| Author |
 Topic Search  Topic Options
|
babycrazy 
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
 Post Options
 Thanks(1)
 Quote  Reply
 Posted: 10 June 2014 at 5:24pm |
|
Aww thanks Mrsm! Hope you're keeping well.
Nzvegie my first scan is next Wednesday then all going to plan I'll be signed off fertility associates and start with my midwife. My due date is about 29th Jan. What's yours?
Ariel glad to hear you're good and busy :)
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
 |
|
Sponsored Links
|
|
|
kelzie_rose
Senior Member
Joined: 13 January 2010
Location: North Shore
Points: 1259
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 10 June 2014 at 6:50pm |
|
Are you serious BC????? That was my due date with Evie!!!!!! Totally written in the stars that!! (She was born Jan 25th though.)
|
 Started TTC Apr 2008 With PCOS and a bicornuate uterus Our angel babies Jan 2010 <3 Oct 2010 <3 Apr 2011 <3
|
|
NzVeggie
Senior Member
Joined: 25 March 2012
Location: Queenslad, Au
Points: 2438
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 10 June 2014 at 8:05pm |
|
Exciting about Wednesday BC!!! I'm due feb 13th according to my calculations!
|
 Angel babies July '13, November '13 and June '14 Baby girl born 26/06/15
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 10 June 2014 at 8:53pm |
|
Totally serious kelz lol. Got a friend due on 18th jan and she reckons she goes over so we'll probably end up going at the same time! Have the same midwife cos our small town only has the three that work together so I'll laugh if we end up in the maternity place together.
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
MrsMJD
Senior Member
Joined: 17 February 2010
Location: North Shore Auckland
Points: 1125
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 25 June 2014 at 7:59pm |
|
How are things going lovelies?!?!?!
Edited by MrsMJD - 25 June 2014 at 7:59pm
|
|
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 25 June 2014 at 9:12pm |
|
Hey girls. Unfortunately was confirmed today that's baby wish is still just a wish. Found out last week we were expecting twins but they didn't have heartbeats went back today to see if anything had changed and it hasn't so I will lose them. Lost my sh*t a bit last week but ok today much to my mothers surprise. Glad to know so I can move on.
Any advice on dealing with mc or what to expect would be welcome. Although knowing my luck it won't happen naturally and there'll be that drama to go through too. Anyway sorry to be a Debbie downer xxx
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
NzVeggie
Senior Member
Joined: 25 March 2012
Location: Queenslad, Au
Points: 2438
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 25 June 2014 at 11:41pm |
|
Hi BC. So sorry to hear that. I was holding out hope. I wrote you a message in the 12month thread about what to expect. Unfortunately I have had all 3 methods of miscarriage so have a bit of an idea.
I'm Unfortunately in a similar boat myself. Scan yesterday showed baby the size of 5weeks and no heartbeat when I should have been 6.5weeks. I have another scan Tuesday to confirm all is lost. I'm not being hopeful at all. I'm absolutely positive when I ov'd and my BFP was timed perfecty with ov so there is no way I'm 10days out. Absolutely devastated that this will be my 3rd miscarriage. I'm 26, normal weight, eat well, with no medical problems, exercise regularly, don't smoke/drink/do drugs and am taking my prenatal vitamins like I should. Just doesn't seem fair when you think of it like that.
Right that's enough woe is me. Time to buck up and look at the good things in life!!! I have a beautiful and supportive DH as well as good job with some great friends.
|
Angel babies July '13, November '13 and June '14 Baby girl born 26/06/15
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 26 June 2014 at 6:02am |
|
Oh hun I'm so sorry to hear that! Will you seek investigations as to why it keeps happening?
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
NzVeggie
Senior Member
Joined: 25 March 2012
Location: Queenslad, Au
Points: 2438
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 26 June 2014 at 6:04am |
|
I've already had investigations after #2. Everything was normal. I'm in the unexplained recurrent miscarriage category. Not sure if there might be some extra stuff they might do this time though. Will definitely ask
|
Angel babies July '13, November '13 and June '14 Baby girl born 26/06/15
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 26 June 2014 at 6:20am |
|
Ugh the old unexplained verdict always sucks butt! Man I'm so gutted for you.
