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trinab
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 1:21pm |
Hi ladies Hope all is well. MissB, look at you go, that's an awesome result!!! Just a quick update from me before I bow out for a while to get some perspective and stop thinking about TTC 24/7 for a few weeks at least (although I'll sneak back to check your progress MissB). Have had horrendously heavy bleeding since Monday and it's still going in full form today accompanied by the worst pain I've ever felt in my life. Had bloods this morning and have just had the call to confirm what I already knew - BFN. Will know more about early bleed etc next week after my follow up appointment. Off now to take se Naproxen (one bonus of a BFN I guess?), have a nice hot bath when I get home, eat something spicy, have a glass of wine and start wrangling together another $15k for round 2. Thanks everyone for your support so far, makes such a difference talking to people who can empathise rather than sympathise
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babycrazy
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 3:51pm |
Oh hugs trina so sorry! Enjoy all the naughty things.
Wow missbling that's an awesome effort. By day 5 you should still have a few of those humming along nicely so great news.
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 5:21pm |
aargh Trina thats so dumb sorry hun... yes enjoy that glass of wine and a break, your turn has GOT to be coming!! xx you are so right about the "empathise instead of simpathise" never thought of that before, and its so true xx eep DH has to "do his thing" tomorrow... living at least 45-50 mins from the clinic its going to be a race against the clock to get his sample there on time..it has to be there within an hour of it happening.. will be quite comical i imagine- hope the drive isnt too stressful!
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a.girl
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 6:09pm |
Aw, hugs trinab :-( I'm so sad for you. I hope your doc can give you some insight as to what is going on. .. and fix it for next time. I'm glad you are treating yourself well. X
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babycrazy
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 6:58pm |
Agh soda I so get that stress!! We live 2 hrs from testing place so when we did his he did it in the toilets of this little country hall on the way! Far out the worst thing in the world to have to do. The first time we tried we booked a night in a hotel but got carried away the night before and in the morning there was just no action from him. I was gutted but laugh now. Drive safe and remember to breathe lol. Good luck.
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NzVeggie
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 7:09pm |
Soda - good luck for hubby! Haha BC - that's a good story (about your hotel night). Can totally see how that would happen Miss B - wow loads of embies..... Here's hoping lots of them keep developing!! And yay for being PUPO!
AFM - trucking along. Had a complete meltdown couple days ago. My BIL announced that his wife (SIL) is utd and 12 weeks. I really don't like her and spent half an hour or so sobbing in DH's arms. But I've moved on and am going to try and ignore it. Another reason I'm sooo glad I'm not on FB anymore! Still waiting for ov. I think my opk today is almost there (find it hard to compare while it's still wet) so maybe positive tomorrow or Friday!!
To all our utd ladies - hope you are well and long may it continue. Everyone else - hope you are well and Keeping strong.
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Mushroom
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 7:12pm |
Doesn't your clinic have rooms for the guys? My hubby had to do his sample at the clinic, which he didn't like, but got the sample fresh for them!
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 7:50pm |
Ours had to go to the hospital and they offered us a place on a Friday afternoon - not easy with the agricultural contractor partner to schedule that time.
Nzvegie I fully get it. Who knows how many ppl are pregnant now...like everyone! If it helps I had a full meltdown last night because dh didn't answer me when I asked him to mind dinner while I went out. Lost it completely lol. Hugs xxx
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NzVeggie
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 8:24pm |
Awww BC - it's amazing what sets me off these days. Each day is gradually getting better. In the plus side I haven't sunk into the hole I was in after loss 2! Also just found out on the weekend that my friends almost 2 year old has been diagnosed with leukaemia!! Sucks big time. Gonna make her a care package Friday to send to her. We live rural and so nearest hospital for treatment is Brisbane...... 1800km away! So she's all alone and miles from home. Big reality check.
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babycrazy
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 8:34pm |
Yep I hear you mate. Last night was a point where my glass was full to overflowing and too much going on. Your poor friend!!! That's awful to be going through.
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 8:41pm |
Oh Trina I'm so sorry! Sounds like it's a horrific AF as well, make sure you query that! Hugs Miss Bling that's an awesome result! Do you mind me asking what dose you were on? Veggie and BC I feel your pain, all three of my best friends are currently pregnant so the desperation is mounting!
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 9:04pm |
Hey there... Gosh I'm really sorry if my posts are annoying or upsetting to anyone...wasn't my intention. I'm sorry
Epic ...I'm short protocol - it was 9 days of Gonal F - 175 IU once a day - never changed dose they just kept pushing out trigger date saying. 'Lets keep going another day'. Cetrotide from day 6 to day 11. Then trigger day 11
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 9:16pm |
Not at all missbling. Hope you're keeping well - were you at risk of ohss with such a good response? Things must be ok if they're transferring...
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NzVeggie
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 10:25pm |
Oh miss b - absolutely nothing you said is upsetting. You've been trough a long road and horrible as this sounds it's only the 'easy' pregnancies that seem to really get to me. Ppl IRL, not forum ppl!!!
Anyway. Big hugs epic and BC!!! We will all soon join the pregnant girls!!!! (I have to believe it will happen)
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 11:46pm |
Hi ladies, it's into the TWW for us!!! Our first attempt in 16 long months of waiting. Our first IUI. A new donor. The IUI was on the exact date that we got our first BFP and if we are so blessed, this baby will be due 3 years & one week after the first baby we lost. Fingers crossed.
Sorry I'm on my phone so can't read back well to comment on all your news but miss bling - wow that's a lot of eggs :-)
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Posted: 27 August 2014 at 11:56pm |
That's a great result miss bling - I had 35 eggs collected (we had 16 fertilise normally, so they took them to day 5 as we had so many and we got 9 blastocysts in the end) so I can empathise as to how you probably are feeling. I hope you are not too uncomfortable. I hope you get your fresh transfer - I had to freeze all because of the risk of OHSS (which luckily did not eventuate) and I did not care at the time, but I sometimes wonder now whether that might have been the 'key' for us. Remember to rest and drink loads of fluids - I bought those sachets you get from the pharmacy for dehydration following diarrhoea (Enerlyte?) and mixed them with juice and smashed them - I think that was the key for me in recovering so quickly. Best wishes to everyone else. Sorry, I am reading/following everything and you are all in my thoughts, just not able to comment to you all. Things not fantastic right now.
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Posted: 28 August 2014 at 12:14am |
Oh and Soda (I think it was you a few pages back?!) - I saw you on Facebook too, and I wondered at the time whether it was someone from in here! What a lovely thing to do, and such a lovely letter too
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Posted: 28 August 2014 at 5:43am |
Ditto to what nzvegie said about IRL pregnancy not we girls. As trina said ppl on here 'get' it so when one gets a bfp it's nothing but joy.
Shimma how you keeping hun?
Pepi good luck my girl. May a bfp be on the way!
Had a rotten dream where I kept yelling at ppl then crying and getting really frustrated - feels awful having dreams like that. Have a great day girls. Xx ☀️😸😘
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Posted: 28 August 2014 at 8:24am |
Thanks all! Xx
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Posted: 28 August 2014 at 11:56am |
Hi Ladies,
Thought i would pop in and say hello. Realised my last post was the 6th July so have lots to read up on!
Hope everyone is keeping well and your treatments are going good.
Congratulations to any good news and super hugs for others who are having a hard time at the moment xx
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