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TheKelly
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 8:32pm |
queenbean wrote:
down, hehe. He arrived at 39+3 but I ended up needing an epidural about 12 hours into labour, and my god, if they offer me one again I'll be snapping that bad boy up. They definitely numb your back pretty good before putting the epidural needle in, and maybe it was because I was in so much pain from labour but I never felt the needle go in, and no pain at all after it was in. Bliss.
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I love hearing stuff like that, makes me determined to stick with my plan to have one if I need it :-D
although...the other part of your post makes me mad (not at you ) ...when my friend had her epi,she jumped and said it really hurt when they put the epi needle in, and I knew her since she was 6, saw her put her hand on a wasp nest once, anyway, they should have realised then that something wasn't right, the spot where they put the epidural in is where she was sorest in the 2 weeks before she died
sorry to be a downer ...
I yelled for an epi after being in labour with C for 24 hours, but of course then the little toad sped things up and during the time it took for the anethesist to come, I was ready to push
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minxynzl
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 8:47pm |
pandrew wrote:
I have been thinking about cutting quite a bit of length off my hair lately. Everyone knows of me because of my hair so I thought I could potentially rasie a fair bit of money for cancer. I have decided either just before baby is born or just after I am going to get it cut short as I have enough length (12inches) to send it away to the cancer wig place down in Dunedin. They will pay money for my hair and that money will then be donated and when it is being cut Rotary will also do a funraising night and people can donante money and watch me have my hair cut.
So yah not only can I fundraise but I can make someone happy by having a wig with my donated hair. I'm quite excited about it.
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WOW - what a truly beautiful and tangible gestue! Good for you!!!! :)
Young Mum to Be - I work for the LifeFlight Trust. We operate the national air ambulance service (getting pateints to urgent specialist care at the main hospitals from all over the country) as well as the Wellington based rescue chopper.
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 8:50pm |
Beetroot! EPO! Awesome...must ensure I dont get the two mixed up!!!!!
Bowie - I nominate you for poasting a recipe every week for us ;)
Just been watching "Who do yu think you are" on telly. The family Tree search doco. I'm hooked, just hooked!
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 9:23pm |
Ok, this is driving me freaking mental.
Thekelly, sometimes, i SWEAR your picture in your signature line comes up as the one belonging to Caitlynsmygirl, i SWEAR i am not going crazy here. I actually only just worked out today that you are two different people - i thought you just changed pictures and usernames often.
But i read page 129, and you are at the bottom as usual and then when this page loaded up you are at the top with the picture belong to Caitlynsmygirl and then when i accidentally refreshed its all back to normal. Whats going on!? Am i going mental?
A recipe a week? Erm...sure. If someone tells me what they want to cook i can dig something up. All my recipes are useless though, for example my recipe for pancake batter calls for 8kg of flour....
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 9:50pm |
yep Bowie, you're going mental ...kidding ! I was Caitlynsmygirl up until a few months ago when I thought I should probably change it since I had Ty too ....Some of my older posts are still under caitlynsmygirl tho
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 10:18pm |
Sorry but had to giggle at your confusion Bowie
Epis, I had one in labour with B and never noticed it going in, I was already in a fair amount of pain after 66 hours of non-stop contractions... for the first time since they started i was able to close my eyes and relax! Not for long as everything went pear-shaped, but not the epi's fault.
When I had the epi for my elective, i felt it, but it didnt HURT, they give you a local first to numb the area, then when the epi line goes in, it feels like someone pushing their thumb inbetween the discs of your spine, get a friend or uyour partner to try doing it hard, and thats pretty close to how it would feel.
Sorry, saw kelly had posted last and I was bored, so thought I'd come and be nosey
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 10:58pm |
Hey girls sorry I have been so slack at getting on the last week, have been following your posts on my phone but too lazy to switch the computer on!
