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Posted: 11 November 2014 at 1:37pm |
Hugs hun we all know how you are feeling! Im the ultimate mrs positive normally, but last night something just clicked and ive been on the verge of tears all day today. Working in a preschool in the babies room isnt helping. Im so angry that the career I loved, spent thousands of dollars and 5 years studying and training to become registered and qualidied in, and now I hate it. All because of this journey.people dont realise how much of your life it changes huh..hugs! Just know you arent alone, and know it will be totally worth it! If I didnt have my DD as proof to me how much it is worth the pain, I think I would have given up after my miscarriage. .but its worth all this I promise! Xx
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Posted: 11 November 2014 at 7:51pm |
HI Guys just checked back on all the messages :)
My periods are light on the 2 days... ive always had light periods. used to be 4 days now its 1 and half day blood and a day spotting really. I would of thought lining too... doc hasnt even checked my lining.. which i think werid.... maybe they do it different over here (im in oz)
On second round of clomid this month and on day 20 and still no ovulation.. ive usually ovulated on my own by now. so have to have a 21day blood test tomorrow which i think will show nothing.. so see what doc says when he calls about that.
Baby dust to all xx
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greenstone27
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Posted: 11 November 2014 at 7:55pm |
Mama P - i know how u feel with the watching people get pregannt while u are still trying. Im the only one in my first mothers group with my son who hasnt had another yet. friends have all had 2 some 3 and they joke about going for one more!!
Fingers crossed its everyones time soon. and I know im lucky to have my beautiful boy :)
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a.girl
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Posted: 12 November 2014 at 4:20pm |
Greenstone, my period has been super light since my first miscarriage. Sometimes only 1 day long and a week of spotting. I, too, talked with my specialist about it and he didn't seem concerned as we've gotten preggers 4 times and carried to 8 weeks each time. Any more word about your ovulation???
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babycrazy
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Posted: 12 November 2014 at 9:42pm |
Hey girls hope y'all good.
Been a bit of a muppet this cycle and didn't really take notice of ov. Since the mc I don't think my ov pain has been as strong (or I just don't notice it/can't be bothered) so I can't really pinpoint ov and in turn when AF will be arriving. Kicking myself now as yesterday/today was when AF was due from my calculations of when I had some ewcm and ovary niggles that I can remember but quite possibly I'm out by a day or two however I also had ewcm last week so I just dunno?!!!! Lol it's not a major but I like to know these things. I've had AF cramps all week so she must be coming at some point I guess 😁.
Anyway enough from me. Take care xx
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miss_bling
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 9:13am |
Thinking of you today Veggie... Hope the scan goes well. Have everything crossed for you that this is the sticky one xxx
Hi to everyone else... Hope you're all doing well... All the very best to you all and I hope you all have BFP's coming soon! xxx
I do follow along but don't know if I should comment or not xx
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 10:43am |
Hi Miss Bling, of course you should comment. You've been through a rough TTC journey and even though you're finally getting your bubs we all still need your support and it's so nice to hear how you're getting on How's your pregnancy going, have you had morning sickness? Ooh NZVeggie I really hope your scan shows a lovely bean and heart beating away. AFM we met with our specialist this week, she pretty much said trying more IVF's was a waste of our money as it's likely I won't respond to other IVF meds either. I want to at least try another IUI with clomiphene, trigger shot and colorado protocol medications to help prevent MC. Not sure if OFS will agree with my plan but worth a try. I hope to have an IUI with Otago Fertility Services before Fertility Associates take over as price will go from $800 to $3,000. argh.
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 11:04am |
I am so unbelievably nervous girls. Have been having a massive freak out the past few days. I just can't be positive anymore. Glad I don't have to wait much longer (only 6 hours!!!!). Will be sure to give you an update!
Thanks for all the support. Whatever happens I know you ladies will be here for me!!!!
BC - when AF arrived will you start your next FET? Or are they making you wait one more cycle? Miss B - It's lovely to have you pop in. So nice to see success stories as it gives me hope that one day soon I'l hopefully cross the line over to success. Tulip - Sucks that the cost will increase that much! And also sucks that they think IVF won't work even if they change the meds. So IUI is the way forward then??
To everyone else who may have commented/had stuff happen - sorry bit preoccupied with myself at the moment.
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 11:16am |
Hi NZ Veggie, I feel for you it's going to be a long 6 hours. Hope you find something to keep your mind off it.
