KISS Kamasutra book, how's that for keen ;)

nzpiper wrote: I thought it was the other way around. "cut" lost the sensitivity? At least thats what the males complain about

Yeah thats what I thought, and my DF is uncut and he has a lot of feeling down there...
We watched a programe on that last year and men who have been cut have less feeling than men who havent.

If you are worried what I would suggest is, just have sex like normal, and then have him finish with you on top, and when you hop off lie down and put your feet up on the wall for half an hour, this is what I did after sex everytime even though DF had no probs finishing.
I can never "get mine" during sex, so I woulld get mine after Id finished putting my legs on the wall
The feet on the wall trick helps the sperm travel to where it needs to go.

Hope that helps.

she;s talking stretching though which is different to circumsion.. as far as 'getting yours' only 30% of women do during sex:) *I love this website you can just talk about whatever you like:) *

I find that I can't "get mine" without the help of a vibrating buddy ;) (just thought I'd add to kawww's love of talking about it all). I find that on top is the best and I can "get mine" at least twice before he "gets his" - in this house we have a very strict rule that I get off before he does *grin* The best of the best though for me has to be doggy (I hate that name though). Can't say I've ever tried on my side, perhaps DH isn't quite the right length for that one (don't tell him I said that, men are so sensitive).

Ha ha TraceyA. We have that unspoken rule in my house too. It's a contest to see how many times I can get mine before he gets his. It's great for his ego and it's a game we both win!!

Sheza wrote: Ive never been able to orgasm during sex. Dunno why, nothin works *shrugs*

At 19 weeks pregnant (congrats) you are living proof that you don't need to orgasm during sex to become pregnant.

I got told when Josh was younger (4) to get him to pull his foreskin back due to it being a bit 'tight' (by the doctor) I felt rather uncomfortable showing him so got my dad to (was a single mum) all fine now (well at least I think so since he's 14 no way i am going there LOL)

i can't imagine trying to get jack to pull his skin back

i had never 'got mine' until i was DH....he couldn't believe i'd never O'd......the only way i can is on top, or with a vibrating buddy

Yeah, it's pretty funny how they think it's all down to them - so self centered.

well i just have to put my 10cents worth in. I must be weird cause i get one everytime and it still took me two years to get pregnant (ok and ive got PCOS too). But we also have the rule of Ladies first in our house LOL but nine times outta 10 we do the same time......

Anyways back onto the topic (LOL) DH was naturally cut but we had the big debate as to whether Mr T should be done. Well he hasnt cause a) only starship will do it for medical reasons only b) after the first 3 months there is a high cost (round about 3,000 from memory) also you dont have to get the child to pull it back to wash as being a typical male they will do this naturally . Only certain Drs will do it (i had a girl from coffee group get her boy done). there was a programme about it not long ago (think it was 20/20 or one of those programmes)

My thoughts would be that maybe there is another underlying issue here but if you are both communicating well on the subject then maybe it is something that a Dr could sort out and if your DH is real keen for a baby then im hoping that he will go for both of your sakes. I did the pillow thing as well no idea as to whether it helped or not....Best of Luck with it all

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