Well good news, it seems that I have caught my PUPPPS rash early this time and it has almost disappeared with the creams I was given, I'm so freaking relieved! Thats not to say it won't come back or flare up as I stretch more. The problem I had last time is that I had it from my neck to my ankles & my arms were the worst. Wasn't looking forward to having to wear skivvies in the summer!
I won't reply to everything or else this would turn into a real novel. But -
*Epis - I didn't have one with my DD and am so glad now that I didn't. However like Kelly I demanded one near the end when a stupid registrar came in & told me I was about 4 hours away from pushing, but by the time they got the poor anaesthetist out of bed in the middle of the night (he only took 20 mins) I was already pushing. Was so guttered at the time but very thankful afterwards as I was able to get up & have a shower only around 4 hours after birth
*Tearing - I also had a 2nd degree tear (after an hour & a half of pushing my lovely DD was born with her hand up by her face) & agree with what some of the other girls said, I didn't even know I had torn amongst the pain of childbirth. Unfortunately though as I had a relatively new midwife she didn't stitch me up because I had a few grazes as well) and I ended up having to wait around 2 hours for an OB to stitch me up. I wasn't happy & neither was my MW! I did find the sewing up very painful but that was probably due to the delay in having it done & a lot of the adrenaline was probably gone.
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Posted: 04 October 2010 at 11:01pm |
Meant to say, had my midwife appointment today & she said I am measuring a little behind, at around 22 weeks instead of 24. However she isn't concerned at all because bubs is very active and still has a strong heart rate, she said they only start to worry if you're measuring 4 weeks behind/ahead.
Funny thing is last time I saw her she said I was measuring a week ahead, so I've been slightly concerned since she said that today, but surely they can't be that accurate just by feeling your tummy & the height of your uterus can they?
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 7:43am |
TheKelly wrote:
although...the other part of your post makes me mad (not at you ) ...when my friend had her epi,she jumped and said it really hurt when they put the epi needle in, and I knew her since she was 6, saw her put her hand on a wasp nest once, anyway, they should have realised then that something wasn't right, the spot where they put the epidural in is where she was sorest in the 2 weeks before she died
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So sorry to hear that Kelly
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*Epis - I didn't have one with my DD and am so glad now that I didn't. However like Kelly I demanded one near the end when a stupid registrar came in & told me I was about 4 hours away from pushing, but by the time they got the poor anaesthetist out of bed in the middle of the night (he only took 20 mins) I was already pushing. Was so guttered at the time but very thankful afterwards as I was able to get up & have a shower only around 4 hours after birth |
Just wanted to add, I had an epi and 2 hours after the birth I was up and out of the hospital, into the birthing centre, so it's not incapacitating!!
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 8:09am |
Oh my good, Queenbean, two more days and you're in double digets
I *think* i've had a couple of contractions this morning, it hurt, and i thought i was going to be sick. If that is a "mild braxton hicks contraction" then i am NOT IMPRESSED and am no longer keen on labour.
I'm not want to take really...any drugs...because the side effects all seem pretty lame and i hate throwing up more then anything and will do whatever i can do avoid it. Buuuuut i've never had a baby before so i feel likely 10 minutes in i'll be screaming for all the drugs they possess.
We'll see...
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 8:26am |
Hi Jan Mummys!
have been following the posts, but way to busy at work to relpy to any of them!
but...
Wannabe- glad to hear your polycose test came back perfect!!! I get my results on Fri when I meet with my MW...fingers crossed!!!!
I love beetroot! reading all of the ideas I had to have some last night with dinner...but only the tinned stuff!
Me and DH going to our first antenatal class tonight...quite excited about it!
Well I better get back to it another busy day ahead...hope that everyone has a great day!