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 11:56am |
Thanks ladies... I didn't have any morning sickness at all, which made the first 12 weeks soooooo long as I kept doubting everything. Plus I have a blood clot from implantation (which apparently can be common with IVF as the drugs get the lining super thick and ready for a little blast! ... the things they don't tell you during IVF!!!!) that keeps causing spotting so its been a bit rough, but you just need to trust the specialist etc. when they tell you everything looks great. I had horrendous morning sickness with my first and so this pregnancy is vastly different! It's nuts how you rely on symptoms to give you reassurance, and when you have none, its a little bit of a nervous time! 12 week scan showed everything spot on though, and the clot is just doing its own thing away from the baby, so there you go! I definitely have a bump now - that could be a food baby though haha ... I was relying on morning sickness to take some of the IVF weight off haha ... the scales haven't changed in 3 months though so I'm probably losing my chub and gaining baby I guess... Here's hoping!
Veggie, I can understand your nerves. I haven't been through half of what you have really and my scans have been a nerve wracking time for me with having very few symptoms and brown spotting... I'll pop in later to see some good news! Your POAS's etc. look awesome!
Tulip...that's quite a price hike, sheesh.. We're with FA up here in Wgtn.. so had no price difference to compare too as they're the only option, but I loved our FA specialist and all the people that looked after us... Our nurse still phones every few weeks to see how we're going.... Bugger about IVF :( That was my only option as IUI wouldn't work for us, but I was contending with blocked plumbing and the hope that the scarring wasn't going to cause implant problems (something they couldn't test for)... It's such a frustrating and heartbreaking journey whatever the path...
I'll be checking in a little bit later for the good news xxx
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 2:16pm |
Eek good luck nzvegie I hope today goes well!!!
Sorry in a rush so will comment personally later but just had appt with specialist get to FET next cycle so whenever I get AF (eg hopefully in next few days). Then doing a manufactured cycle which is much easier - 1 blood and 1 scan rather than days of either. Then boom in it goes with Colorado protocol to back up. Feeling good - I am going to get my baby for Xmas!!!!
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 3:39pm |
That will be an excellent Christmas present BC!
Time has ticked away nicely so I'm on the countdown to start drinking soon (sooo hard as I've got water aversion!) Only 1.5 hours to go! Ha look at me, obsessed much.
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 6:12pm |
It went WELL!!!!! Can't believe it. I was in tears despite myself. DH got a bit tearful too! Measuring 7w5d with a heart rate of 176bpm....... only 3 days behind my dates so very happy with that!!!!
Got another scan in 10 days time to make sure things are on track!
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 6:16pm |
Oh veggie... I'm so thrilled for you and hubby congratulations.... I'm so glad everything is well xxxx Have a fab weekend
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 6:24pm |
Aaaahhhhh nzvegie congratulations!!!!!! That's so awesome! Getting teary myself lol. Aw hun I'm so stoked for you. Is this the first time you've heard a heartbeat? Wishing you a healthy rest of your pregnancy my friend xx
Tulip sorry to hear ivf isn't an option and about the price hyke too! Hope ofs go with your plan.
Miss bling - lovely to hear from you chick.
Sooo can't wait for AF. Almost tempted to test even though there's zero chance I could be utd. Not often I'm this late and I keep feeling like it's coming but nothing. When I told the doctor about it he at first said I could be then I reminded him about the donor he was like hmm probably not but stranger things have happened lol. Wouldn't that just be Murphy's huh miraculously utd after all this! Anyway enough rambling. Happy Friday x
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 6:37pm |
Thanks ladies - long may it continue!!!
I have heard a heart beat once before but I didn't realise at the time it was too slow! Only 106 at 7w1d. Stopped that day. So this is further than previously and is a much better result overall!!!
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 6:46pm |
Veggie that is such awesome news!! Really really happy for you BC excited for your Christmas baby! Tulip that price hike is ridiculous! Are you definitely sure that's how much it will be? I thought it was more like $1200!
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Posted: 14 November 2014 at 8:19pm |
A quick pop in the say hello and fantastic to hear lovely news from NZV! So glad to hear the scan went well. Exciting to hear about your upcoming cycle BC - here's to Christmas baby's! Big hi's to everyone one else.
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Posted: 15 November 2014 at 9:35am |
Finally AF has made an appearance. Excited and nervous to start what probably will be our final FET. Spoke to a good friend on the phone last night. Revealed she's pregnant with her third (accidentally). Was genuinely excited for her and I just hope that we can be baby buddies together!
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Posted: 15 November 2014 at 10:54am |
BC, just lurking but GOOD LUCK! Have fingers and toes and eyes all crossed for you. Really, really hoping this is your time.
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