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
NzVeggie
Senior Member
Joined: 25 March 2012
Location: Queenslad, Au
Points: 2438
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 26 June 2014 at 7:26am |
|
Yeah I've been told it's different to unexplained infertility though. Apparently unexplained miscarriages is better than explained (mostly). More likely to (eventually) have a succesful pregnancy if it's unexplained. So I guess that's the silver lining.
|
Angel babies July '13, November '13 and June '14 Baby girl born 26/06/15
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 26 June 2014 at 7:39am |
|
That is a silver lining. I hope next time things go better for us both.
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
MrsMJD
Senior Member
Joined: 17 February 2010
Location: North Shore Auckland
Points: 1125
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 28 June 2014 at 4:53pm |
|
I'm in tears for you both, my heart is just aching for you. All my love.
|
|
|
|
kelzie_rose
Senior Member
Joined: 13 January 2010
Location: North Shore
Points: 1259
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 30 June 2014 at 6:50pm |
|
Oh BC I am so so sad for you, absolutely heartbroken. Your too NZVeggie. I'm teary. Big love to you both. Be good to yourselves xx
I had two complete miscarriages (where I just started bleeding). I also had one when my bub passed away but we didn't know, requiring a D&C. I found the complete ones more traumatic I think, maybe because of the bleeding. With the other one, our hospital team wasn't fantastic and kept putting off the D&C "just in case" and it dragged out for way too long, and the lady who was supposed to support me through it, was very chirpy and happy, while being quite dismissive of my emotional issues. I think as long as you have someone personally and someone medically supportive, it can make a world of difference.
It's tough not being able to get checked out until you've had two or three losses. I have PCOS and my body just wasn't making enough progesterone, so I struggled to get UTD for a while, and then keep miscarrying due to low progesterone. They gave me supplements and then Evie stuck. I also have a funky shaped uterus. None of which I knew until the third m/c.
|
Started TTC Apr 2008 With PCOS and a bicornuate uterus Our angel babies Jan 2010 <3 Oct 2010 <3 Apr 2011 <3
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 30 June 2014 at 7:12pm |
|
Thanks kelz.
Am coping ok just focussed on getting on with life and my attitude is that everything that can will happen to me when it comes to fertility so that's that.
Talked to specialist today who said I can wait or go for a d&c whenever I felt like it. So I've pretty much decided to get through this week and go on Monday which will be school hols then I've got a couple weeks to myself without work. I can't see it starting on its own.
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
kelzie_rose
Senior Member
Joined: 13 January 2010
Location: North Shore
Points: 1259
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 30 June 2014 at 7:20pm |
|
I'll be thinking of you, my love. Wish I could send you some flowers or something xx
|
Started TTC Apr 2008 With PCOS and a bicornuate uterus Our angel babies Jan 2010 <3 Oct 2010 <3 Apr 2011 <3
|
|
babycrazy
Senior Member
Joined: 07 August 2010
Points: 7597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 30 June 2014 at 7:21pm |
|
Oh thanks hun. If it helps I got flowers from my netball team 😘
|
|
TTC since Oct 2009
4 x DI's failed
IVF1 CP & MC
IVF2 CP
IVF3 Angel baby born 22.3wks
|
|
kelzie_rose
Senior Member
Joined: 13 January 2010
Location: North Shore
Points: 1259
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 30 June 2014 at 7:21pm |
|
@--}----
|
Started TTC Apr 2008 With PCOS and a bicornuate uterus Our angel babies Jan 2010 <3 Oct 2010 <3 Apr 2011 <3
|
|
NzVeggie
Senior Member
Joined: 25 March 2012
Location: Queenslad, Au
Points: 2438
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 08 July 2014 at 11:00pm |
|
Well I'm back to TTC again. Had my d&c yesterday and from all appearances it went perfectly. Seeing my doc next week to organise a few extra tests and ask what I should do next time I get a BFP!
Here's hoping 4th times the charm for me!!!!
|
Angel babies July '13, November '13 and June '14 Baby girl born 26/06/15
|
|
Kristina148081
Newbie
Joined: 09 July 2014
Points: 5
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 09 July 2014 at 5:14am |
|
Hello girls, when I must stop to take pills when I want to be a pregnant? Thank you!
|
|
TTC #1 and under 30yrs old