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 8:44am |
Wow ladies, some great chatter going on. It's good to read about everyone's experiences re: previous births etc, makes you realize all briths are so different and what may work for someone, may not necessarily be the case for someone else. So many decisions to make regarding birth! First of all i have to make it to the hospital (2hr drive away), thats what I'm worried about the most Has anyone make a loose birth plan with there midwives yet? mind hasn't even mentioned birth yet (useless), but i would really like to discuss and get my head around all the options waterbirth, painrelief etc. I'm totally open to the idea of having pain relief (sorry if this get up anyone's nose...) as i have never been that tolerant of pain! But am also open to the idea of going with the flow, and whatever happens, happens.
Thanks also to whomever mentioned epo capsules will defiantly keep them in mind closer to the big day
Wow nicole, i can't believe your starting antenatal classes already, mine don't start until 11th of January!!!! My original due date lol half of you will have your babies by then and i'll just be starting antenatal classes. Have also signed up to new parent classes starting 25th November, thought it would be a good idea as DF and i have never changed a nappy or held a baby between us. yikes!
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 9:05am |
The best bit of advice I can give you ChickkyD about getting to the hospital is go when you are still comfortable. There is nothing worse than travelling with painful contractions. I only have a 30min drive and last time I decided to go when I was only 3cm dialated and my waters hadn't broke. My contractions had just started to get closer together and a little more annoying. Lucky we did go as there was a house being moved and it almost go stuck on a bridge 10minutes before the hosppital. If it had of got stuck we would have had to turn around and drive for another 45min around the long way to get to the hospital and if I was further in labour may not have made it.
But we got to the hospital and my MW assessed me, we decided to get the show on the road and she broke my waters and Charlie was born about 5 hours later.
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 9:11am |
ChikkyD, i have the same thing - a two hour drive to the hospital if baby comes while i'm still in Mt Cook. She recommends i get in the car and get going as soon as i start to feel anything though, don't storm around the house for a few hours waiting for regular times or whatever. Because my mom had three easy (less then two hour from start to finish) labours she said she'd like me in straight away just in case anyway
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 9:23am |
thanks for the advice Pandrew, i hadn't even considered the possibility of the road being blocked etc. or having to use a detour. When you go into labour how to you know it's the 'real thing'? I've had a couple of friends have false starts, get sent home for hospital to wait another day. Would hate to go all that way and it not be the real thing.
Bowie my mum was the same, 3 fast deliveries all around 2 hours. Fingers crossed for me its longer than that!
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 9:47am |
Chikky D --- My midwife has told me just to go to the birthing centre if i am still in Alex when baby comes as she doesn't think i will make the 2 hour Journey and will have baby in the car lol My first labour was an hour and my second 4 hours so this one could be super quick lol Which hospital are you due to go too Chikky D ???
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 10:07am |
I've heard its one of those things you *know* but thats a good question. At least i have somewhere to stay near the hospital if it turns out to be a false start.
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 10:20am |
deffinetly travel when you are still comfortable. I vaguely remember my trip into wellington from Waikanae, I do remember the bumps not being very nice Honestly when it comes to labour (I've only had 1 natural labour) I just knew it was the realy thing.
Your midwife probably won't mention a birth plan for quite awhilel, I think 36wks or 34wks. And the best thing is to have a rough idea of what you want and then go with the flow.
Bowie - braxton hicks aren't very nice and can get very painful so I hope they don't get any worse for you hun!!
ChikkyD - yay for new parenting classes, I haven't heard of them before but it's such a good idea. I love the tv add where they hand the women the baby and she asks for the manual
I just went and got more nappies
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 10:20am |
Thanks Queenbean ,she died when her daughter was 3 weeks old, has been 3 years but still miss her heaps, she was a great chick
Bowie, sounds like it could have been a BH, and yeah, contractions make those seem like a tickle haha, BHs you usually find your tummy goes quite tight for a few seconds
My friend had an epi, no side affects or anything and like QB was out of the hospital after an hour
With labour I say be prepared for anything and make a basic plan but basically go with the flow, whatever you need at the time, go for it
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Posted: 05 October 2010 at 10:21am |
siennas mummy - I forgot to say yay for the creams working I hope it keeps getting better!!
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